₦airaland Forum

So the pillars only fall when it'sa woman spreading her legs open outside marriage?

Since married men have been fvcking everything that crawls the pillars have not been falling right?

mysticwarrior:
Breaching the sacred bond of marriage established with God as witness is sacrilege, the moment a woman spreads her legs wide open outside her marriage then there is trouble, if caught the pillars and foundation of that marriage Which is trust would collapsed, that marriage would never remain the same even if the man accept her back.

Really?

INTEGRITYA1:
Nice one, Even Our Presido in Person of Buhari was pleased with this move. No shocking on this matter.

It happens

Lol

Female genital mutilation, domestic violence, rape etc are some of the problems women face in Nigeria?

Equity15:
eveeybody is groaning because she's a lady..I bet if this happened to a guy, nobody will bat an eyelid. or aren't these personal/private questions to a guy too? but i trust Nigerians they'll even insist he's also a thief..



ladies really have it easy sha. na only pregnancy/child birth be their problem. even at that they are given special treatment anywhere

Pls keep quiet. You how many countries have you been to?

I was schooling in Europe and in the first year Nigerians started attending our university a Nigerian broke an academic record and that was despite the fact that indians had been there for years.

Also, whenever results were out the first 5 times would be Nigerian before an indian and then several other Nigerian names before you start seeing more Indians.

Stop saying what you don't know.

NewDelhi:
The hype about Nigerians doing well abroad is getting too much.. You can't even compare Nigerians to the Asians. Most especially Indians and Chinese. They go there and make waves yet you hear little noise about it. But here in naija we go as far as saying Nigerians are the most intelligent people in the world all because one graduated with first class whereas he was just one Nigerian out if many foreigners that came out with first class.. How many countries have you been to or what do you know to conclude that Nigerians are the most intelligent in the world.

Damn

When we call crude "our oyel", ya'll get upset saying it is Nigerian property, why then does it hurt you guys when people say Lagos is no man's land when truly it was developed mostly using resources from another region?

It is people like you that end up disappointed and embarrassed the most cuz you don't believe you can be rejected by a woman.

A woman has repeatedly said no but you still believe there are many ways

Jeffyblaq:
In as much as I don't condone such.. sex is a mutual consent between 2 mature folks.

This man is simply not a G.


There are Many ways to take off dat panties with ease and not begging.


Konji is realy a muderfucking bastard

Hope you're having a good day with your fellow mad men at yabaleft?

gambia:
You are officially mad.

But when they freely give you call them olosho, what do you want?
So it's women's fault that men can't control their third leg?

DisLifeSha:
Because the ladies with the punna will not freely give what has been given to them by God free

Senseless, stupid comment.

LordOfTheGame:
I understand your sarcasm but bitches been suffering and destroying men since days of Adam and Eve. Why did she keep the man waiting for years instead of telling him straight away, No? Now she decided to destroy him because the man lost hope in her and went for her friend instead. She just took a very wicked pound of flesh from him.

It's the woman that will suffer? From what exactly?

Seems your brain is on vacation.

allthingsgood:
The unfortunate part is that it's this woman that will suffer Las Las. Society and her fiancee will punish her, just for allowing herself to b harassed

Did Akpabio do something similar?

Ghostmode2two:
As if olosho nor dey for Ghana. The man Na confirm donkey.Begging for sex as if it is the. end of the world. I hope Akpabio learns from this. Make I enter small

You're the doomed one to have been on numerous porn sites accessing Ghanaian porn.

Barmankef:
Normal things for Ghana its a doomed country
If you see number of sextapes tagged Ghanian on numerous porn sites you would be awed

You just can't have sense again in this life.

gambia:
Daughters of Jezebel everywhere, I wonder why some men cant just behave.

Lmao....

Okokobioko

chiiraq802:
Lemme just put my tongue....I will not lick....
pls na!!!!

Stop saying what you don't know.

Isoko were in times past known as eastern urhobos. Stop saying what you don't know.

Also, Okpe is NOT a distinct ethnic group YET. So until they become distinct and have their own identity they remain urhobos.

