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Benita27:
The use of "K" in a conversation doesn't necessarily mean lack of interest. "K" is short form of "Okay" which simply means; I agree to what you said, and which may be preceded with other words as the conversation proceeds. But in a situation you perceive lack of interest to be the case then I assume the person isn't interested in having a conversation which could be due to some reasons beyond your knowledge.

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skimmy005:
.I hope dem teach DAT kid lesson, his to proud, foolish wizKID.

for your mind you wise pass.
mtcheeeew

A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.
Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.

For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.
If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason why it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why it is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinary criminals or weapons. There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can't detect this as the same woman tend to moan more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.

That's why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.

Women can't handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.

That's the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect for their husbands and try to avoid sex with them in most times.

Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have sex with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable sex with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife's behavior with regard to sex start changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerates fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.

Women can't cheat on their partners with people they are not emotionally involved with. They attach emotions to everything. That's why you can't always trust their judgment. When a joke is cracked,most women who laugh are not laughing because the joke is funny but because they like the person who cracked the joke. If they don't like you, no matter how funny your joke may be, they won't laugh, but when a man laughs at a joke, it's because the joke is funny, not because he likes the comedian. Men are not always sentimental and emotionally involved.

Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.

I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wi'sh their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited sex freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can't wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men can't allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.

A man would cheat but still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.

Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.

R.M - Professor of Psychology
Ohio State University - USA

LifeofAirforce:
No disrespect

Lol... Who Is this danfo driver sef?

Awwwn cute..

Beautiful and creative...

Nice.....

Nice concept.....

IamKashyBaby:



Only TRUE LOVE can move the mountains sha..

And once in a lifetime each person meet his/her soulmate even in a hopeless place & unexpected situation..

What more important is that may their union will last like the Great Wall of China..

ya..
So true

Awwwn that's cute� Am happy for them....

KissChrixx:
I never said I was going to tell Him/Her all though

One has to be discreet

Better.. Now you are talking..

[quote author=KissChrixx post=56719080][/quote]And If you have non to count on??

KissChrixx:
Sometimes, you just need to speak to a friend.... Let out steam


If you have friends, but none of them can be trusted , it speaks volumes about you

My dear who killed Julius Caesar?
Is your choice trust your friends 100%
Who betrayed Jesus?
Not arguing with you.. But is not everything you tell your friend or involve them in your relationship..
Be wise and alert my dear...
Experience is a hard teacher..

KissChrixx:
You make it sound like all friends are bad


With all the things you've listed up there, who should We turn to for advice during rocky times? Our pastor?

My dear..
You don't know who is who..
Is best for you to seek help from relationship sites..
Am sure you would find tips that would be of benefit to you..
Or better still attend relationship seminars..
Or purchase a book basically speaking about relationship..
It's better than going through betrayal..

dingbang:
This advice should be directed to the ladies

Not just ladies..
Guys too.
I once saw in this site how a married man caught his wife sleeping with his own best friend..

Davidgrey:
[color=#000050] Itemized crap! [/color]

Oh..
Very well then..
Thank you

queenasasili:
Collected his number from my phone they are married now I learnt the hard way

Oh so sorry...
My heart felt apology dear.

luscioustrish:
I learnt the hard way...I know better now sha.

Sorry about that dearie

Involving a friend in your relationship is very risky. Especially if that friend is single..
When I mean involving your friend in your relationship, is when you let your friend know every detailed thing about you and your lover..
Some friends are Judas (betrayers)..
Giving them informations about your lover would be a sweet opportunity to execute their evil plans.. Some bad friends can go through Extra length to bring an end to your relationship..
We gonna look at some means in which their plans to bring an end to your relationship is executed ;
1. They cook up lies and give to your lover..
Your lover tends to believe them cos he/she knows them to be your close friend..
They always have an excuse to give to your lover.. Saying they want the best for him/her and they don't want you to hurt them in the end.
2. They seduce them..
They lure them into an affair.
And if they are so in good in bed...
I bet your lover might ditch you for them.
3.They go through diabolic means..
Oh yes!!, they go to lengths to seek charm or love portions from traditionalist Aka babalawo..
Just to snatch your lover away.
4. They might steal his number from your fone and also add him up on social media.. Just to get him.
5. Telling them about your flaws and your shortcomings in your relationship is not good.. Cos they might use it and become the ideal lover your lover wanted you to be.. Eg. Your boyfriend wants you to always text him romantic messages and you ain't doing it.. And not only that, you go about telling your friend..
She might just use it to get him by always texting him the messages he always wanted from you.
6. Some matters are meant to be kept private.. Between you and your lover..
Don't go about telling your friend about your issues..
Every once in awhile misunderstanding sets in.. That's normal.. But settling the difference and having a peaceful solution is what that matters most..
So always telling your friend about your lover flaws and issues worsens the matter.. Especially if your friend is a Judas(betrayer).
They would give you advice sure enough.. But advices that would worsen the situation and might even bring an end to the relationship.
6.Dont tag your friends always for a date with your lover...
My advice is that a date should be meant for you and your lover..
Taking a friend along.. Most especially a single friend.. Is not pretty a good idea..
6.Dont give out your lover's number or social media Handle to your friend.. Eventhough he/she is your close friend..
God knows what she has in mind.. Especially if your lover is extremely cute or rich..

