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No chill on the woman's side.... abah you just showed him how to do the work.

We should tend to do things formally, the way you treat your friend, should definitely different from your boss.

Some people get carried away with their boss familiarity and start treating him/her like a friend. The day you go receive sack, then you will know thousand of people are out there, who can deliver better than what you rendered!

If it's America, they would give the case to the woman, term the man recklessness to pay the child's right.

I wouldn't blame the jury so much like that, let's have a look at the whereabouts of the child ,when the mother is serving a jail term.

At the same time, these women must be put in order, is getting rampant these days!

Okortor:
I 100% agree with you on this " Nairalanders are truly intelligent " quote author=TheScientist post=112123536]Other news outlets are good. They are living up to their mandate. However, there is something special about Nairaland. The comments from young and vibrant nairalanders, make the news extra-interesting. Although some comments are divisive, most of them are educative.

My first day on Nairaland was a bliss. I learnt so much that my brain was almost filled to capacity. What amazes me the most is the ability of nairalanders to analyze every statement and decode the real intent behind such statement.

Nairalanders are truly intelligent. The only thing i hate about Nairaland is tribal war.

Goodday Sir. I'm sorry I just sent you dm which , I should have remind you first. I just want to let you know that I contacted you during the lock-down about a CIT cash bag made of Tarpaulin.

I hope you find a space to give me an audience, so you can check on the bag is very affordable and durable. I will be looking out for your message Sir. Have a great day!

What do you expect from a child who his parent are lecturer.

Sion47:
The Polytechnic, Ibadan
Pub Admin

ESUT , Enugu
Pol. Sc

LASU, Lagos
Intern'l Re & Dip'macy

University of Atlanta, Tx
International Relations

Etc

So you never finish listing..... oya fill up the list. We wey get one Certificate , they feel ashamed of talking about it.

Seeing the this can juvenile our moral.

GboyegaD:
I know it was originally for Christian students that finished from Federal Government Colleges but was later extended to all secondary schools. I don't know much about the organization but I heard the anthem about twice.

The chorus states:
We shall rise and shine as the light
We shall lift the weary hands up that hangs down
And we shall raise the feeble knees that stoop to fall
As we call upon the Lord what he tells us we will do
And we shall keep this vision burning as we walk with the Lord.

Very meaningful and sensitive chorus I must say.

If it's Ex Secondary school student, our set hold that, some of my friends who had chance do attend the school activities like inter-house sport and so on..., they do have end of year party every year, is just that I'm far from them now, that's why I missed the joint with them. I was breed up in shomolu Bariga, but now in Sango Ogun state. Kinda far.

Chai, distance makes you missed some friend oooo. When you see, memory refreshed. You know that feelings, they would start reminding the nick name they call you in 1998. Na that time you will rack your brain to remember his own too. Lol.

This is igbo move

GboyegaD:
Thanks! I am trying to be humble but one thing I can say I have learned is do whatever you can to help those I can.

Wasn't a member of Federation of Ex-Students of Colleges Association (FECA) but attending their program twice and listening to their anthem, the chorus became my mantra.

Nice. Can you please tell me more about FECA. Is it just about the ex student in your graduated institution or Ex student in Nigeria as a whole.

Just want to know about their program and all that.....

GboyegaD:
The Federal Polytechnic, Ede - Statistics;
Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile Ife - Economics;
University of North Texas, Denton, TX - Economics;
Michigan State University, East Lansing, MI - Business Analytics;
University of Calgary, Calgary, AB - Economics.

Oh IC. I would have ignored and assumed it was those guy that lies about their personality probably to impress crush. But no. Have had an encounter with you in the past, where someone came From no where to talk about your generosity right back in University of ile-ife.

With all of this, you are still humble. That's why lasgidi was demonstrated in your profile .well done brother and more success.

Happy edi-l-fitr

Mindlog:
Living and fathering children with a woman one is not married to and death happens....the downside of co-habitation.

Personally, I don't financially contribute to such just as I didn't for a relative who did the same despite repeated warnings against the co-habitation and pleas to go see her family to traditionally marry the lady but he was arrogant, feeling smart that he has 2 children from the relationship and a woman performing wifely duties without the stress of marital rites.....she was involved in an accident and didn't survive, reality set in.

Like suggested, be open to her family on the real status of your finances with proofs and negotiate from there BUT there is a very huge possibility that this a scam planned well ahead.

