₦airaland Forum

emperorchedda:
You gotta stay with her for a few weeks and see if her parents will succumb. If they don't then make her report to the police station declaring that she was not kidnapped by you then proceed to do a court marriage

OK. Thanks.

emperorchedda:
This could be as a result of where you're from or your family background

It's a pity Nigerians still judge people based on their ethnic/religious/tribal differences or even just because they don't like your parents or maybe they don't want their daughter to be married to someone outside their community

I think if you both truly love each other your girl will have a big role to play here:

She should stand up to her parents and tell them it's you or nobody else, threaten them that if they don't let her marry you she'll run off to you and never come back thereby bringing shame to them

If these don't work she should just take in for you and decide not to remove it, her parents will be forced to let her marry you before the pregnancy starts showing in public

And if they refuse to give in bro? Do u think court wedding will be good after these?

chomytex:
Try to convince them nah
N be optimistic too.

My love for her and optimism is what is still keeping us together till now. I wish I can detail you on my my efforts to convince them, but to no avail.

I am now more confused. I want to settle down and wouldn't want to wait any longer.I love my girl and would love to keep her.

justified19:
b wise..."aya buruku se fe, ana buruku ko se ni"(u can risk getting married to a bad woman but do not risk having bad in laws" u shld understand beta

.Hm! That's scary

Raiden:
You don't love yourselves,you love each other.

I believe you should know what's up with the family before going ahead with the wedding... Even though you still will go ahead with the wedding no matter what,but its best you know what ur getting into.

Thanks.

Sorry i missed to add something. We are up to 10 years age gap

manee2:
_ or they dnt like ur family

yea.

feran15:
there is obviously more to the story that waht ur letting us know.

Nothing more than this summary

I am not broke bro

Cutehector:
Maybe ur broke.. Dats why dey dnt want u. No offence

I have tried but got nothing. The brother said i started dating her sister without his consent. But i think that is flimsy

manee2:
This story isn't complete.. Why don't they want u?

We've been friends for more than 5 years and we love ourselves. I'm a working class graduate and she will soon round off in her education. All my attempt to see her parents were rejected without a known reason. can we go for a court wedding

Paitty:
Old joke ,..but still funny

we enjoyed it still. bad belle.

I am tempted to say "thunder fire you".

Raiders:
Ochendo!!!! The maradona of Abia state politics . I love this man for his political wit.

All these Obas.

It is simply called "show belle." leave all this long grammar.

if you have a land and steady income, just start building. If building is my priority i would have gotten one because i have experience from the one my younger one just built. But try as much as you can to avoid waste ans excesses by being part of the supervision. If you are a busy type, you can schedule it to be during your leave period. you can raise a three or four bedroom bungalow to roofing level in two weeks if the cash is readily available. give the roofing to a pro when you are ready.

Signed X 10 raised to the power of 10

Sloan: LIES! LIES!! LIES!!! Foreign dignitaries demanded a 250 M+ BMW in order to be transported within Nigeria to where, really? Within Lagos? Abuja? Or interstate? What happened to a Peugeot or Camry or Regular BMW not the one costing ~ $ 200K. Well, we know it's all lies and this is simply shamefaced damage control. You have no need to even explain because the head of the fish (retardeen is GEJ is already stinky rotten with maggots and smell), so the body is a forgone issue. Odua, GEJ, fat face Iweala, etc should enjoy the money as though one day they will not leave again? I am so thankful I don't live in Nigeria and all you do or don't do does not affect me directly for then, I wonder how frustrating that would be. Boy am I glad I live in sane country!!

shoe shiner. I blame etisalat for giving you free 10mb to type this rub-ish

ref should end this ball naa

wonderful

6 mins to go and no sense of urgency in our approach

first half gone

etiopia 1 0 Nigeria 0

our defence is zero.

Hm.they play better than us.

Please has the ASUU strike been called off? A friend just text me now on this, though without his source yet.

GAS IS BETTER. you don't need to buy detergent to always wash your pots and kettle.
And there won't be any mistake in buying gas unlike in stove where they can sell fuel as kero to you.
I almost forgot that bad smoke from stove.

If he gives more than that we will still complain. Haba!

K. thanks dear. I thought as much.

NPSG invited my Sis for an interview at ikeja Lagos by Monday at 9am.

The text massage just came now, 11;20pm sat. without any number or address to reach them to know if she can be rescheduled for another day.
My challange is that she has only tomorrow to get to Lagos from port Harcourt by road or take a flight by that Monday morning.

please who knows about this firm. Is it worth all these trouble?

SELFWORTH: Be careful what you wish for. What kind of anointing are you tapping into?.....witchcraft , fertility pills, wizardry, fraud anointing...?

Nigerians are too gullible.

Short up. It's God's. Every good thing comes from Him.