We4all:


Nah, not any girl would jump into the hands of a man simply because he is rich. That you didn't do so and feels you deserve an accolade shows the level of moral decadency in our society.

Being rich is one thing and defining the source of wealth is another. Not every wealth looks appealing and I know girls who will always say no to a man regardless of his income status.

You are right!
Just a rare thing these days. Most people want readymade.

farady:
That's beautiful and thanks for a job well done. Infact I owe you a drink! I know it's not easy, cause I can relate - it must have drained you emotionally

Keep it up. You too, you will settled

Aamin. Thank u sir

RoyalBlu:
Nice one sis.
What you did was noble.
You're a Queen.
Your King is just around the bend. Hold up.

Thank you God bless

We4all:



He was only using you as a rebound. That sweet talk of "you are the kind of woman I want", could have just been mere words and not really that serious.

The truth is, he wasn't really into you. It's good that you were smart enough to figure that out, to avoid stories that touch.

Your ex left you for another woman and I don't think she is to be blamed. Your guy must have seen something in her which was missing in you(unless he was under a spell and not in his right frame of mind).

You must bear in mind that for one to rise, someone must fall. Life isn't fair and that's the way it is!

Regardless, I think the part where you mentioned about his wealth wasn't necessary. In my opinion, seeking 'a standing ovation' for your act wreaks of hypocrisy. Both of you were not into each other and it has got nothing to do with doing the right thing.

Of course, I wasn't into him. And The reason I mentioned his financial strength was to let u know that any girl would av jump into the opportunity and figure how to clinch him tightly to herself.
I have the opportunity even after I went through same in the hands of others. I could have use it as a pay back but I didn't.
So Yeah, that obviously deserves a standing ovation.

And my write up isn't blaming anybody.
Thank you for your contribution.

kilojoDesigns:
You did good, I don't think you loved the guy in a relationship kinda way, if you did anyway you should check that you are not subconsciously running from relationships due to your previous experiences. Love isn't all that good, who knows your ex and the other girl may truly love each other yet you got hurt in the process.

What I'm saying is that you can't save everyone. If you find someone you truly love and see a future with don't be afraid to go for it, sometimes old things have to be torn down for something better to sprout.

So I learnt, thank you very much.

lalasticlala it's been a while

daddytime:
Perhaps, you just found your true purpose/calling in life.

Counselling...

I'm actually looking forward to that.
Thank you sir

Met this guy late September, he was in for loving doving and all. Told me I was the perfect definition of what he was looking for in a bride.

This is a well to do single man with chains of businesses, cars, a good house & also working for mining company. He is Responsible disciplined and religious.
Bottom line is He's what any lady would be glad to have.

The thing is, He had problems with his bae & wanted to find solace and comfort with me, forget his Fiancee and moved on.

I could have taken Advantage of their situation, played the Angelic Good wife, hold him tight, pretend to tolerate all his mess & made him forget totally about his bae.
But I see it as a challenge I have to overcome.
Why

I had issues with my fiance, he left to find comfort in the hands of another girl. The girl jumped on the opportunity without hesitation, played the perfect babe and the rest is history...

I couldn't do the same to another girl, i know how heartbreak & betrayal feels.
so I decided to help them for I know their issue isn't beyond repair.

I took my time to let the guy know I am not perfect and equally have my flaws.
I made him see reason why he shouldn't give up and run to a comfort zone each time his relationship has issues.
Their issue was just communication breakdown & lack of understanding. They could fix it if they really want to and ready to shift grounds...

And now, I'm grateful my efforts played off, with my coaching, he realized he was making a mistake taking the risk of throwing a 3 years relationship away for another one which the outcome is yet unknown.

Now they are back Together, settled all differences and their wedding date is set.
I just received an IV to attend their wedding holding on 18th of January 2020.

If i had entered their Picture, it may be impossible or almost imposssible for this great feat to happen.

I couldn't be more proud of myself.

Ladies This Year Let's help ourselves out!
Don't take Advantage of other people's situations
Don't be the reason why a relationship or marriage breaks totally.
Don't let Despiration push you into hurting others.
May God help us, Give us the best of partners and not make us a stumbling block to the happiness of others.

I did well right


Sorry for the Long Epistle
Cc. Lalasticlala help push to Front Page, Let others Learn.
lalasticlala
farano

TGM2015:


In simplest spiritual form, there is no one person that is particularly destined to be one partner but there are a lot of spiritual incompatibility. So both of you may not be spiritually compatible or you might be compatible but with undesirable destiny like short life span, etc.

