slimfit1:
The picking weh say him mama no go sleep let him get ready to stay awake. Soon we will start sharing their body parts like they did to our people that have been killed down to babies being used for sacrifices so that they can become governors and senators.

This is the real problem of Nigeria. Heartless individuals who have blood on their hands and whose hearts have been calloused to the extent that they no longer have the ability to feel compassion for the misery of those they lead.

How much.

HydraFeeds:
was Porto golf established by then ? I visited the resort recently .

I doubt. If yes we would have known. Gezawa was the neighboring town. Minjibir is a quiet town with a lot of educated people. Everyone who was in any institution received a bursary from the local government every month.

They put a high priority on education and treated corpers real good. This new super eagles defensive midfielder is from the town. Alhassan Yusuf.

If police come arrest me, I won't put up one unnecessary struggle to avoid embarrassing situations like this.

I go respect myself. It's easier to put calls to those you know at the situation.

These guys were following orders and they can't return to those who ordered them without something.

I remember in 2008 when police raid me for street. The way I comport myself and speak politely to them, them give me maximum respect and could not harrass me they just told me to give them whatever I have when we got to the station.

I tell police sey, I know you are doing your job and putting your life in danger to keep our cities safe and I respect what you do.

Mad people wey want raise money to meet their target.

Struggling with police is a bad idea to me.

Excellent Public Relations.

I can still trace my way to the room I lived in Minjibir, Kano. Many many years ago

Rossikk:


Obi’s plan was also to remove subsidies, so shush.

The situation would have been the EXACT SAME THING today.

The first thing to tackle was insecurity.

If I was Tinubu. I would have secretly signed a 1 year contract with the best mercenaries with the singular mission of flushing out all terrorist and kidnappers in all the bushes all over the country.

Farmers are being killed and their farms burned. So they are abandoning the farms.
Naturally the cost available food will increase.

That was the very first task he needed to do. Security. Instead of buying helicopters...give the money to mercenaries who already have the equipment and manpower to get the job done.

The second was to inject money via grants and low interest loans to registered small and micro scale business...in the area of tools and equipment. Those small and micro scale business will in turn employ three to four people...thereby reducing employment. Instead, dem carry 5 billion naira go buy presidential yatch.

The fourth issue to tackle was Power. Sign laws so states can generate and distribute their own power...especially the industrialized states. And replicate the template of Egypt that Obi went to learn directly.

The fourth was to revitalize the four existing government refineries by any means necessary. If we are extracting,refining and distributing locally...there will be no need to import and this will save us the landing costs and reduce the demand for the dollar.

Stop thinking like a child

Religion should not take away your reasoning.

Hunger is resetting everyone's brain

Majesty7:
I have watched with keen interest what average Nigerian has been passing through since the inception of this new government.

It's so sad that the system has been bastardised and corruption has eating deep to the extent that Nigerians now see it as a way of life. When traders are stealing rice in modules from a bag of rice and still selling the bag as a normal bag, then what do you expect from such heartless generation?

MOST Nigerians don't want to surfer. They are mostly interested in cutting corners and hence won't love to wait or sacrifice for a greater future.

SOLUTION

Tinubu should SOLELY focus on 6 things.
1. PMS
2. DIESEL
3. KEROSENE
4. Aviation Fuel
5. Gas
6. Security

Let the USD dollar trade freely. Don't involve yourself in subsidising anything. Just try as much as possible to bring the above items ridiculously down and stable. Go refine in poorer countries so that you can import it cheaply while you build new refineries in different place entirely.

Nigeria owns four refineries, two located in Port Harcourt and one each in Warri and Kaduna. Despite huge Turn-Around-Maintenance (TAM) efforts none seems to be producing.
It is the people working there that are destroying everything. The country is too corrupt. Those refineries need to be sold as scrap and new one built in a different place.

