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Gabon Viper

Talk is cheap.
He shld take up a coaching job wt a npfl team and move 2 coach super eagles. We need 2 focus on our inborn coaches

Righteousness89:
How Painful for their Parents..
Handsome little kids..
May My DADDY comfort you all.

The Good news is that these handsome little boys are right now in HEAVEN at the Feet of JESUS Christ, Jumping and playing and I know For sure they will not wish to return to earth.

Making Heaven is what is Pirioty!
It is Better to Depart with JESUS early than to live 50,80 or even 100yrs and Depart without JESUS..

weldon sir, hw do u relate ur signature wt what was written in matt 5:44
plus, dnt alwaz write like u knw evritin. Wat makes u say dey wnt wish 2 return 2 earth again? U tink we al made dat decesn ourselves 2 b on earth or u assume ther is life after death here on earth

Ucloaded01:
I would have died the day I tried this shit when I was little if not for Ebuka that game to my rescue with a knife. The woman might be innocent, children do stupid things I swear. I would have died the day I tried this shit when I was little if not for Ebuka that game to my rescue with a knife. The woman might be innocent, children do stupid things I swear.

you are ryt though, children can b funny. How old were u then?

the news of dis particular one was so factual and dats y i said dia could b a cover up attempt. Plus, d boy is a teenager frm his looks, he could b rebellious and myt av done dat cos he was chastized. My opinion

This is a very saddening fate. So sad This is a very saddening fate. So sad

Jamjoon:
The boy was killed, and someone is trying to cover it up!

Rehearsal ko, expriment ni

RUBBISH!!!

Jamjoon:
The boy was killed, and someone is trying to cover it up!

Rehearsal ko, expriment ni

RUBBISH!!!

Jamjoon:
The boy was killed, and someone is trying to cover it up!

Rehearsal ko, expriment ni

RUBBISH!!!

you are wise. There is a cover up attempt. Who did d boy told dat he was trying 2 xperiment.

As much as I hate to admit this : "BokoHaram" already has what they wanted, government may just need to dialogue with them"


Isbah police is typically fronting their course coupled with these anti-freedom of speech laws in Kano , kaduna, Katrina et al.

updatechange:
Maybe you need to travel to a rural or remote area where such things don't exist

i stopped involuntarily wen i lost my android phone and had no acess 2 d internet 4 some months. Start by selling al ur gadgets dat has acces 2 d internet

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nigeriancritic1:
As postulate by Charles Darwin, survival of the fittest. Natural selection takes effects. You contemplating suicide because you are weak. Most billionaire went through rough upbringing before they became what they are. Likewise myself. two years ago I had nothing. Today I have two houses in abuja, a car and other properties.
You don't need people to approx you. Restructure your debts, read biographies and see.
Don't be the weak, nature has a way of weeding out the weak. Don't help nature to get rid of you.
Send me the details of your issues for advise.08035209543

I so much appreciate you sir. Such a listening heart you got and sincerely, you lifted me.

I have come to believe that in most cases, what someone going through depression really needs is a listening hear especially from someone they have nothing to lose talking to.

Thanks to everyone that spared their time to advice and counsel me, to those that were here to also urge me on negatively, thanks to you too.

OloriOfMontreal:
How are you doing? Hope you are feeling much better today? Have you been able to go by some of the advises given on this thread?

Thanks so much for your words. For people like you who genuinely care, God will forever be with you and bless you abundantly.

HarunaWest:
Yeah I can't be in your shoes..I don't like up debt and will run to die..I pay my debts..Pay your debts you coward. You owe somebod money and you don't intend to pay, the person will curse you to your grave. Pay your debts Debtor...Nairaland is not a charity organisation..Go and hustle and pay your debts. Using depression and suicide to frighten us doesn't work any longer.Covid affected by everyone of is but we are all trying to bounce back..If you decide to end it today, that's your business, but first pay your debts.

I sincerely wish you understand my situation. But then, you can't cos you already imagined I came here to fraud.

HarunaWest:
your a bloody scammer...all of a sudden you no wan die again, now Na hustle you dey hustle...we already have a lot of things we are all dealing with here,if you owe money,Pay back. Cos if you don't, then u died a coward

I have no words for you sir. You can call me anything you like. You are not in my shoes

fulaniHERDSman:
Even the people you owe are battling the effects of the lockdown. They don't live on the moon ofcourse. I know some creditors can be mean ... but such creditors make me meaner too.
Worry more about managing yourself through the lockdown till we all are liberated from Covid and all hussles gets into full throttle again. Even then, courageously meet your creditors with a view to reschedule and amortise your repayment. Very key you don't fear any creditor. They also are most likely owing some other people.
But for now dwell more on how to be happy. Go stay somewhere else with loved ones. Learn to share details of your challenges with matured ones among them. Rather than bottling up and magnifying your little challenges into stuffs of gigantuan proportion.
Goodluck man.

Thanks for your words sir.

I just wish I can sort out this present one. It is the most pressing. I have met with some of my creditors and arranged with some of them for more time and patience

OloriOfMontreal:
OP, I'm going to bed now.

I'll check in on this thread in the morning. Keep the hope alive.

If you love music, I hope you find comfort in them.

Try to get some rest too.

And do share the details regarding your debts, like someone mentioned there are several NLders that will be willing to help once they're able to confirm your case.

