₦airaland Forum

TopBanter:
Lol. The boy dey take Portable advice like gospel. "Ru'oju pa Le oju pa Ma rerin Kala Daju".

Though he manages half a smile with PBAT below sha. Lol

TRIXIA:
You make me laugh. Spent several years in the best American and British schools in Nigeria. They spill alot even at 6th form stage. Alot sef

ElSudani:
I've heard of "helicopter parents" what are we supposed to call this?
UFO parents?

QVicky10:
All this endless ranting, as if he’s blameless, when he’s the one who chose to abandon the marriage.
Did he stop for a moment to think about the pain he’d cause his children, about how his leaving tears their world apart? Now he’s upset, that she’s asking for child support—how else was she supposed to provide for their children?
It’s heartbreaking, the way he turns his back and then complains when life demands responsibility.
Additionally, he has the option to pursue joint custody if he wishes to spend more time with his children.

Judolisco:
Sorry but shey una no get elders 4 una family?

papyjaypaul:
I still don't understand why African women change their surnames. It is not an African culture but many of them don't even know what they are doing. It is African culture they think is backward while European or American culture they think is woke is the one that will maltreat them and mislead them.

The British saw marriage as a transaction which makes you the woman his property. In Africa, marriage is between families and you are not his property. You are the child of your father and your family name is intact. If you divorce him, there is a way to go around it but you do not take his name. No be your husband born you or own you. The British brought this culture of theirs under colonialism and you adopted it. You adopted their white wedding. Now you want to adopt their gay nonsense but your forefathers tradition and polygamy is the worst. It's the one that deprived you of freedom. It's the one that took your surname. It's the one your mothers were slaves, mumu and too calm. You better take some time to learn about your history and stop condemning everything using European brain and Arab eyes. The people you think are more advanced than you don't respect their women the way Africa does. Quote me anywhere. But our women want to eat their cake and have it. They want me and women to be equal in marriage. They want to be the head of the house. Go on and find out. The other woman I read already took 2Face's surname in Caps. This one here cannot change her ig name 🤡 Your African culture already knew what to do when it's marriage, divorce or death. No culture is perfect but if you listen to most Nigerians, they don't even know their culture. They just want to be like oyinbo wey no get culture. Oyinbo wey de oppress women. Oyinbo wey you get right pass them but dem deceive you to think you are oppressed.

Keep fighting for fake freedom and be abusing Africa, saying what we have here is patriarchy, is this or that. Until you taste the other side, you won't know how much freedom you had from those who love you. Una go get sense by force.

papyjaypaul:
There is nothing like that. The problem is that we do not appreciate our culture and history. Do you know that markets are connected to the Oba? The Iyaloja is a member of the King's cabinet and the King gets to know the feelings of the people through what the market women say? Our mothers worked and earned without problem until the British colonialists came to destroy our system of government. It won't happen in Igbo markets because historically Igbo don't have the same system but the story of Funmilayo and Aba women's rights should have taught Nigerians some lessons about who they are. Alas!

Our society has been destroyed by Western ideas and some people who call themselves feminists without knowing who they are will say their fathers are misogynistic and all that nonsense. They don't know how powerful their mothers were before oyinbo came to destroy what they had. Now the oyinbo are contaminating their minds the way they did in the west to make them compete with men instead of us working together as a society. Everyone had their roles, both men and women. The same British called our fathers idiots for giving their women so much freedom such as Iyaloja!!! They did not allow women participate in their own democracies, today women are looking for crumbs to eat in that thing they call percentage whatever. They are begging the Presidents to give them space. How foolish can Africans be!

Do your own research on why we had the Aba Women Riot and the Abeokuta riot, all led by women. Even in Black America, women were tired of being lied to because they saw white massa sleeping with them and giving them false hopes. Women are protectors of the society. Today I saw one boy on Nairaland who said a woman without 500k should not get married. Women in Nigeria have been raped off their power and deceived with feminine rights by oyinbo who make them hate their ancestors and love fake oyinbo rights. The women did not take a careful study of how these oyinbo gave their own women rights and when.

Before you reply me, if you choose to reply me, listen to Prof first and reflect on who we historically are. If you don't know your history, you will repeat the mistakes of the past



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H4hZ2DmS0bk

bazoodo:
of course before colonialism men held charge in societies. We had kingdoms and women were seen and not heard. In fact you dare not try to be heard as a woman. However today women want to not only be heard but be in charge. So their own values are now forced down everyone. So the destruction of Africa started from the colonialism not African men per se. If African men had been able to fight them and won then it would have been a saner climate today

bazoodo:
truth is the black woman has the worst inferiority complex in the world. That's why Africa is a mess cos the mother's pass on this inferiority complex to their sons and daughters and so the neo colonialism continues

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6tOfv0F4B78


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QGTl41VRPF4

nairalanda1:
Also, nothing like 24 hours tv. TV where i lived came on at 4 pm every day, maybe 12 noon on saturdays (till 1991, when Cadbury breakfast tv started ariring early at 7-8 am). And parents controlled TV viewing times. Any programme considered immoral...tv got turned off. (lol).

And my father used to yell at us to watch educative programmes like Speak out back then. Anything entertainement was a waste of time...lol.

Nowadays, DSTV and the internet have given us a variety of choices, but it kind of has robbed innocence. At least under the good old days of NTA....most of the time programming was not kids oriented, so we had to go out and play until sunset. Now...