But one is very sure, it is only you that can know for sure if spiritually you are compatible. In a nutshell, if you believe in spiritual guide to your marriage (which actually is the best), you need to give yourself to some spiritual exercise that will lead you right. Any other external reports or revelations will only be secondary.

Let give you a recent example. I have a friend that around 2006 he dreamt of a lady consistently, he is spiritually active, he approached the lady a year later but the lady turned him down. As at December when I had a Facebook call with her sister, I discovered she, her sister and her brother are still living in the same room. By 2016, my friend got another vision of a lady, he approached this lady and got a friend zone replied. He specifically told me last January that if by December 2019, he will forget about the lady as he had a prophesy that he will marry the lady last year. This is at the time that the lady is no more in town living 4 state apart. I, his mother and everyone has lost hope, in fact, I was forced to reveal his prophesy to his mother so as to calm her down till December. Guess what, they get married last year November.
I visited him during Christmas, I saw them all happy. Happy, I mean my friend and his mother (an unavoidable enemy or fighter), sister and brother in his room playing and enjoying the themselves. The marriage brought peace to a fighting home and my friend has put on weight too looking fresh.

From life experiences, there is a very high likely hood for two people who genuinely love themselves to be spiritually conmpatible except there are family spiritual warfare that need to be won or generational curse to be broken. The last two may possibly be the issue and not that you are not spiritually compatible.

Nice

TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

No two people are Destined Together.. It all depends on your Ability to make it work.

When your will & determination is aligned, you can achieve anything together.
Forget Destiny Biko.. Instead ask yourselves
"Are you sincerely Willing to spend Forever Together

philfearon:


1] Be friends with your spouse during the day and be lovers at night.

2] If you want to make love to your wife at night, start in the morning.

3] Things change — respect each other and be willing to change. Remain flexible and open to compromise.

4] Stay true — cheating never works — never surrender your integrity.

5] Listen more than you talk. Think more than you say.

6] Don’t keep score. You don’t win at marriage. Strive to stay even.

7] Intimacy and affection are not always sexual. A promise is as good as the act.

8] Women crave sex for intimacy and acceptance — Men crave sex for validation. If either isn’t getting what they need, they will seek it elsewhere.

9] Sometimes she just wants to be held. If she doesn’t she’ll let you know.

10] Let him know you are interested. Don’t think he should see you are interested and act accordingly. If you want it ask.

11] Pick up after yourself. Flip the laundry. Do the dishes. Cook a meal or two or three ect and change a diaper. Neither took a vow to be the maid — if you did — the 1800’s called and want their vow back.

12] Don’t pick a fight. Stop. Wait. Think. Then say what you mean and mean what you say after you stop being angry.

13] Don’t go in thinking he or she will change or you will change them. Change grows organically from within.

14] A divorce is like finding a woman you hate and buying her a house. If that joke isn’t funny — don’t buy a house.

15] Maintain your financial independence. Everyone who was ever married either died or were divorced — you’ll need your financial independence.

16] Sometimes she cries for no reason — sometimes he broods over non-sense. This too shall pass.

17] He or she might be your one, but eventually they will be the half or the quarter — strive to keep growing back together.

18] Watch her family and see how her father treats her mother — that’s her expectation. Watch his family — that’s his expectation. If you can’t imagine living in such an environment — you won’t — don’t hesitate to reset your expectations.

19] Roughly a third of people will suffer from a mental illness during their lifetime. Better than even chance one of you will become ill. Acceptance — Treatment, early and often.

20] Children change everything. She will unapologetically love her children more than she loves you. If you can’t handle that, wrap it in latex.

21] Most fights start over money and end in the bedroom — good or bad.

22] A three-some is never a good idea. It’s a desperate decision — a cancer with no cure. If you have an open relationship, good for you, but follow your rules. Mileage varies.

23] Space is more than what’s 20 miles straight up, or the inches between your ears. Maintain your space and allow him or her their’s.

24] Don’t threaten divorce — you either are or you aren’t. Threats breed fear — fear leads to distrust — It’s nearly impossible to earn someone’s trust, again.

25] If you are on the couch and your spouse is doing chores you are in the wrong place. Do things together.

26] If one of you is using drugs/alcohol and the other isn’t — there’s a problem. There is help available — use it.

27] You are married the person they are, but you’ll be in love with the person they were — reconcile those statements.

