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markjay23:
Tiv! I no do again. Congratulations to them. Tiv girl don show me pepper for this life

ogkrakkid:
U have so much wisdom. .
Am really impressed would like u as a sibling. Kidding tho.

Baronthecelebri:
She fine naturally, but the makeup is very bad

wiseone28:
Op when are we expecting your own?

jeromestarks:
If she's not a virgin your bro has made a mistake he will live to regret.

Eith he shares her with her ex(s) or he spends his money training someone else's child or he suffers both cases.


Marry a virgin and have peace of mind.
It's foolishness to sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of inlaws just to have a woman who was fvcked by another man with just two eggs and indomie.

doggedfighter:
The ladies in the last picture are they your sisters ?

They're beautiful in a cool way !

Boogyman557:
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doggedfighter:
Congratulations to you and your family !


You are a good brother in law.

For you to say she's like mother to your family and perfect . She must have gone lengths and carried burdens and made sacrifices for your family.

She has this motherly mien too.

May it worth it for her and may the world and this marriage be kind to this kind woman

You all as a family should try and marry her well.



All the best !

Fahvvy:
1. You're very correct...
Other medical procedure also have consequences...

But the question here is why should I be advised to be with a girl that has done an abortion which has a possibility of future complications, when I can have other girls without such possible complications?

@bolded...
When it comes to men and se.x, EVERY GIRL is good enough to sleep with, but not every girl is worth keeping ...

As "somehow-ish" as it sounds, it's the truth...

Se.x requires absolutely NO COMMITMENT, but keeping a girl long term requires a lot of commitment...

So if I'm going to be committed to a girl ie spending my time and resources on her long term, I've got to make sure that, that girl is da.mn well near perfect ....

In summary, the fact that she is nackable doesn't automatically mean she is worth keeping ...

Girls should know this and know peace ...

Just as ladies have a "friendzone", guys too have a "se.x zone" ...

Just as no matter what a guy who is in the friend zone does, she can NEVER consider him for anything serious (asides billing and free attention ofcourse )...

A girl in the se.x zone can NEVER be considered for anything serious other than se.x ofcourse ...

Realmi:
my bro....everybody has a past...even the bible said "he that is without sin should cast the first stone" that statement was even made over an adulterous married woman's case oo...not a single lady...

Some people who do this ABORTION did not do it because they enjoyed it, they did it because it was the only choice they were left with...nobody is even blaming the guys involved...or are they free from consequences

Let's be realistic...na man dey give woman belle...na this same men dey reject girl wey don do ABORTION before.....it does not make sense

Once the girl admits to here past and has changed her ways,,, who are we to judge her

Realmi:
well,, the only thing I can say is,, if u know that her past is a red flag for u, please dont hurt her by leading her on only to dump her later...its best u leave her now....she already has a traumatised past it will be wicked of u to add to it....and please note, ABORTION is not the only sin or medical procedure that has a consequence

U are not considering unprotected sex, that means u will still have sex with her, but with protection...so tell me,, why would u want to have sex atall with a girl that has done ABORTION

So she is good to sleep with but not good to keep

Realmi:
Africans and their mentality.....all this people shouting ABORTION IS A RED FLAG,,, na una go still reject belle wey una give girl

ABORTION is not a RED FLAG,,,, u can marry a virgin and she can still have fertility issues,, u can still have delay in having children..

ABORTION is bad and it has it's own consequences....but as long as the doctors have confirmed that she is medically fine and fit to conceive to have children then there is no cause for worries

Realmi:
if she gets pregnant for u now while u are still dating,,,please will u marry her....just a harmless question.....

Fahvvy:
OP sir @OsilaGama
What advanceDNA said is nothing short of the truth ....

Women know moral standards...
They know the implications of going against it...
And yet, they still CHOOSE to fall short...

And to answer your question...
YESSSSSSSSSS!!!! ABORTION IS A BIIIGGGG RED FLAG!!! And I wouldn't advice anyone to be with a woman who has had an abortion ...

You and I know that...
Actions have consequences...
And there are implications to doing an abortion, so the question I ask is why should I join you in facing the possible consequences of your past stup.idity? ...

And besides...
Those qualities in her that is making you consider marrying her eh, I'm VERY CERTAIN that you can find those same qualities and even more in another lady that hasn't done abortion ...

But las las, the choice is still your own sha ...

Southernigbo:
Is there any thing wrong with abortiom

Stephenmoka4:
Quite complicated, it's a double risk -; you know... She might get rid of herself trying to get rid of the child.

Stephenmoka4:
Is willful murder acceptable to you?

obinna58:
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In a strong game salah can be silent, same with firminho but not mane, he fit break person bone.