7. Letting your friend know your boyfriend's house.. Isn't that cool..
Especially if he is staying alone..
Your friend might use that as a means of executing her seducing plans and lure him to bed.. 8.leaving your fone with your friend..
A bad friend might just steal the number since probably you didn't give it to him/her.
So is best you saved your lover's name with a name which is best known to you.
These are the few points I have got now..
But they are loads more..
Being cautious and observant in your relationship is good...
Is not being possessive but wise and alert..
Many people have lost their lovers to bad friends..
So no one is to be trusted..
Speaking of people's experience..
Feel free to drop more points..
One love#

emmaitive:
slay mama u re welcom

Thanks, Please am not a slay mama..

HARDDON:
No it doesnt! It just makes a grown up man act a fool in front of a packed hall

N my gate keeper is richer than those small boys u mentioned

Lols..
Atleast their making money in descent ways while using their talents...
So what's the source of your money...
Since you said your gatekeeper is far richer than them..

RichYoungNigga:
Where do you live ?? In Nigeria ?? And you just got to know about this forum ??

You don't deserve to have a phone

Lols off course I knew about this forum eversince..
Was preoccupied with lots of things..

HARDDON:
Peppirina? So u wud have us bliv that this your sobriquet for #PepperThemGang is your real name?

N no, we werent referring to blood heart. What does that one know about from blood pump?
We reffering to d other one

Okay fine..
You win...
My name is Perpetual.. Hope you are happy now..
And I do have a heart.. Am not heart broken..
If I didn't have a heart wouldn't have quoted one love#

Evergreen4:
Liberal? Hehehe. Well you are still new here. With time u will make a choice.

Lols..
Like I said... One love..
One love keeps us together..
Am not a confusionist
So am not going back on my words about one love which is unity!!!!

HARDDON:
Good sense of homour does not pay bills again.

You Wud be on our black book if we dont @ least know ur name. Bliv u me, u dont want us to start on da wrong foot!

Btw, how wud s1 without a heart know if itz broken or not?

Good sense of humor pays bill.
If applied well in the comedy business..
I know alot of people with good sense of humor.. Who have cash.. E.g .. AY ... Basket mouth...Bovi... Etc.

HARDDON:
Good sense of homour does not pay bills again.

You Wud be on our black book if we dont @ least know ur name. Bliv u me, u dont want us to start on da wrong foot!

Btw, how wud s1 without a heart know if itz broken or not?

Lols..
Didn't you see peppirina..
And besides every living being has a heart...
That's what we use in regulating our blood.. And pulse..
Anyone that doesn't have a heart.. I guess is dead...
Even animals have a heart.. So I don't see any reason why a human being won't have one..

RichYoungNigga:
Yes
How do they get pregnant ??

Lols.. Same way other animals do get pregnant.. Mensturation is meant for only women.. Even the dictionary clearly defined it.. If you did biology.. I guess you know better.. Anyways you have a good sense of humor dear!!!!

Evergreen4:
ok, peppirina , you are welcome to the family. And get ready for the tribal war.


Where would you like to pitch your tent, IPOB or AFONJA

Hmmmm.
Like I said earlier on..
One love...
And am liberal...
All I want is a peaceful and non corrupt country..
Thank you...

RichYoungNigga:

She shouldn't be worried or scared

That dude is a John, he won't do shiit

A real hitter wouldn't notify you that he would kill you

If the police arrest am now, he go begin cry like a rat on mensturation

Hahaha so funny..
Does a rat menstruate ??

iammrjaai:
To me.....the way and patterns the dude repeated the bitch part sounds as tho he is singing hip hop

Hahaha..
Perhaps he is singing hip hop high on strong weed...