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hopelessness

no matter what you go through in life
try to have hope
because once there's no hope, it is suicidal depression

one day, if any of those men become famous and rich,
she will accuse him of rape, or sexual assault

I lived with my elder brother
The day he proposed to his wife
I gave myself 1 month to move out if his house
Not that she was coming to live with him, just proposal

If your friend respects you, he won't even think of sleeping in the same house with your fiancee. Fiancee oo, not girlfriend.

That guy no rate you at all

He will quarrel with you that your fiancee hasn't cooked for him to eat, or washed his plate, or swept the house

I pity you bro
That guy no be your friend

1) Your friend doesn't respect you
2) you don't have to live with your fiancee (especially when you are going to see her parents in one month)

3) Tell your friend he can't stay with you and your fiancee in the same house

4) tell your fiancee to go to her house, since it's close, NOT BECAUSE OF YOUR FRIEND. You will have the rest of your lives to live together

Anybody that makes a fuss about this, you know that person is not your friend

its exhausting going through your posts
there are literally hundreds of posts of you threatening violence against fulani, FG, Niger Delta, US, UK,

this is you, again

again, this is you, when you were praising simon ekpa

this is you

my brother
what is your proof that this is simon ekpas boys??

please sir,
go through your old posts
you supported simon ekpa in the beginning
you supported unknown gunmen
you supported killings in the south east
infact, you supported violence against other tribes in the niger delta
you are a terrorist!!!!!

you blamed buhari, fulani for the violence in the south east,
how come you are blaming tinubu now?

JoeEeL:
I am NOT an Igbo person but .....

1.
2. The man tends to visit supposedly indigenous Igbos of so-called south-south states who lack some clarity about their roots.
3.
4. The unity of Igbos is becoming a worry to larger non-Igbo ethnic groups within the south-south states.
5.


9. Nigeria is against Igbo unity.

11.
12. Cross-River seems a better ally to the Igbos in quest of Biafra than even other regions with more Igbo indigenousness like Rivers and Delta.
13.
14.
15. The coming of Biafra would open the eyes of many other smaller groups and ethnicities in Nigeria... including some of my hopelessly foolish Yorubas thinking a continuous Nigeria serves no detriment to us.
.

you are igbo!
you support IPOB
be proud of where you are from

look at your no2.
its the exact message IPOB spreads about ikwerre's, etche, opobo etc... "...... that they don't know their roots"
who are you and how old are you to tell millions of people about their roots??


no4. the unity of igbos is not a worry to anybody. igbos and all other tribes live in peace, all over the world
rather, IPOBs version of Biafra is a worry to other tribes in the south.

no9. nobody is against any tribe.

12. cross river is not any ally to IPOB. neither is akwaibom.

15. alas, you call yoruba "foolish". Mr Man, you are IPOB!!!!

babadots:
Hi there,

I wonder what city you are based in. I would like to get some of the Surinam Cherries that you referred to in your post last year. Are they still available?

Hello,
I'm in Port Harcourt
The trees are close to my office
Where are you based?

i believe he will pay their salaries from his pocket, and not the National Assembly coffers
if its so, its a welcome development (having a representative in every ward)

a post about femi gbajabiamila,
and somehow nyesom wike's name is mentioned

the moment he said "God told him...." please my dear, run.....
run for your life!
its sex he wants, not marriage, not even a relationship,

...... and you already know it

NairaMaster1:
They are telling you from experience. You analogies are not related to the advice. I have travelled a lot and I feel fo my classmates overseas. It's not easy over there. BUT YOU ARE FREE TO GO

these are my experiences, not analogies
and i didn't say i am not free to go
enjoy your day

Felixv:
The reason why this forum has been around for a long time is because this is where we come to share our life experiences -I certainly know that because I have been a member for a long time.

We should tolerate disparate views -this shows that we have matured as a people. There are cons and pros to travelling abroad and considering the situation Nigeria is now I guess there are more pros -but is it guaranteed. What is the probability of success and how do we quantify success.

No one can give you that answer -people can only share their own opinions and the rest is up to the individual.

Nigeria
So Tinubu went to the G20 summit and came back stating that he spoke to the Germans about bringing back VW to Nigeria -I read this and felt bad -and this is where I sympathize with people like you -our leaders have taken us for a ride and it seems they would not stop.

Now why would VW come to a country that cannot produce enough electricity for it's citizens when VW has so many other options. This alone should encourage me to advice people to leave Nigeria -but I have seen our people suffer miserably in some of the strangest countries and at the same time I have seen many Nigerians have a great life here also.

so make up your mind and come back here with your own life experiences.

God bless you

.

It's been 26 days or thereabout since these youth corp members were kidnapped

As at this evening, the kidnappers are asking for N200 million


you are not in Nigeria,
and you are encouraging Nigerians to remain in Nigeria (directly or sarcastically, like the individual above) by propagating the lie that nigeria is better than US/Europe

being:
Let people not make decisions they will regret cos of emotions
Life may not be rosy for u in Nigeria but it CAN BE WORSE for u abroad if care is not taken!!

and this is better
life can be harder for a Nigerian abroad - true
life abroad is harder than life in Nigeria - false

being:
No they didn't say that..
Standard of living for their citizens there is better than for us Nigerians here in Nigeria - True.
What they are saying is things are harder for immigrant Nigerians abroad than for same Nigerians when they were in Nigeria(most of whom were middle class)
Let people not make decisions they will regret cos of emotions
Life may not be rosy for u in Nigeria but it CAN BE WORSE for u abroad if care is not taken!!

