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InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by onuku: 7:12pm On Jun 17
CORPORATE ACTION: STERLING FINANCIAL HOLDINGS COMPANY PLC - SHARE CONSOLIDATION
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Dear Investor,



Sterling Bank Financial Holdings Plc has announced a Special Resolution to consolidate its issued and fully paid ordinary shares on a 10-for-1 basis. This development will automatically reduce the outstanding shares from 68.5 billion units to 6.85 billion units.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by onuku: 6:50pm On Jan 14
Is anyone trading using the Coronation App linked to Access Bank App?

I used my Access Bank App to make 2 trades. The trades were executed, but the balance in the account is now zero. I have sent an email, but no response yet. The account balance should have so much money left after the 2 executed trades.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Is This December Unusual Or Is Harmattan Gradually Disappearing? by onuku: 1:40pm On Dec 24, 2025
This is as a result of no more trees and greens in our localities. Trees and other plants have been destroyed and replaced with big houses everywhere.
This is just the tip of the iceberg. Brave yourself for more as a result of the climate change.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by onuku: 11:50am On Oct 11, 2025
What is the Stock Market WhatsApp group? Would love to join!

emmanuelewumi:
Na one guy share it in a stock market Whatsapp group.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by onuku: 1:03pm On Sep 28, 2025
unite4real:
Oh yes. You will pay CGT.

If you reinvested everything within the year, you will not be taxed.
If you reinvested and cashed out just N1 Million out of all the proceeds, you will be made to pay CGT on the N1 million.
How do you reinvest? Can one DRIP (Dividend Re-Investment Plan)?
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by onuku: 7:06pm On Sep 08, 2025
I did.

MeezPat:
Who has gotten UPDCREIT dividend pls
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by onuku: 7:35pm On Jul 10, 2025
Is there anyone of us here using the coronation registrar? If so, what are their charges like?
FamilyRe: My Marriage Is Shaking: I Settle All Bills Abroad by onuku: 9:58pm On Jun 27, 2025
Thank you so much for this. She refused to attend the counseling session.

Kobojunkie:
Get professional marriage counseling or tell her a court-ordered one may be it. undecided
Introverts can be taken to court too. undecided
FamilyRe: My Marriage Is Shaking: I Settle All Bills Abroad by onuku: 6:23pm On Jun 27, 2025
What if the wife does not communicate, or pretends to be an introvert?

Roseey0:
The funny thing about this thing is that when we ask your wife, she will have a long list of so many things she does monthly for the family without bothering you. But you won't count it. Everyone is already insinuating she's sending money to her family, some even said ex cry

Guy, sit your wife down and you both can plan your finances. You said, you earn double, so she expects you can handle everything while she saves for rainy days. If you feel you need help and not for you to start throwing money around( that's one of the reason women prefer to keep theres for emergency) discuss it with your wife. You both have to be as transparent as possible about finace so she can trust you and bring out hers .

The koko is to plan together. Let everyone have their own vex money, but contribute to family at each other's capacity.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by onuku: 10:54pm On Jun 25, 2025
Which one is Palm Garden?

yMcy56:
* Dont throw your Sugar away ooo
Resumed on full bid @48.40......
Itchy fingers will con3 back and regret selling early again....

*OANDO full bid @68.75.....
* NEIMETH full bid @4.91....
* NNFM on the move......108 as at now.....moving towards full bid

Palm garden on fullest bid @7.08....
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by onuku: 6:12pm On Jun 01, 2025
I wonder if this is a good investment option.

SonofElElyonRet:
https://nairametrics.com/2025/05/30/fcmb-opens-series-1-2-commercial-paper-subscription-reveals-deadline/

FCMB issues commercial paper, following in the footsteps of Access Bank
FamilyRe: My Wife's Job Is A Threat To Our Marriage. by onuku: 5:08pm On May 22, 2025
Can you just for once give reasonable advice? Some of the advice you give are disjointed. Some folks bringing their issues here need healing, and not all these bashings from you. Be positive and get a good life.

