why do most ladies believe that Nigerian men are not romantic, as for me, I believe Nigerian guys are the most romantic guys in the world, You probably haven't met the right one. I am Representing the entire Nigerian Men,so Ladies pls give us a few tips on what things you would consider romantic by a guy and also tell us about the most memorable romantic date you have ever been to, if you have been to any,

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SOME OF THEM DNT HW TO EXPRESS THEIR LOVE,AND TO ME A ROMANTIC GUY IS A GUY THT KNWS HOW TO EXPRESS HIS LOVE BOTH BY ACTIONS AND _words AND NO NIGERIAN GUYS ARE NT THE MOST ROMANTIC GUYS IN THE WORLD.MOST OF THEM ARE NT EVEN CLOSE TO THE R IN THE WORD ROMANTIC.

Everyone has their own idea of what romantic is. Some people find flowers and gifts romantic while others prefer a more abstract approach. Ideal romance doesn't exist in my opinion.

Syren,how are u doing?
how was ur day?
good 2 see u

hum wat a topic? ? ? ?
wat wil u tink the answerz wil bi 4rm fmalez
lafin?thesz sektn makez mi laf.??dnt mind mi.

doe82:

Syren,how are u doing?
how was ur day?
good 2 see u

hhhmm my day was ok, I think I'm going to have to break our agreement, I'm under so much stress and it isn't good for me.

How r u by the way?

I m good!
had a very busy anyway.

syren:

I'm under so much stress and it isn't good for me.

How r u by the way?

stress is a normal part of life,how it is handled matters more than the stress itself coz its what makes the difference!!
u dont have to break our "agreement"
we ll play by the "rules, "

Blame it on orientation and environment but things are changing gradually nowadays

doe82:

I m good!
had a very busy anyway.

stress is a normal part of life,how it is handled matters more than the stress itself because its what makes the difference!!
u don't have to break our "agreement"
we ll play by the "rules, "

I'm gonna remember that.

Rule #1: take things one day at a time.

I'm running out of time it feels like I'm doing 3 days worth of work at once. I just wish I could escape for a while. Let the world carry on while I sleep for several weeks. lol

syren:


I'm running out of time it feels like I'm doing 3 days worth of work at once.

It's unfortunate i cant help;i wish i culd but i believe u can handle it

syren:


Rule #1: take things one day at a time.

rule #1 noted!!!so what of others

i hope this is not going to b a despotic government.lol

doe82:

i hope this is not going to b a despotic government.lol

We've only ever discussed one rule, enlighten me to the others pls

pls lets talk 2moro.i ve to run now!1

doe82:

please lets talk 2moro.i ve to run now!1

no problem, until 2 moro, bye doe

i think some of them do not want to express it because it might potray them as weak. for example my hubby acts the same way, because he doesn't wanna show it all, and sometimes when he shows it, it is like a really sweet moment. so i sometimes wait for him to express his feelings b4 i express mine and he laughs because he knows i am waiting for him.

If i say this it would sound like i am being chauvinistic but i would say it anyway .Nigerian Women are not that romantic either and that is why they have been equally paired and matched with unromantic Nigerian Men

niaja boys are not romantic! even the girls too! it was till i left naija i realized!
imagine for restaurant chic de give me hand to kiss, as she throw hand i ddnt even know what i was to do (like a bush man)
^{boys need to improve but even u girls u cant just fold ya arms and wait for "romantic" to possess ur guy its a 2way affair}

well it all depend on what being romantic means to our ladies,i can read someone talking about flower,gift or card on this post. how many naija girl of today will except flower or card apart from re-charge card and if that is what romantic means to you girl's may i not be romantic for life, can someone say Amen to that(i might have send that couple of times sha).sincerely speaking being romantic is like a game you both understand,but how many relationship can you tell of today is by choice and not infleunced by situation.

