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Ebola matter again?
Another pretext to syphon more money.
Just like what they did during COVID-19

Everyone just be catching cruise in this govt.
Is Tinubu even aware that he is the president of the country?

If someone keeps reminding you that he is your friend, just know that he is a bad friend. Or a fake One.

Willy2025:
All these ones decamping are retards or APC rejects with zero electoral values. The only party befitting them is NDC so that they can be soundly defeated
NDC does not have structures or offices anywhere in the country except Yenagoa and Seriake Dickson sitting room in Abuja. They don't have party offices anywhere in Nigeria except on the social media. Is that the party or people to be taken seriously

You ignorantly said the same thing in 2023. The only structure APC has is a rigging structure.
Peter Obi has the Nigerian people as his structure.
We the people have rejected the ineffectual Tinubu.

Transfer window Will soon close. Very shameless politicians we have here.

Hamachi:
Rhere’s some truth in the pressure many Nigerian men face especially with inflation, unemployment, family responsibilities, and the cultural expectation that a man must always “provide.” That pressure is very real.

But I think this argument becomes unfair when it paints women as if they’re just sitting back doing nothing.

A lot of Nigerian women are also carrying invisible burdens that men often overlook:

They contribute financially in relationships too sometimes quietly. They cook, nurture, support emotionally, adjust careers for marriage, deal with pregnancy risks, childcare expectations, and in many cases still contribute to bills.

Some women are paying their own transport, splitting dates, supporting struggling partners, and even helping men build from scratch but those stories rarely trend because outrage gets more attention.

Also, we need to be honest that many men still tie their identity to being providers. Some insist on paying for everything because it makes them feel needed, then later become resentful about the very role they voluntarily embraced.

And on the flip side, some women absolutely exploit men financially that conversation should happen too. “Billing culture” is real in some circles. But it’s not representative of all women.

The bigger issue is that both genders are often dating with unhealthy scripts:

Men are told: your worth is your wallet.
Women are told: your beauty and presence are enough.

Both ideas are flawed.

Healthy relationships require mutual effort, but effort doesn’t always look identical.

Sometimes a man may contribute more financially while a woman contributes more emotionally or domestically. In another relationship, both may split things equally. The key is whether both people genuinely feel valued.

The real question shouldn’t be:

“What am I getting from women?”

It should be:

“Am I in a relationship where effort, sacrifice, and care flow both ways?”

Because there are women being used by emotionally unavailable men.
And there are men being used by financially entitled women.

Both experiences are valid.

The solution is not gender wars — it’s choosing better partners, setting boundaries early, and refusing relationships built on entitlement from either side.

Very brilliant and Objective contribution.
Thank you.

LordBiden:
You guys should respect yourselves in that SA,our new Ambassador designate Femi fani kayode is a no nonsense person.

You mean, he is a shameless person?

Zonefree:
Make bandits just come gather all of them enter bush.

If na me just post this they mods would have suspended me.

eepeepook:
You should’ve typed it and found out.

Fear of getting block. Nairaland admins no get joy ooo. Any comment wey no favour their agenda, attracts blocking or Suspension.
They could even suspend Me for This comment especially that one that goes by the name MYND

Is the use of the word /seks/ now a taboo on this forum?
I read a post here and genital meet and greet keeps on popping up.

[quote author=nairavsdollars post=139199838]It appears this is how the big boys greet[/qyuhuote]
Ol boy go hustle so that people can talk about you.
IF nobody talks about you then you are a nobody

Houseofglam7:
Stop the consumption of alcohol altogether in Nigeria if you value your life and health.

Advice taken

Lai just woke up from his coma. Someone should please explain to this shameless liar what has been happening since he slipped into coma.
Election times are here. Agents of darkness are coming out one by one from their hiding places

kad199:
Nobody dream like u igbos, so u really think if nigeria is ever goung to divide It would break along just d 3 ethnic group. Aside that self anybody who think Biafra would come is living a phool dream.

If an inconsistent buffoon like Tinubu can be a president of Nigeria, anything can happen. Or is it not the same Nigeria where we have two parallel governments in the north? One run by the constitution and the other by Muhammedian terrorists?

Ezeama400:
Very mischievous human being called Okowa..

Like I have said before..


The useless empty headed Okowa is playing with our intelligence.. The man is totally against state creation, but he doesn’t want to say it with his full chest, hence his latest geo political zone sound he’s singing.. Unfortunately the ship has left him long time ago, including his gullible followers/supporters..

He knows that it’s impossible for Anioma to be created and remain in SS.. The options on the table are , Anioma state created and ceded to south East, or it will never be created ever again..
The state creation slot belongs to South East, not South south region. Currently the South East has the yam and the knife as it stands..

South south doesn’t have a slot at all.. If another slot comes to South South in the future. ,Ijaws, Eket and other ethnic groups agitating for state creation in South South will never ever give it to Anioma because they would remind us that our time is gone..


Before people jump into this issue, understand the politics going on in South South region..

Okowa knows he would be reduced to political nothingness when Anioma emerges that’s why he’s running halter skelter

Where is it stated that it can't remain in the south south if created?
Are there no regions with 7 states in Nigeria? Why is Kwara not grouped anong the South West region despite being a Yoruba state? The Anioma people are exactly not igbos and they know it. If Biafra becomes a reality, they will not allign because they will become a hopeless minority.

Wahala wahala
..
Wahala no go ever finish for life.
Over sabi everywhere

Those dudes are high on drugs.
Have you not noticed how hard drugs is being sold at every street corner and no One is questioning or arrests them since City Rogue assumed the throne?

Typical of all Tinubu and APC supporters.
How quickly they lose their brains nice they join the terrorist party

The moment they join the APC THEY lose every Sense of rationality in then.

Abuse of office.
They are sorely needed at Sambisa forest to fight terrorist nd kidnappers.
Very shameful and cowardly act.

They are just playing mind games. Wait until they take some Americans hostage.
That would be when they will show them the real love.

POL419
THE DECEPTIVE POLITICKS OF NYESOM WIKE.

All that na just Grammar.
If Balla blue hullaba pencils his name, he's there.

This is the beginning of the end to ineffective heartless Regime.
Kudos to the brave protesters.

brain54:
Exactly the point wike is making...


Why would they left the party when it's time to show leadership strength, vision and courage?


I guess they also left labor for wike too abi?


Some people can't solve their family or party problems but want to solve national problems!

The joke is on him as well.
Under the leadership of Wike, PDP which used to be the largest political party in Africa, can no longer win a councilorship election.
Every idiot who wants to trend must mention the name of Peter Obi.

AnonPoet:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/865263-exclusive-how-suspected-coupists-allegedly-plotted-to-capture-aso-rock-eliminate-tinubu-other6s.html

. Not time to read long post.

Nigeria is clearly a failed State.

Nigeria is evidently a failed state. ... ..... ....