also this is shifting the goal post. nobody is comparing standard of living for foreign citizens abroad VS standard of living of nigerian citizens in Nigeria
this is not what this post, or the post i referenced, or any discussion has been about at all

enjoy your day

being:
No they didn't say that..
Standard of living for their citizens there is better than for us Nigerians here in Nigeria - True.
What they are saying is things are harder for immigrant Nigerians abroad than for same Nigerians when they were in Nigeria(most of whom were middle class)
Let people not make decisions they will regret cos of emotions

they did say that

Smartguyboy:
Is there any database for that or you just believe what you see on google just like you believe abroad is heaven on earth?

i never said, and nobody on this thread said that "abroad is heaven on earth" or implied that

i believe any Nigerian living abroad, encouraging people not to come abroad by implying that the standard of living in US/Europe is worse than Nigeria is being a hypocrite.


have a nice day sir

being:
But things can actually be harder for someone abroad... if for instance u were Upper middle class , had senior mgt job in a bank, telcom or oil coy and then u left all that to do very physical jobs in UK! Ur life will surely be harder. So yes abroad can be harder people who are already doing well in Nigeria

yes sir, things can be harder for a person
BUT
things are (or a better phrase is the standard of living) not harder in America/Europe than in Nigeria. this will always be a lie from the pit of hell

pocohantas:
Seems you bave memory loss or you are just SLOW. Who quoted who first? Get out of my sight mehn!!🤣🤣

thanks for the insult, i hope you feel better now

pocohantas:
Keep playing ostritch.
Everything na elitist and racism for una.

you are the one that said nigerians abroad dont want nigerians from nigeria to come and be nuisance abroad

please stop quoting me, just ignore the post i beg you

nobaga:
You have this sense of unbelievable entitlement mentality to where you or your grandparents did not sow.

Fix your brain and your village so that you can stop destroying your everywhere the way you destroy your land.

Sell yourself worse than a slave abroad and stop blaming others for your misery. Your Freedom Fighters fought for the Independence in their 20s destroyed by your generation .

from these words you are using destroy your land, slave, freedom fighters, independence
my brother,
i no get your strength


....just have a nice day abeg

Smartguyboy:
You think people in abroad don’t travel to other countries for cheap medical care?
The way you people glorify abroad as if everything there is free
You think Dey don’t have homeless or people who don’t have money to pay for medicine
You think medical there is free ?
If you are dying and you don’t have insurance nobody will attend to you anywhere .

and, ofcourse, you answered a question with a question (because you know what i am saying is correct)
welldone, .....

this is a gentle reminder that 190,000 people died of malaria last year in Nigeria

raskymonojendor:
My own be say if anyone wants to japa, do it legally. In Canada, without papers, the list below applies.

simple!
this is better
lets encourage people to do it legally, rather than saying things are harder abroad, legally or not

TheGift:
True.

I Don't discourage people from wanting to travel and explore opportunities. What I discourage is

1. Japa mentality- Japa means to run away, why is such a cowardly mindset. Many assume that they will stop facing challenges when they Japa their or that the challenges will be easier. But overcoming challenges begins with your mental and internal environment not your physical one.

2. Even if you must relocate, never totally uproot yourself. Don't sell your inheritance or all the stuff you sweated. Don't burn the bridges that where supporting or sustaining you. Have investments here that you can come back to or can even support you over there in that country where you will forever be a second or even third class citizen.

3. Instead of Japa, from Naija to another country, I prefer to be a global citizen. Make the kind of money and status that can allow me t travel to any country I wish anytime I want. And come back home whenever I want.

and this is simple and sweet

instead of lieing that abroad is harder than nigeria
or like in the post i referenced, she implied 'abroad' will collect everything back from you
cmon now, are you talking to imbeciles?

virginchaser:
UPTH is not as bad as you presented it. It is an hospital I used severally before I changed over to save a life. One thing i know about their antenatal, priority is giving to women that registered with them during delivery than people that comes with emergency and when such person have complication or pass on. News says they lose him or her at UPTH.

Also, do you read news about health discrimination in Europe against blacks. Statistics shows black dies more than white, proportional to the ratio.

hello
i believe you are in port harcourt
i will make out time with you, we will go to UPTH with a video
and post back on this thread
i promise you, in one day, any day you pick, in less than 1 hour,
you will change your mind

it doesn't matter whether you did antenatal in UPTH
will that take away the rats that climb your body in SCBU ward
and if you complain, they will tell you, you will get used to the rats

my wife slept there for 2 weeks
after 3 days, she will tell me baby today rat climbed my face, baby today rat entered my wrapper and we will laugh about it together

People (including medical professionals) arent inherently bad
that is why i didn't directly accuse any particular person, and thats why i said, when these doctors travel abroad, they act differently
understand my point:
there's no way a doctor will work 72 hours straight without getting edgy, acting rude and emotionless, with no time to waste,

its not the fault of the professionals, its the system in which they are working

raskymonojendor:
Depends. I will never advise anyone to come to America or Canada without a valid visa. I heard someone saying he wants to japa on a visit visa. Like what the actual fuxk

simple!
this is better

not telling people *its hard or harder abroad*

pocohantas:
Nigerians abroad do not have any problem with you relocating abroad, they just do not want you to come there and be a nuisance to them and the country. I have friends in the UK and they are seriously complaining of the recent japarians that come without adequate funds. So they want to live with you for long with no contribution. Forgetting that abroad doesn't support such dependency.

They only want you to know the other side. Something you prospective japarians hate to hear.

If you want to go abroad, go and apply na.
Nobody is stopping you.

imagine the elitist mindset
whats different between you and a racist abroad, who doesn't want the monkeys from africa to come and constitute nuisance in their country
so because you travelled, you are automatically better than everyone else at home