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Your man is either a fraud or he is done with the relationship for whatever reason best known to him. It could be due to availability of other options but when a Nigerians want you as his wife he will do everything to sustain that relationship n yes many will break up a union without a child but the only guarante against that is ensuring your girl gets pregnant n your plan your wedding around that date, at least that’s what I did.

Odabo123:
I am posting this for advice. I met the man of my dreams in Aug 2018. He is from Nigeria, he had only lived in America for 5 months when I met him. I am an American citizen but not by birth I am originally from the Caribbean. I don’t know Nigerian customs other than what he has taught me. We are both currently enrolled in university obtaining our professional degrees he is in finance sector I am in medical field. He is 34 and I am 32 neither of us are previously married or have children. It has been a wonderful romance but we have had our hiccups along the way as most couples do. My family fear he is not genuine but I do not feel this way. He has had some women as friends that I did not approve of. Nonetheless we are working through that. I have met his brother and spoken to his sisters and nieces. I love his family. They remind me of my own very solid and loving. He has only met my sister but agrees that my family seems like his. Both of our parents have been married over 50 years. The have no outside children neither of us were raised that way. We both come from Christian households and attend church together when we are not working. A month ago after we had been dating 7 months I asked him a hypothetical question. “if I could not get pregnant would this be a deal breaker?” His answer was yes it would be and further to this he informed that he would either file for divorce or get a woman outside of our marriage pregnant because kids are mandatory for him. This surprised me, I am high risk for pregnancy (he was told from the start) the plan was I would plan with my doctor and get off any medications that might hurt the baby, this did not mean I cannot get pregnant we may just need to try longer, or it might be complicated, but as with all women there is never a guarantee. I asked him for assurance that he would not step outside our relationship, if we had this issue and I would in return assure him that we would try to have as many children as he wanted. He could not give me this assurance . I asked him to let us try to get pregnant now so we could know and If I got pregnant we could get married he says he cannot get me pregnant outside of marriage.
Now he wants to end the relationship.
Is this how any Nigerian man would react or is it more likely that he is looking for an excuse to move on?

I will be dammed if a stinking bigot like you can ever be Yoruba. You desire it but will never be, I learnt to smell stinking pigs miles away al ong time ago.

proxillin:
Meanwhile I am yoruba from Ile-Ife, I do not regard Igbos here..they will never be united. Tinubu is the latest afonja selling yorubas to fulanis.

On my father part. I was brought up by people of moral values. I will not join you in trading insult. I respect ur parents..i won't insult them. I am omoluabi

proxillin:
Southerners need to use their brains and stone people like tinubu and obasanjo to death

But southerners should leave cursed souls like Pius Anyim, Ekwueme in his hell grave, Orji, Kalu, Ugwauyi, Ekweremadu n all other God forsaken foolish Igbo politicians ba ?

Your father need his head re-examined for outright foolishness / madness.

Was the recording to help the girl or herself ?

Stanweezy:
Please they should remember Stephanie Orijoyce that recorded the viral video... See as they relegate the gal. Without her recording the conversation who sabi success kwanu?

Igbos already wailing, there favorite past time.

Not sorry you ain’t intelligent enough to understand sarcasm.

invectives:
Opeyemi,who says am Igbo? U dumb or what?

So you PDP want to rule over almajiri state ?! The God you worship as shamed you n will always continue to shame you.

donstan18:
Good news!!!!

I pray for PDP to also do the same in Kano state.

APC is too corrupt and evil to rule an overpopulated state like Kano.

Taking you up on your 1 million naira bet if your a serious, Adeleke is not winning this at the Supreme Court when it get there. What n what detail do we need to cement this ?

MajorJeffery:
You want to bet the 1million? We can involve the mods and paste a written gentlemen agreement here.

You PDP supporters are more pathetic than any can ever imagine. The presiding judge clearly stated he is against that decision, even in case where Dakuku n Mama Taraba won at the lower court before proceeding to the appeal court never in the history as a presiding officer being that outspoken yet those two end up losing at the appeal n Supreme Court talkless of Adeleke that won based of cancellation of supplementary election.

So your dead brain expect the appeal to uphold supplementary elections should not be held in Nigeria again so PDP can win ba ? I told you severally you are not a smart individual, always work with your brain n not party sentiments.

awelekiti:
after the tribunal, its appeal court ruling cos I'm sure the apc would appeal the ruling and pursue the case to any extent, even though governorship electoral cases end at the appeal court...however, with the facts adeleke has on ground, it's unlikely that the judgement would be upturned eventually

Igbo n the politics of bitterness / foolishness OP pls show NL a pix of your father in 1999 n a pictures of all the delivish PDP politicians you support in 1999 let see how they look like they are from war torn Ethiopia.

NORSIYK:
This picture was taken in 2011,The man at the middle looking famished and frustrated is the governorship candidate of AA, CHIEF OF STAFF TO ROCHAS AND SON IN-LAW AS WELL.

2011, he was nobody, 8years after, without a job and tangible business, 2019, he could gather billions to contest for governor in IMO STATE.... Which Abracadabra and money ritual is worst than this from Imo state coffer.

