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Gsamm:
You hear wetin she talk. Where are you from sef

Wetin this one dey talk here? how does" I don't mind as long as he tells me from the onset" answer address the story or the question asked?

steph2sweet:
Pls matured minds in the house, i need an advice. I just got the shock of my life today. I got to know that the man I am planning to spend the rest of my life with has a child out of wedlock. I heard this from someone close to his family and I confronted him about it. He said he is afraid to loose me, that was why he didn't tell me about it. That he doesn't have anything to do with the lady that gave birth to the child for him, and that the lady is already married. I am just short of words.

Wrong is wrong no matter the excuse, and people will always have excuses for whatever and this guy here will have excuses forever in the marriage if you marry him. Now the excuse is "i don't want to loose you" yeah right and some will say forgive him. See here if he made a mistake, he will man up and live with it and come clean, he is coming to you smiling and all while keeping secrets from you. Me, i will not marry him. If he had told me from the get go, ofcourse i will know, he has accepted responsibility from his actions and that it was a mistake which anybody, everybody makes, but he didn't tell you prior, the guy is a liar. Bottom line depends on you, me, my standards for trust and openness is high so, I WILL NOT MARRY someone like this, period.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I don't mind as long as he tells me from the onset.

This comment has no bearing madam, read the story again, comprehend and comment properly....

IamD18:
The man is indirectly responsible for his death, starting from his decision of marrying two wives to his decision of separating their fight.

Some women might support a man's decision of bringing in another woman in their home, but deep inside them, they aren't happy, no woman will like to share a man she loves with another woman. None!


Muhammad said we should marry as many as four wives. Violet fight between the wivies is not envisaged.
Some women are wicked so also some men.
The woman should be charged for culpable homicide.

Your Muhammad is kind oo.

So after instructing you'all to marry as many as four wives, he'll still flex you guyz with 7 virgins after death

Oboy, see enjoymentation

Bros, for your own personal knowledge and enlightenment, Read about Mohammed yourself. Also, Mohammed was a messenger with a message from God as well as a prophet just like Moses, Jesus, Abraham, Joseph etc, they all were prophets of God that delivered God's message to mankind.

ezera:
Trump should please arrest the Dullard for us please!!!!!!!

Maybe sense go return to you in 2088... i hope it won't be too late then. Tell Trump to use FBI so he will not escape...lol.

ollah2:
Exactly but the hate some Christians have for Muslims have blinded them into believing everything people like FFK says. He was mute when scores were killed in Zamfara which is predominantly Muslim state and the Christians with bigotry and hateful mindset wouldnt consider that but would consider this.

You are absolutely right. Also, if Christians should kill christians in Port Harcourt or Bayelsa, you wont hear FFK, as if those ones deserve to die or maybe no sentiments attached, so he is not bothered.

Mogidi:
So the 32 people that lost their lives don't matter?

Mogidi, do you honestly believe this guy cares if anyone dies or live? That is the same way they keep us divided with religion and ethnicity. Trust me, this guy here is shouting for recognition, he cares less if you live or die. Is he even a Christian? Until, we all come together as one force and ask these idiots to shut up, and ask questions, if anyone dies, they dont have to be muslim, christian, pagan, no one deserves to die unjustly for any reason, until then, we will keep going round in circles with hate increasing, churches and pastors increasing and morality decreasing and our society in turmoil.

zico530:
Is IBB still relevant in Nigeria politics?

He is my broda, unfortunately so. Shame on all of us. People that should be in jail are still relevant in our affairs.

TheKingIsHere:
Oga, was Obasanjo an Ex-convict or not?

NOT.... By definition, A convict is defined as: declare (someone) to be guilty of a criminal offense by the verdict of a jury or the decision of a judge in a court of law. Also, understand that Abacha's sentencing was voided and found to be lacking in merits.

Lucid1:
Only an Abok driver would do this, no offence to my brothers and sisters in the South, West and East.

Honesty is the key to living a holy life

You are absolutely right. This is indeed true and its because of his faith nothing else. Its Islam which is central and core to his actions.

Godhead4:
.....He took out 1k from the money and returned 9k to me.