Once the above products are sourced cheaply and security at top notch, Nigerians will start producing and consuming locally without complaining. While those still interested in sourcing foreign can go ahead if they have the money. This act will make our economy stronger and will make your first term a huge success.

Forget the road, electricity or anything in this term because nothing will work.

I won't regret voting for Tinubu because there is nothing he can do in this highly decayed system. Was it Tinubu that hoarded grains? Was he the one that was involving in illegal arbitrage and so many ills? Tinubu was never my candidate but he still remain the best out of the trip that were more popular.

Thank you

Fact remains that he is being demystified right before our very eyes.

The so called genius with a midas touch who built lagos has eaten what he cannot swallow.

We that lived in Lagos for Tinubus 8 year government know him better than you all.

He has nothing significant to offer, his reign was full of excuses and blaming the federal government.

Mryacks:


Don't mind him...that new contract he went to sign was not advisable...

The new contract is just to include a release clause.His previous contract would have ended this season and he would have walked away for free.

Oshimen signed the contract with all parties having a clear understanding he won't stay beyond this
season just so Napoli can benefit from his sale and recoup their investments in him...instead of gaining nothing if he leaves as a free agent.

They must have packaged the deal in such way that shows Oshimen that he stood more to gain personally from Napoli selling him, than what he would get from walking away and signing as a free agent...if not, he has done Napoli a very big favour.

PSG or Chelsea will buy.

Same lies Buhari gave us for 8 full years. Yet uncountable trillions dey miss enter him people pocket .

Treasury dey empty, yet una see 5 billion naira to buy Yatch for hosting sailing parties...and fit carry large delegation go do jamboree for Dubai for climate summit.

Abi Presi get where him wan go wey Plane no fit carry am go.

Una never talk true.

I'm impressed

dkidd:

Ur still not a good person. U have a shady and dubious character. I bet u smile in front of ur so called friend when u pretend to "wish him well"
Now answer this. If u were this friend and u were married to another friends leftover without ur knowledge only to find out ur buddy whom u trusted actually passed her to u and u wifed her. How would u feel after the revelation? Wait! No need to answer here just keep that answer to urself. Word of advice always play straight as best u can in this life. There's a thin line between love and hate, friends and snakes and I believe u know where u stand in this divide. People do get missing for less. A man's wife is his highest treasure. U fvck with that u get fvcked not all men are forgiving and merciful. Always be straight in all ur dealings so when it's time to go u will know exactly what's coming for u. Nor go try this shii with some men. U think it's a code but ur soo wrong. When she's fed up of waiting for the unknown, She will eventually confess to her husband that u were just a mistake or even u took advantage of her when she was still naive. Then it will be her word against ur silence. He might pay u in ur own coin and u may not survive the outcome. Most of u guys no nothing about self preservation. Saying u dated or had a fling with someone doesn't make her a bad person. Leave that to whom is interested in her to decide. Never ever let ur friend find out ur keeping secrets from him with his woman. Women know how to play it and fine tune it to their advantage and at the end the girl u thought ur doing a favor will be ur doom. Worse is if this ur friend decides to feign ignorance all through while scheming on u. It's obvious u are a inexperienced because no man will leave himself at the mercy of a woman. I hope u die well... Literally I do wish u well Captain save em' 😀

You have a point and have spoken well...and i do not take offencw. But if you observe, I removed myself from the equation. I am no longer involved in their lives in anyway. Shady and dubious? No. Naive for not looking at the question from all angles ? Yes.

If I could stop dealing with human beings today and somehow survive. I would gladly do so. Even God regretted creating mankind.

Anyhow. Life goes own. There is no need crying over spilt milk. From life's experiences if someone were to ask me that question now, I would just tell him It's impossible to know anyone deeply and so I dont recommend anyone for marriage. That he should do his due diligence socially and spiritually before embarking on anything.

I no trust anybody again for this life. Even my shadow.

Later some people go say no be Israel.get the land.