28] Once it’s over, it’s over. Move on quickly and quietly.

29] We can’t do anything about the ex parked outside your house — nor can we stop them from sleeping with someone new. Neither of you took a vow of celibacy. The contrary is true.

30] Don’t drunk text, call, write, or skype — Don’t drunk anything except sleep.

31] If you can’t control your emotions — leave — take a walk — pray. But whatever you do, don’t hit, slap, grab, pull, push, hug, knock, slam, choke, pinch, pin, head lock, arm bar, round kick, front kick or beat each other in anyway shape, form or fashion. If you must fight, use your words and remember anger equals ten feet. Never pick up a weapon in anger.

32] Spousal rape is real. No still means No — even if there’s a ring, a vow and several days/weeks/months/years of unrealized expectations.

May the Lord grant you the courage to change the things you must, the grace to accept the things you can’t, and the wisdom to know the difference.


QUORA

Wow.. All point are on point!!!
May God give us the best of partners & Companion.

MrCork:


dyamm.. how much??

Don't know ooo. I no bother hear d rest.

Adeyemi09:


Pls Good evening,
I want to fine out about Libra Reliance Ltd can you tell me about this position loan officer, you mentioned that is Marketing job does it base on commission..... pls i will like you to give more info about them. I was invited for an interview. Thanks

Yes. Commission based

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Which University accept HND plus NIM certificate for masters please

Olayiwola124:
Which university accept HND/NIM cert for direct Master degree prog. Pls I will to know coz I don't think dat university accept such!

Somebody should answer this please

judeikenna:
Please, does anybody know about Zulpha Academy and Seminary that is at Ikorodu Area

How was the interview with them please?

Take Heart Lalasticlala.. Accept my Condolences.
May God grant him Eternal rest & Give you the Fortitude to Bear the Loss.

cronjob:

Can't submit

Samtec01:
Please who knows Playmate schools in sagamu, Ogun state very well?
I want to make enquiry about the staff welfare of the school. I am having an interview with the school and I really want to know how they value, cater and manage their staff. Please if you are in best position to give me a good information and gist about this school, please kindly reach my through WhatsApp on 09036522652 or mail; ajibolaopemipo01@gmail.com. Thanks

Hello, please how was the interview with them?
I just got an invite. I will appreciate your response.

Which bank are they recruiting for please?

skyplustk:
please how do I go about it

I think the application is already closed.

fullofgrace:
With the current economic crunch in Nigeria.
#100k job will never push u to ur life dreams talk more of #20k stop complaining about low pay and start looking for extra skills or trade to set up and invest that ur big money. Look around that areas and look for wat u can offer and get profit in return.
Quote me even if u like carry two degrees from UK university u can never get a job of #100k in Nigeria except lecturing job.
Please learn skills now that u are still young because even the jobs u intend applying for has no job security.
Stop complaining of low pay and learn skills or start up little shop before that 2years of experience u wish u go don blow.
Thank u

Learning a skill is good but my brother
20k is just too low for a graduate.
And a friend just got a 100k job last week, in this our "Nigeria".

OP, it's best you resign if your salary is not adjusted.. But make sure you get a better job before doing that, don't resign with a place/thing to fall back on.

They should not forget to check his Brain, He must be Crazzyyy..

I'm sure he's doesn't have a wife. Who will stay with a madd man

Orangewall:
I recently passed out from the NYSC scheme. I served in Abuja.

I served in an online office, where I was receiving 30k as salary. The Job is time demanding, 6days a week. From 8am to 6pm everyday, some days it's to 7pm or even after 7. During my service year, some times I had to miss CDs because of work.
Now this is why I am asking this, service year just finished. We had to talk because it's a new term now, she moved the salary to 40k. She said that's for a starter and then I'll resume 7am to 6pm, and I know I'll stay up to 7pm some days.

I really thought the pay was going to be up to 50k for a start, well I'm not bothered about that. I'm concerned about the time. 7am to 6pm/7pm for 6days in a week. Plus the work is draining mental and physical power.


Plus I got a new apartment in Abuja just last month because I want to start a life here. Won't forget to add she helped me with 20k to add to my savings for the apartment which was on a high side.

I already told her I can't start coming 7 but she said to think about it and give her my decision tomorrow.

Thanks.

Since u already have an Accomodation and there's nothing at hand for you right now.. Take the Job & manage till you get something better.

But don't forget to keep applying for better offer

Well said OP
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