We've been friends for more than 5 years and we love ourselves. I'm a working class graduate and she will soon round off in her education. All my attempt to see her parents were rejected without a known reason. can we go for a court wedding

Find out why they don't want you it might be gruelling but try hard to know why.

And love is the couple against the world so don't be scared.

Brother pls run!!!
They have their reasons

This story isn't complete.. Why don't they want u?

Maybe ur broke.. Dats why dey dnt want u. No offence

Certainly they have seen yu b4 they made that decision.

there is obviously more to the story that waht ur letting us know.

Marriage I is not just between the couple only.
The extended families are also part of it.
Still push to find out the real reason.
Don't rush into it so you don't rush out as well

I have tried but got nothing. The brother said i started dating her sister without his consent. But i think that is flimsy

manee2:
This story isn't complete.. Why don't they want u?

I am not broke bro

Cutehector:
Maybe ur broke.. Dats why dey dnt want u. No offence

optimistD:
I have tried but got nothing. The brother said i started dating her sister without his consent. But i think that is flimsy

_ eleyi gidi gan!

optimistD:
I am not broke bro

_ or they dnt like ur family

feran15:
there is obviously more to the story that waht ur letting us know.

Nothing more than this summary

manee2:
_ or they dnt like ur family

yea.

optimistD:
We've been friends for more than 5 years and we love ourselves. I'm a working class graduate and she will soon round off in her education. All my attempt to see her parents were rejected without a known reason. can we go for a court wedding

You don't love yourselves,you love each other.

I believe you should know what's up with the family before going ahead with the wedding... Even though you still will go ahead with the wedding no matter what,but its best you know what ur getting into.

Sorry i missed to add something. We are up to 10 years age gap

optimistD:
We've been friends for more than 5 years and we love ourselves. I'm a working class graduate and she will soon round off in her education. All my attempt to see her parents were rejected without a known reason. can we go for a court wedding

b wise..."aya buruku se fe, ana buruku ko se ni"(u can risk getting married to a bad woman but do not risk having bad in laws" u shld understand beta

It's either they don't like the place you're from or you're broke.

Raiden:


You don't love yourselves,you love each other.

I believe you should know what's up with the family before going ahead with the wedding... Even though you still will go ahead with the wedding no matter what,but its best you know what ur getting into.

Thanks.

optimistD:
yea.

_ that's it._ u guys shud run to sahara nd get married_ heard the place ve started showing some signs of natural developments.

justified19:
b wise..."aya buruku se fe, ana buruku ko se ni"(u can risk getting married to a bad woman but do not risk having bad in laws" u shld understand beta

.Hm! That's scary

optimistD:
.Hm! That's scary

it's a yoruba proverb dat I will neva joke with.. try ur best to knw ur in laws. goodluck sir

Try to convince them nah
N be optimistic too.

I am now more confused. I want to settle down and wouldn't want to wait any longer.I love my girl and would love to keep her.

chomytex:
Try to convince them nah
N be optimistic too.

My love for her and optimism is what is still keeping us together till now. I wish I can detail you on my my efforts to convince them, but to no avail.

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This could be as a result of where you're from or your family background

It's a pity Nigerians still judge people based on their ethnic/religious/tribal differences or even just because they don't like your parents or maybe they don't want their daughter to be married to someone outside their community

I think if you both truly love each other your girl will have a big role to play here:

She should stand up to her parents and tell them it's you or nobody else, threaten them that if they don't let her marry you she'll run off to you and never come back thereby bringing shame to them

If these don't work she should just take in for you and decide not to remove it, her parents will be forced to let her marry you before the pregnancy starts showing in public

emperorchedda:
This could be as a result of where you're from or your family background

It's a pity Nigerians still judge people based on their ethnic/religious/tribal differences or even just because they don't like your parents or maybe they don't want their daughter to be married to someone outside their community

I think if you both truly love each other your girl will have a big role to play here:

She should stand up to her parents and tell them it's you or nobody else, threaten them that if they don't let her marry you she'll run off to you and never come back thereby bringing shame to them

If these don't work she should just take in for you and decide not to remove it, her parents will be forced to let her marry you before the pregnancy starts showing in public

And if they refuse to give in bro? Do u think court wedding will be good after these?

optimistD:
And if they refuse to give in bro? Do u think court wedding will be good after these?

You gotta stay with her for a few weeks and see if her parents will succumb. If they don't then make her report to the police station declaring that she was not kidnapped by you then proceed to do a court marriage

make u check to see if there exists an ancient feud between her family and urs.

emperorchedda:
You gotta stay with her for a few weeks and see if her parents will succumb. If they don't then make her report to the police station declaring that she was not kidnapped by you then proceed to do a court marriage

OK. Thanks.

IamLEGEND1:
make u check to see if there exists an ancient feud between her family and urs.

NONE.