[quote author=22o62021 post=102558664][/quote]congratulations

Shugavee:
marriage has no value to me, no matter how awww it looks.

that is bad

With the right person love is the most beautiful feeling

Keepamsafe:
For two weeks now, my next door neighbor who is a young single lady has been constantly bringing different meals for me after cooking.
Please note: I have never asked her for food before, as I cook at home and enjoy doing my things myself.

The second time she brought me a meal she wore a skimpy dress. I didn’t mind tho, I just told her she is a very good cook and I enjoyed the first meal. Since then, she’s been bringing different dishes to me now. Sometimes she even calls to know if im back from work that she’s cooking something.
Also note, I have never given her any money for this meals she’s been giving me.

My question now is, should I continue eating? do I have anything to be scared of? Could there be another motives behind this her kindness? Or maybe im over thinking?

Advise please.

one important rule is to never allow yourself to feel indebted to anyone, of course she likes you but do you like her? the ball is in your court

IamWilliams:
At work this morning, i was casually talking to a colleague about how my shirt that my wife washed got blown away by breeze at night then all of a sudden, my other colleagues (two females and a male) pounced on me calling me a dictator who enslaves his wife. While i was annoyed about the ladies who kept on saying i needed to love my wife more, wash my clothes myself or buy washing machine, i was more annoyed with the guy who referred to me as one of those husbands that women should run from.

People in the house, is there anything wrong for a wife to wash her husband's clothes? Does it denote slavery?

they are just jealous

Should an husband who buys a car for her wife be seen as a fool

Evolutionism:

Lol you don see them wereeys nigerian men finish
They are very useless set of beings.

including you

PussyPunisher:
Lets say that Warren Buffet decides to give away some of his wealth by doing a ballot draw for 5 people to win $1 billion each and you are one of the winners.

What will you do with your winning of $1billion?

As for me I will use $250million out of the money to carry women. Man I go fucck women shege.

The fucck wey I don already fucck go be small compared to wetin I go do.

All those girls wey dey wear bum shorts come The Palms for Lekki go hear am for my hand

What will you do with your own money?

wake up

360clips:
Met a cutie yesterday and we liked each other. Went to the back room and made out for two hrs straight no cap! We were tonguing and smooching for two hours straight! My mouth is so sore right now.

do you want an award or maybe a round of applause

SultanOfPuna:
To keep it short and simple

Beware of ebonyi girls, they are very dangerous.

This is my 4th experience with girls from that region.
They steal a lot and will do it very codedly
They are extremely manipulative
They can be killing you and smiling at the same time.

If they want to finish you
They will finish you with no mercy
Very very mischievous girls. Be very careful

It took me a 4th encounter with ebonyi girls to realize how dangerous, wicked and manipulative they are.

I think you should use your brain optimally

victory36:
Let the men breathe! They masturbate, problem. They patronize hookups, problem. They rape, problem. They become celibate, problem. They decide to have girlfriends, even bigger problem (s). Rest ijn.

correct

yrhuhfy113:


wow, awesome... you are right and have a strong point
A very compeling piece of idea about Nigerian men... sadly its true but wholistically its myopic.


I am not here to make a CASE for men... i acknowledge your expressed thoughts as reality but as INCOMPLETE.

SEE, MEN ARE NOT LOVED UNCONDITIONALLY... We are only LOVED BY MERIT, RAISED AS HUNTERS TO COMPETE AND PROVIDE else we are not competent.

THE THINGS YOU MENTION WE LACK ARE ACTUALLY NOT LACKING BUT SURPRESSED BY THE HARSH REALITIES OF LIFE WE HAVE LIVED THROUGH....


Let me explain... EVEN on the case of wooing or getting a LADY for sex or marriage... LADIES GENERALLY FEEL SAFER WITH A RICH DUDE, THAN A CARING, EMPATHETIC S.O.B. Whyyy because the COUNTRY IS HARD.... and Ladies think of the FUTURE ALOT.
So after being drilled by our parents to always COME FIRST IN CLASS, and being punished for not coming first or not outdoing others.... we now enter a tetiary institution where only the BEST GRADUANDS are assured of jobs or connections... so we have to compete, hustle for money and do everything possible to be among those who thrive or survive.. AFTER YEARS OF LIVING AS A SURVIVOR.... we now marry, with HOOOOOGEE responsibilities, wife and kids... most likely WIFE HAS NOTHING DOING OR EARNS LITTLE YET FEELS ENTITLED TO BE TREATED LIKE A QUEEN.... Then we should let down our GUARD and still be as caring, as emotionally sensitive, as all that you women want us to be??
C'mon sis... YOU CAN'T HAVE IT ALL.

Marry unambitious men from other countries who are not living in the same terrible conditions we have had in NIGERIA... they have emotions to spare, because THEIR FINANCIAL SYSTEM WORKS and is DEPENDABLE... not here. So you can't come here and GENERALIZE, when majority of your GENDER.... WILL CHOOSE SIX CARS OVER SIX PACKS. Pls... have some balance.

Little wonder why MEN are no longer interested in MARRIAGE... because it has become like an orphanage, so baby mama is now what many opt for, so as to retain their freedom. Ladies wanting EVERYTHING yet offering so little JUST BECAUSE THEY EXIST, is the highest form of lowkey witchcraft ever.

ALL MEN ARE NOT THE SAME, ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME..... MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE..... BUT MONEY IS IMPORTANT TO ALL.

God bless you, you can't eat your cake and have it back

Persephone1:
[i]"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands

really