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Fairly used or new wears

In my personal opinion


I can’t say I prefer any over the other, depends on what I am buying.

I would absolutely buy Nigerian made clothes if I could get well sewn good quality products; but Nigerian artisans do not pay any attention to fine detail. They will always use poor material where they think you won't see it and may not bother about getting the seams straight. Plus they will delay your work for weeks or months; they are equally poor at keeping to promised schedules. 

As for those Nigerian artisans who can actually sew attractive, good quality clothing, they will usually put foreign labels on them instead of building their own brand. Talk about selling their potential multimillion dollar fashion house for a pot of porridge. Totally shortsighted.

All in all, both have their places. In an economy like Nigeria, a real middle class Fashionista can't do without Foreign used

The bottom line is consumers are in affordable and quality clothes. So people will go for the one that gives them these options

By the way, it is not all that are fairly-used. Those ones that have labels on them are not fairly-used, they are clearance sales (clothes that are out of season

10 reasons why people prefer fairly used (Okrika) cloth to new ones

1. The honest truth is people are going to pick the 2nd hand foreign valued cloth over new ones due to the fabric quality


2. Lots of foreign second hand are like brand new hence people realized that "Na Mumu dey go boutique" in second hand, you will get to select uncommon designs that you can never see someone wearing it

3. Foreign Used Nike polo will sell for like #2500 while the new one cost 150$ or more. How many average Nigerian can afford that?. Boutique sellers buy from Okrika market. They buy clean ones at low price so that customers can afford it at their shops. So, many people still believe that some boutique wears are gotten from fairly used wears market

4. Durability and a chance of seeing foreign currency in the pocket...lol. Not only is it stronger and durable. It gives you that vintage look

5. Most of the clothes you see in our local shops here are quality second handMost of the new wears in Nigerian "boutiques" (road side shops) are fake products made with useless and weak fabrics.

Some of these boutiques you see around, they sell first grade OKs. They dry clean them and put inside transparent nylon. Same way they sew shirts in bulk (from Aba), put them foreign tags and sell too

They will pick up a good and clean Okrika bag, belt, or sandals any day any time. By the time you get tired of changing belt or Jumia fake audio sandals every 2-3 months, and then you see prices like N92,000 for an authentic brand nobody will tell you to use your head.

The Honest truth is that in Nigeria, to maximize profit, some Boutiques buy grade A used foreign clothes, dryclean it and hang it in the well furnished boutique with high price tag. Buyer can never know the difference.


6. some of them are factory rejects that has never been worn by anyone. Many believe they are still new and they don't see theirselves wearing second hand but new wears

7. Not all OK(fairly used clothes) are used. Not all are cheap or of low quality.

8. The new ones are usually bought by thugs like oluomo and his thug boys because they don't know what quality is. As for those that understand quality, and ready to pay little for grade 1 akube clothes and shoes, or brand new akube that no one has worn before. We call them second hand, but not all are used clothes. For instance, those jerseys we buy. Some club management may call for a new design, & discard all their old stocks.

9. I should point out though, that most of the new clothes in Nigeria are imported from China. Often with low quality. These clothes aren't even Nigeria made but China.
Nigerians can't even dream of being able to afford new American or European clothes for now.

The cheapest you can get a hoodie for instance is like $40. Not even many well paid Nigerians can afford that.

There are Chinese clothes with higher quality but it comes at a higher price. If you see where they open bale, you will understand . Most clothes you see in Lagos roadside boutiques are gotten from those bales, washed and hang in the shop

They buy them about N500-N1000 from bales and resell even up to N4000-N5000

10. Is it the tacky China jeans in the market you want to wear? Infact, quality 'stock' jeans can't cost less than 10k brand new. How many can you afford with the small salaries in Nigeria? undecided.

This makes so much sense. We live in an environment that is extremely price sensitive.

In reference to this threads
https://www.nairaland.com/6663448/fashion-business-world#103974093








There is a saying in pigin english "na mumu dey go boutique"

This statement is so true that most of the wears you buy in boutique at cost price can equally be found in fairly used (Okrika)market at cheap price. So , it's not wise to go to boutique and waste your money.

If you are prudent enough you can make it big with fairly used wears. Many prefers fairly used wears to new wears , they have their reasons.

Let's go into making money with fashion . Knowledge is the key to every business you want to venture into . Not just knowledge but the right knowledge.

3 Things to consider before going into fashion business

1. Your niche
2. Where to sell
3. How to sell

Your niche

A. Types of wear you want to sell
B. Marketing survey

Where to sell

A. Online
B. Offline
C . Online and offline

How to sell

A. Knowing trending fashion

B. Determine the amount you buy and the amount you want to sell

Vogue

"What you wear is how you present yourself to the world, especially today, when human contacts are so quick. Fashion is instant language." —Miuccia Prada

"I firmly believe that with the right footwear one can rule the world." —Bette Midler

Many folks out there are willing to pay for what it takes to be in a good attire . Give them what they want to get what you want , this is one big secret to financial freedom.

This thread will be divided into 2 sections

1. Understanding Of Fashion
2. How To Make Money With Fashion

Making money is never easy in Nigeria . Low employment , high cost of living is dragging many to give up on life . Little have a means of survival capitalising on fashion.

Many are interested to go into fashion business but lacking the right knowledge to do so. If you follow this thread closely you will find a way to financial freedom through fashion.

People are fashion wise and sensitive, many business men capitalise on this platform and acquire fortune . Going into fashion business to achieve financial freedom is easy if you have a clue.

