Culture / Re: Oba Of Benin, Ewuare And His 4 Wives Pictured During Ugie Ododua Ceremony by OSUigboKiller: 10:36pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
Chai Life is sweet when you have choices 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Court Nullifies Adeleke’s Nomination For Osun Guber Polls Over Cert Forgery by OSUigboKiller: 8:06pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
Amitez: If this stands, then Buhari is a goner too! It does not always work like that 10 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by OSUigboKiller: 11:56pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
larryking540:
just like acrimony Exactly I don't pity him because he saw it coming |
Family / Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by OSUigboKiller: 11:15pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
Pkingman: HELP! My Wife Is Abnormal
Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue. I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.
I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another. The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.
It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type. When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way. She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.
Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.
After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her. Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date. She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings. She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me. On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them. Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private. The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.
By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off? Why does she not want me to show her off?
In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave. I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change. What could be wrong with her? Lol What people go through when they marry a bitter girl that has been used and dumped by many and probably, one of her ex is doing very well and she's jealous and bitter about it. The bitter truth is that, it can only get worse. Chao |
Family / Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by OSUigboKiller: 11:07pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
UjuJoan2: What is her dating history? Exactly my thought When one marries a slùt that has been severely fùcked by all the street guys, what op is going through is inevitable. |
Family / Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by OSUigboKiller: 11:05pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
Pkingman: HELP! My Wife Is Abnormal
Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue. [s]I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.[/s]
I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another. The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.
It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type. When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way. She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.
Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.
After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her. Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date. She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings. She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me. On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them. Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private. The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.
By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off? Why does she not want me to show her off?
In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave. I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change. What could be wrong with her? This is crime and I don't usually advice CRIMINALS |
Properties / Re: Lands Available For Distress Sales by OSUigboKiller: 7:10pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
Barbara007: Massive reduction!!! This is the deal Land owner needs money and he is willing to sell off 10 plots of his land or 20 plots at a very cheap rate. Land location is IBEJU lekki, ELERANGBE behind the new proposed airport. HE will sell 10 plots at the rate of 250k per plot. And if buyer is taking 20 plots that will be at the rate of 200k per plot. This is a serious distress sales. Money is needed tomorrow unfailingly. If you have interest call me let's seal this sharply. Land is upland, you don't need sand filling here. 08154547777 08085789451 09068188174 What title does the land have? |
Education / Re: Female Comedienne, Helen Paul Bags Doctorate Degree In UNILAG. by OSUigboKiller: 7:04pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
Good for her |
Nairaland / General / Re: What Happened To Star Lager Beer? by OSUigboKiller: 6:54pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
LuciferYaweh:
Is your preeq working? Yes And I used it to spray sperm on all your stupìd posts |
Religion / Re: Order Of Egbesu Brotherhood (OEB) Member Performs Rites In A River In Bayelsa by OSUigboKiller: 6:37pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
Ten06:
Do you know the guy standing naked in that river personally? Why don't you pull your clothes and enter river so that people can be taking your picture. You must be a demonic slave for insulting me online, idiot Ọ́dẹ́ Demonic kill you there Senseless slave. |
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Politics / Re: Acid Attack: Police Officer Who Is About To Lose His Eyes Cries Out To Nigerians by OSUigboKiller: 3:59pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
REALLY
HE SHOULD CRY TO HIS SARS COLLEAGUES FOR HELP. 26 Likes |
Crime / Re: Two Rams Fight To Entertain Huge Crowd, One On The Run by OSUigboKiller: 3:51pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
Some FAKE animal rights activist will start ranting now
but they like boxing 4 Likes |
Crime / Re: Last Video Of Handsome Kay Low Cooking Before SARS Shot Him Dead In Lagos by OSUigboKiller: 3:19pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
LuciferYaweh: Nonsense.
So I'm supposed to mourn a yahoo ritualist that made a living off other people's sweat & blood? How many times has he shown his friends chats from his "clients" crying to him that they have sold all they had before blocking them off & proceeding to pop champagne & fvck oloshos?
If you ask me, I think all those he has scammed have finally caught up with him. His death does not change anything in my life neither will I remember him tomorrow.
Can't waste my remaining RIPs on this lot.
*spits I delete stupid posts |
Religion / Re: Order Of Egbesu Brotherhood (OEB) Member Performs Rites In A River In Bayelsa by OSUigboKiller: 3:18pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
Ten06:
The guy believe in nathing, he is just doing it cos he has seen people done it before. Come to think of it, does he hear from the god when it speak? Doing something cos you see people do it is no way to go Judge yourself Do you make sense at all? oyin people invaded your land, enslaved you raped your woman stole your treasures and lastly sold to you a stupid religion and you are here saying rubbish You should be ashamed of yourself. |
Celebrities / Re: Davido's Girlfriend, Chioma Sparks Pregnancy Speculations With Her New Weight by OSUigboKiller: 3:13pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
okerekeikpo: It's still a mystery how a full blooded Igbo girl dey use open leg for this afonja, dirty people It should not be a surprise at all because it is a known fact that OSU girls are very loose. 98% are wh0res and slvts. check the % of prostitutes we have in Nigerian brothels to confirm for yourself. 1 Like |