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This lady first attacked her mother-in-law, now she’s attacking her husband. Don’t know the genesis of their dispute but the family has been fighting dirty in public for a while now. This is the first time LIB will get involved. Meanwhile, all these are allegations until you hear from the other parties involved. Read the statement sent to us below…
 In what she describes as “A Hell Called Marriage In Onwuliri’s Home”, the embattled daughter in-law to former Minister of State for Education and later Foreign Affairs, Lady Viola Onwuliri has granted a detailed interview based on her experiences from marriage and domestic violence. Christina Onwuliri (Nee Amaefula) who is married to the former Minister’s son, Chukwuemeka Osmond Onwuliri explains why her documents were seized, and to what really led to the detachment of her two daughters.

Excerpt:
 
Most people are wondering why such issue became a public affair. Why?
 
Some people kept asking why this matter became a public affair. What would I have done when I tried all I could to hide this issue from my dad and close family members? There was nobody around my husband’s place that I didn’t talk to. Some were unable to speak. Some were scared to get into the matter because of his mother.  Some were looking out for an opportunity to cause more harm to our marriage. The one that pains me the most was when I took it to our marriage sponsor. I expected a better resolve towards it. At least when disagreement occurs in marriage, one would either try resolving it, or to even talk to a family member that understands. But here, I protected it from my family, to an extent that they will call to know what was happening, yet I will pretend to the very high level that nothing happened just to keep my home. When it ran out of hands with abuse after abuse, I went to see our marriage sponsor. He claimed to understand the whole situation, but later, I was disappointed to see him trying to seduce me. He promised to offer anything that will bring happiness to my life only if I will go to bed with him. What happiness? When my home is on fire? When I can’t even enjoy the joy of marriage? I felt highly disappointed and depressed. It was as if nobody was around for me. I could have called my family, but their option may not have been the best then, because the treatment I was getting is a total insult to them, especially to my dad.
When your family later knew of what you were passing through, what did they suggest or do?
 
When my dad later knew of what happened, he silently called my husband, asking him to secretly dissolve the marriage in Canada since it wasn’t working. And I knew why he told him that. He never wanted our problem to be at the public. He made that suggestion to save the image of my husband’s family, especially the mum who was serving as a Minister then. But, my husband didn’t oblige to it till when we returned to Nigeria.
What led to your return to Nigeria?
 
It was in one of the interferences of my mother in-law. She said that my husband is not obliged to keep me in Canada where we based or elsewhere in the world. And after this encounter with her, my husband told me we will be visiting Nigeria in February. I had no misgivings about it.
When we arrived to the family house in Owerri, I noticed the presence of a Catholic priest, Rev. Fr. Jude Onuoha, a serving Honourable member at the Imo State House of Assembly, Hon. Mike Iheanetu and few others that I don’t know their names. Later, I noticed that my husband picked up a bag and was leaving without prior information to me. Cautiously, I approached him to know where he was going, but to my greatest surprise, he violently pushed me into a room and locked me up.
At that point, I saw those men taking my children away without my consent. Then, I started screaming and was helpless but had no option than to start breaking the window panes in the room to get myself out. When they saw I was breaking the glasses, one of the drivers opened the door and I came out shouting for help, and then my children were nowhere to be found.
What exactly will you say made them to seize your papers?
 
You know I have dual citizenships. Through marriage, he came to Canada on Immigrant Status basis. They don’t want an immediate termination to all these benefits, and that’s why they are working so hard to paralyze from taking steps at least till their consultations. I have been used here. I have been humiliated. I have been traumatized. But I kept asking, is he not the same man that promised to love and cherish me as a wife? What went wrong? What did I do to him? Even if every other person fails to understand the challenges we faced as a family, why will his case be different? I have sacrificed everything to keep this marriage, yet, he kept frustrating my efforts with his actions. Is it when I die from domestic violence that I will be appreciated as a wife?
From the pictures released by your husband, one would be wondering how you went about to cause that number of damages. How true were those pictures?
 
