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I reached out.!!

Realashbobby:
Dear Nairalander,

How do you cope with your life after your spouse failed you and took the whole matter to the worse level by seeking for divorce?

I woke up everyday of my life in the past nine months thinking about this man. I heard he has moved on in Lagos, while I am still here bothering myself about him. This is the only man I have ever known in my life. He just left without looking back not even to check on his son.
What can I do to forget him totally?

I am down emotionally and it's affecting me.

Kindly advise.

Irrespective, you don't judge or say things you don't know to people you don't have detailed information about a situation with.

Unclekayfarms:
You're insincere

mhisbliss:
What differentiated us from lower animals is the fact that we can discern whats right and wrong, we're simply higher animals with heightened sense of reasoning, animals copulate with thier siblings and parents, but the reason why normal humans wouldn't do that is same reason why its abnormal to have homosexual tendencies

If you can't fvck your parents like they do, don't be homosexual as well

Please I love this.. I live abroad for many years the gay and lesbian knew what they are doing is wrong but the fear of going to do proper phycological examination always makes them gives a sentimental reasons on how they were created that way.

I HATE GAY I HATE LESBIANISM, but we Africans especially Nigerian's wants to copy everything. While the whites envy everything about us. But so many people with extremely low self esteem will still wants to feel among.

This your write up make my day. Send your network and number to joeworld3@mail.de I will sub your phone with 5k.. to encourage you to write more...

[quote author=jospepper post=67920162]please mention me when you do.[/quote

Bro!

We have all been there, first of all yes prayers is the master key. But the same Bible says work and pray.

First it is an addiction, first cure for addiction is for you to get irritated to your addiction.

This is how I did it back then,

I stop watching porn, I stop watching videos later I see myself looking at only pictures, then each time I want to go back to that poo, I feel irritated, on and on.

The best way to fight the prostitute one is to face it...

What I did.

Each time I get the urge to go there, I go stand at the front and wait... Look at them saying bros come , I will hold on strong and face it with many questions running through my mind like.. what If I am here police came to crack criminal hide out... What if this what if that... It wasn't easy facing your fears. Before u know if I see myself back home..

One of my customer back then once said she see that I am not this type of person that should be coming to places like this..

The urge will come again I will wait afar off, take a bottle of drink. Still fight it.. I won't ever go there. On and on and on... Till I face my fear that was the work... Then I pray... God sees my heart and help me..

Above all, get yourself a girl.. forget anything that she will cheat on your or whatever love her with all your heart, respect her, don't cheat. Before you know it u won't remember the poo anymore.

Now I am free for 8 years straight.

Deep.

I will share my own experience when I get back

This is not commendable, why do Nigeria focus on physical appearance than the heart, I think the church itself need to go back to the Bible, we focus much more on irrelevant things.


Last week in my church, a young guy was preaching he wore a shirt and a t-shirt, with all the shirts buttons open, no one complain or even notice everyone was rather focusing on his message.

This is commendable, one thing we should know is the whites are brainwashed from the start to think they are superior than the black, while reverse is the case, but to hide this they bring in racism , but this white dude the next time he see any black man he will laylow and hide his face because till he die he will now believes all black will beat him if he Bleep up.


I don't give a damm about those white dudes, you ain't better than me..


But most blacks especially in Europe which has over 70% of black illiterate who just jump on water and come, they can kick the ass of a white man, and even tell them to call him or her idiot just to get €1.

When will the sick senate move a motion on rubber and water bullet during protest??

Africa this is 2018, this is not Gaza / Israel border.

Youths learn to understand that the so called security operatives are highly unprofessional

I keep saying it 97% of Nigerian are physiopaths that needs help.

The daily stress, uncured pain accumulated turns the brain to work abnormally, this is not government.


To me government is only 8% of Nigerian problem the others are each and every one of us.

Sorry pretty girl. Rip

Instead of taking this guy to rehab

seguno2:
Good question.
The money for our education, electricity, roads, railways are there.

This is so sad. Sometimes when I am in my church every time here, they give reference to the Bible and teach to the extend that you will feel it in your heart that you are in good communication with God, they never preach on tithes and offerings.

They make everything so open that you give according to your heart, no one tell you things will be tight for you if you don't pay. Sometimes I ask myself if what we practice back home is even Christianity.

So sad really sad.

Wondering how many people legitimately earn such amount to pay such...

