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Warm and worm
warn and won
batch and bash
waist and waste

He is so free to dream as long as he doesnt allow his greedy dream to affect a gullible person's pocket
Glorified thief

thorpido:
He's not your father(fathers shouldn't even be doing this at your age)and yet he wants that much control?This kind of guy will make you a housewife so he can have total control after marriage.

It's good you know what to do now.

Thank you very much....am really gr8ful
Hu wantz to b a glorified houzmaid dz days...?

GoldenDr:
In one word..... Leave!!!!!

Thank u very much bt I fink u came late coz I had long left n ve arrived ma new destination......

babyosisi:
A man that you are not yet married to is dictating whether you should stay home or get a job?
And wants to call off the engagement because you went ahead to get a job
My dear go ahead and take that job and sign on the dotted lines
Let him call off the engagement and get the type of woman he desires
Obviously he is not your type of man so allow him to leave
There are tons of men out there who are not intimidated by a woman that works
You don't try to mend an engagement,you disengage when it's not working out
That is the purpose of courtship
You only mend marriages not engagements
He has already shown you a shadow of what is to come in the marriage,use your head nne

exactly my point..........Anty Osisi I had signed d papers already o'jare...used my best handwritting...I never knew d cud b so beautiful..looolll....


@Babyosisi and floodgate, una jst buy me usain bolt shoes.bfor na snickers wey abo.ki patch patch evrywia I d take run n d thing d fall my hands anyhw anyhw....God will richly bless you....U jst saved anoda sister

Floodgater:
Girl you are seeing the signs and you still coat it strict. You are not yet married and he is ruling you like a dictator out of his insecurities, when you marry him, he will ask you not to work, dictate everything to you and should you refuse, he will threaten divorce, carry you back to your mum's or even beat you to comply. You mean at your age you'v refuse to tell yourself the fact that people will talk till you go and marry an abuser, then talk you to stay to death because by then the talkings will be wearing some rights and continue talking about the next person. Will these persons live with you and the man, btw how did your life become so public that "people" aside your mum now decide how you live? If you desire what's good for you, use this opportunity he has offered to close that door permanently. The closing and opening itself is bad enough sign. If you fool yourself and end up with that man, you will in addition to other things pay for the times you "disrespected" him.

am rily gr8ful for your contribution.........I dnt usually discuss ma relationship with people but had to bring this here bcoz I felt I was doing smfing wrongly.......wanted to b sure the fault wasnt mine......trust me wen I tell u I ve taken to ma heels more times dat I cn remember but I always come bk coz I most times feel itz ma fault bt nw I knw bera......ma mum especially will tell me itz hardwork....I shldnt make it look like her life influenced mine like d hell it did....coz I want to get married doesnt mean I shld donate my brain to a kindergarten lab(if therez anyfing like dat)..datz d part d dont understand.......she feels am being to rigid....

Goodevening everyone...........I once posted and wished I could share my problems, the ones I ve not been able to handle yet from d various solutions discussed here......One of them jst happened recently...

First, am engaged to this very strict person. Therez no harm in being strict but not when itz extreme.....Tho I was raised by a very strict mum (single parent) it never got to dz extreme....I was allowed to air my views

I jst graduated waiting for service....I decided to do smfing in the interim sinz d usual allowance isnt forthcoming anymore

Nw this happen to be my crime......He wants me to stay home all day...or work where he wants me to

I applied smwhere and I was lucky enough to be taken...D pay aint rily d issue but atleast I have where to out to evryday and b useful to myself and d society bt dat is a big issue to my darling fiance coz I jst became a disrespectful wife-to-be

Meanwhile I have on countless times called or threatened to call off d whole engagement drama because of his attitude towards things bt evrybody is always blaming me coz d all feel am too impatient....They all say I shldnt try to measure up with him bt I am nt. am just trying to have a voice....I want to b heard to bcoz I feel I have dat right......