By so doing, he has succeeded in taking away your destiny! You don't need to collect big to take someone's destiny. Speaking from experience

Bros, when will common sense" finally sink into your brain... will you remain in this state of stupidity and idiocy until thy kingdom come?? There is no one stealing your destiny but your stupidity and belief system. One thing also, that man that returned that money is most probably "MUSLIM". He returned it because he knows it does not belong to him and that the money will not benefit him unless what Allah, God has already decreed for him, period. Now, you also should know this, no-one can help you or steal your destiny in any way shape or form. Whatever God has decreed for you will be yours no one can stop it and whatever God has not decreed for you will not come to you no-one can give it to you, so, stop looking at others as destiny thieves, a destiny thief is better off stealing Bill Gates or Mark Zuckerberg's or even Buhari's destiny and not your destiny.

Samirana360:
kill them

If you have never stolen before, cast the first stone.

TheKingIsHere:
Was Obasanjo not an ex convict who was sentenced to death by Abacha?

Didn't he win the presidential seat in 1999?

Obasanjo was sentenced by a military tribunal and he challenged it. Ibinabo Fiberesima drove a car while drunk and killed a medical Dr returning from working overnight. She bribed her way through and was initially found not guilty the Drs family took the case up to a higher court and she was found guilty. I hope you are not supporting "corruption". We need to say No to injustice and corruption and assist the govt else we will continue in this path, and tomorrow maybe the IG's son will use car and jam your loved one, then how would you feel if he wants to contest election after that Also, remember that El Mustapha that was accused of masterminding the murder of Kudirat Abiola is floating a party currently....

Seriously, this bad economy is gradually leading lots of people into mental illness and kolo mentality.

Fuckgodndjesus:
Kai Africans!! I'm sure this fool went out to kill this poor animal and then formulated this story cos it sounds too bullśhitty to me.

Na poverty my broda. I actually believe, the cat might have landed from the ceiling. A cat can pursue a rat ontop of a ceiling and miss its footing or something, then this suffer head will now assume this was the cause of all his wahala. See his looks now, you will know, GEJ's corruption and Buhari's slow-slow economy + non salary payment has bastardized this guys brain.

This woman might just be someone that keeps to herself and doesn't really socialize, and maybe she is single, with no husband, no kids and mostly on her own. Now, it takes one person to accuse her of witchcraft and maybe one fake pastor will say the same and most people will believe. Now, imagine what they are doing to this woman yet our churches and mosques are full of people that claim to have faith in God and divine mercy, yet, look at what they are collectively subjecting a fellow human being to?

Greatzeus:
Yeah,I wanted to say this too,but when I looked at her face,no remorse or maybe this tears of being accused falsely. It is the face of a woman who has accepted that she is guilty or how can I put it....hard hearted,Stone cold killer
I still believe she should be handed over to the police with proper evidence and witnesses. Ostracizing her won't put an end to her evil,she might have marked the faces of those mocking her and come back for them later

You sound just like most "mofos" how can you agree to "shaming" someone like this because of how her face looks?? if she is laughing now, some will even say imagine she is still laughing or rejoicing, if she smiles, same, and if she is indifferent some will still say something. Also, before the discovery of Ebola, people called it witchcraft and accused others, as a matter of fact, your ancestors used to kill "twins" and take anyone with a swollen stomach to evil forest to die. Now, if this woman's son/daughter gets angry and brings a gun one day and opens fire on this fake people, big mouthed FFK, Fayose and IPOB fools will say its fulani herdsmen.

gidgiddy:
Is that how the midget was received in Onitsha?

Below is how Kanu was received in Onitsha.

Chai, so sense you still neva get? You are calling him a derogatory name, a man that was a Prof of law and currently the V.P, but you all will hail and queue up behind a rogue that is interested in only himself...... That is how you get it wrong and you forever complain and complain with nothing to show.

PrecisionFx:
I swear on Amadioha, I didn't read up to 0.00000013% of what u just type.

Wen I see a person with useless sense, I don't read whatever they reply.

No wonder you are in this state of ignorance and stupidity. Seriously, listen to others and pay attention, it will improve your knowledge and horizon.

PrecisionFx:
I swear, i didnt read upto 10% of this shiit.

Like I said earlier, u are a fooooooooool for using mere picture of tarred road to accept that Buhari did "whatever" in the SE. Onye Afonja kitikpa na ekperima bie gi ugwu na nka.

