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d-baptist:
guess as they say 'unlike poles attract

you are right, unlike poles does attract. and sometimes the bad guess tend to be more caring and because they have explored through life and everything they later become focus on one girl while sometimes the good guy gets tired and start to look for new adventures because they dont know what's out there and are curious to find out.

d-baptist:
hey its for love let her do it
love gives and doesn't ask for anything in return
even tho' d guy leaves her 2moro
then d guy is not worth her

That is so true, love definately give and ask for nothing in return, she shoule give him he might become rich later in the future who know, no one righ? we cannot see the future :

I guess those people you know are not the right ones u should be around if you know you want a girl that's not all about sex take a little more time to look around. there are a lot of them am sure.

well you can't tell, just have a good girlfriend and build your relationship on trust. very essential

sanchymike:
am currently on my masters (MSc Geology) in california state university, northridge.
is a very good place to study cause the teachers are ready to help you and are very freindly. in addition to that i have gotten a lot of opportunity since i got here. the international office is of good help as well. i have no regret chosing the scchool and i will always recommend it to any person that wants to sudy in US.
cheers

Thank you so much for deciding to tell us a little about your experince. So did you also do your undergrad in the US and what was the process you went through with applying to the school from Nigeria. I would also like to know what kind of concentration (major) is more common at your school. and in general do you find eduation in the united states harder than in nigeria?

finidinwa1:
Hi omo99 i am still in Nigeria but i will like to go for my undergraguate studies in the US.If you have any info can we please share it please.

What is it exactly you would like to know maybe I can help

debosky:
There are many Nigerians on nairaland going to school in the US, lets share experiences.

Are you saying you go to university in the US?

Hey are there any Nigerian's that are in High School, Undergrad or Grad School in the united states and what school's do you guys go too??

johnyplava:
According to the Bible, the chicken came first because God created animals and made them multiply. But according to science, the egg came first because chicken comes from an egg but an egg does not necessarily comes from a chicken; it just came from something that was similar to a chicken and this is known as mutation.

Hey johnyplava this is a very good answer and it sounds so much like you are very smart I think I should keep you as a friend so that you can help me with philosophy and other subjects lol, jk just wanted to compliment you for your rational and thoughtful answer.

I personally think Love is enough which should definately include being truthful and showing it to her not just feeling it or thinking it,

also, you and your girl should cosider using other contraception because condoms ALONE do not always prevent a girl from getting pregnant so you should think about that so it does not happen again.

It is so true that romance is a two way thing, not just the guy buying things for the girl. Although that is what most Nigerian girls want because of our society and what we see which all boils down to our culture, the guy is the head and so he must do everything. I mean based on this own stereotype that goes on in 9ja you wouldn't expect the girl to do anything like go out and buy gift for the guy you might only expect her to cool some delicious food or something like that. ( that's our 9ja mentality) anyway! I believe to be romantic has to come from the heart first a close relationship with your respective other and then you start to feel comfortable and you start acting yourself. There is no reason for a guy to try and kiss a girls hand tease her by asking for a kiss before he does her a favor or all that stuff is just a matter or the people involved in the relationship feeling comfortable with each other and just acting themselves which in the long run is romantic to the other person because if we like who you are not what you have its romance. as least that's what i think!

Ujujoan:
Condoms are not 100% effectice. SO yes, its possible!!

. You are right that condoms are not 100% effective but they are highly effective which is about(97%) and most of the time it is defective due to the fault of the users and their lack of knowledge of how to either put it on or remove after a sexual activity. So I would say condoms are very reliable.

lol @ iceland, I mean am just saying the truth. am not going to come on here to try and sugar coat things.

Why would you have a girlfriend and also get a girl on the side make up your mind and stick to one person. you are considered cheating on your girlfriend and I dont think you would want her to do the same to you. you guys need to change your acts, NOT THE BEST.

There are definitely still virgin male and female and some people by choice choose to be virgins or choose to stay virgin until they find the right partner (someone they can marry) or someone they will marry. Everyone has their own values and way of seeing things and if they prefer to be with a virgin that's their choice except who knows if they'll find one and they might eventually have to settle for someone that's not a virgin.

Well from my own point of view you would find more Nigerian men with African American women because some men want to get a green card using this women and men being who they are their business is always out there compare to women who try to keep relationships for this purposes on the down low. Also, being a Nigerian woman I have tried dating an African American man but it just wouldn't work because we have differnet values and standings on things and so the whole culture thing come to play. Also, Nigerian men like to be in charge of the relationship and rule and most African American women are submissive compare to Nigerian women. I also know a lot of Nigerian women that would rather be with Nigerian men than African-American just because they feel more comfortable especially the ones that lived in Nigerian all their lives and recently moved to America.

You need to find out if she is really pregnant, meaning prof either a paper from the doctor in which you went together to an hospital that you know would not lie to you and then you both sit down and talk about it, tell her you point of view; if you want to keep the baby or have an abortion and also tell her to make up her mind not just saying ooh i want to keep the baby and then later i want an abortion because of my studies. you need to go talk to her especially since you love her and keep in mind that communication is an essential part of a relationship so you guys have to communicate and compromise with each other.