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dicefrost:
Thanks for reading everyone. Please do drop ur opinion on the story, and suggestions for the future. My next story ll b titled "Rugged men" it ll hit your screens at the end of the month........ Thank you all...... Dicefrost

Ipledge:
this one na serious advice oo

Marverick:
Those born frm feb 1st to feb 19th are aquarians in d zodiac, characteristics include;fear of commitment in relationships,intellectual,emotionally detached,values independence,likes being uncoventional,sociable and friendly(has many friends) but rarely opens up to any of them,hates emotional situations,values logic,dislikes hving an emotional and clingy partner,likes science,charitable,likes to shock people and play mind games,manipulative,dangerous in strategy,highly intelligent,likes to discuss on a wide range of topics,impersonal,cold ,aloof etc . Rum confirm if this describes any of u?.

Hyinkar97:
not saying she's your girl....#justsaying you found your birthday mate

Hyinkar97:
young man, you will have to pay me cos you found your birthday mate on my thread

becca675:
feb 11

Raymysterio:
When a woman is fed-up
there is nothing you can do about it...
Is like running out of love...
And is too late to talk about it

menix:
If am to reply u wiv dat headin u got der, i did ask u 2 call NAFDAC 2 confirm but havin read d body, dey should b into insurance buh note its a marketin job.

Dont 4get google is ur fwend.

dicefrost:
you are very correct op. obviously, every child needs love ., Ella couldnt get the love and understanding from the parent,which makes her feel like a slave, she got outside , turned out bad.






I beg to disagree with you sir. No one is denying the influence of bad association in this case, but the parents cannot be absorbed entirely of the blame.

Every child is a" tabular rasa", and something must fill the blank space. It is either the parents mould the child or his/her friends do. And like the bible says, "foolishness is tied up to the heart of a child" hence teenagers are inclined to pursue the wayward course.

At that stage of development, Ella is not a child anymore who should be ordered, coerced and beaten. Neither is she an adult who should be given total freedom to act. What is needed at this stage is love, patience, understanding and loving guidance and direction, with firm discipline. But when she gets the love from a boy, and the understanding from her friends, she is bound to be like them. Her father beat her up with a slipper, her mum inspects her virginity. She is practically caged in the house. No one offered love and attention.

Ella's parents tried to control her actions, while Ehis and Ruth appealed to her desires and got her heart. Its about reaching out to her heart, and being her friend, not trying to control her actions.

On the other hand, hannah's parents were permissive, which is a dangerous kind of parenting too.

Ruthless parenting breeds rebellious children, permissiveness brings loose children. The key is balance.

desire7:
My cuties ........born-Feb-21 let's see if we have things in common.

shikshark:
unless if u are physically challenged.............the first No should do.

mubarakopeyemi:
Well, I'm a muslim and over 80% of dose I've dated are Christians. At first they do think I'm muslim and not even knowing that I'm a deep muslim.
Most girls told me I don't look like a muslim, don't talk like a muslim and don't dress like a muslim, I'm different, dis and dat, I do tell dem that's its not what u see outside, its about what's in U, and that do they even print it on head that I'm muslim or I'm christain
Its not d religion dt makes dem date Christians, its about the quality they find in them (money or handsomeness) and the personal interests.
Nothing more.
Why has all those christians I've dated been dey date me too?? Muslims date muslims, muslims date christians, christians date christians.
If u know about the sister rachaels and brother johnsons or Sister Khadijas and broda abdu Razaqs, then you would know that the konk ones would neva date someone who's not practising their religon.
Pls stop being sentimental and get a pilow then go sleep!

jidestroud:
Let me reiterate:
it was never the fone!!!
I never knew giving to a loved one meant bn a fool! That's too bad, cos i dont intend changing
Do I the show the same level of generousity to my immediate family? I guess you never know...
Does collecting stuffz from cooperative makez you or spellz living above your means? Hmmm...
And for the records; *I'm a staunch believer of keep the bed undefiled till after marriage.

The fone was never the issuez haz much as losin a girl bcoz of natural selection (me bn Yoruba n She an Ibo)

Now i have the fone, Do i feel any better? Letin it go sure would have made me!!! But now i feel TERRIBLE

mizcalvina:
oh sorry i didn't see it.. Anyways if u can come down to Benin 2 collect it cool..

mizcalvina:
oh sorry i didn't see it.. Anyways if u can come down to Benin 2 collect it cool..

mizcalvina:
one bottle of champagne for you, for getting it ryt..

kagari:
Op most people telling you to take heart would do much more than you. Take this fact.
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As long as u are still paying for the phone in ur ex possession you would always be emotionally tormented
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As long as u still keep her on ur social networks, you would always be emotionally tormented.
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But i bet you it would be much more easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle, than for you to be able to book a date again with your ex, to execute the plan of phone retriever
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If you know her house, just go there and collect your phone, you would recieve insults but there is no one you would tell the story that wont support your idea.
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Give the phone to your mum or you sibling and see the blessings that would follow it.
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#teamolosho
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No time for story that touches the heart