Ikaeniyan0:
Who watch Passions in the early 2000?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vF_5ApkMwRk?si=j8vgzgjEm_jjc-BL

atobs4real:
to promote her market

papyjaypaul:
☝️

The African mind has been so brainwashed, they only see the world through religion and that is how they take sides. I don't think a lot of people realize there are Muslims in Israel, Christians in Palestine and Jews in Lebanon. You just want to take sides thinking religion will make you all friends.

Aren't the Emirati messing up Sudan? Are both not Muslims

Aren't the Israeli rejecting Ethiopian Jews and now recruiting Africans to fight wars

You guys don't even take some time to find who your ancestors were, you just take sides in a religious supremacy battle while they mess you up. Wise up



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bUsXt8TmVfU

Botragelad:
Oh, so Israel is the one ruining Africa? Did you forget the Arab slavers who dragged your ancestors across the Sahara in chains, or the African kings who sold them for profit? Not the corrupt leaders who steal your money while your roads crumble?

Keep screaming about Israel. That’ll definitely fix your electricity, your schools, and your economy. The rest of the planet is busy actually doing things. But no problem, at least you’ve got someone to blame, right?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b0lfF9iu7pA


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8NivxgGJxk0?feature=shared


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_mZhWiXp-ls?feature=shared


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uEldDu42jMI?feature=shared


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o1bf2dqXM_E?feature=shared


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E_KNrt6_9NY

papyjaypaul:
Not only him, they are many. But he's no different from Tinubu who should have let someone else run and remain the godfather he claimed to be but godfather sef Wan hustle. They are all hustlers. It's all about their bellies not the nation. Have you forgotten when they revealed Tinubu wanted to be Buhari's vice and he objected because it was Muslim Muslim? Shey they said he is the Guardiola of political talents, he can select like Ferguson and mentor like Zidane. It's all packaged lies, thank God he is now President and we can see him for who he is. Those who knew him from Lagos know they are just packaging lies for national. The same man brought Buhari to us for his selfish ambitions, he and Atiku are not really different, one of them just gbajue pass the other one. Didn't they both work together in the past? Atiku has been on this since 1993, this is 32 years. Is he and Tinubu not telling us that in 30 years, they did not know how to build young people that will lead Nigeria? Atiku worked to destroy PDP from within so that he could get the AC ticket and be president. The only reason he is not in APC today is because Tinubu is there and he can't have his way with him there. Didn't they both have deals for PDP tsunami in 2007? All of them is about me, me, me, me, me. They just want to satisfy that desire to be called president even if age or their health will not allow them to do well. They are selfish and believe they can buy everyone with money. There's no much difference between Atiku and Tinubu, it's just friends in different parties and one of them got what the other wanted badly.

Most of the elders around 80 should be ashamed of themselves.


Edit: I want Atiku to keep staying in PDP. While you may think he is the problem of PDP, he is also a problem to his friend, Tinubu. Tinubu also wants to be sure that his money bag friend won't contest against him in 2027. It is part of eliminating the competition and knowing those who can be bought. It's better not to give in easily until the final moment. APC also wants to see what cards opposition will throw at them, that's why you see them attacking Obi the 3rd more than Atiku the 2nd. Atiku is their customer and he still has a base in the North no matter what you think. Don't make it easy to predict. APC and PDP did not plan for what happened with LP in 2023 within short notice. 24 hrs is a long time in politics. No one knows tomorrow.

papyjaypaul:
Atiku needs to step aside.

What brought the different groups to form PDP in 1998 was rotating power between the North and South. The rotation was what made Atiku gang up against Jonathan in 2015 for breaking the principle, first in 2011. Now they are leaving him. Don't forget that Atiku could not be a vice again so he supported Ribadu and the Gtbank guy against GEJ and they lost. They tried again in 2015, this time with Buhari and they won.

Atiku has lost against Northern and Southern candidates. He should not have contested in 2023, even if he had the right to. He worked with ACN in 2007 and has been flip flopping for his selfish ambition to be President. If we are surprised at Wike's behavior, I think PDP set the standard so low they allowed people like this to control their party and destroy it.

If he thinks his story will be like Buhari, he should remember Buhari first contested with his base in ANPP and CPC so he did not need the party per se but it was the bloc votes Tinubu saw that made them beg him to contest one more time and they found the right time and opportunity. Tinubu's 'win' has given him another false hope. He should read the handwriting on the wall.

Tenisam:
Your thoughts process is behind schedule because how does this resonate with Tinubu?? You lots thinks backwards on this space. If TVC was a startup, they will raise some mad funding with that AI. Roll and grow with future you say no. Everything nah to blame government. I'm sure even if you fail exams you will still blame the government. Tueh for you

Kewekubosineh:
How do you know. Are you a deaf man?

Bendeco02:
This is content.

They must not shout if they are really deaf.

Even people that talk don't make noise inside bank

qtx:
Guys, not everything in life must be put into jokes. What I learned from here is that not everyone that is well dressed or even on a plane is normal.

papyjaypaul:
It's when you have a politician in power you talk about the next election before halftime. It means that kind of person has nothing to offer but politics. They can't govern. They can't lead. Think about it. It mens Tinubu has nothing to show for that it's 2027 that's the hot topic in 2025. Normally, we would be talking about 2 years in office but we are talking about who will defeat him. What a country.

miketayo:
2 contradicting statements from you.

Nobody wants to listen to AI broadcasting news. That's like preferring bot over an agent when you call cust service

Khallicopyro:
What of those currently studying Mass communication/journalism in the country? Where will they get job when they are out of school?

femi4:
Haaaa

If you dey read mass communication/ journalism for school...it's over