I will be a biggest fool if i believe you or your runaway lords Ojukwu and Nnamdi Kanu just because you are saying don't believe with your lying mouth... Why are you communicating in Ibo? Danborouba shegeee, mugu kawaii. Mumu, using your analogy, don't believe cos of a picture right? Now, why should i also believe you? How do i know you are not lying also?

PrecisionFx:
U are an idiot for avoiding the use of ur sense. Anyone can snap a tarred express road in any location in Nigeria n uploaded as buharis achievement in the SE.

These are my routes, I know the ones that have been completed n the one that I on going and I know wen they started it all.

U can be a fool by accepting a single picture aa buharis achievements.

Gaa gwo ofu n'oche











https://m.facebook.com/excellentiyke

This is the Facebook page ofa hard core APC supporter that u foooools are taking his mere picture as real.

PrecisionFX - You are having issues with understanding and comprehension. Now this is the issue. This person posted this and said:

I used two major roads in the south east during this Easter period , Onitsha-Enugu and Enugu-PH expressways and I couldn't believe the level of work I saw especially from Enugu to Aba with Okigwe to Aba looking too good to be true.

BY APROKO GIRL : https://aprokogirl.com/1601/igbo-man-supports-buhari-for-2019-states-his-reasons-read/

Now, he posted a pic of the road. If You with your mumu, hate filled and as always dubious and corruption ridden head, say this is not true and that this picture is fake, no wahala, all you have to do is stop saying with your mouth something is not true and that we shouldn't believe it, NO, what you do is display the right picture and that this is the true picture of the road maybe looking bad and with potholes etc. That is what you do, mumu to power infinity.

Kingpee2:
who is not a sinner should cast the first stone ,you talked about road ,we’ve always had roads before now ,our last 16 years was not spent with this hardship the nation is going through ,honestly Nigeria is not ripe yet for independence,if the British were still in power ,South Africa won’t be better than us today ,both the past government and this present one are birds of the same feathers ,that’s why you see them defecting from one party to the other,once they defect,they welcome them with open arms and ceremonial party...

My broda, you have spoken very well. Now, let me enlighten you, Nigeria under PDP was running on corruption. It is still running on corruption. Buhari is upright, yes and he is fighting it but corruption is fighting back. He is also weak, and he has a weakness of not dealing with corruption cases under his nose, that, i agree absolutely, but guess what, we are making very slow progress. We have to go through what we are going through now to get out of the corruption we have always ran on. It is so, bad that the judges are corrupt, the police, army, navey, airforce all, are corrupt, it is now, Buhari is gradually strengthening institutions so corruption can gradually begin to fade away. One good example, do you know, all the big oil companies use to pay money to NNPC numerous accounts.... so many, now with the TSA they now pay to only one account. We are moving but slowly.

PrecisionFx:
This thread topic is is big blatant lie. It's the same propaganda APC has been working with.

Wit just a snapped portion of a road that stretches several hours, u have already believed that those roads have been fully fixed.

Use ur sense for once.

No, you use your sense to take picture of the road as it is NOW or have someone to take it and then you can now show it is a lie. All you Ipobs are the biggest hypocrites. You believe everything that suits your mindset and you disbeleive everything you don't agree with even the truth when it is clear before your eyes. Now, all you have to do is stop talking, take a picture of the road and show us here, PERIOD. But guess what, that, you cannot do, but you will scream to high heavens that it is a lie.

SingleDaddy:
Yes!, Lust was understood for love, while love was far fetched. I have realized the mistakes and i would re-trace the proper road not taken.. One step before the other.. I'm humbled.

Chairman, a lot of people asked you hear and you deliberately refused to answer the question. Its simple and its for clarity so we understand exactly what you are saying exactly. What does "Private Matured Meeting" mean? Please explain in detail for sincerely, i dont know what you mean and i guarantee you a lot of people don't know.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Federal executive council meeting.

with Dino Melaye and Mrs Tinubu on the floor of the senate and now Mrs Tinubu is ............

Xander85:
Buhari is carrying out the northernisation policy like never before, and this is why his support base in the core Muslim north is impenetrable! The rest of us mugus from the south can go take a hike for all they care!

Forever complaining. Anything everything you will complain. When GEJ was there what did he do? When Ihejirika was there what did he do?

