Met this guy late September, he was in for loving doving and all. Told me I was the perfect definition of what he was looking for in a bride.

This is a well to do single man with chains of businesses, cars, a good house & also working for mining company. He is Responsible disciplined and religious.
Bottom line is He's what any lady would be glad to have.

The thing is, He had problems with his bae & wanted to find solace and comfort with me, forget his Fiancee and moved on.

I could have taken Advantage of their situation, played the Angelic Good wife, hold him tight, pretend to tolerate all his mess & made him forget totally about his bae.
But I see it as a challenge I have to overcome.
Why

I had issues with my fiance, he left to find comfort in the hands of another girl. The girl jumped on the opportunity without hesitation, played the perfect babe and the rest is history...

I couldn't do the same to another girl, i know how heartbreak & betrayal feels.
so I decided to help them for I know their issue isn't beyond repair.

I took my time to let the guy know I am not perfect and equally have my flaws.
I made him see reason why he shouldn't give up and run to a comfort zone each time his relationship has issues.
Their issue was just communication breakdown & lack of understanding. They could fix it if they really want to and ready to shift grounds...

And now, I'm grateful my efforts played off, with my coaching, he realized he was making a mistake taking the risk of throwing a 3 years relationship away for another one which the outcome is yet unknown.

Now they are back Together, settled all differences and their wedding date is set.
I just received an IV to attend their wedding holding on 18th of January 2020.

If i had entered their Picture, it may be impossible or almost imposssible for this great feat to happen.

I couldn't be more proud of myself.

Ladies This Year Let's help ourselves out!
Don't take Advantage of other people's situations
Don't be the reason why a relationship or marriage breaks totally.
Don't let Despiration push you into hurting others.
May God help us, Give us the best of partners and not make us a stumbling block to the happiness of others.

I did well right


Sorry for the Long Epistle
Cc. Lalasticlala help push to Front Page, Let others Learn.
lalasticlala
farano

My sister eeyah clap for yourself

You did well my dear. So many Desperate girls out there. It's a good thing you didn't let yourself become a stumbling block to other people's happiness.

May God bless the Union. And Establish a happy home for you too.

Nice one sis.

What you did was noble.

You're a Queen.

Your King is just around the bend. Hold up.

Perhaps, you just found your true purpose/calling in life.

Counseling...

Its my birthday guys...04/01...yipeee

Always amazed at God's glory, and embraced by his mercies....

daddytime:
Perhaps, you just found your true purpose/calling in life.

Counselling...

Yes... And a therapist too

Ada jesus

Lamanii22:



Yes... And a therapist too

Exactment...

God bless you real good, you shall be rewarded beyond your imaginations

daddytime:
Perhaps, you just found your true purpose/calling in life.

Counselling...

I'm actually looking forward to that.
Thank you sir

You did good, I don't think you loved the guy in a relationship kinda way, if you did anyway you should check that you are not subconsciously running from relationships due to your previous experiences. Love isn't all that good, who knows your ex and the other girl may truly love each other yet you got hurt in the process.

What I'm saying is that you can't save everyone. If you find someone you truly love and see a future with don't be afraid to go for it, sometimes old things have to be torn down for something better to sprout.

Oh wow! Who is peeling onions? I’m crying. This story Is so touching and inspiring. Thank you for sharing


Iranu

so u re hero now bah good

kilojoDesigns:
You did good, I don't think you loved the guy in a relationship kinda way, if you did anyway you should check that you are not subconsciously running from relationships due to your previous experiences. Love isn't all that good, who knows your ex and the other girl may truly love each other yet you got hurt in the process.

What I'm saying is that you can't save everyone. If you find someone you truly love and see a future with don't be afraid to go for it, sometimes old things have to be torn down for something better to sprout.

So I learnt, thank you very much.

lalasticlala it's been a while

Omotayor123:

I'm actually looking forward to that.
Thank you sir

Follow your dreams...

Impossible is nothing...

Nice!!!

Hmmm...... I'm so glad you made that decision to ehmmm..... remain single and give me a chance to ehmmm...... can we whisper chat privately?

Omotayor123:
I'm actually looking forward to that. Thank you sir

If you want to be a therapist. Can I be your first patient.

That's beautiful and thanks for a job well done. Infact I owe you a drink! I know it's not easy, cause I can relate - it must have drained you emotionally

Keep it up. You too, you will settled

I believe you.

Are you truly an Angel? did you fall from heaven? Are you truly a Nigerian lady? Nigerian ladies and opportunity are 5&6

Get a driving skill,learn how to drive very well in cities, call or WhatsApp,see our contacts below

You can't continue saving unions. We are all someone's ex. No need to feel special about one you didn't want. The lady who married your ex is a realist

Very rare to happen this days, especially this Nigeria. Well nature will lift you up as you have lifted someone

Omotayor123:

Clap hands for yourself!

yeye dey smell. For your mind now u don win lottery habi?shmm...... U are acting holier than thou habi?no worry menopause is on the way

If after 3 years, they can’t still understand themselves. Then they shouldn’t be married.


My 2 cents

Prettiedame:
You can't continue saving unions. We are all someone's ex. No need to feel special about one you didn't want. The lady who married your ex is a realist

You too wise jor.... Hope she reads this and understands better instead of still watching telemundo

Omotayor123:
Met this guy late September, he was in for loving doving and all. Told me I was the perfect definition of what he was looking for in a bride.

This is a well to do single man with chains of businesses, cars, a good house & also working for mining company. He is Responsible disciplined and religious.
Bottom line is He's what any lady would be glad to have.

The thing is, He had problems with his bae & wanted to find solace and comfort with me, forget his Fiancee and moved on.

I could have taken Advantage of their situation, played the Angelic Good wife, hold him tight, pretend to tolerate all his mess & made him forget totally about his bae.
But I see it as a challenge I have to overcome.
Why

I had issues with my fiance, he left to find comfort in the hands of another girl. The girl jumped on the opportunity without hesitation, played the perfect babe and the rest is history...

I couldn't do the same to another girl, i know how heartbreak & betrayal feels.
so I decided to help them for I know their issue isn't beyond repair.

I took my time to let the guy know I am not perfect and equally have my flaws.
I made him see reason why he shouldn't give up and run to a comfort zone each time his relationship has issues.
Their issue was just communication breakdown & lack of understanding. They could fix it if they really want to and ready to shift grounds...

And now, I'm grateful my efforts played off, with my coaching, he realized he was making a mistake taking the risk of throwing a 3 years relationship away for another one which the outcome is yet unknown.

Now they are back Together, settled all differences and their wedding date is set.
I just received an IV to attend their wedding holding on 18th of January 2020.

If i had entered their Picture, it may be impossible or almost imposssible for this great feat to happen.

I couldn't be more proud of myself.

Ladies This Year Let's help ourselves out!
Don't take Advantage of other people's situations
Don't be the reason why a relationship or marriage breaks totally.
Don't let Despiration push you into hurting others.
May God help us, Give us the best of partners and not make us a stumbling block to the happiness of others.

I did well right


Sorry for the Long Epistle
Cc. Lalasticlala help push to Front Page, Let others Learn.
lalasticlala
farano

wow ..God bless

Okay you did well but why do ladies here like hyping their boyfriends.

Some are directly opposite with smelly boxers and hungry.