Now he is threatening to call it off jst because I refused to heed to his instructions and went ahead to take up d job..
As for me I dnt care if he does dat or not bt I will really love to knw if I did the right thing or am jst being disrespectful as he claims

if he is right I would go ahead and apologize to him and drop evrything that has to do with the job


I would really love to hear from d men's point of view as well as evrybodyz opinion as well


please forgive my typing
Anything you dnt understand ask questions I will answer
Am not in a very kul mood but I bliv in all ve typed, ve been able to make sense....
Thank you so much and am very sorry for the long epistle

She was 19 when she won
is she still 19..?

I laugh in swahili



wotz dat smell......??


Fffssshhhhmmmmm!!!!.....

Great job.....weldone to evrybody who has contributed to the growth of this thread...trust me, guyz ve saved alora pple and I happen to b one....
Saw d thread wen twas on d 45th page...I folod religiously until nw..
I have learnt alot...sm ve implemented n it worked odaz havent....like y'all ve said, different strokes for different folks....coz it worked for d oda pson doesnt mean it will for me.....
to each his own
I rily wish I cud share mine bt dunno where to start from.
seem like ve got d worse n most complicated love life ever
I guez I will ve d courage to share mine smday soon

keep doing wot y'all knw hw to do best
Godz using y'all to bless so many pple

Jst wait till she harvest d damn fing den u cn tell her u r hurting.......

Most times u dnt ve to do anyfing....if u cn move out fine, bt if u cnt, ignore him
No mara hw hard a pson is d always ve moments of reflection.....
hez ur father n cudnt possibly mean wot he said.....he'll come around

The suspense is making the whole interesting story interestingly boring
if d updates will b once in a day mek it very long

##ma tot tho##

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These are Nairalanders whose birthday is today. Please, join me and lets wish them happy, glorious, blessed and fun filled day.

Happy Birthday, Our God/Allah will grant you many more years and good health. Enjoy your day!

I decided to post this here because to me they are all "Nairaland" celebrities.

thank u very much

Chai....
Who do dz guy dz kind thing nw.?
For Sunday again ooooo
Outright wickedness

##Adjust my glasses and sitting position##
Wherez dz guy nw...u want to murder people with suspense..?

Dat was so damn creepy
cant even imagine sharing a duplex wif dat thing nt to talk of a room..jeezzzz

starlingleanets:
Where then are you speaking from?

Pluto
guy check nxt door
nobody d dz side

starlingleanets:
If given the chance i had gladly do.

please check d nxt door
therez nobody here

starlingleanets:
When will u marry?

you want to marry me?

Great

d surprise coz d prize has changed...d were expecting a deep freezer or generator or maybe an ol expense paid trip to zamfara after unprotected sex nt pregnancy

definitely front view............d length of d shoulder from d nxt says it ol

N werez d bride coz ol I c is a man sitting bsyd smfing dat looks almost like a pyramid except therez no peak........n d gold toilet tho

Happy bday to ol January babies....mine was yesterday, January 5th

She has dat much to build an ordinary hotel bt it tuk dem ages to pay ASUU dia sweat....Choi!!!!!.......wetin pson no go c for dis country?

Hmmmm!!! ....rily sad...ma one cent, jst leave him, wot will kill him is nt far from him n d pson dat will deal with him is watching him closely ....sinz he feels he cn lie, there r worst ways to tarnish a psonz image....put urself togeda....

esperiense: I need to examine b4 I can make any statement. visit a dentist close to u or call me if u r in lagos 08063737929. continuous irritation can b dangerous

Thanks...wud do dat ASAP....wish I was in lag, wud ve bin easier

Dr pliz ve got dis small growth on ma gum jst above ma incisor dat wont jst go away...dint rily notice wen it started bt cn say tiz bin there for over 4yrz...itz nt painful bt bleeds a lil if brushed against with toothbrush or smthing like orange....taken everything I knw bt it wont jst go..last was nistatine bt still no difference ....wot shld I do...Tnx a mil

Na sure way ticket to heaven?

Hope atlast....