These are facts, not fiction and facts don't care about your feelings.

Igboid:
Isoko were always independent of Urhobo.
Every single colonial document recorded Isoko different from Urhobo. So don't make it look like Isoko pulled out of Urhobo. They were never part of the Urhobo union, even though a few Isoko persons played prominent role in UPU in the past, just as Clark Edwin despite being Ijaw, played a role in UPU of the old because his town Kiagbodo, even though are Ijaw claiming, speak Urhobo as first language because of their early entanglement with Olomo people.

Okpe people have many denials who will tell you openly that they are not Urhobos. The current Okpe traditional leaders might be pro Urhobo because of benefits from UPU, but what do you think would happen if a foreign force invades Urhobo land and retires the current traditional rulers while making the ones denying Urhobo tag the new rulers of Okpe or giving the current rulers ultimatum to either accept being non Urhobo or abdicate their thrones? Thats exactly what happened in Igboids areas of Rivers state.

For example, Eze Ogbuehi Francis Ellah became a pariah in Ogbaland at the hands of FG sponsored Igbo denials there, because he refused to end alliance with Igbo union.

Facts!!!

Oghene1st:
Isoko was part of Urhobo until 1957 when Chief James Otobo influenced the creation during his tenure in Western House of Assembly, Ibadan.

Even till now, you won't hear any Isoko song without adding Urhobo to it. like 'Isoko and Urhobo' which shows that they still recognise the unity then. But still yet, Urhobo nor carry am for head like una Igbos. Igbos for worst pass white for colonialism.

Urhobos are the most populated ethnic group in Delta. Facts over fiction.

chuka5000:
oghenechukwu be wise, how urhobo wey dey share Delta south with itsekiri isoko and ijaw take pass the whole of Delta north

These comments show that most Nigerian men are useless, evil and idiotic.

Segalink oshey

Op, rest assured only two people can get you out of this mess

1... GOD
2... Segalink.

punisha:
Go to twitter and look for segalink.... Tell him ur case he will attend to OR hand u over the proper person's and make sure the top oga's are involved. This is a case of extortion.
You are entitled to get every dime u have spent and more as u can prove u have nothing to do with and at asaba on the 7th.
Don't fret or u will become their cash cow for a long time.

Oh pls shut up with your hypocrisy.

There is literally a runsboy there who is a not only a stripper but an exotic dancer as well.

Have you condemned him?

It only women you people know how to condemn.

StephenBB:
Another sets of runs girls who have and will sell their pussies

Listen to me and make sure you do this.

Go back to the person that told you the truth.

Plead with the person to divulge the information and promise it will be a secret between the both of you and that your on you will never tell your dad no matter what.

If possible make a monetary pledge and fulfill it after you're told.

If and when she tells you and you find the woman. Before you fully accept her as your mother, be sure to run a DNA test for confirmation first.

That's because i watched a documentary where a woman falsely claimed to be the mother of a long lost child but dna proved she wasn't the mother.

Godlovesyou28:
I just told my dad I was going to kill myself if he fails to tell me who my mum is and he told me not to mention his name on my death note and Hung up

The bolded is the best thing I've read today.

2special:
My own principles is...Be friend to everybody but be selective about who you bring into your inner circle. Let people qualify for the investment of your time and energy.. Do it deliberate. Have a protocol of accepting access into your life cuz if the devil wants to destroy, he send someone and when God wants to lift you, he send people. The difference in people is the different in your life... Get stronger and be more selective.... Choose base on their character not their job qualification, you know them better.

At the bolded, a survey abi research was carried out in America and it was found that most women would stay with a sick or disabled partner whereas most men wouldn't.

Infact the ratio of men to women who stayed with their partners who were sick is just disheartening.

Yet these NL boys will want to demonise women.

A family friend of ours died yesterday in her parents house because her husband had taken her back to her parents when she fell ill.

My dad's sister died this year also and that was after her husband not only abandoned her but fled from their home when she fell ill and guess what, the said man is even a pastor.

