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Ransomware:
Ok young blood, allow me to break this down into crayons for you.




1. The man started training her in school hoping to marry her after school.

- Hope is not a strategy, dont confuse the 2

2. His family objected to the idea

- When you throw money from a moving car, I bet your family will object to that as well, does it mean the people who picked the money owe you marriage or whatever you were hoping for?

3. But he did (girl's statement of appreciation confirmed that).

- He made that decision, the girl did not force him. He got advice from his family but decided to go with his erection, now you lot are here flapping your gum. The lack of personal responsibility and accountability is what is holding Nigeria down. the absolute need to blame others when you were the one who made the decision and acted on that decision.

4. Despite knowing the family's position, she still accepted the offer

- If you know that the person tossing 1000 naira bills from a moving car on the highway is drunk, will you not pick up the money because he is drunk?

5. Done with school now, she suddenly looked back to Babylon like the biblical lot's wife.

- Do you know that people walk away from marriage at the altar? after all the money spent on the occasion.
If it doesn't feel right then it's not right. Money is not everything

From all that you have written here, all I can see is that you are either the type that will get a girl by the material thing you can offer her or you are the "come and save me type".
here is my advice. No one is coming, the earlier you know that the faster you will pull yourself up by the bootstraps. If you think that another human being owes you marriage because you paid her fees, then you are in for a miserable life in that marriage.
If you are confident in yourself as a man, then you will never hinge marriage on material things or your monetary income.

Another quick piece of advice for you boys and girls out there. go into marriage thinking of what you can offer not what you will get. It is a life of service, as a man, you will do most of the work, that woman and the kids live in your domain, you don't lord over them because you paid their fees, its your bleeping job. it is a life of service. it is not a show of dominance.
To you young bulls looking at older couples outside and you see the wife kneeling and being submissive by her husband, that did not come by him lording over her or reminding her of all the things he did for her. That came from that man being a caregiver, a helper, a listener, a provider, a firm person, an intelligent decision-maker, and a faithful man at home. The wife will worship him outside but you young boys think it is because he acts like a tyrant. love does not come from fear, pretense to survive is what you get.

have a productive day

Dengoh:
This guy cannot be sincere for once. Very fraudulent.

Roboto11:
This is the idiot some people wanted to vote.

Oyinbo, Chinese and Arabs wey dey do vacation get everything pass you.

Numpty.

slivertongue:
The president-select is back. We thank God for journey mercies and for healing and recovery.

Mature & without bitterness

garriAndsugar:
If somebody that's been resting abroad still needs to rest again in Nigeria then the warring factions should rest 72hrs also

jogojogo:
These are really not good examples of Christianity.

clearcrystal:
You will repeat this in July.

Shameless men of God everywhere...
They claim to hear from God but God has left them long time ago
The spirit of God has left their unclean body
They are beclouded by their shallow reasoning
No spiritual eyes to see what God has for Nigeria
They forgot that God's way is never our way
God hates it when the so called men of God idolizes Peter Obi
Seeing him as the messiah
The Pharisees in the Bible thought Jesus the messiah will come from the royal family
Alas the messiah came from where no one expected and was born in a manger.
Up till today, they are still waiting for the messiah.

O ye christians
It's time to wake up and rebuke fake Prophets and Pastors parading themselves as men of God.

Calibrator:
Nigeria is a secular state and all citizens have freedom of religion.


What is the legal reference for arresting someone with used diapers because last time I checked, the constitution does not acknowledge fetishism.


If there was no blood on the diapers to arouse foul play or intent to commit harm or any harm committed... This is wrong!

Ransomware:
She is absolutely right, if you are dumb enough to expect your reward for paying someone's school fees to be marriage, then you are too dumb to be the head of a household. That woman just saved the nation from having some super dumb kids in the future.
when you lord your accomplishment over your spouse, then that will be a horrible relationship.
If a man decides to drive down the high way and start throwing his money out the window, do those who pick up the money owe him marriage or what ever he cooks up in his head?
Is the person doing that sane enough to be in charge of anything?

maleekberry:
Shey nah the guy way release this video

Fineman2:
We have money but lack visionary leaders

RamseyKush:
Make him try am with Burna boy first

blackpanda:
You forgot this

jumper524:
Property worth 139million naira, is that too much for a man like keyamo to afford?

fourboys:
Any state wey APC no win people the rejoice

Zonefree:
What's the dance for? I wish God will open their eyes to realise that both Fintiri and Binani, none has good plans for the people of Adamawa.

RoyalUc:
"In a statement he personally signed on Wednesday..."

I was actually looking out for his signature

You forgot to urge police authorities to fully investigate all that transpired in the presidential election given the attendant controversy too.

Tboymessiah:
Koko how you dey

czarr:
maturation or masturbation.

Franzinni:
Peter obi lost the election becasue of obidients... They were busy insulting people online and forgetting that emotional politics is the surest way to losing... They all behave like little girls, throwing tantrums at the drop of the hat ...

I see some mumu typing tinubu is not my president up there, but if tinubu give order, you must obey abi?

Dey play!!!

Karlifate:


Alhaji Atiku won Osun State hands down & got some votes in Ekiti State too, but neither won any South-Eastern State nor got substantial votes from there.

Yet, they accuse Northerners for voting fellow Northerner(s), while they end up doing the same.

Yorubas are still the most accommodating people in Nigeria. 💯

Tallesty1:
North is quiet and that is what bothers me

CoronaVirusRelo:
Picture depicts a boy receiving a handshake from his master! This is exactly how confederate slave owners use to handshake their slaves.

Peter is so humble! He dreads the demigod!