When I saw them, I got surprised at it all. I wondered how it all happened. But no matter the circumstances, I like being truthful to myself first. One is that I told you I damaged the window pane to get myself out of the house when I got locked up. It’s self-defense. What surprised me most after all that happened were numbers of photos released. I saw areas I didn’t even visit. I saw damages beyond what I placed my hands on. I never did all that. Heaven knows, I didn’t. It was their own buildup to make their claims look real and strong. Besides, how could they have allowed me to cause that number of damage when they were all around? They are out to destroy me and the image of my family. I never did all that.
He even accused you of being mad?
 
You read it! And we are here now, at least you asked for this very interview probably to hear from me and to observe if I’m mad as he claims. You are now in a better position to read his lines of accusation one after the other, and then refute them yourself based on the true fact you’ve seen. I am not mad. I never suffered from madness. And I will not suffer from one. Remember, this is a man who came and asked for my hand in marriage. Traditionally you know what it is to enquire about somebody you want to marry, and which after being satisfied with it all, you boldly go on to ask for the person’s hand in marriage. He did all that, and we also did ours. We are not here to accuse anybody of anything in the past we saw before going into our marriage agreement. But why are they accusing me and my family wrongly? What is our offence? They took away my little daughters. They took away my traveling documents, passports and academic certificates. What for?
He claims that his late father gave your dad his job as a lecturer. How true is it?
 
No single truth around it at all. They did nothing. Even when his mum took my credentials to get me a job, what happened? She kept misplacing them. Whether she was saying the truth or not, I can’t tell. But I know she never took anything about me serious because she hated me. I’ve been called to represent my husband at most family meetings, but she will walk me out saying I’m not a member of her family. Or is it the one that concerns my family? The only time she visited my father’s house was during the traditional wedding where she spent just four hours and left. Since then, she has not visited again. We even had issue of who visits our home from my father’s family house. They enlisted names of people they would want to come to the house or not to come. When I questioned that, they said they never wanted my people to finish their money. What money? These were people coming to visit their sister and daughter who left home for marriage.
In Port Harcourt as well, whenever his mum will be visiting us, she will come with her own food in a flask. At a point, he told the son that whenever she will be coming to Port Harcourt and finds out he is not at home that she will not stopover. What did I not pass through? I passed through hell in their hands.
Please, don’t forget, my dad got employed as a lecturer in 2006, and then we’ve not met any member of their family before. Remember, we met around 2011. And till this time, I’m yet to find out how they gave my dad his job.
When did the attitude of your mother in-law changed towards you?
 
She never had it comfortable being with me as the son’s wife. I noticed it, even as I stood not to accept the marriage, but then, my husband was so desperate to get me into the family. Even when I confronted him over the mum’s discomfort towards me, he would cover it up with words like I’m getting married to him not his mum. And then, I would wonder what I was coming into the family to do when I can’t see his mother as my own my mother. But something solidified my position of acceptance. His late father did. The late Prof stood against all wrongs in the family that we were all afraid to dare his principles. Well respected man with great values, he gave me all confidence to be a member of his family. But when I went through abuse, depression and rejection, he was nowhere around to stand by me. He was nowhere to consolidate on his words to me and to my family. I think his death caused the biggest damage.
What further happened after the death of Professor Celestine Onwuliri?
 
My mother in-law took over everything by becoming a mini-god. She decides who stays and goes. I couldn’t even suggest what my husband could listen to. Even all advises ended up in the mother’s ear. It was as if I had no confider again. At slight issues, he would raise his hands and will beat me like a common criminal. Between 2011 and 2014, while I was living in Port Harcourt with my husband, he physically and mentally abused me. For example, when arguments concerning on way forward in the marriage, he gets infuriated and physically beats me and locks me up in the toilet for as long as he wishes. I will cry and cry, but tears will dry without anyone consoling me.
Do you think your husband cheated on you?
 
It depends on the type of cheating. If you mean the kind of cheating that involved him with another woman, I wouldn’t know. And I can’t accuse him wrongly. But if it’s based on the fact that he masturbated while in my presence, and even as he moves with some male friends as if they were dating, I think I will agree to it.
Masturbated in your presence?
 