You dey fight for wetin no be your own.

dkidd:

Technically speaking he was never truly a friend of ours maybe an acquaintance but definitely not a friend

There is no lady that I have ever dated, that someone will ask if she is good for marriage and I will say no...because I have dated her before. I don't own her and just because we are no longer together does not mean if someone I know wants to marry her, I will get in their way.

I will wish both of them well and stay the **ck out of their business.

EreluRoz:
If you weren't friend with the man it would be ok or what would you think will be his reaction if he ever finds out you've slept with his wife and still approved her for him.

If the wife does not tell him, I will never..na only two of us know.

They are both good people. I no longer speak to both of them so that they can enjoy themselves.

He asked me about her character. He did not ask me wether I have slept with her or not.

hopefulLandlord:
The idea of heaven is so stupid I wonder how people believe it lol
The Bible doesn't say much about what heaven is supposed to be like. Most of the claims about heaven are exaggerations of the Bible. The Bible says the Gates are made of pearl. What are the gates for? Are they made just as an excuse to irritate clams? Are the gates supposed to keep someone out or to keep souls from escaping?

it also says the streets are paved with gold but the only reason we actually like gold so much and we attach such values to it is because they are rare and difficult to extract. Gold is malleable and can be formed as needed for use in, among others, electronics, dentistry, medical tools, and the defense, aerospace, and automotive industries. Gold is durable and noncorrosive. However gold shouldn't be valuable at all in heaven unless we'd still need to use gold for those things in heaven too which actually makes heaven just another version of earth

The sales pitch for heaven is that there is only happiness and no sorrow. But it also says that many people's loved ones won't be there. Since they can't feel sorrow about that, are they ecstatic that their loved ones are being tortured forever? Either your memories are removed or your human empathy is removed. Is it really you that is left over once some parts of you have been removed?

If life matters to me now, it will always have mattered to me, even when I am gone. Death cannot change that.

Your best hope is to be locked in a gold cage with your memories of having an actual life being erased just so you can kiss ass for eternity.

Life is pleasant, death is serene. The transition might be troublesome but we all have to go through it. You shouldn't fear death so much. Heaven and hell are imaginary. You should reject the indoctrination. Life is much better that way.

To quote a friend: "Heaven's supposed to be this really great place, right? So how come a third of the angels got pissed off??"

I like your thought pattern. The afterlife is really unknown.

EreluRoz:
Do you think he'll marry her if he had prior knowledge that you once slept with her? As a friend to the man it is expected to tell him that you had sex with her before.

Or can you knowingly marry a woman your friend had sex with? But how is she comfortable with the arrangement sef.

They key is not to interfere in their lives. I don't call her I don't text her. I don't do anything. We knew early that we could not be together and moved on and remained good friends.

If I can't have something, why should I prevent another person from having it.

Life no dey complex

EreluRoz:
Mind how you mention churches anyhow for your fornication.

Aren't you a bad person for recommending someone you have slept with for your friend to marry? I guess it gives you pleasure each time you see her with your friend knowing fully well you've slept with her

Sex is fun to be enjoyed. So I should tell him she is a bad person or what. They are happily married. And I am proud of them both.

Iwobi can remain in London. Person wey dem don tie him legs together. Can't mark, cant tackle, can't stretch to receive a pass not directly to his feet.

We don't need him

I remember this Mercy...of Christ Embassy. Every Saturday. She either collects on her way to Choir rehearsal or when she is coming back from rehearsal on her way home.


The day she asked me what are we to each other? I said I don't know...but we are helpers.

She ran away soon after that.

Mary, we dey choir together ooo. Run am twice, the intellectual gap was way too much.
We just free ourselves honorably. A new choir member joined and told me he liked her and want to marry. I kuku recommend her and they did marry and have a child together.

Other than these two, I no dey like church parole till today.

Kushites:


Load of BIG FAT LIES AND TRASH.

