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All the girls around you no one good for marriage, na for faceless forum you dey find wife. Never say never, good luck

maasoap:
"there are times". That's the difference. It is not everything that should be defended based on same gender, religion, tribe or politics.
I repeat, when you are guarding your "phone(s)" religiously in the house, something is definitely fish.

Nothing is fishy, people should know that life is not all about sex.

maasoap:
Hi, secrets! You all can guess what's up with not leaving your phone behind for a minute unless we're deceiving ourselves.

I'm using same password with my partner. Here is no secret zone.. There are times family matters will come hard and I'll be speaking my dialect and glued to my phone and oga will be complaining, there are issues I can't disclose till I'm okay. I don't expect someone to be a cry baby crying all over Nairaland. Like yesterday that my nephew was arrested I was speaking in codes till we secured his bail.

profsomebody:
Some of you women are funny. First you do things that raise suspicion then blame your partner for being insecure? And this trick favours only you because if you have any suspicions, you guys can easily voice them out (even if you're wrong) without issues. A girl can casually ask her bf "why are you smiling at your phone" and nobody will see it as a big deal, even though that's an insult to a faithful guy. But as a guy, you need to catch her red-handed lest she calls you insecure or plays the victim with "you're accusing me of cheating", even if she's a hoe truly. This is why guys keep quiet and end up raising another man's children, even when they see a lot of red flags that their woman is unfaithful, but they know that without being caught red-handed, it's difficult. We all saw how a man who suspected the paternity of his child did a FNA test which confirmed that the child was indeed not his. What did the estranged wife say about it? "He was being insecure." This is someone who was literally exposed as a cheat by DNA o.

Una go complain tire

In some places it's compulsory for their daughters to have their first child with them

hammerFC:
NUMBER 1 WAHALA SEASON, IT CONTINUES INTO THE EARLY 20s


YOUNG BLOOD!

I saw my son's dp on WhatsApp today I couldn't believe my eyes. Showed the father and he see nothing wrong with it. They need need guidance into adulthood.

lexy2014:
this matter no be teenagers matter

Are you a teenager? Una wahala too much abeg leave me

lexy2014:
its not a teenagers thing. the ones that they have killing for rituals werent teenagers

I know but teenagers too get wahala. I monitor my son like my life depends on it.

Hello insecurity!


Nairalanders, Una go quote tire. I be feminist wannabe wey no get shame.

Teenagers and wahala

Purvan:
When a wife is in need financially, the husband should say he doesn't have anything to give

This gender and sex

MICHEAL346:
You still seem not to understand, in a relationship (a proper one at that, where the man is the head or leads) he must be ready to deliberately allow his woman to feel her useful roles in the home. This is a point where men decide what a woman knows how to do best or better. The reason is if you don't recognize such you might come up as if you're in a competition, which you try to avoid.

Now I can sense the angle you're coming from. The problem is you think men do this because they could be scared of loosing her, but no that's not true. For centuries men have learnt through some natural force how to train the woman they love to behave around and in their life. One of these techniques we have learnt in handling women matter is Control... Every human wants to feel in control that at least they have something in their control, if you take away that control they feel powerless and broken. Also if they are not giving the chance to exercise their duty in these areas they are going to start feeling as if they are not needed hence the reason why men allow their women to take some decisions.

I hope this little writing helps clarify and lightning up your understanding. But if not, you will understand and learn when the time is right.

Yes

Watin you want make she grab your hand?

ibechris:
U will not heaven...

Why?

Hmmm...

Goalminded1:
Must you talk?
Did you have to?
I bet you couldn't resist the urge not to disobey the OP's directives.
Majority of the topics you come across, you must see it as an avenue to do gender comparison and subtly pit one against the other. Nawa o.

You are not okay

ExudeLoveToAll:
Most men allow women to take decision not because they can't it's because they want to reduce friction at home and also Carey the woman along. Relax and allow him sample opinion from the demography he wants.

I stated the fact and you know it. Nothing like carrying the women along

Most of the married men wey you trust for answer na their women dey make the decisions. You for ask the women

No sexual attraction there, you may regret after marriage.

Your neighbor dey sneak in, my own dey bring them anytime. Him wife dey another state, girls dey like with am for him house.

PrinceOfLagos:
For every evil that Tinubu Yoruba supporters wished on the south east people, they always get it back in double

It's always a back to sender

,2017 not 2023 oga

sunna4u:
War Criminals = Israel

Cry blaad hungry Nigerian

Come back for group hug

Jeon:
Not his fault, it is the way he brothers do hype Virginity is next to character ,a good timid and submissive woman and the key to a successful home.

Don't mind them

Eat fowl head

For you to blame all that happened on virginity , it shows you think like a boy and not a man. Grow up please

wittywriter:
Wittyness.

Na you sabi

Wahala everywhere

Beautiful family

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Higherthan:
We already knows who will dish out the death threats 😆…. It’ll be the same ppl who will insult you for not supporting their candidate, those who refuse to give their parents feeding money for supporting BAT, those who uses kick to wake their father from sleep it can only be them.
And they’re called THE HEADLESS MOB


So those headless mob knows who they are hahaha 🤣
My mentions is getting filled.
So you know yourselves as a headless mob?

[/s] NONSENSE!

HardMirror:
Since 2014, I finally made it to 40 days without gambling.
I want to advice every young man out there, PLEASE DO NOT START GAMBLING, dont let stories of people winning big tempt you. I know on this thread many people will come and tell you how they use one strategy or another to constantly win. I hope you do not learn the hard way.

I have lost over 10 million since 2014. I know a lawyer in Owerri, he is even very popular, has police escorts and all, he is a family friend. he has lost hundreds of millions to betting. This man is now a shadow of himself. i remember the month this man won about 54 million (with about 6 different tickets) he bought drinks for all of us and we celebrated at R&A hotel at Allen, but today this man don wreck o. i dont want to give details so it wont be like i am mocking him. Bet9ja has collected more than 10 times that N54million from this man. This is a man that sponsors politicians in Imo state, he is now almost a disgrace.

I have learned my own lesson too. Never again.

40 days is very special to me because, I used to bet EVERYDAY. it was like cocaine to me. The more i did not bet a day the more i was determined not to break my abstinence.

P.S. it is not God or prayers that helped me stop. I am an Atheist and my sister that i confided in that is helping me focus is also an atheist.
Prayers may work for you if you fear and respect god enough, but for me I have reached a point anything betting irritates me.

Na God still help you

No worry, she go find you come.

Chispa:
are you talking about a simp without remedy?

You are like a lost soul if you feel that way about your wife. I've never in my life transfer a Kobo from his account to mine. Simp kwa😂 go and ask about Edo men