Kobojunkie:
Reading through the OP and several other comments, you would almost think these individuals were talking of some Stewpid child they were raising or accommodating for selfish benefits. A woman worked really hard to build her career then chose to get married afterwards but here is the man she married essentially stating she would need to abandon all of her hard work for the sake of his dick. 🤔
FamilyRe: Spouses Refuses To Contribute To Family Bills by onuku(op): 12:45am On May 22, 2025
It's nice to let her parents be aware of the situation with evidence when they visit in ths summer. I'm sure they might feign ignorance of the whole situation.

omooba969:
You're the one trying to cunning here. Don't act like you're unaware that Imo women don't play with their money. undecided

Don't you ever attempt sharing this matter with your wife's parents bcoz you'll never win.

My 2kobo. smiley
FamilyRe: Spouses Refuses To Contribute To Family Bills by onuku(op): 4:34pm On May 20, 2025
Thank you so much for the kind advise. I will do so.

Onegai:
Onuku

A lot of times, our insecurities and fears are triggered by an external factor.

We can't start saying "I may not trust my spouse" so we get defensive and then protective of ourself. Our spouse sees that and reacts to it.

The Enemy of course is working overtime because he loves misunderstandings, he's broken up so many covenants with that. he will water that seed of misunderstanding and mistrust until it grows I to a tree.

God doesn't want that and once you go to Him, He will help you uproot that seed before it becomes a tree.

Because every marriage dies by a 1000 cuts and finances, lack of communication and mistrust are 3.

Something, maybe a combo of what she saw and something you did, has triggered her defenses. She's not going to tell you, but she's forgotten she's part of a triple team. You need to reassure her and calm the muddy waters.

I edited this to add:

I didn't read any of your other replies on the thread when I typed my earlier response.

It's scary I'm right. You're about to retire and she's feeling like you're about to take care of yourself whilst she shoulders the bills. She's finally seeing how hard it is to pay bills and the Enemy has planted a seed in her head that you will soon buy land in Nigeria in your name only and begin to build whilst she is doing jackie and dodoyo.

It's a Trust issue.

If you call her family or yours, you will love divorce court by 2027.

Fix this with God and love. Come back, drinking your Caprisun and eating your biscuit and update us.
FamilyRe: Spouses Refuses To Contribute To Family Bills by onuku(op):
I rest my case. Feeding is less than $1K, compared to someone that spends thousands a month on mortgage, car notes, insurances, property tax, kids sporting activities, utility taxes.
The folks that live abroad will understand.
FamilyRe: Spouses Refuses To Contribute To Family Bills by onuku(op): 6:00am On May 20, 2025
I believe every marriage is a partnership, and that’s how it should be.

Kobojunkie:
Is your marriage of the traditional model, or is it instead a partnership where you are both expected to share the bills in addition to taking care of the children and managing everything at home? undecided
FamilyRe: Spouses Refuses To Contribute To Family Bills by onuku(op):
We both are from Imo state.

In this day and age; single income can't sustain an average household anymore.

All I am saying is that isn't she supposed to chip in the family expenses aside grocery. Here, 3 of the kids have their breakfast and lunch in their respective schools.

Lastly, I am compelled to inform her parents of what's going on!

Kobojunkie:
1. If you are both Nigerians, it has a lot to do with it since most Nigerian women submit to their husbands with the expectation that he occupies the role of sole provider in the family. undecided

2. Well, either your wife is not happy with the arrangement—you shoving a spreadsheet of the monthly expenses at her as well — or she is telling the truth when she says she does not have any money. grin
FamilyRe: Spouses Refuses To Contribute To Family Bills by onuku(op): 11:01pm On May 19, 2025
The 15 years she didn't work was because of our young family. The oldest is 15 while the youngest is 7. Traditional or partnership has nothing to do with this.
When she graduated from school; the arrangement was for her to work for 6 months and keep everything for herself. After the 6 month period, she will start chipping in. I even gave her a spreadsheet of our monthly expenses.

Please just contribute your humbly advise.

