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[b]Thirty Things To Let Go Off Before 2014 Ends.... ......Since the year is coming to a close and the New Year is just around the corner, which inspires many of us to refocus our energy and attention on the right things (new year resolutions), I think it’s a perfect time right now to start letting go of the wrong things. Sometimes the hardest part isn’t letting go, but rather learning to start over in certain areas of your life. This is a challenge all of us face. So today, I challenge you to this: Before the New Year… 1. Let Go Of Your Temper. 2. Let Go Of Petty Grudges. – Life is far too short to be spent nursing bitterness and registering wrongs. If there’s someone in your life who deserves another chance, give it to them. 3. Let Go Of The Idea That Everyone Has It Better Than You. – If the grass looks greener on the other side… Stop staring. Stop comparing. Stop complaining and START watering the grass you’re standing on. 4. Let Go Of Lingering False Beliefs. 5. Let Go Of Expired Ideals. – Growth is painful. Change is painful. But in the end, nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you do not belong. 6. Let Go Of Yesterday’s Tragedies. 7. Let Go Of Your Tendency To Avoid Problems. 8. Let Go Of Life’s Little Annoyances. – Don’t let dumb little things break your happiness. Frustration and stress come from the way you react, not the way things are. Adjust your attitude, and the frustration and stress is gone. 9. Let Go Of Assuming Other People Are More “Normal” Than You. – The only normal people you know are the ones you don’t know very well. Period. 10. Let Go Acting Standoffish And Unapproachable. – We all need to learn to be more human. Don’t avoid eye contact. Don’t hide behind gadgets. Smile often. Ask about people’s stories. Listen. 11. Let Go Of The Idea That Some People Are Below You. – Even if you’ve worked really hard to get to where you are in life, there’s no such thing as a self- made person. Someone believed, encouraged, and invested in you. Be grateful and be that someone for others too. 12. Let Go Of The Idea That You Are What You Physically Own. – You are an incredible human being who’s entirely detached from what you have physically acquired in this world. Remember to remain humble. Ultimately, two things define you more than anything else: Your patience when you have very little, and your attitude when you have more than enough. 13. Let Go Of Wanting Stuff You Don’t Need. 14. Let Go Of Seeking Happiness From Outside Yourself. – In life, you have to create your own sunshine. Happiness starts from within. 15. Let Go Of Wanting To Be Repaid Of Every Good Deed You Do. 16. Let Go Of All The Little White Lies And Charades. – How do you build credibility? It’s not rocket science. Be honest. Follow through. Honor your promises. Say sorry when you screw up. Be the type of person you want to meet and spend time with. Be the type of person whose actions, words and values always agree with each other. 17. Let Go Of Any Hypocrisy. 18. Let Go Of Putting Everyone Else’s Needs In Front Of Your Own. – Give as much as you can every day, but don’t allow yourself to be used. Listen to others closely, but don’t lose your own voice. 19. Let Go Of Fearing What Your Intuition Is Telling You To Do. – Fear kills more dreams than failure ever will. So don’t let fear shut you down; let it wake you up. Do one thing every day that scares you. The more that you act on your intuition fearlessly, the more your intuition will serve you. If you genuinely feel something, pay attention. 20. Let Go Of Waiting For The Stars To Align. – Remember, you don’t always need the perfect plan. Sometimes you just need to give it a try, let go, and see what happens. Just do the best you can until you know better. Once you know better, do better. 21. Let Go Of The Need To Get Everything Done At Once. 22. Let Go Of The “All Or Nothing” Mentality Regarding Success. – Appreciate the grey area between the extremes of success and failure – the journey, the process, the path – what you’re learning, how you’re helping others learn too, and the growing process you allow yourself to participate in. And above all, never let success get to your head or failure get to your heart. 