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A young man is seriously looking forward to unite with his father and members of his family, please help.

According to information gathered the said man name was known as Monday Udo Ukpong popularly known as Omocity, from Ikot Ekpene LGA in Akwa Ibom State. The said man was believed to be a student of Comprehensive Secondary School Ikpe Annang in the same LGA in mid 80s.

Please any information that will help to locate this man and members of the family will be highly appreciated.
The moderators should please take this to front page for general view, its a matter that need public attention and urgency

Thank you

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Euouae:
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Victoria Ascerta!

what exactly Victoria Ascerta got to do with this?

Ode

frankIzuchukwu:
And many people are still joining Nigeria army

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Alright doctor we have heard you

Thank you for educating us

lawman88:
Good day Nairaland, please take your time to read the story. I will try to be brief and precise
I got married to my wife last year and will have been living peacefully. She is very respectful but I found out that she concealed many things and not everything she told me before the marriage was true. I felt hurt and don't give her the due respect.

I use to quarrel her about the lies she told me before marriage and she will wet the pillow throughout the night. I have threatened divorce and she will commit suicide if I divorce her.

Here are some of the lies she told & I believe her because I thought she was a church girl: She told me she has HND but it was ND she has. She told me she was pregnant before we marry but she was not. She cut down her age by 8yrs.

Now, anytime I quarrel all the lies she told and deceived me to marry her, I will dream of death in the night. Some time I seen myself dead & being buried or I had fatal accident and died. Even yester night I quarrelled her & I had a dream that my dad died in a ghastly accident. Any time I didn't quarrel, I will not have bad dreams.

What will I do now? I don't know if I leave her I'm going to die. The discovery of the lies has taken all her love from my heart and I have told her eldest brother that I'm not comfortable with the marriage anymore. I'm feeling so bad that a church girl who always speaking in tongues and praying always could deceive me this way. Everything was lies and I thought she was saying the truth because of the way she was committed to church

you are one of this men that didn't go to school
How many times will you quarrel her for the mistakes and lies to be corrected?
What you need now is forgiveness
Forgive her its not quarrel that will correct those mistakes
And, next time don't use those blunt fingers of urs to type this kind of yeye message here again abeg make we see road pass

kapelvej:
Hello all, I will try and make this simple.We have been married for 6 years and two children, unfortunately there have been very few times we have enjoyed peace, I have done everything I could to make her happy, but non has ever worked.

She insults me anytime anywhere and she does not just care, her mother and brother sometimes chastise her, but she does not just listen, her mother however recently has been agreeing to anything she says or do, even with her other siblings no matter who is wrong(this is because she got a job lately and has been satisfying her mother financially). In fairness to her, she also disrespects every single person in her family, not just me alone. Also in fairness to her mum, (her mum) and her family members sometimes think I am too soft on her.

Well again in fairness to her , she exhibited these signs right from day one, not just to me but to everybody even her mother and elder ones. I explained this to the elders of the church, but they said she will change after the marriage.

Meanwhile while we were dating, there was a time I ended the affair because of her cynical behavior, and she came to beg and promised to change. I forgave her after like one month. But then, it only lasted for a while.

Many different things have happened since the marriage, even flirtatious activities, but not adultery, I have tried to handle and forgive those things.

Presently I am working in a different city, and we had a little misunderstanding and she started insulting me as usual and hung up on me. This is what she does regularly, but each time, I will be the one to call back because, I felt I should take the initiative and also because of the kids. I have told her to stop hanging up on me and insulting me on the phone. So, This time around, I refused to call her, and it has been like this for 2 months now, she refused to call as well. To worsen everything, I lost a close family member, just before this problem, she does not just seem to care. We have been like that since the past two months. Something tells me that with this kind of behaviour, she might as well have moved on, please what do you all think.

Anything we have misundertsanding , even when I try to resolve the issue, she will be busy with her phone, no matter how late it is, then immediately she drops the phone, she says she wants to sleep, and that is all.

NB. For this six years, I have been the only person working, so this is not a a case of her being the bread winner. She just got a job 5 months ago.

OP answer me is she from Imo state? Cos mostly owwerri ladies exhibit this character

MissRaine69:
Why does it have to be about control? A marriage cannot be mutually beneficial or it has to be a master and slave sort of arrangement to be called a marriage?

abeg leave dat one jaaree notin dey dere

prechbills1:
My fiance and I have been dating for the past 3years. I attained 24 last week, I wanted to get married to her last year but I just wanted to wait till I attain 24.

The problem I have now is my mom. She is opposing our marriage because my fiancee is 5 years older than me, I'm 24 while she's 29. My dad has already endorsed the marriage, I'd have liked to go on with the marriage but I don't think going into marriage without both parents blessing is sensible that's why I need my mom's blessing and endorsement.