“Farmers are not farming anymore…”

“Manufacturers are not manufacturing anymore…’’

“Most products are 2000% higher priced….”

ALL DIRTY LIES designed to support the criminal HOARDING of food items by greedy merchants looking to make a quick buck at the peoples’ expense.

You WILL be stopped. It doesn’t matter how many lies you tell.

When better hunger nack you, you no go get strength to type nonsense.

Babinski:


Pastor Adeboye's job is winning souls for Christ and not as a political activist, critic or social commentator. You cannot expect him to start inciting people against the Government because we all know how ruthless and vindictive our politicians are. It will be total lack of focus to get into political fights that can hamper his ministry and affect his primary duty.

Even Jesus Christ was an activist. He drove the money changers out of the temple with whips and spoke regularly against the actions of the pharisees and sadducees which ultimately led to his crucifixion.

A man of God must be ready to work that path.

Show me one man of God who did not speak the bitter truth to kings in the Bible.

From Moses, Elijah, Elisha, Nathan, Micah, Jeremiah,Daniel, Ezekiel, Paul, Peter. They all spoke the harsh truth to kings when needed and as commanded...and they suffered and some were killed for it.

Do you know how many months Jeremiah spent in a dry well as a prisoner or Micah in stocks or Peter that was crucified upside down or Paul that was in prison for many years or John that was a prisoner on the Islamd of Patmos...far away from civilization.

Dey play ooo. Man of God wey dey fear to talk truth...because him don dey compromised for decades.

One cannot but feel that Nigeria is under a curse. We have leaders who just do not care. They see all these but their primary if not only concern is to steal money and steal some more money to buy houses that they won't live in and gift money to hook up girls with big bom-bom.

We missed a golden opportunity with Peter Obi. He alone out of many seemed to grasp the gravity of the myriad problems and the willingness to provide solutions to them.

As far as I am concerned, Nigeria is gone...except there is a supernatural intervention.

a4cube:
It's seems the diasporans the hardship fall for head. Everyday calls and WhatsApp for money.

I'm telling you. I've hardened my heart now. Especially towards those that I know voted Tinubu for either tribal or religious reasons.

Built2last:
How people thought that a drug dealer with penchant for self aggrandisement will rig an election only to turn around and make life easy for the masses amaze me a great deal.

Why are people crying. Wait for another 4 to 6months. The e-rats defending the policies of this government will be stoned by close friends and family members. Just wait. No need for argument

Na we wey dey diaspora this thing pain pass. We screamed, we begged, we explained that this man is a wrong choice...but they still chose tribalism and religion over competence.

I had to imagine that perhaps a miracle would happen and somehow the man will try to prove us wrong.

I'm not surprised but I don't pity those childhood friends and old school mates who voted him.

Make them chop their tribalism. Na our brother dey there.

Tunde lives in Atlanta. Saw him last when AY was in town and came to play soccer with us.

May have moved to UK though, I doubt.

AfonjaEkiti:


He wasn't robbed for goodness sakes , he is simply failure.

Same with the owner of savannah bank

Same with union bank

Same with diamond bank

Same with oceanic bank

Business fold if you can't maintain or keep it the sharks come in to swallow shikena

How was he a failure. His bank was not in distress when they robbed him of it.

Sasaki wanted Erastus Akingbola to do something shady which he refused and Saraki used his childhood friend and old school mate at Kings College Sanusi who was the CBN governor to rob him of the bank.

Intercontinental Bank was not in distress when it was aquired by the CBN.

AfonjaEkiti:


Business is business.

Erastus had a poor business plan

He is done gone and forgotten, forget church or bible.

He lost and he is a failure a failure I say

So having a poor business plan meant he should be robbed of his sweat.

