What happens when a woman treat a man badly is a psychological thing when a woman treats me wrong it turns me of cause instead of beating or mistreating her I get really aroused that i cannot wait to get her in bed, however if it's someone at work where you know you are not going out with that women then it turns to hatred and when as a man you cannot say or do anything for fear of being called bully I tell the misses or make friends with other girls who would put the bitch in her place where as if it was a man then most men the fist would do the talking

I just pray you do not give your husbnd to be any STD, because even after marriage you would obviously still be confused when the next guy with sweet tongue comes along I pray I do not meet a girl like you and have to raise children with cos for me the whole idea of marriage is to get the sex thing out of your system before commitment that's called maturity leave it for the ones behind you. I see a lot of old people who look at young ones and get insulted it's because these old people never really get it out of their system before commitment. Look have some serious fun using condoms of cause then when you get married trust me you would feel content.

How come I never meet women like this as my own dey always dey find ways not to come home with overtime excuse wey man dey wait wit black n decker tool

It all depends if the girl is ugly but dresses nice likes to take care of herself then god helps those who help themselves, for me though looks has to b it cos when the girl is nice you cannot wait to be home after work but on the other hand if she lacks confidence you are dead meat as she would always call you wait for you near you work place cos you jus happen to have a face of ahshawo, so baby cannot trust you, but the making up is always world war three, cos she dey fine and she too knows how to say nice things when you dey wit am.

If I was you i'd get to know yourself first, if you can be by yourself for sometime at least 6 to 8 months and feel proud, look good, that is very important grooming you need to take care of yourself then you would see when people approach you they want to stay forever because they know if they leave because you always look good they may not get the chance to come back , someone else would want to stay for keeps. And they would never forgive themselves for letting you go

If you feel this way then don't do it think of the kids you would bring into this world and giving them bad looks when you see his face in the kids. And if they come from school saying someone decked me because you married dad and I look like this you have yourself to blame

I used to hate Niigeria however after living in the UK seeing men behaving like women and having to bite my tongue so as not to loose my job when oyinbo insult you, now I love Nigeria and think of the good old days of night life, Nija is great shame I could not transport the electricity, water, amenities etc to Naija then it would be perfect and I would never have left, please from now on always end by saying god bless Nigeria you never know god might actually help us after all enough is enough if nobi racist dey say go home na homo wey want bang you or other way round