My fiance has good character, she's very kind and intelligent, I can't afford to lose her because of pressures from my mom at least I'm an adult.

I don't know what's happening, my mom endorsed our relationship but she doesn't endorse our marriage just because she's 5years older than me. The thing is, I can't leave this lady ,not now not ever, she have done so many things for me.

in fact she even promised to provide 80% of the things needed for the marriage!. She is rich, yes she is, the house I'm in living in now belongs to her, I moved in with her in 2016.

The truth is I love her and I can't afford to lose her because of my mom's wish. Both her parents and my dad have given us go ahead for marriage but my mom still doesn't want me to marry because of age and my fiance is beautiful.

I don't know what do now ,that's why I think I need advice from you guys,.I don't know if I should go ahead with the marriage without my mom's endorsement/blessings.

please advice

diamond digger
becos the babe get money u no want lose her

vivie01:
Why not simply end the relationship?
I think an eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth, could see innocent people badly injured along the line and at the end of the day.

in the end the guy ended the relationship


FINALLY FINALLY FINALLY Finally FINALLY

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vivie01:
Who wouldn't?
We are talking about the D-day here.
Well, barring unfortunate happenings, it's wickedness on the part of any man that does that.
It's not that day that he discovered the problem that now pursued him from attending the event, he could have withdrawn before that date.

the prize every nagging women get to pay is to be disappointed on the D-day as u said probably was just every other day she wouldn't feel embarrassed like the said D-day. She would have going around the town head high blabbing her mouth that she dump the guy, kudos to the guy that dump her officially.

What real guys do this days is to go around harming people with kindness.

vivie01:
I always detest this kind of scenario.
It's foolishness on the part of a man or woman to have spent fortune, got to that stage and absconded.
The bride must have felt so bad. The families would have been so much embarrassed.
Hope he was not involved in a shady deal that got him kidnapped on the way to the registry anyway.

u are one of this ladies that worry too much for simple things like this. What is really wrong there? Nothing, the bride can go home and eat her already prepared jollof rice with her relatives No body die in the scene.

So sad

May their soul rest in peace

Ok abobby that's urs

SirToby:
Good evening friends. It all started with malaria two weeks ago and i used Lonart, i was relieved for some period and i started feeling feverish again. I ran a test and it confirmed Malaria is still positive, and the doctor prescribed P alaxin, i used it but i started feeling restless and uncomfortable since saturday, i have not been Sleeping well, even in my short sleep i have nightmares. i started using Piriton two days ago but i have not been feeling alright, my mind is so heavy and my heart beats so fast, i can't just sleep. I have tried to calm myself down and my friends also have spoken to me but it has not
been working and i just don't know what to do.

IN ADDITION: I'm a pastor's child and similar thing happened to me last year, i was so sick that i could not sleep for days, i remember i prayed and promised God never to have any intercourse with any woman till i marry if i can be healed and start having a good sleep. But the fact remains i'm not a wayward child and the last time I had sex prior to that prayer was 2015.

But two weeks ago, i was tempted and i could not resist the urge and i had sex with a lady but the sickness has already began prior to the sex but it has not Metamorphosized to sleeplessness and restlessness. I have asked God for forgiveness and i sincerely promise him never to do such again and i'm ready to stand by it this time. I knelt on the alter after Sunday service to make the vow.


But i'm scared maybe God is punishing me for breaking my vow with him the first time and he wants me to confess to my parents that are pastors. Please i need reasonable advise, i'm so scared to sleep whenever i wants to, my eyes are so red as i'm typing now due to lack of sleep. And which medicine can i talk or what can i do to put my mind at rest. Thanks Friends.

people sweat u have been eating in the name of tithe are now hunting u.

Just imagining the way u use ur blunt fingers to type I'm a pastors child as if pastor is a profession

Thank God there are some sane Africans like I and daddy freez in existence

[quote author=arise761xxx post=66600329][/quote]mod should please ban this fuccking nigga

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Geedhey:
tell him to add phantom of Opera Judas Maccabeus, Elijah & Sound of Music

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We need to organise a classic concert on Nairaland here

Ever useless examination body called JAMB

Who get time for naija music this days?

Abeg DJ play me Israel in Egypt, Jeptha, Joshua and Esther all by G.F HANDLE

Chaclaitmilk:
I should concentrate on better things? My sisters welfare no be better thing?

oya post the picture of ur sista lets see if there's a need for the court wedding, in that way we gonna pressure her husby

GoodKay:
Perhaps everything in ur life is a joke. If u don't have any meaningful contribution u should have just shut up!

Taaaaaaaa go nd sit down Op u no go sch. Hw can u be afraid of a may grave. Oya buy insecticide spray there on the grave to drive away the evil spirits

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