It depend on the real definition of beign romantic.As an African man you dont expect me dey Mumu arround carrying flowers and kissing a lady in public all in the name of civilization.Oyinbos culture is quite different from ours let them take to their culture and we hold on to ours

This topic reminds me of an incedence that happened last year,i was with a friend of mine when his fone rang and it happened to be his chik,they talked for about 2mins and the girl asked him if he was with any of his friends around him and he said yes and the girl requested speaking to his friend which happened to be me,the first speech i heard was(please teach ur friend how to be romantic,he is not romantic at all!!!!)i couldot help but LOL,so the line went dead and was still laughing,i was not laughing at him but at the girl because i wonder why on earth she thinks i am better than my friend.

Back to the topic,i can say Nigerian guys are not really romantic,but what is being romantic oerse,saying sweet words to ur girl by calling her my angel,my chocolate brown sugar,if she asks you for a favor,you ask her to bribe you with a kiss and stuffs like that.others see being romantic as playing with her in you room or house with both of you being naked,runnng around the house,whenever you go out you always buy her something no matter how cheap or expensive it might be.Thank you ladies and gentlemen.

Mehn, Ur been interesting so far and seriously speaking. whats all these argument about Nigerian men, what of the women? Most of them don't even know anything about romance, the only thing they consider romantic is getting fat gifts and all that, i believe it should be mutual instead of laying all the blame on men, , what do you all think

laylow_112:

Mehn, Ur been interesting so far and seriously speaking. whats all these argument about Nigerian men, what of the women? Most of them don't even know anything about romance, the only thing they consider romantic is getting fat gifts and all that, i believe it should be mutual instead of laying all the blame on men, , what do you all think

I agree with you Intoto my brother with most Nigerian girls love and romance is one way traffic they don't usually believe they have equal roles to play in the game of love and romance

Poster, most romantic in the world? Such exaggeration!

niaja boys are not romantic! even the girls too! it was till i left naija i realized!

I also have thesame experience too, i dated 2 naija guys befor i left naija, none of them know how to romance, they are only interested in puting the "thing" that is all LOL, i like kissing and been touched tenderly but i never felt it with them until i found hubby the really match of my sex life. Naija guys should wake up, no be only """"" be sex oooo.

Common Plap when u were dating the Nigerians you would have defined what your own definition of romance is,trust Nigerian Guys they will give you,Just that absence or silence make the hearth fonder

ibrokay:

Common Plap when u were dating the Nigerians you would have defined what your own definition of romance is,trust Nigerian Guys they will give you,Just that absence or silence make the hearth fonder

why u no go side ur fellow men, truth dey always bitter.

It is so true that romance is a two way thing, not just the guy buying things for the girl. Although that is what most Nigerian girls want because of our society and what we see which all boils down to our culture, the guy is the head and so he must do everything. I mean based on this own stereotype that goes on in 9ja you wouldn't expect the girl to do anything like go out and buy gift for the guy you might only expect her to cool some delicious food or something like that. ( that's our 9ja mentality) anyway! I believe to be romantic has to come from the heart first a close relationship with your respective other and then you start to feel comfortable and you start acting yourself. There is no reason for a guy to try and kiss a girls hand tease her by asking for a kiss before he does her a favor or all that stuff is just a matter or the people involved in the relationship feeling comfortable with each other and just acting themselves which in the long run is romantic to the other person because if we like who you are not what you have its romance. as least that's what i think!

A man can ONLY be romantic with the woman of his dream. If she is a seconds best, nothing for her!

In the world!!!? Roflmao good one

i will say they are not romantic at all ,its just not the same when u date a non nigerian man.

plappville:



why u no go side ur fellow men, truth dey always bitter.

Are u married or not? Then if not i hope you wont have to learn the hard way. Is not everything that you read in the novels or watch in movies that is applicable in real life

I have to agree that they are not romantic. 

But other things will make up for it

My husband once said that no african man is a gentleman. At heart this is not possible.