Kingpee2:
please don’t include us to your failure ,you are the one that is not progressing,take a look at yourself from your own view ,your shameless politifians using just newly constructed road as propaganda to punt as achievement just for the forthcoming election,man,you need light to see through your thoughts ,who the hell needs backup to show up,your country has failed you,take it or leave it ...

Kingpee, the failure and mega-mega looting was GEJ. This govt is starting from scratch and digging you out with a slow, old but upright president. Now you have a road, what did you have in your 16 years of PDP?? Also, 2nd Niger bridge is ongoing. What has all your governors done with all they have collected so far?

Kingpee2:
with all you’ve said so far,I’m still saying this country is a joke.....

That is why we are not progressing in this country. You have been challenged to back up your claims. Not just one sentence cliches, Talk substance if you have it. Someone just mentioned Road construction btw Enugu to Onitsha and Enugu to PH, now what do you have to say? Also, shamefully you have 34 likes..... that is to show how delusional most IPOB folks are.... just follow-follow with lies and lies and no substance.

thesicilian:
Sad. Nothing can bring him back, but the best way to prevent this from happening to others is to make Julius Berger pay heavily in court.

My broda, that will not do anything. The right thing to do is to go after Julius Berger in court, the Nigerians in charge that okayed and signed off and maybe (collected bribe money), for the design, the inspectors that okayed the work after completion... etc... It is a whole system of bribery and corruption.

Jochabed:
A sexual Demon is controlling you.

Nonsense...., naija and stories of demons, witches, mammy water etc... He is sick and trust me, prison will cure it for him. In America, he will be begging police not to tell fellow inmates in prison he raped a minor, cos they will rape his arse and beat him to death. If anyone should try this with my daughter, sister, even a neighbor's child, a demon will control me to stick a pipe down his dick and smash his balls with solid dangote cement.

KOPT33:
I am the first son of my father who is now late.

When my father died some 11 years ago, I relocated to Lagos to finish my schooling. I lived with my aunt then but I had to leave their home because I was being abused. Upon leaving my aunt's house, things became so difficult for me but I persevered with my education till I finished my bachelors.

During my lean years, I fell out with most of my family members. My mom refused to speak to me for three years, I was essentially the outcast of the family. During this period, my mom and some elders in our family gave out my sisters hand in marriage.

The couple had a trad/white wedding. Bride price was paid, all the customs of our people were followed save for one: the consent or knowledge of the first son. I wouldn't get to hear about this marriage until six months later. That night, I cried because their action proved that I was nobody, a nothing to my mom and siblings.

Anyways, I kept on working hard and soon became comfortable. I mended fences with everyone in my family, but even at that, no one offered an explanation why things unfolded the way it did or an apology. I didn't make any noise, I just picked up myself and moved on after committing the lessons learned to mind.

Six years and two children later, my sisters marriage has hit the rocks.

Now they're asking me as the first born to mediate and talk to the man.

I REFUSED.

The man (sister's husband) won't speak to my mom or the other elders he had been dealing with regarding a possible reconciliation. My family know me to be a good mediator and peace maker and they are not wrong.

I refused because there is no point mediating in a marriage that was done over my head.

As it stands now, I have no interest in playing head of house or anything of such nature. I send money, I help make connections, I foot bills for everyone in the family but I leave their decision making to them since they discounted me right from the very beginning. I have no interest whatsoever in becoming a leader in that family.

What would you do if you were in my shoes?

My Chairman, i dont know if i am just different but most of the advice here are rubbish. Most times people just go off... and think money is everything and then find their way back after making it not knowing that place doesnt exist anymore everyone moved past it and if you abandoned them because you do not have money then i dont know what to say unless they are the ones that abandoned you cos you do not have anyway to support and struggling but they refused to understand. So now, you said you did not speak with your mum for 3years, that is really hard... you also said you were the outcast. Now, again, did you abandon them?? If you did, then you cannot blame them for giving your sister out, you were not available and are they going to wait until you make it to get married But, again, if they were the ones that pushed you away because you no dey roger, then, it is good if you are now supporting and i will say, go ahead and mediate and try to settle it but let everyone know what they did was wrong period.

oxygenlove:
mumu like you, , maybe the article tell u say na me be the girl papa, ode osi,, i no know wetin concern u.

I don first talk say you be mumu. There are expected behaviours society expects of you most especially if you have home training. Not an ignoramus that is a waste to humanity and our world like you just displayed.