This is so sad. Sometimes when I am in my church every time here, they give reference to the Bible and teach to the extend that you will feel it in your heart that you are in good communication with God, they never preach on tithes and offerings.

They make everything so open that you give according to your heart, no one tell you things will be tight for you if you don't pay. Sometimes I ask myself if what we practice back home is even Christianity.

So sad really sad.

This guys are animals

Blad has nothing to do with self esteem, tell him to leave his hair feel happy with himself and proceed with life..


I was this sporting waves guys in highschool back then, when I was 25 years my hair got blad, I don't even look at it only change my style to skin...


Till now I am proud of it. I even identify myself as APARI

With the way things are going in Nigeria, there seems to be no hope for now nor the future.

Until we change things and focus our energy on important things we can never move forward.

What is the importance of BBNaija or whatsoever to the life of every individual, BB goes on in many parts of the world, no country that introduce it celebrate the mediocrity as we do.


In Naija we focus only on mediocrity and leave the most important thing.

The other day everyone is celebrating davido because of his girlfriend, to the extend that many people turn it to a challenge for what?

All this is the problem of the youth an average Nigerian only wants to make money to oppress the next person.

The same way they celebrate the Science Student song and it increases the sales of drugs among the youth.

The president wasn't wrong on his comment on the youth, he only misplace the context.

Pin .

Face ID your face can be used or even a close photo.

Finger print as well

If na naija, Men its full jungle in the enitre country o.. Cos too much portholes

Hi Fam!

How is the movie/series guru, i need a recommendation, i have free time for about 1 week to relax! I sub for HULU, NETFLIX, Amazon Prime among others, stream network but i am stuck with what to watch as i dont even remember the last time i watched a movie or series.

I like cartoons comedy, the last i watched was Megamind and Puss in Boot

I am a big fan of action and crime movies the last i watched was 24, 24legacy, prison break!

I dont like nor watch Horror or Drama or science fiction

I like movies full action.

I like comedies as well.


Please help a fam member with a recommendation.!

Cheers!

We Nigerians always think we are intelligent because, we all knows how to lie. Thinking with that we are smart.

I always say it especially many Nigerians are intellectually lazy.

In Nigeria we never ask questions.
We never seek information.
Gragra is too much.
An average youth wants to make money just because he wants to oppress someone else.

They celebrate mediocrity.

I bet you if another get rich quick comes Nigerians will still fall for it..

While my country is still struggling to make pencil in 2018

I always laugh at all this low life people believing all this so called celebrities dying broke acting rich on Instagram....

Honestly, in Nigeria many thinks they are smart and intelligent. So sad that over 70% are not.

As earlier said up there, it is an hereditary over grown skin. Immediately instead of talking about solutions our so called youth are calling the little baby a monster... Damm it what's wrong with youths.

Just like someday I was among a panel to interview a lady for a job interview. The so called Bcs in her field, cannot express herself, no confidence nothing. HR even told her to take a break digress a bit to calm her down still ZERO..

This same girl was in a restaurant after the interview telling her friends, that company them wicked, if u no get let or know person u no fit enter.... I pass every question, the HR even said I am intelligent still they said they will call me back... Painting the company black instead of going home to work on her self.

That was when we see the real beauty.
Not now that make up photo has taken over everything..

I hate it when a lady send me a make up photo and ask how she look.

My response is always I DONT KNOW

Naira land is loosing it's relevance daily.

Why do we encourage all this poo in our community, giving attention to those that doesn't deserve it.

What moral value does this video add to our daily life.

This is why the politicians don't take us serious, imagine a forum run by youth still when we should bring out the importance of our thinking , we focus celebrating this mediocrity.

So sad.. very sad..

This is one of the guys I always wondering what they do in movies...

The guy should look for his real calling, too noisy

This man, you and your girlfriend's head need reset.
How can she feel special by hearing another mans voice, for what? Even if she is a big fan, na those kain girls them go interview on Pulse TV and said they can leave their man for a celebrity.

Why do we celebrate mediocrity?

This is what happens when you believe everything you see on social media and want to act the same way.


Many people are acting rich but dying broke..

If you want to be successful, you must disappear for a while

I was in the same shoes many years ago. I never regretted traveling.

Until region remain liberal in politics, we still have a long way to go.

FriendNG:
G

For GO

SeniorZato:
F

For FOOD!