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Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Nobody: 8:14pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
mardis:Wait, so if it was the OPs Parents that came visiting, is she supposed to serve him first before serving his parents food? |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Nobody: 8:15pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Things that shouldn't even be an issue in life is what these ones are carrying on their heads |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Tzar(m): 8:18pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Oga she has shown you the hierarchy of authority in her life. As the HEAD of your home, Call her attention to it & demand a change. If she corrects the error, you are lucky. Make sure you reward her with more affection. If she doesn’t change from her error, mark my words, YOU ARE DOOMED IN THAT MARRIAGE! SayAsSeen: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by 1x2x3: 8:19pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Simran94: I already told him to have his cigarette then go and eat his food. He has no case as long as food is enough for everyone. |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by faste: 8:20pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Alabo7978:I think that woman has not really left her father's house! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Mom007(f): 8:22pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
My own question is why you are housing your sisters elder brother... He no get house and family ni? He is a man, doesn't he have his own home? Look, when a handshake has passed elbow, it has become something else. What happened to him visiting and going back to his house? Oga pls be weary of those folks. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by mardis: 8:23pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Fiscus105: True talk my brother. Op shey you read ba? 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by samdaisi: 8:23pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Sir you're right in everything in marriage husband first but you need to correct her with love she might not known the negative effect of it, sir it's not good to reject her food she is your love In those days our mothers reverence our father the way Sarah reverenced our father Abraham. Let us 4get about the issue of new generation that somebody mentioned b4 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by jeff1607(m): 8:24pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Olunmercy56: Another scenario A husband receives salary , he first gives his relative min the house staying with him and later or the following day gives the wife her part how would you think she would feel. The husband comes first even if the president comes to the house same as the wife should come first in the life of a husband no matter how small the detail 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Freemasonry: 8:24pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Bola146:You said some reasonable things shaa, but your condescending tone spoilt it for me. |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by mardis: 8:27pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Simran94: Ofcourse yes, infact op's parent should tell the wife to serve her husband first before serving them. That is the right thing to do. It is their own way of promoting love and respect between the couple. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Clinghton: 8:31pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Very wrong, she should first give you the respect before anyone else. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by samdaisi: 8:31pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
[ Wait, so if it was the OPs Parents that came visiting, is she supposed to serve him first before serving his parents food? Yes if it's my mother you give such type of food she will not eat it until you serve your husband first My mother will tell you that your husband house is different from her husband house, by so doing your husband first in everything you are doing provided you're under the umbrella of your husband 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by yemi1504: 8:33pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
BullyBullies: AMEN and God bless you too for your rational and especially logically thinking. What I have noticed about people's opinions these days is that they think in a herd mentality and thinks whatever the majority thinks is right is right and is ascribed as their opinions too as long as it is normal which is not the right thing to do but by thinking logically and doing what is proper that is rather the best. Cheers bro and Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you in advance! 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Youngxx: 8:35pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
SayAsSeen: For me if the so called brother was awake it would be a different story, but the fact that she went and wake him up to eat before you is bad, why not wait for your brother to wake up before the food? U live your hungry husband go dey wake who dey sleep to come eat who does that? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by yemi1504: 8:35pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Mercychen: You can say that again! Happy to see a female perspective is thinking logically on this one! 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by notoriousbabe: 8:41pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Bola146:amen mommy 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by yemi1504: 8:42pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
God1000: Please do go ahead and get married! I am planning to next year even though I think the women of this generation are quite a piece of work as regards building a home due to all these flying feminism and feminists influences these days SMH. Remember, there is an out in marriage, if you are not happy at all in marriage, there is a divorce option of course after exhausting all your options in finding a solution to the unhappiness and it didn't work. Your happiness matters, yes even over your family and other people's views and opinions! I took a drastic decision today for my happiness and self preservation and don't owe anyone an explanation for it! That should be your mantra too! Your happiness and those of your children if there are any in the marriage! Watch Daddy's Little Girls By Tyler Perry to see what I am talking about! 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by ledaman: 8:43pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
What is the big deal about serving her brother first before you? You should be happy that he comes and stays with you people for some days consider it as an honour bro! It just a mindset thing |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by ambr055i: 8:47pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Olunmercy56: Or the one that will only see things in your way. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Wettoid123: 8:50pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
there is know issue here now bro even whenever i visit my sister she serve me food b4 her husband and nobody is raising eyebrow because of that, but we poor men sha he get as we take dey reason oooo |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by passcord31: 8:50pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Bola146: Some women sorry people infact most people hate communication. We all like to throw the word around but when it comes to dialogue, accepting responsibilities most humans will flare and turn things around till you forget what it is that you wanted to communicate about. There's nothing wrong in him coming here, as his sense of discretion is intact. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by yemi1504: 8:52pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
God1000: I don't go to church too but their Bible says God is not in a building rather in our hearts! Just something for you to ponder on! Besides, if you are in a relationship, open your eyes wide and be alert to watch out for red flags and don't ever think love or marriage will mask it as they all tell you to be "tolerant". My last ex was impulsive, money hungry and had anger management issues, I saw those issues on time and quickly cut off and moved on and I don't go to church due to personal and self-preservation reasons. I didn't think love will overcome that, anything a lady you are in a relationship does that doesn't give you peace of mind either now or in the near future, talk about it with her, if you see no changes, quickly cut off and move on. Love and marriage never changes a person's character and behavior, the person rather changes himself or herself. My 2 cents. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by notoriousbabe: 8:53pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Your find don finally show you where you belong, you better be careful before something go happen 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by yemi1504: 8:55pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
airexx: One of the feminists ones we are talking about, they will tell you to go and serve yourself! Some are even worse, they will tell you to cook instead despite not being in a good frame of mind due to being hungry. No idea how to build and maintain a home in the name of being woke SMH. |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by skj1377(m): 8:55pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
how long is the brother staying in your house. even a hotel with bread and breakfast will not wake you up from bed with food. anyways her brother is enjoying good hospitality at your expense . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Testimony1988(m): 8:58pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Just relax, he will soon go. |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by yemi1504: 8:59pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
elantraceey: SMH. Awon woke generation, no matter divorces dey fly left, right, center, up and down lol. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by adelaja70(m): 9:05pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Alabo7978:The husband dey lie to cover his shame... No be only bed na mat. |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by diplomat058(m): 9:05pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Pataricatering:Congrats to you on your marriage. You must be married to a Man who is willing to tolerate such irrational impunity else I don't know how a Man would be severely undervalued in his own home. And yes, ego is a core psychological component of personality. Without it, we would be shameless and sheepish. We only need it to be moderate cos excess breeds mania. My Wife-to-be MUST always acknowledge and regard me as the Head that I am. Telling me to go serve myself is way overboard. I can do it, but it would be a plea, not a stupid rhetoric 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by yemi1504: 9:06pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Amanda4life: E no reach that one na! Left to me, if I were in the Op's shoes, talk about it the first time and warn her, second time, I will go and take my food myself in anger but most importantly, send the brother that has obviously overstayed his welcome out of my house with my attitude and finally my actions! Yes, I can be that vindictive in relaying a message, someone refused to take! |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by yemi1504: 9:08pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
MadeMan01: Thank you! Don't know where Africans learn this welcome visitors over house occupants balderdash from! |
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