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Hed0nist:
Na overtly faithful guys de get this kind issue. When I say overtly, I mean that it might just be too obvious that you’re faithful. I’m not saying you should cheat.

I’m telling you to mirror her attitude. In a cool way. on the low. You ma should have babes sleep over at your crib. Babes that you call friends. Not people you’ve known for a long time o but people that you would have been sleeping with if you weren’t faithful to your babe. Have other girls around you.

Don’t argue with her again on the issue. The more needy you seem, the more confidence you give her to continue nonsense. Having girls around will solve 2 things; it will make you realize that she’s not all that. Secondly, it will keep her on her toes if she really likes you.

Don’t cheat. Just mirror her actions. Don’t seem needy.

To answer your question, only bitch niggas allow their official babe with big ass to sleep over in another able bodied man’s house. Girl wey know say you like am go like see how far she can push your patience. Na wetin you allow na him gats endure.

Well said.

yorubarere:
Your logical mind is telling you something but your mumu mind no wan gree

You're actually the mumu here. There's two sides to every story, a man simply needs clarity but your dumb red pill self would rather mock than give reasonable advice. Get the F out of here man

Sammy101111:
For you to call a woman and she did not pick
She is with someone More important than you
Lol not her father but another guy
Her dad cant stop you from receiving calls here family cant stop her from receiving or calling any one
Na lie that she is with a guy and she know one loose the guy because if you call her reaction go show say she is talking to her guy . so move on gentle bro
This ladies her hoes
Once you call a lady up to 3 times and she can't even say call me back am busy or she did not even pick she no get time be that .Be smarter than her dont let her give you red card first give her first by ignoring her too and letting go your own soulmate will come

Noted, thank you

helinues:
You said the lady visited her family not that she relocated.

Why not wait till she returns and have a mature conversation?

It's one of the logical things to do. I just had a moment of confusion and needed some advice. Thanks for your input bro

arthurwillia:
There’s more to it then baba
Use your head well

Oshey

ZooCountry45:
I'm a man but I don't even call my babe more than 2 times.. Let's say I called her my 7am with no picking, I'll call her again by 12pm... Omo eee women matter don tire me.





So op my brother, stop being emotional.. She dey villa with other men coming..

If you can't hear, continue calling until she answers you in a man's bed with a moan voice..

Thanks for your input comrade

Truvelisback:
Bro, read this.

Oh well...

Mood11:
But what is your inner mind telling you exactly? If you are someone whose mind doesn't play tricks on then listen to whatever your mind is telling you right now.

Busy means anything.
Even if her family has hooked her up with someone from abroad or she's not with her family but with her main guy and his family or even having her introduction ceremony seff she will still tell you she's busy.

Thanks for your input. My inner mind breeds really bleeped up thoughts. Dirty thoughts like being on 120km/hr and being scared my brakes would fail. Overthinking has made me do some really dumb things in the past. That's why I need another perspective. Thanks for providing that

Candidlady:
@bolded you were thinking they have kidnapd your babe ba?

i am so sure you do most of the calling(s)..

Mr SIMPson the advice you seek is SIMPle. SIMPlify that girl owta your life!¤what a redpiller would say¤

I really don't have the energy to engage you. I'm no simp, I'm just confused and need to see things from other perspectives.

People like you over complicate simple things, I guess in your relationship you don't call your partner so they can be the one doing "most of the calling"

That's the problem with pseudo red pillers, they never bring any solution, just vomit and abuse the word "simp" and it's synonyms.

Thanks for your input anyway.

This threat isn't for red pillers. While the movement is good, some of it's statues are unrealistic.

Going to the point.

I am in a 3 month old relationship with a very beautiful woman, she's a kind hearted nice person and she loves me to the best of my knowledge.

She's with her family for the yuletide and since she got there she has been acting Strange, she barely calls, barely texts and when I do she more often than not would not pick, she later returns with logical explanations (understandably)

The issue here is knowing what I know about nigerian women (no offense to women reading ) I feel there's more.

We had a spat earlier today where she consistently ignored my calls and even kept cutting off my calls, she later said her dad was making a call with her phone. She's a very transparent person as far as I know but I didn't buy that one.

I need advice, am I over thinking this? Logical responses only please, no one knows it all.

Bola146:
As for me I don't see anything bad in that, it's a way to show honour and respect to him, it's just a visit not forever, he will soon go to his house.

NB If you truly want a happy home, don't seek advice on social media, those kids who can't maintain a week relationship will advise you astray. What works for A might not work for B.

Even with your modifications, it's the same thing!!! Is the man living forever in your house? Why come here to rant instead of telling your wife directly that she did something wrong?! You see why I always said good communication with intimacy are good in every home especially with this teens getting married everyday. I know he will still come back to ask if it's good for his wife to be greeting him every morning or late in the night orishirishi Dear Lord have mercy on us all

Some women sorry people infact most people hate communication. We all like to throw the word around but when it comes to dialogue, accepting responsibilities most humans will flare and turn things around till you forget what it is that you wanted to communicate about. There's nothing wrong in him coming here, as his sense of discretion is intact.