Create such a sensational thread that LUCKILY made the frontpage, then build on the momentum to cash out which is what this particular thread is purposed to do. From the initial gra gra of yesterday to today's meekness...the human mind is a beautiful thing to study.

OP, you may be LUCKY to get some credit alerts from those who would fall for this.

You can just castigated the op base on his personality, there are people who don't like to be insulted infact, they can't take the insult without talking back at you, even if you are their boss.


Having gone through his previous post I can deduce to conclude he's not liying but naive on the situation that consumed him. Logically how can someone marry a Corpse after spending so much on hospital bill, we have to respect the traditions. but whoever willing to help can decide to investigate. May your helper locate you op.

9182736455O1999:
Why didn't you think of seeking justice for the girl.

This is the first thing that came to mind. And it made me angry people can be this wicked and go scot free like they are smart or something. Bleep it!

Na wa oooo

Holluwhakemmy:
They won't collect it at once, just like 30% every month till it will amount to 3 months

Oh I C. Sound reasonably with % thing....

Holluwhakemmy:
Some people will even collect the whole salary for like 3months

Haaaaa the whole, how will you run the job na.

Better than those prophet fornicating with our actresses but hide under the guise of having a one wife be-fore their congregation....

Malory:
A working country

Working country in deed!

Nice one!

anu3:
Friend, for a girl, I'll recommend you use style to manouver her to play outside your room. Forget about adjusting curtains, pls.

I know I hate child abuse, but as things are going, I also want to avoid any chances of Rubbish. It takes less than 10 secs for some Rubbish to happen you know.

It's easier with boys, I could warmly put my arm around them for awhile and all that. Not however very likely with the girls.

It's better to stay safe as suspicions and accusations are on the increase...

Peace

You are right. That was my experience back then, not now. That's why I stated in my Last sentences, that it's an eye opening thread I can never allow such occur again. We just have to be very careful on this coming generation.

This thread is something else , I can't believe I read through most of the ordeal tales.

All I can say is : we must always have for sight on unforeseen circumstances.

Because in my case, when a Lil girl comes to my room, if my cotton is down at the time, I will fold it to the door. Just leave my door net transparently . So her mother can peep in anytime, see her playing. It's an eye opening so far anyway. May God always protect an innocent soul.

LAPO. For that matter and you are taken it very seriously....

The groom is stupid for keeping friend that loves his wife.....

West1side:
My brother see Igbo madness on display.

Person steal Peter Obi phone in broad daylight he is not a thief but here this corp dash Tinubu is allowance an according to made Igbo analogy he is a theif.

Please explain to me how majority from this tribe in NL / SM are not mad. ?

Peter Obi when he was Anambra state governor was caught red handed with N250 million cash in Lagos he said he paid a contractor cash n same contractor chose to follow his convoy with the said money.

Igbo youth analysis he is not a thief he explained the money already.

Tinubu a former governor was exposed with bullion van arriving into his compound with his hard earned money not Lagos or Federal state money. Note Tinubu held no political post at that very period.

Igbo youth analysis he is a thief he as looted Lagos since Isrealities escape from Egypt.

Osun state governor expose to have Pandora account. Account operated several years before becoming governor or with any elective post.

Igbo youth analysis - he is looting for Tinubu.

Peter Peter Obi expose to open same Pandora account only during the period he was governor of Anambra state please NOTE not before.

Igbo youth analysis - Pandora kleptomaniac criminal Peter Obi is from a rich home and have always had money.

Ask them if Peter Obi family ever had more money than Tinubu's family that were renowned slave trade merchant n part of the ruling house in Lagos n they keep mute.

Ask them if Peter Obi was so rich how much did he support democracy with when Nigeria was under military rule with only Tinubu renowned to have singlehandedly financied Radio Kudirat n the escape of moat if not all NADECO activities n they claim the debate is irrelevant.

This is the madness igbos argue daily on NL

Guy, you dey vex with the pen down analysis..

We shall see!

jerrisonjeff:
I got one last week for 68k....But i rejected the offer... Union bank through Ics outsourcing.... Due to location and timing

So i think its fair enough

Can I have the contact of the agent pls?

hakeemhakeem:
Forgive him but chat with him on WhatsApp save it.in case he try to come up any move that will go against you in future trust me he would be planing something

Op. What this man said is right. Save yourself first. This guy might collide with other colleague, you eyes can't be everywhere in the end, they would put everything on your head. Talking from experience. Goodluck!

A little bit chubby would have been fine, the word "fat" is an idiom for human.