Intercontinental Bank was a leading bank and they robbed himof it.

nashito:
Hi guys,

I won’t bore you with long epistles. There’s this girl I’ve been dating since 2021 May, I met her in the East while I was having a short program there and left for Lagos around 2022 Oct, but, I can assure you we talk everyday if not thrive twice and in my heart I’ve felt like I’ve already met the right one and all along have closed my heart to loving anyone else. Even though I met her as a virgin and probably after two years of not seeing again. We met this December 2023 and I disflowered her and we still talk everyday, I’ve always felt this girl doesn’t love me enough, but is only serious with me cos I made her understand from the get go that I want her as my wife.

I’ve been struggling all through this period that I met her as I lost my job and all that but, she stuck by me, never bothered me much about her issues but, I know all of it. She gained admission last year but, her parents couldn’t afford her tuition fees and I made her understand I can’t chest such bills and instead I sent her to a catering school which is a one year program costing around 300k. I can afford this of course and have been making sure I take care of her school needs cos my plan was to marry her at the end of the year and as well set up a shop for her to do her bakery’s and all other things but, today been Valentine, she posted my pic and excluded everyone else from her status from seeing it and I happen to know cos I’ve got other lines I use to checkmate her activities which she is not aware of and finding this out, I told her to take down the picture as it was meaningless and she started posting other pictures we took together which everyone can obviously now see and when I talked to her that I wasn’t happy with what I just saw, she said it was just to see how I’d react and that she wasn’t serious but, I don’t believe her. At some point, she started eyeing someone that would pass as my younger brother, a boy who I took as a brother, I noticed it and approached her and she has denied it but, my instinct tells me otherwise and I’ve never ever forgotten bout it, cos I noticed how she was always looking at this guy each time she was with me and her body language changes as she would not even want to be close to me.


She’s from a very poor background, her mum left them all (5 kids) and ran away with another man and the dad had to send her in particular to her sister who raised her from 5 till now she’s 21. She has good characters I must admit and also has the height I’ve always wanted in a wife & which is what really made me choose her as my supposed wife and have been a very wonderful girl friend. I just don’t feel she loves me that much especially someone that knows how serious I take her, her parents have not met me but, have heard all bout me, her Anty who raised her talks to me from time to time. But, I don’t think my desires with this girl are what she desires too even though she confesses them too but, her actions always betray her words for instance, she started making fliers that she wants to start baking for ppl even before she graduates and stay on her own & this is someone I plan to wife latest Jan 5th next year. She only told me later and I said ok.

Guys I know Nairaland maybe toxic at times but, we’ve got a lot of people here with experience cos I’ve been on this app since 2006 and have never missed a day even when Nairaland was down, I visited every 5 to 10 minutes to check if it was up again.

What would be your advice for a supposedly 35 year old man with experience? Am I worrying too much or are the red flags here?

Note; I trusted her mostly cos she’s been a virgin and have kept herself till now and according to her, she only wants one man in her life and that’s the one who took away her innocence & her words on this May match her actions but, I’m not certain as I can’t obviously read her mind.

I know all about the simps and the red pill and I’m far from been a simp, infact, I’m an OG when it comes to women but, you naturally gets to an age and there’s nothing that occupies your mind other than doing what your mates are doing and also settling down for real with a family of your own. No matter how hard you may form, it gives you that sense of belonging.

Kindly drop your comments below and I’d be following, thank you all.

Telling her you want to marry her is an error.
It takes the excitement and mystery out of it for her.

If she is already attracted to a younger guy while with you, she will eventually sleep with him. It's just a matter of time and opportunity.

She is showing you she will leave you once she is no longer dependent on you for survival.

Forget virginity and professions of being with only the man who disvirgin her...people change and you can't build a future on the assurances of a woman.

The whores you see today were once virgins and in love with someone.

Continue to date her but start detaching emotionally so that you can use your brains more and take the best decision for yourself based on your observations.

miketayo:


You are probably rich.. I bought clippers $60 and cut the hair myself. I m becoming a pro gradually

Initially that is what I used to do. But Madam will complain tire. I only wish they knew how to barb well.