Of course, he did. It irritated me so much that I didn’t know what to do. I felt a time why he would engage into such. I mean, I’m his wife and he had me around. What stopped him from taking me to bed to catch some relieve of whatsoever? He would just be self servicing, while I will be there crying. Most times he would travel after my mum would have sent sum money for my up-keep and that of the family, but he will disappear with it only to return looking so weak. The truth is that he is a gay. He lied to his mum just to stay overseas, because he knew that’s where he can only stay to indulge in such habits. While in Canada, he was bringing men to our home, even as he would sleep with them on our matrimonial bed.
Why was your mum sending money for the family’s up-keep?
 
You know my husband lost his job at Schlumberger, and his papers were stamped unemployable. Since then, we have tried getting another job for him but no way. Even his mum who was a Minister could not get him a job. At least to tell you how serious it was.
Why did he slap the French woman?
 
He said he can’t work under a woman. And at slight times, he would brag of his mum being a Minister. He even said that if the French woman tries misbehaving that the mum will use her contacts against her. When he lost his job, I wondered why his mum couldn’t save the situation again.

Can someone please help me with their office address in uyo

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Psqaure’s House Locked Up Ova Failure 2 Perform At A Show After Getting Paid(pic

There was a messy drama at the Omole Phase 1, Lagos, house of the music duo this morning after they failed to show up at an event where they’re billed to perform despite the fact that they were already paid by the client. The house was allegedly stormed this morning and was placed under lock and key.

Inside sources revealed that the action was taken by the aggrieved client. Psqaure’s failure to honor the agreement is said to be related to the current misunderstanding between them. Before this morning’s drama, it’s alleged that they’ve been charged to court 3 times but they didn’t honor it. Peter was said to have driven off angrily this morning as security operatives kept dispersing the crowd that gathered to watch the drama…..…..

Can someone. help me with her office address in uyo, I would love to contact them concerning a boy in the local government where I serve

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The only way you can lead a “purpose-driving life” in the short time you have to spend in this world is if you don’t allow money, position, power to confuse you or make you feel more important than others.

* The simple man riding a bicycle is the Prime Minister of Netherlands, Mark Rutte on his way to his office. This is how he serves his people.

* The powerful man leading the long convo is the President on an African country, President Uhuru Kenyatta. He is “lord” over his people.

Funny enough, Netherlands makes cars but Kenya can not produce bicycle.

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.
The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.

What do you think were the four words?

The husband just said "I Love You Darling"

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he have taken time to keep the bottle away, this will not have happened. No
point in attaching blame. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. We miss out some warmth in human relationship in giving each other support. After all, shouldn't forgiving someone we love be the easiest thing in the world to do? Treasure what you have. Don't multiply pain, anguish and suffering by holding on to forgiveness.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.
Take off all your envies, jealousies, unwillingness to forgive, selfishness, and fears and you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

BREAKING NEWS……………………….AAU SCHOOL FEES INCREASED
Ambrose Ali University (AAU), Ekpoma. Edo state. The management of the
institution has just released these amount for 2015/2016 academic session approved school fees
are as follows:
1. Arts, Social Sciences and Environmental Studies(Fine and Applied Arts) – N96,250.00
2. Economics, Public Administration, Business Administration and Banking & Finance –N110,000.00
3. Natural Sciences, Agriculture, Physiology and Education –N112,500.00
4. Engineering, Naturals Sciences (Microbiology and Computer Science), Architecture and Building N122,5000.00
5. Medicine – N160,000.00
6. Medical Laboratory Sciences, Nursing, Accounting and Law – N127,000.00
6. Institute of Education – N110,000.

Pictured Below is Indian man who came down from a bus heading to Mile 2 and asked an Okada man directions to somewhere in Satellite town.

According to report,the Okadaman offered to take him to his destination in his bike and on getting to the gate just before Navy town, the Indian man asked the okada man to stop that he’d arrived at his destination. He then paid the okada man more than he asked for for the trip and as he made to leave, the Okadaman discovered his manhood was missing.

He ran after the Indian man and started shouting which attracted the attention of others and his fellow okada riders and they started beating him without anyone confirming.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wIqCauXoqJ4

1wolex85:
me vex, is this the first match Arsenal is losing? You just come online and be spewing stats you know absolutely nothing about just to feel like you know something. Go look for your play mates. Gerrarahere jor!