Take care

Thanks for your words and your time.

The debt are very many and numerous but this last one is causing me a lot of disgrace and pain. It is amounting to about 112,000

I need help every well meaning Nairalander

I don't want to face this new day.. lot of shame and ridicule await me.

fulaniHERDSman:
We are all stuck in the lockdown too. Many has even lost there jobs, as in, has been sacked already. But they must get by. This same people might be owing too or even have bills piliing up. But they must find a way. Don't be proud. Proud people tend to over blow your kind of situation. They tend to feel easily humiliated and bother so much about saving face.
Truth is, I won't say jack about myself here but if I transfer a little of my own challenge to you ... maybe you will run naked sef.
I have been through a lot in my life and it all helped me to develop thick skin about vagaries of life.
Tary a while, your problems will sought out themselves overtime, as long as you keep doing the necessary little things.
One day you'd look back and laugh over how silly and selfish you were this day.
Yes, selfish because if you consider others in your life you won't wish to hurt them by thinking of suicide.

Thanks for your words.

I am not proud and I have been battling this since December 2019. It is just overwhelming right now and everything here around me seems void. I can't help it

Weblord2000:
I am not the pity type, if you die what will be your excuse for hell cos ur hell sure

It won't matter to me sincerely.

Heaven or Hell.

fulaniHERDSman:
To hell with the creditors. Did you use your life as collateral?
Better stop being silly. Ben Bruce owes billions ... Yet he is all over the place taking fun pictures with guns and stuff. Ifeanyi ubah and many more are owing billions ... yet they get bye and are even busy sharing Palliatives.
The problem is not in your problems but in how you wish to tackle them. How is your lifestyle? Do you live to pls people? Or yourself first. Pls yourself first and you will realise how precious your life is.
Get to any good Catholic priest tomorrow and have a chat about your challenge with him. Unburden your heart and you'd see how light will flow into you. You must'nt be a Catholic. Priests because they are mostly expert councillors. You might even get a respite as per your debt.
How much are you owing sef? Say it here. If we find your case genuine, Nairalanders might even help you offset part or whole of it.

Thanks for your words. It's more about the shame I will face. From one debt to another.

I am owing virtually every finance houses in Nigeria. Customers goods that I ought to deliver yesterday. The money is gone.

If I could just sort out this last mess. I can face the rest of my debts and work even harder. This lockdown has not helped me at all. No sales from my business

Weblord2000:
Oga people wey don die ask them how far. Life na one oh, you no even sure if you go smell heaven

At this time, heaven or hell.. none matter

OloriOfMontreal:
You CAN. Never say you cant.

There are people who have probably being through tougher situation, and they rode it out. That's not to commonize what you are going through.

There are several seasons in life. How do we get into the brighter seasons if we end our lives in the gloomy ones? Persistence brings resistance.

Keep the Faith Alive.

Daniel 10 vs 10 - 14.

I pray God's peace over you!

Thanks a lot

OloriOfMontreal:
Please take it easy. Panic will not pay off the debts.

You need to calm down so you can strategize on how to best tackle this.

I'm sure you have a family and they'll never chase you away. You may feel you cant face them, but they will always be your family and you know what they say about blood.

Take a deep breathe, go to bed, and let the new day bring new hope, new ideas.

I haven't been able to sleep , not been able to eat (there is food on my table as I type) I am simply overwhelmed.

OloriOfMontreal:
I keep fighting voices in my mind that say I'm not enough
Every single lie that tells me I will never measure up
Am I more than just the sum of every high and every low?
Remind me once again just who I am, because I need to know, ooh oh
You say I am loved when I can't feel a thing
You say I am strong when I think I am weak
And You say I am held when I am falling short
And when I don't belong, oh, You say I am Yours
And I believe (I), oh, I believe (I)
What You say of me (I)
I believe
The only thing that matters now is everything You think of me
In You I find my worth, in You I find my identity, ooh oh
You say I am loved when I can't feel a thing
You say I am strong when I think I am weak
And You say I am held when I am falling short
When I don't belong, oh, You say I am Yours
And I believe (I), oh, I believe (I)
What You say of me (I)
Oh, I believe
Taking all I have and now I'm layin' it at Your feet
You'll have every failure God, You'll have every victory, ooh oh
You say I am loved when I can't feel a thing
You say I am strong when I think I am weak
You say I am held when I am falling short
When I don't belong, oh, You say I am Yours
And I believe (I), oh, I believe (I)
What You say of me (I)
I believe no
Oh, I believe (I), yes, I believe (I)
What You say of me (I)
I believe (oh)

Thanks for your efforts ma.

I am in deep shit and I can't help this

CXLVII:
Good. The ball is in your court then.

Thanks

OloriOfMontreal:
With every day comes new life, and new hope.

Do not brood ver your past mistakes or failure. Look forward to better days ahead.

If this is something you are open to talk about, open up to people around you.

Keep praying, keep believing. Do not listen to the lies of the enemy.

You've got this!

I am shaking all over even as I type.

I am in huge debts , I have failed everyone again. Can't face them again

CXLVII:
Who is your next of Kin?

My brother

I have prayed. I have fasted.

I have seen help and I failed everyone again

I have disappointed everyone close to me. I have nothing to live for again

I feel like I don't have much time again .

HELP

I keep feeling like I should end it all tonight