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livebynite:
Should I Break Up With Her, Serious Advise Needed

I am in a bad situation and I need advice please
My gf Tinuke I call her tintin for short, has been the center of my world but for some time now certain things have me worried
We started dating 2 years ago then we moved in together after the sixth month, we do everything together at least whenever we can.
To be clear I am not a jealous person but somethings have really got me worried.
1. When we met she told me she has lots of guys as friends, and that she used to be a tomboy, even at work she has only guys as her friends, She works in KFC as a checkout girl.

2. We once went to her secondary school reunion and there where over 50 guys there and she was the only girl! I had to ask her if she went to an all guy’s school and she said these are the boy friends of her class mates that the girls will soon arrive. They never did she danced with every single guy there, but at least she introduced me to her 4 school sons and 3 school fathers who took care of her during her high school days. The only thing that bothered me about the night was she kept sitting on the laps of a particular guy who seemd way older than her to have been her school son back then and for some reason they were whispering stuff into each other’s ears all night.

3. I work with an importer as his wharehouse manager and sometimes I have to sleep there whenever we are doing stock taking and I have come home twice to find her with one of her school sons shirtless in my house and she says they are doing interview preparations (She has a big heart and loves helping people) so I can’t fault this I just always caution her to tell these guys to not take off their shirt in the house, yes granted the house I hot as we live in a self-contained. But they usually drink up all the garri in the house it’s so annoying!

4. We once went to see her uncle she grew up with somewhere in Ikoyi and when we got to bourdilion she had to call several times finally her uncles driver came to pick us, I had to wait in the security house while she went into see her uncle for over 5 hours and they didn’t even offer me ordinary water? I was so pissed.

5. KFC really stresses her out, she works even holidays, and every night around 10 her boss has to call and she has to give him reports sometimes he calls her to come back to the branch for random stock taking or reconciliation though he usually comes to pick her himself and is kind enough to send cool looking guys to drop her off the next day.

6. Another issue is that sex between us is so bad, as in every time we make love the song deep and wide constantly comes to mind, she says its the stress at work that makes her kitty so wide, I mean it is wide!! One can easily build a two wing duplex and still have space to park ten cars in there. We have had several talks about her quitting this job but not just because of how it affects her body but I have seen several nudes pictures of male organs to some rich customers sent to her, I was very angry but she explained that I shouldn’t that she always blocks the numbers.

7. Recently I came home and I found an empty condom wrap in the toilet seems it was flushed but didn’t go, she said she wanted to ask me who did that, and what really got me angry was I saw a plate in the sink with remnants of garri and milk, I was saving that remaining garri she said her school son dropped by for tutorials, I have wanted her in the past about using up the garri in the house for these guests, now I think this has gone far enough. AI am seriously thinking of breaking up with her. I need a woman who can manage our resources not waste! She is a truly wonderful person with a big heart but this wastage has got to stop. I love her but this thing is driving me nuts!!
Please mature comments only

Your woman cheated on you but you're only worried of garri

Weak men everywhere

Hungerbad

Tb222:
I remember a scenario, very horrible story it happened on the 31st of April 2013, I was travelling all d way from Ibadan after attending a wedding ceremony, while approaching the sagamu bend I got predded, I ignored the urge to park and relieve myself, but after a drive of about 14 mins the pressure became unbearable, I parked but had a bad feeling, my heart kept beating faster, I started to feel goose bumbs, I parked got out of the car with my pulse racing, sweat buds on my forehead as I approached the bush I heard a sound that was enough for me to turn around and run,but no I d rather know waz up than mess up my trousers, I wouldn't want to get home with a dark patch between my legs and smelling of urine, suddenly the grasses suddenly began to part ways like something was boring through it, and alas I saw it , at first I couldn't comprehend what it was, but those glittering eyes, the horrible stench, jesuuus the f.... oh my God could it be, was this why I felt uneasy .....heeeeelp I screamed as I ran with God knows how much force, then I felt something hit me from behind, like a slap at the back only this had a kind of electrifying effect, the next few seconds were in comprehensible, with a kind of speed unimaginable I felt something scaly swirl around my body only to my horror would I know what was about to happen to me then I felt it, like the weight of my car pressed against me, I suddenly felt my breathing stop and my lungs about to burst,I tried to scream but felt my self being drained of energy and moving at the same time,no this can't be happening to me, men I am only 32 still at my prime and enjoying the best of life, then I my head suddenly jerked upwards my ribs began to heave under the weight of unimaginable compression,only then did I see its face ,the dark yellowish glittering eyes,the dark brown scaly skin ,the acrid rotten egg like smell then it hit me, an..an....anaconda...w hat the heck was an anaconda doing right here in Africa according to my biology teachers and textbooks and confirmed by wildlife channel nat geo wild t, anacondas are limited only to the amazon forest of southamerica, have anacondas suddenly sprung up in Africa , this can't be possible, but give me some minutes let me go and check.