Kobojunkie:
Huh? She is a pharmacist whose job requires her to talk all day to customers, but to you, she is a 'quiet' type and doesn't talk to you. huh huh

OK, you live abroad, but is your marriage arrangement with your wife a traditional one or a partnership where you both are supposed to share every role to an extent, or maybe equally? huh huh huh

2. Counselor/therapist for what purpose? huh
FamilyRe: Spouses Refuses To Contribute To Family Bills by onuku(op): 10:30pm On May 19, 2025
I answered your questions to the best of my ability. I'm in my late 40s, and need to start planning for my retirement. By the way, she's a pharmacist, and we are based in abroad. Carrying all the bills alone is a disaster waiting to happen.
She's a 'quiet' type and doesn't talk to me because of this. She refused for us to see a counselor / therapist.

Kobojunkieee:
I noticed you did not answer the questions that I asked. undecided

2. So, why do you not believe your wife then? grin
FamilyRe: Spouses Refuses To Contribute To Family Bills by onuku(op): 7:47pm On May 19, 2025
The marriage is over 15 years. Husband was taking care of everything throughout the period during the marriage. She started working last year's January, and started doing feeding for a family of 5 last July. 3 months ago, we agreed that she will also contribute some money towards utilities. She contributed towards utilities for 2 months and stopped. Reason being that she doesn't have money

Kobojunkie:
Is your marriage of the traditional model, or is it instead a partnership where you are both expected to share the bills in addition to taking care of the children and managing everything at home? undecided
FamilyRe: Spouses Refuses To Contribute To Family Bills by onuku(op): 7:37pm On May 19, 2025
Refusing that she does not have the money, but she works full time, and sometimes overtime.

She on her own decided that's what she can bring and did it for 2 months.

WhiteIverson:
Clarify what “refuses” means: Is your spouse outright refusing, ignoring the issue, or is there a change in priorities?
Do you have a prior agreement?
Is there a trust or relationship issue at play?
FamilySpouses Refuses To Contribute To Family Bills by onuku(op): 6:18pm On May 19, 2025
Spouse works full-time, and sometimes overtime, and suddenly refuses to contribute to monthly bills.

Please advise how to handle this situation.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by onuku: 6:52pm On Mar 18, 2025
SonofElElyonRet:
COMING SOON: ACCESS BANK PLC SERIES 3 & 4 COMMERCIAL PAPER OFFER

huh
How genuine is it?
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by onuku: 9:12pm On Oct 28, 2024
My people, please what is going on with TRANSCORP? Last year I checked, it was N1.98. What is the current price? I bought 250K units then at N1.98.

Thank you.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by onuku: 10:26pm On Jul 31, 2024
Anyone got dividend from The Initiates PLC (TIP) yet?
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by onuku: 11:34am On Jan 19, 2024
How are you able to get TIP? My broker (Fidelity Securities) has been trying unsuccessfully to get some for me the past 7 trading days.

Hold chams, let me hold TIP.
This my TIP will do #5 very soon.Some who sold TIP today will regret by next week[/quote]
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by onuku: 1:10am On Jan 17, 2024
Please check your email

yMcy56:
NB and GUINNESS seems to have join this race..... grin

The kind funds entering NASCON ehhnn shocked
N2.45bn as at now....
PropertiesRe: Construction Of A 3bedroom Bungalow With Bq In Oron Akwa Ibom by onuku: 6:11pm On Apr 27, 2023
Please what are the materials needed for concrete stamp floor that has a dimension of 1,150 square meters?

AsomArchitectNG:
1500/square meter
PropertiesRe: Construction Of A 3bedroom Bungalow With Bq In Oron Akwa Ibom by onuku: 11:52pm On Apr 25, 2023
I so much love the concrete stamp flooring that you did. What's the price range?

AsomArchitectNG:
More photos :
PropertiesRe: Construction Of A 4bedroom Bungalow In Uromi Edo State by onuku: 12:59am On Feb 01, 2023
AsomArchitectNG:
Budget =15m
Bro, I don't know how you do it. Mine is 4 bedrrom, and up to the roofing skeletal has cost me over 10M.

PropertiesRe: Construction Of A 3bedroom Bungalow With Bq In Oron Akwa Ibom by onuku: 12:21am On Jan 15, 2023
What is the dimension for the generator house? How much would it take to do the generator house?
PropertiesRe: Construction Of A 3bedroom Bungalow With Bq In Oron Akwa Ibom by onuku: 1:41am On Dec 13, 2022
What about the black tiles you used inside of the house?

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