Hmmmmmm, our state bailout fund, unseen, unexecuted road contracts and lands forcefully grabbed must be retrieved. Please no one should shout witch hunting or foul play when the dye is cast.

Endless foolish Eboes opening foolish thread like that did claiming Jonathan n Atiku will win there separately presidential election, we all know where that ends n we all know where this will end as well.

Was it grounded by APC or are you brain dead ?

Finnese001:
What of Nigeria air ??

Prove or rot in hell

excel101:
Let me clear your ignorance, for your information President Buhari, budgeted and repaired same refinery in his first term in office, he's still repeating it again..

How come that of Russia Saudi Arabia etc are working ?

bendike:
Government has no business running refinaries. It will not work and can never work as long as you have civil servants running the place. They are the locust you mentioned and not PDP, APC etc. The refinaries will continue to be money pits except they are sold.

What now happens to the northern agenda after losing Bauchi n possibly Kano ?

See them up, foolish set of humans. They rather Atiku sell the NNPC to himself, sick country with excessively foolish people.

This is unlike the cursed PDP that will budget billions of dollar for TAM for refineries n at the end of the day declared the wrong type of TAM was ordered n this happened for the 16 years it ruled. May it never be well with PDP n each n everyone of it supporters for the locust years it took Nigeria through.

naijapips04:
how many times has APC informed us about this same repairs of refineries ? They've been singing it since they got into office

How this does not sound foolish n completely senselessly to you is beyond me, APC sings without wasting billions of dollars in TAM but PDP does sing but waste billions of dollars on TAM only to claim it paid for the wrong TAM yearly for 16 years ?!

And in anyone sick head it is APC you chose to blame ?! At times it feels like I live with only mad people in this Nigeria.

The Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation on Thursday announced the formal commencement of the first phase of the rehabilitation of the 210,000 barrels per day capacity Port Harcourt refinery.

Port Harcourt refinery complex also houses the 60,000 barrels per day old refinery that was built in 1965 and the 150,000 barrels per day new refinery, inaugurated in 1989.


The Group Managing Director, NNPC, Maikanti Baru, flagged-off the formal commencement of the rehabilitation work on the facility at the premises of the refinery in Port Harcourt on Thursday, 19 years after the last Turn Around Maintenance exercise of the nation’s premier refining plant.

NNPC Group General Manager, Group Public Affairs Division, Ndu Ughamadu, in a statement issued in Abuja, said the project would be executed by Milan-based Maire Tecnimont S.p.A, in collaboration with its Nigerian affiliate, Tecnimont Nigeria.

NNPC said it was engaging Eni/NAOC as Technical Advisor to support the rehabilitation of Port Harcourt Refining Company and that NNPC/PHRC would leverage Eni’s extensive refinery supply chain network and warehouses to procure critical materials for the programme.

The corporation’s spokesperson noted that the first phase of the rehabilitation contract, which would run for six months, would involve detailed integrity check and equipment inspection of the Port Harcourt refinery complex beginning from the end of March 2019.


According to Ughamadu, the integrity test will come as a forerunner to the second phase of the rehabilitation project which entails a comprehensive revamp of the complex aimed at restoring the refinery to a minimum of 90 per cent capacity utilisation.

He noted that subject to the successful completion of the integrity checks, Phase Two of the project would be executed on an Engineering Procurement Construction basis by Tecnimont in collaboration with the original builders of the plant, JGC of Japan.


Speaking on behalf of the contractors, Antonio Vella, Chief Officer, Upstream, Eni, said all the companies involved would deploy all available modern resources to ensure effective upgrade of the plant.

Vella stated that with the commitment of all parties involved, it was certain that NNPC would be able to celebrate the revamp of the PHRC that would lead to its full capacity utilisation on schedule and in full safety.


Speaking on behalf of the workers’ unions, the Branch Chairman of the Petroleum and Natural Gas Senior Staff Association, Odor Ayiri, and Chairman of the National Union of Petroleum and Natural Gas Workers, Dibiah Joseph, jointly pledged the support of workers to ensuring a smooth turnaround of the facility.

Recall that NNPC had to abandon its earlier funding strategy by its DSDP Term Contractors/Consortia due to onerous conditions demanded after more than 12 months of negotiations.

NNPC resorted to immediate direct funding from internal cash flows while it approached the financial markets for debt financing.

NNPC further segmented the rehabilitation to begin with Port Harcourt refinery complex and then progress to Warri and Kaduna refinery complexes using the same methodology.

https://punchng.com/nnpc-begins-rehabilitation-of-port-harcourt-refinery/

A loser dreaming about the future how foolish can some many of you pathetic Eboes be ?

ChristianNorth:
Since pre-independence till 2015, can you point out one single political alliance has successfully entered into?

Just one successful alliance and you guys are displaying arrogance.

2023 no far again, we shall see who is politically backward.

You PDP supporters are pathetic to the extent you wish the past n truth away but that will never happen. You must be paid back in your own coin by fire by force.