Be serious are you for real?

amani63:
for sure
Good night

kuku bury English

amani63:
the snake own is not even a miracle
If snake bite you go and treatment yourself

Lol @ go and treatment yourself

Na lady get that kind hairy leg like that

Bail is free

livelymatilda:
Hmmm...When last you test your eyes?
Good afternoon

Afternoon I lost interest in the show. It seems scripted, either Tobi, Miracle or teddy will win and I see nothing special about them.

I no see anything like sex between bam and teddy. Abi my eyes dey deceive me?

Gungnir:
You like amebo.

Random Q, how would you cope if you knew some kids you play with are at some point going to lose their father? How do you process such thoughts?

I no be amebo, I truly care about your well-being.
I don't like sad news like that but your(our) reaction towards things happening around us will change nothing. Try and encourage the kids. I did same to a friend who was HIV positive.

Gungnir:
Hmm, the answer long oh, but good. Thanks

How every every?

I'm listening
Fine

77up:
No

Why na? I want you to be my friend too

Gungnir:
It is well with you oh

Na dem sabi oh

How have you been?

77up:
wow friendship goal

Yeah, Eliza is my new friend, thank goodness she mentioned me that day. Are you Eliza?

Gungnir:
Madam long time, how body na?

Who give am belle?

I dey fine o, Miracle na

Gungnir:
Spits!

Isn't Tupac a mamas boy?

Why you dey spit? You don get belle like Nina?

deelizabeth93:
The way you call my name ehn...
Oyin...

The name of my only younger sister is Elizabeth. That's why I like calling you

deelizabeth93:
You're welcome.

Eliza

Miss, the man is too old for this. The lady should make sure she has the body before flaunting it in case of next time.

Rubbish!

Jaytecq:
Yoruba friend can help u

I don't have any, pls help me

More like them.no get deeq to offer, silly girl

See as Alex look like old witch

kevoh:
Na so una go dey vomit rubbish. So hausa, Yoruba and Igbo men don't act same way? The man that stabbed his banker wife to death that was on the news the other time is not Yoruba, he is Edo abi?

Fact is, any man that will be a douchebag like in he OP will always be a douchebag irrespective of tribe!

Bite me

robosky02:
lol

Bosky love, where you hide since?

Threebear:
My aunt just said ahneeka is the most beautiful girl in the house.... Am I the only one not seeing ahneeka's beauty?

Yes

Alphagan:
What exactly are you saying?

Nonsense

Most Edo men are like this.

AntiBrutus:
E go surprise you...

Poco baby, are you team CeeC?

thatigboman:
u are d one that should keep having vision. That big duns Tobi will leave the house before CeeC

Tobi is loved by viewers but I can't say same about CeeC

thatigboman:
The amount of hate against CeeC is unprecedented. I didnt like her for calling Nina a dustbin. Now Im supporting her. Everything CeeC says is so analysed. Is she the only housemate in the house?
Heritage MD has succeeded in unpairing that foolish fool Tobi from CeeC because they are sponsors of the program. God knows the fool will leave the house before CeeC.
The idiot Tobi called Nina a left-over food. We will show him he is the waste yhat gas ever existed in Big Brother Naija

Keep dreaming

livelymatilda:
Hope you are good...

Yes dear, you? Why did you change your way of writing?

Can't believe I'm still up

livelymatilda:
Happy weekend Oyindidi Babe.

Why this moniker?