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Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by alexistaiwo: 6:14pm On Jan 20, 2018
I will keep this short and precise.

One of my close friend girlfriend just had an abortion for another guy. On a normal day, I wouldn't think twice before deciding to keep my mouth shut but this is a friend that always look out for me. He always have my back, if the roles were to be reversed I am sure he will inform me of such betrayal.

His girlfriend been avoiding me since she discovered that I am privy to the information of what she did. She probably think that I already told him.


Should I keep shut?


Modified for those asking how I got the information.

I got to know about the abortion through one of her very tight friend.
I was just whining as usual her the other day that may God judge she and her friend as if I am holding a grudge against both of them and she spilled unknowingly).

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Berlyn1(f): 6:17pm On Jan 20, 2018
mind your business this is 2018....

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by donstan18(m): 6:17pm On Jan 20, 2018
You are very stupid!!, are you a security agent of abortion, how did you know much about the abortion?, if you ain't a snitch refusing to tell us the whole story, how come you knew she had abortion if you ain't stalking her, or possibly jealous of the relationship.

Did she or the claimed owner of the baby tell you about the abortion.


C'mon will you get out here, osiso!


Modified just like the OP did.

-What if her friend told you lies as a result of her jealousness just to tarnish the relationship?
-If reverse was the case, will you tell the lady?

Minding your business is a work that requires no capital nor time.
Keep your lane,
Control yourself before you mess a relationship up.

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by midolian(m): 6:19pm On Jan 20, 2018
I have modified because the op modified..

Imagine a situation where your sister had an abortion for a guy she loved buh got betrayed in the end,.. she eventually finds someone she loves and loves her back, someone from no where now decides to reveal the secret, how would you feel? Would you reveal your sister's secret if you knew it?

If your answer to the above question is No, then dont think of doing it to another's sister. You can only do this if you are sure the girl aint faithful..otherwise, dont try it..you dont even know if the girl has confided in your friend on the same issue..imagine how stupid you ll sound if you tell him not knowing he is fully aware....

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by dollyjoy(f): 6:20pm On Jan 20, 2018
Please tell him. Nobody deserves that level of unfaithfulness...

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by madridguy(m): 6:22pm On Jan 20, 2018
tongue
Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by madridguy(m): 6:23pm On Jan 20, 2018
Don't keep shut bros, tell your friend with immediate effect.

alexistaiwo:
I will keep this short and precise.

One of my close friend girlfriend just had an abortion for another guy. On a normal day, I wouldn't think twice before deciding to keep my mouth shut but this is a friend that always look out for me. He always have my back, if the roles were to be reversed I am sure he will inform me of such betrayal.

His girlfriend been avoiding me since she discovered that I am privy to the information of what she did. She probably think that I already told him.


Should I keep shut?

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Marshalxv(m): 6:23pm On Jan 20, 2018
Since you said the guy is ur real hommie bro,I'll advice you spill it out already.
No bitch is gonna Bleep with my real gee and get away with it!
friend over bitch!

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by madridguy(m): 6:26pm On Jan 20, 2018
He should mind which nonsense business So he should close his mouth till one public toilet bring bastard pickin come give am?

Berlyn1:
mind your business this is 2018....

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 6:27pm On Jan 20, 2018
O boy tell ur hommie abeg. She is just a girlfriend, beside non of you knows how many times she has done it wit out been caught or do you want ur guy to be childless out of complications if he end up marrying her? If your guy later found out that u were aware and never told him,that will be the end of the friendship between you two.

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Lonestar124: 6:34pm On Jan 20, 2018
As the first commenter said,just face you problems
Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jan 20, 2018
If the reverse is the case, he'll tell you so I suggest you tell him. Be a brother's keeper man, that's part of the men's code.

What if your pal gets STDs from the girl?

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Blackhawk01: 6:39pm On Jan 20, 2018
Please, tell him.

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Nutase: 6:43pm On Jan 20, 2018
Just here to read comments.
Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Jan 20, 2018
Tell/threaten her to confess to him.
If she doesn't, inform him undecided

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by schumastic(m): 6:47pm On Jan 20, 2018
alexistaiwo:
I will keep this short and precise.

One of my close friend girlfriend just had an abortion for another guy. On a normal day, I wouldn't think twice before deciding to keep my mouth shut but this is a friend that always look out for me. He always have my back, if the roles were to be reversed I am sure he will inform me of such betrayal.

His girlfriend been avoiding me since she discovered that I am privy to the information of what she did. She probably think that I already told him.


Should I keep shut?


Modified for those asking how I got the information.

I got to know about the abortion through one of her very tight friend.
I was just whining as usual her the other day that may God judge she and her friend as if I am holding a grudge against both of them and she spilled unknowingly).