Tyche:
You obviously have no brain at all

Reasoning of dull head raises by PDP
Is Buhari son your CJN or president?!
How a party grooms to take over from lunatics like Dino Abaribe n co is beyond my comprehension

Udantu:
Mr man shut up

The corrupt judge has only 44 million in his account after changing to naira but saint buhari son crashed 53 million power bike and wasted fuel during fuel scarcity

Even if APC is cursed lying, any foolish comment you have to say Atiku will not win from the court. The earlier you get that into you thick dull head the beta. All this your epistle na story.

Nebuchadnezar:
this people should quit the reverse psychology and defend themselves and their fraudulent mandate.
wetin concern them?
na their money?
I taught they supposed to be happy their enemy is wasting money why all this rants about Atiku spending money blah blah blah?
do they think Atiku is an Olodo that doesn't know when he gat case worth throwing in few wads of cash?
or is there something that is bothering them we don't know?

now i believe galadima that said apc paid some people to beg and probably discourage Atiku from going to court because this rants of lately is something else

I was discussing with a staunch apc man a barrister yesterday and we're arguing the same thing which was Atiku going to court and I asked him
tell me a good reason why Atiku was not supposed to go to court?

I was surprised that a whole barrister not even all these newly ones oo this particular man has been in the profession for decades a man in his fifties
I was surprised that he told me that the reason Atiku should not go to court is because of the alleged peace accord they signed
I was like peace accord? is that one in our constitution? he claimed that it's an agreement and that Atiku suppose to honor it
I was like eehmm barrister the last time i remembered Atiku gave conditions of accepting the result which was a case of free and fair election.
he kept quite

ok i went ahead and asked him, as an experienced practicing legal practitioner do you think Atiku have a good case in the court?
no reply from him


my conclusion : obviously Atiku insisting on going to court have put apc and inec off balance hence they delay tactics like granting pdp access to ballots

they taught like Gej Atiku will concede defeat but Atiku refusal has thrown them in confusion.
they plan b was that illegal removal of Onnoghen and now it seems that the judge is innocent of every accusations.

NJC should as a matter of fact do the needful and suspend that illegal acting puppet sharia bastard tanko

PDP n foolish endless talk

Wike must never be allowed to write election result from the comfort of his bedroom. Vote must count in Rivers, the populace must be allowed to chose the candidate of their choice without intimidation n Wike storming collation centers to switch results with one he wrote from his bedroom like he did at the by election.

dedonfranco:
Wike can't believe wats happening to Him.
Just be Gud at all time.

Na u go tell me mumu

Xxpress:
You are wrong. The card reader used in 2015 is different to the one used this year

Keep giving yourself false hope till it is dashed. Card reader have been used twice in Nigerian presidential election n it as always been the same no single change to the device but foolishness won’t let you ask corp member that partook in the electioneering process.

Ratello:
Mind you this was the Card Readers used in 2015 unlike the ones deplored for usage in this year's election that can serve dual purposes.

starring:
How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?

That girl is a diehard liar will do anything or tell any amount of lie just so you don’t leave. If you believe that is love you will only be fooling yourself, you can deduce how she lie seamlessly only to admit after you caught her. Notice she never confessed to any of her fault until she’s caught at each junction if you marry such you will know khaki no be leather. Their deception tricks n deceit is from space.

Will you be adding this to shore up vote of candidate Igbo support after losing in 2023 again or you are just gathering like for waste like you did 2019 ?!

invectives:
Like for Dangote share for elrufai

Judging from PDP loss during Ebele time believing anything your likes n pachukwudie77 as to say will be the most foolish thing considering how every thesis n permutations you have always laid out have been rubbished time over time to no end.


This foolish lie you are spreading will be rubbished by the court 4 you 2 move to another lie. Only fools believe you considering you have no iota of integrity in your life, those fool only come from a particular tribe they live n dine on hate & bigotry.

Ratello:
The Truth Cannot Be Hidden.

The Real Results of the 2019 Nigeria Presidential election.
I am an INEC staff. I cannot in good conscience be part of any manipulation. These are the hard facts and can easily be verified. The source of the data are INEC servers. The server name, IP address and mac addresses of the various servers have been attached as proof of authenticity. These are results and accreditations streamed to the INEC servers from the card readers at the polling stations. A forensic analysis of the INEC servers will confirm same. The Presidential election results captured on INEC servers shows President Buhari scored 16,741,430 votes, Atiku Abubakar scored 18,356,732 votes and other candidates combined scored 1,332,522. The total accredited voters for the election as reported by the card reader is 37,668,305.
This data does not include Rivers State. At the time of this snapshot, the servers didn’t have any data for Rivers State.
Click on link below to view all the data.
May God help us.

https://www.factsdontlieng.com/

Long live the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

Okorocha will finally get his certificate n there is nothing your father or INEC can do about it.

Flirtyjane:
Finally, governor Rochas Okorocha has gotten his certificate of return. The certificate was issued to him in his hometown by the President General of Ogboko Town Development Union for his outstanding act of building statues.

Show him some love.