luscioustrish:
I learnt the hard way...I know better now sha.

queenasasili:
Collected his number from my phone they are married now I learnt the hard way

Davidgrey:
Itemized crap!

Davidgrey:
Itemized crap!

dingbang:
This advice should be directed to the ladies

KissChrixx:
You make it sound like all friends are bad


With all the things you've listed up there, who should We turn to for advice during rocky times? Our pastor?

Peppirina:

My dear..
You don't know who is who..
Is best for you to seek help from relationship sites..
Am sure you would find tips that would be of benefit to you..
Or better still attend relationship seminars..
Or purchase a book basically speaking about relationship..
It's better than going through betrayal..

KissChrixx:


Sometimes, you just need to speak to a friend.... Let out steam


If you have friends, but none of them can be trusted , it speaks volumes about you

Peppirina:

My dear who killed Julius Caesar?
Is your choice trust your friends 100%
Who betrayed Jesus?
Not arguing with you.. But is not everything you tell your friend or involve them in your relationship..
Be wise and alert my dear...
Experience is a hard teacher..

Peppirina:

My dear who killed Julius Caesar?
Is your choice trust your friends 100%
Who betrayed Jesus?
Not arguing with you.. But is not everything you tell your friend or involve them in your relationship..
Be wise and alert my dear...
Experience is a hard teacher..

KissChrixx:

I never said I was going to tell Him/Her all though

One has to be discreet

luscioustrish:
I learnt the hard way...I know better now sha.

chris2face:

Chai sorry but how was it like I mean the feeling

luscioustrish:

Its better experienced

Peppirina:
Involving a friend in your relationship is very risky. Especially if that friend is single..
When I mean involving your friend in your relationship, is when you let your friend know every detailed thing about you and your lover..
Some friends are Judas (betrayers)..
Giving them informations about your lover would be a sweet opportunity to execute their evil plans.. Some bad friends can go through Extra length to bring an end to your relationship..
We gonna look at some means in which their plans to bring an end to your relationship is executed ;
1. They cook up lies and give to your lover..
Your lover tends to believe them cos he/she knows them to be your close friend..
They always have an excuse to give to your lover.. Saying they want the best for him/her and they don't want you to hurt them in the end.
2. They seduce them..
They lure them into an affair.
And if they are so in good in bed...
I bet your lover might ditch you for them.
3.They go through diabolic means..
Oh yes!!, they go to lengths to seek charm or love portions from traditionalist Aka babalawo..
Just to snatch your lover away.
4. They might steal his number from your fone and also add him up on social media.. Just to get him.
5. Telling them about your flaws and your shortcomings in your relationship is not good.. Cos they might use it and become the ideal lover your lover wanted you to be.. Eg. Your boyfriend wants you to always text him romantic messages and you ain't doing it.. And not only that, you go about telling your friend..
She might just use it to get him by always texting him the messages he always wanted from you.
6. Some matters are meant to be kept private.. Between you and your lover..
Don't go about telling your friend about your issues..
Every once in awhile misunderstanding sets in.. That's normal.. But settling the difference and having a peaceful solution is what that matters most..
So always telling your friend about your lover flaws and issues worsens the matter.. Especially if your friend is a Judas(betrayer).
They would give you advice sure enough.. But advices that would worsen the situation and might even bring an end to the relationship.
6.Dont tag your friends always for a date with your lover...
My advice is that a date should be meant for you and your lover..
Taking a friend along.. Most especially a single friend.. Is not pretty a good idea..
6.Dont give out your lover's number or social media Handle to your friend.. Eventhough he/she is your close friend..
God knows what she has in mind.. Especially if your lover is extremely cute or rich..

7. Letting your friend know your boyfriend's house.. Isn't that cool..
Especially if he is staying alone..
Your friend might use that as a means of executing her seducing plans and lure him to bed.. 8.leaving your fone with your friend..
A bad friend might just steal the number since probably you didn't give it to him/her.
So is best you saved your lover's name with a name which is best known to you.
These are the few points I have got now..
But they are loads more..
Being cautious and observant in your relationship is good...
Is not being possessive but wise and alert..
Many people have lost their lovers to bad friends..
So no one is to be trusted..
Speaking of people's experience..
Feel free to drop more points..
One love#

Davidgrey:
Itemized crap!