23. Let Go Of Criticizing Yourself. – Nobody is inspired by your misery or self-deprecating comments. If you wish to inspire yourself and others, be joyful. Have fun. Love yourself. Forgive yourself. Accept yourself. Be unapologetically YOU. 24. Let Go Of Those Who Say You Aren’t Attractive Enough. – More women worldwide are suffering from anorexia and bulimia than are fighting breast cancer. There are similar statistics for men too. Love yourself the way you are, because you are beautiful just the way you are. 25. Let Go Of Changing Just To Impress People. – Change because it makes you a better person and leads you to a brighter future. Change because you know it’s the right thing to do for YOU. 26. Let Go Of Needing Everyone To Like You. – Everyone doesn’t need to like you, and some people won’t no matter what you do. Try not to take the things these people say about you personally. What they think and say is a reflection of them, not you. 27. Let Go Of All Negative Influences. Period. 28. Let Go Of Thinking That Giving Up The Wrong Things (And Relationships) Means Failure. 29. Let Go Of The Idea That It’s Too Late To Start Over And Get It Right. 30. Let Go Of Putting Things Off For One More Day. – Stop procrastinating. Stop wishing for it and start working for it. Do what you have to do today so you can do what you truly want to do, and be where you truly want to be, tomorrow. "Sometimes the hardest part isn’t letting go, but rather learning to start over in certain areas of your life". This is a challenge all of us face- EVEN ME. If you’re struggling with any of the points above, there is a clear path to the new beginning you seek. Your present habits are simply broken and need to be mended. When you trust a broken set of habits every day, it’s only a matter of time before you feel broken too. Compiled by Innocent Igwe (K2I) http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2014/12/thirty-things-to-let-go-off-before-2014.html Compliments Of The Season.[/b] |
The same Ayogu Eze that walked out of Nnamdi Azikiwe Stadium where dignitaries(Ekweremadu, Sullivan, Gil Nnaji and co) and delegates were seated for the primaries now ran to daily post to shout that he won the primaries. That fool that brought no single development to Enugu North better go and bury his face in shame. Good for nothing man.!!! Ayogu or whatever your name is; Thanks for the show of SHAME |
Why did it take this long |
Pls can someone tell them we ain't no yardstick for measuring terror or any related vices. They should deal with their problem and don't bother giving us a mention. At least their son(Obama) will send US troops and sell them the cobra fighter jets asap.... But how come the two areas( Kenya & Nigeria) are both North East ![]() |
Niger Delta ![]() |
U tosyne2much: |
Kindness at it's peak God bless you man |
Oh looks nice!!! As my money never complete for RR 2014......I think I have seen a good option |
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Hmmm |
Great news on a great morning like this filled with great hopes and God's abundance grace!!! If you wish to have a peaceful Nigeria of your dream; CLICK LIKE |
Joke section please |
I don't think Tambuwal has all it takes to pull a massive vote come valentine's day 2015 |
barnabasj:Your grammar tho ![]() |
Thank God there is no Arabic/Hausa writings on it |
cramjones:propandagist; why didn't you capture Buhari's campaign on aerial view too? You only capture a part of the venue where is the crowd is much, we are watching you all. BTE the later map of Nigeria look better and sexier( less mouths to feed with oil money) ![]() |
If you wish to quote me, pls make it civil |
This sort of news is what I wish to wake up to every morning.. |
Now I have seen the car to grace my future garage!!!! |
I wonder how this changes the life of those dying of hunger or the impact this shiT will have on our economy! Pls can someone honourably put me in the know about the benefits of this nonsense? |
Why that? Does he have any case against them or just exercising his powers? |
Can we just move on from this man's defection? This brouhaha about his defection is becoming too boring!!! Argh |
Cramjokes !!! |
Oh lest I forget, even my senior brother is with Kwara United's U18 team!! Who cares anyway?? All in All, Happy Birthday!!! |
if you don't, who will? or you looking for whom to call a cheap girl? as far as the flag is green white and green, it's your responsibility to initiate such |
Confusion everywhere!!! Tomorrow DHQ will also come out to debunk the news of BH ceasefire.. I don tire for this country joor ; |
adrainuche:Product of dead brains |
Really? Only on paper! ![]() |
Which category will 9ice, Aunty Kate, Tony Tetulla, Ken Okonkwo fall into come 2015 if elected? Hope we ain't gonna be seeing shitty nollywood in the house instead of purposeful deliberation!!!! |
Emalachi:What's in the second tab of that pix? Ultimate pen enlargement!!! Bros I bow for you o |