Since you said the guy always got your back and if reverse were to be the case he will let you, I guess this is the best time to prove that friendship..

After all she is his gf not wife. She went as far as sleeping with another guy, got pregnant and then abort the baby and you still want such a lady for your close friend (you would be the most wicked friend on earth not to tell your guy).

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by BlackDBagba: 6:55pm On Jan 20, 2018
Bro code!

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Hector09: 7:04pm On Jan 20, 2018
Dont tell me that u are lai mohammed son
Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by alexistaiwo: 7:10pm On Jan 20, 2018
Hector09:
Dont tell me that u are lai mohammed son

When was the last time I created a thread?
Do I look like a attention seeking mofo to you?
Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by edimolu(m): 7:30pm On Jan 20, 2018
your kind of man embarrasses us by the day, asking subtly if you should snitch?! how do you even intend starting? i wish i could slap you into an endless-coma...complete- dunce
Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jan 20, 2018
Yes, tell him.

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Oyindidi(f): 7:46pm On Jan 20, 2018
Maintain your lane
Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Dzeimzb: 7:58pm On Jan 20, 2018
Which yeye lane should he maintain. I will choose my paddy over any unfaithful bitch any day. Please don't waste time , tell your guy asap. Its this type of girl that will raise a bastard for your friend only for him to find out when the kids are in their 20s that hey are not his. Since he always got your back, the rule is friendship b4 any girl.

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Oyindidi(f): 8:03pm On Jan 20, 2018
Dzeimzb:
Which yeye lane should he maintain. I will choose my paddy over any unfaithful bitch any day. Please don't waste time , tell your guy asap. Its this type of girl that will raise a bastard for your friend only for him to find out when the kids are in their 20s that hey are not his. Since he always got your back, the rule is friendship b4 any girl.
Next time, say what's in your mind without entering my lane
Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 8:06pm On Jan 20, 2018
alexistaiwo:
I will keep this short and precise.

One of my close friend girlfriend just had an abortion for another guy. On a normal day, I wouldn't think twice before deciding to keep my mouth shut but this is a friend that always look out for me. He always have my back, if the roles were to be reversed I am sure he will inform me of such betrayal.

His girlfriend been avoiding me since she discovered that I am privy to the information of what she did. She probably think that I already told him.


Should I keep shut?


Modified for those asking how I got the information.

I got to know about the abortion through one of her very tight friend.
I was just whining as usual her the other day that may God judge she and her friend as if I am holding a grudge against both of them and she spilled unknowingly).
who exactly in their right senses tells a girlfriend about such? How are u sure d pregnancy is not for your friend? Your senses should tell u that the friend might be envious of her friends relationship. People should use their senses and intuition when dealing with people Biko.
Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by babyfaceafrica: 8:20pm On Jan 20, 2018
Tell
Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Alexgeneration(m): 8:28pm On Jan 20, 2018
Please go ahead and tell him, nobody deserves that stvpid hoe as a girlfriend.
Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by pointblank247(m): 8:28pm On Jan 20, 2018
nwanyiawkaetiti. muna gi nweru okwu. nwoke nnobi
Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Nobody: 8:34pm On Jan 20, 2018
Yes Go Tell Him
Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Omelette21: 8:46pm On Jan 20, 2018
alexistaiwo:
I will keep this short and precise.

One of my close friend girlfriend just had an abortion for another guy. On a normal day, I wouldn't think twice before deciding to keep my mouth shut but this is a friend that always look out for me. He always have my back, if the roles were to be reversed I am sure he will inform me of such betrayal.

His girlfriend been avoiding me since she discovered that I am privy to the information of what she did. She probably think that I already told him.


Should I keep shut?


Modified for those asking how I got the information.

I got to know about the abortion through one of her very tight friend.
I was just whining as usual her the other day that may God judge she and her friend as if I am holding a grudge against both of them and she spilled unknowingly).
first confirm if she really had an abortion,,
then tell your friend.

I repeat,, tell your friend.

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Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Omelette21: 8:48pm On Jan 20, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
who exactly in their right senses tells a girlfriend about such? How are u sure d pregnancy is not for your friend? Your senses should tell u that the friend might be envious of her friends relationship. People should use their senses and intuition when dealing with people Biko.
what if she had the abortion for another guy..

Op,, tell your friend..
Re: Should I Inform My Friend That His Girlfriend Just Had An Abortion For Another? by Omelette21: 8:49pm On Jan 20, 2018
Dzeimzb:
Which yeye lane should he maintain. I will choose my paddy over any unfaithful bitch any day. Please don't waste time , tell your guy asap. Its this type of girl that will raise a bastard for your friend only for him to find out when the kids are in their 20s that hey are not his. Since he always got your back, the rule is friendship b4 any girl.
one like for you.

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