How many Nigerian men do you see get taken back to their parents house for care after they fall sick? But it's an everyday occurence for woman who fall sick.

That is to tell you that men cannot do 1/10th what women do in terms of sticking with a partner for betterbof worse.

cococandy:
What you do ultimately depends on your specific situation.

Only those who have cared for bedridden patients 24/7, 365 days a year can have a real opinion on this issue. I can’t even have a realistic opinion on this if I were to be in your situation. Like personally I won’t leave him because love and feelings and for better for worse right? But I also feel like I would be more equipped to deal with it than you seem to be right now, so my reality won’t be same as yours.

In your case, How bad is the damage? Can he move his arms?
Is therapy an option so that he can at least learn to move himself from wheelchair to bed?
What’s his spirit like? A lot of people get depressed in situations like this and some of them become mean towards their caregivers. If that’s the case, how much of it can you take?

If he’s totally bed ridden? In that case,Who will be the bread winner while you’re at his bedside caring for him. He will develop sacral and other bony prominence pressure ulcers if he’s not turned and repositioned at least every two hours.

You need someone to care for him while you hustle to feed and provide for the family. You can’t do both because you can’t be in two places at once. You say his family doesn’t want to help, Has he personally reached out to them? Sometimes you grovel for what you really need. He can’t let pride get in the way now.

As for sex, that part is probably permanently damaged. I can’t tell you what to do, because you will eventually do what you want to do.

Realistically, were you to be the injured party, he wouldn’t go without sex for the rest of his life, sit at your bedside cleaning your poo and pee for the 6-7 times you use the bathroom a day and still find a way to provide for you and your child. At the very best, your family members would be the ones nursing you while he cares for the kid and provides for the family. And no, he wouldn’t be celibate for the rest of his young life. Yes, he would be a very good man for doing that much.
People often hold women to inhuman and lofty standards. Don’t join them to punish yourself like that.

If you divorce him, he will be in worse condition than he is now so please don’t listen to those who are asking you to leave because you can’t take the lack of sex.
He should learn to be smart about what he needs and not what his pride dictates.

Husband still remain? When all you put your d!ck inside any hole.

Women are not the ones raping, and fvcking ashewo left, right and center.

You men are so cheap but you don't know it yet.

slim147:
So because the guy isn’t a Virgin then you should be distributing your pussy all over the streets nah?
Shey wife still remain for the life like this? Because all of una na dustbin una suppose dey. Chai

Oga, even in the bible God didn't speak of pregnancy outside wedlock, do you know why?

It is because he already condemned fornication. Fornication is the sin here, and pregnancy outside wedlock is the product of that sin.

So if you cannot fornication or if you have been fvcking who you're not married to, you're a shameless hypocrite.

Nairaboi:
These guys just say thrash without giving a thought to what they even say. Naturally a man is supposed to marry a woman before the issue of pregnancy crops up. But here we are trying to condemn someone who wants the right thing to be done. Go ahead and wish their sisters to have children out of wedlock and see how they come for you.
Murdafuckin hypocrites

You that have been fvcking outside wedlock you wanna preach?

Nairaboi:
How stupid and myopic of you to conclude that. She was not even supposed to get pregnant without being married in the first place so stop sounding like a broken record.

Mumu. Wizkid with 3 kids outside wedlock, is he useful?

Revolva:
Useless ladies of this generation

If wizkid is well mannered will he fvck his manager? Will he have 3 babymamas?

Olodo.

Jesse25:
if Jada is well manner she won't have open her leg for a guy who she is managing...

Mark's viewers are mainly foreigners.

Also, pls don't make it look like it's YouTube's fault.

It all boils down to what the advertisers pay for their adverts. USA has big companies that better for adverts so when an American watches an ad on your video it pays better than when a Nigerian does.

Clicked:
Abeg who Nigerian viewers epp. If you know how YouTube works, you'd know that your niche and your viewers countries matters a lot.

You'd see two people with 1 million views, one earning up to $10,000 while the other one just $800.

YouTube doesn't pay much if you have mainly African viewers.