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Mr Polycarp Okumu, a Mombasa based tycoon has taken his wife to court after she hired hit-men to murder him so that she can inherit his wealth. Ms Rose Adhiambo and her house help, Ms Doris Akinyi, allegedly hired hitmen to kill Mr Okumu at Beach Road estate in Mombas. She was detained by police for 10 days.

Police Constable Dominic Kiptum told a Mombasa court that the two suspects and their accomplices conspired to kill Mr Ouma on diverse dates between October 20 and 26.
The wealthy businessman also known by the alias Kamili, claims that he caught his wife red handed withdrawing Ksh 1.2 million at Kenyan Commercial Bank, Naivas Branch in Nyali, which was to be used to pay the assassins. Rose was arrested at the bank while trying to contact the killers so that they can pick the money and execute the evil mission. It was also alleged she had made a previous attempt to kill her husband by poisoning but he miraculously survived.

Michellla:
this dude is obviously a teen.
next time use a condom silly kids

we are authorising you to go and teach him how to use CD, take him to the lab and show him how to use it. Since u are in ur late 20s

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Black Diamond Entertainment boss Wande Coal was a guest recently on MTVBase Real talk, when he was asked how he kept his 6-year old son a secret from his fans. According to Wande, he never knew he had a son till the young boy was 2.
Wande told the show’s host:

 ‘Well, I didn’t know I had a kid till he was 2 years old. When they brought him to me, he already looked like me. So when I found out, I knew I had to do something about it and then I took him to my mum and she’s been taking care of him’.

Wande Coal celebrated his son’s 7th birthday on Saturday, June 20, 2015.

Demmocrats:
Never fight someone that fed you. Amaechi to Wike

APC is trying to teach Wike how politics is done.


The biggest problem with Wike is that he talks too much, the more he talks the more he exposes his strategy to his enemies.


The press release after his election was nullified exposed his strategies which resulted to today's blow by nullifying the house of Assembly elections under PDP


A wise man would have kept quiet and backtracked and figured out where he made his mistakes.

na so Pdp take start na makke nigeria belike dis, I just pray Apc. Lead to somewhere good,cuz na Pdp leg dem dey carry so, PMB want Rivers by force and he is doing it stylishly

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stlarry001:
Not only schools. you can also be posted to ministries and other firms around the state but it's mostly teaching but the best place to be would be in Uyo, Eket or ikot ekpene but it may cost you to effect the posting and the house rent varies self com 70-120 depending on the area and for single rooms with public bathrooms maybe 3000 per month.

keep me posted when you come around.
goodluck.

thanks boss

MTN!!... Has done it again... You can now check your weight on your phone;; just dail *158# then stand on your phone,,if you want your real weight, just jump on it....dont thank me, thank God

D latest now, tattoo tins na dem 1 take end dis year, everybody dey hustle nw

9ja celebrities nor get joy again ooo

Reekado captioned: “She went as far as getting a tattoo of my name. God bless this #REEKADDICT. I realllllly appreciate this.”

Seems like one of the comments smashed a wrong nerve in the “Sugar Baby” crooner’s body and he decided to reply that particular fan, with a ‘vulgar’ insult.

See The Screenshot Below:

MsAnne:
U all are welcome 2ma state,
Akwaibom ayaya...

ann hope you guys will give us the best treatment

stlarry001:
And you are free to ask me any question pertaining to PPA posting and accommodation issues

bros hw is d posting done dere, is it only school that we are posted to schools only and hw is d what's d cost if some 1 want to rent a house dere?

yomzzy:
Bendel estate, off airport rd. What abt u?

na safi I dey. Ooo

yomzzy:
I dey bro. What's the level?

nothing much I just pin, where u dey for wafi

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Uniqueness01:
Fine as always.

good to know, dear can u add me up on what's app pls.

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Uniqueness01:
Good morning lovelies!

I am Eseohe.
I Rep Akwa-Ibom
Stream 1.


Do have a great Day.

. Good am most beautiful, hw was ur nite

You guys are welcome