So, what's holding you back to acquire wealth in the country where many are making cool money against all odd . Are you willing to learn and become financial freed ? Then don't skip any part of this thread

"The way I dress depends on how I feel. I never have to psych myself up. Usually it just feels like it works." —Rihanna

"Don't be into trends. Don't make fashion own you, but you decide what you are, what you want to express by the way you dress and the way to live." —Gianni Versace

Chloraseptic:
I hate it when guys lay emphasis on their handsomeness..

You are not having these issues because of your acclaimed good looks alone, you are having issues because you are relaxing solely on it.

Girls are ditching you same way guys are ditching pretty girls without brains who rely solely on their beauty...

Before y'all come for my head, I'm equally handsome and even more so than the OP.

I love this

SkengRay:
I would like to learn the game

Dm

xfactordv:
how do i learn this "game"??

DM

Cold approach is only good when you approach with nice out fit and good appearance , with car and flashy phone like iPhone. Still you need much follow up. You may still end up not getting the coochie .

Girls on your streets(warm girls) are different. If you approach them directly you need much follow up. Pussy is not guaranteed

In marketing , people can easily buy things through referring

But they will hardly buy when you go directly . You will do much work and stressed yourself before they buy - that is how cold approach looks like.

Cold approach-cold girls: Infact 90% will turn you down even if you are in a nice car because they don't know you

Women are more interested in someone they know rather than someone they don't know . Cold approach won't give you advantage of being known.

However, if you insist you will waste much resources to get her attracted to you. It's big stress.

The reason why ladies will reject you on cold approach but accept you on social circle

They don't _trust_ guys on cold approach . They don't know him from Adam . He has much to do to gain her trust . Unlike when he meets the girl on social circle-hot girls, his friend can easily confuse the girl .

People tend to believe and trust when someone else is telling them something about you unlike when you are telling them your self.

You can Bleep a girl you meet through a friend or someone else within a week . But the same girl will be hard to get when you meet her directly

Cold approach-cold makes a lady hard to get - perfect skills

In cold approach he isn't in the position to show girls his value . He should strive to make them see it. Even those girls that gave him his number . She will likely rejects you afterward even if she gives you her number .

She rejected you because she isn't seeing your values(smv-sexual market value) and she doesn't trust you ) or, it simply means she didn't have the opportunities to see your values . ALL THIS SHIT OFTEN HAPPEN ON COLD APPROACH

You need much follow up to do and it's stressful.

Exception:
There are ladies you get on cold approach but they few .

An anonymous shared his experience below:
I was with my Friend 3 days ago inside his Benz car ...a very fine girl with Nice ass was standing beside the road the weather was very hot dat day ....I taut with his ride she would jump in without hesitation...my guy call babe babe no answer am ...she dressed like slut dat day but still do like witch.
That is always cold approach situations . The same girl is being banged for free by guys she meets on social circles

Cold approach makes a lady hard to get , but social circle makes a lady easy to get - Perfect skills

The problem of many men is that they don't understand these types of girls .

When a lady rejects or accepts you it is traceable to these types of girls . But we have many clueless guys everywhere. When a lady rejects or accept them they can't even trace the it to its roots
Game is deep And it's in level

Why do you think ladies would stop replying your chats on social media. It emanated from cold approach conditions.

Which means you need some level of game to get her . Your game might be weak enough to get her attention .

3 Types Of Girls

There are 3 types of girls you meet , which I name.

1. Cold girls
2. Warm girls
3. Hot girls

1. Cold girls : they are the types of girls you meet at the mall, market, commercial transports, when you go to visit a particular area, etc . They don't know you anywhere . When you approach such girl . We call it cold approach

2. Warm girls : they are the types of girls you normally see on your daily basis probably in your street, neighbourhood, around your working place . They know you and you know them. The difference between cold girls and warm girls is that you haven't talked to them before or something have led both of you to talk about something, just a mere familiarity and acquaintances. When you approach this type of girls , we call it warm approach.

Hot girls : These are the types of girls you meet through friends , relatives , neighbour, club, or . When you approach this girls , we call it social circle or hot approach. The difference is , you meet them through someone (referring stuff) and in a conducive sexual atmosphere ( club).

The problem of many men is that they don't understand these types of girls .

When a lady rejects or accepts you it is traceable to these types of girls .

One of the reasons why ladies will reject you on cold approach is because they don't know or trust you. Even if you have a car and affluent you may finally not have access to her pussy .
Where there is no trust, attraction and interest, there will be no dating.

Ladies give pussy to who they trust - Perfect skills


Don't get it twisted . Forget about the attention she gives you , if she doesn't trust you she can still deny you pussy .

When you meet her on cold approach or warm approach you are a stranger or complete stranger. Ladies don't give pussy easily to strangers.

This often occurs on cold approach and warm approach. You will likely spend a fortune to get her pussy as a stranger .

Warm girls on the other hands are the girls you accidentally find yourself being friend with. The types you meet at your working place , as in your colleague at work or selling something close to your shop. Your course mate. You both talk and anything can transpire. They are better than cold girls that doesn't know you from Adam.

Let's compare hot girls with cold and warm girls

Hot girls : these are types of girls you meet through friends , brother, neighbour etc. The type of girls you meet at club . These types of girls make things happen faster because they met you through someone they trust or conducive sexual atmosphere. You can bang a girl you meet at the clue with less stress.

You can bang them faster because they will trust you more for meeting you through someone .

For instance :
Hot girls - social circle approach
My friend met a girl through me and he banged her faster .

Cold girls - cold approach
If my friend had met the same girl directly he would probably stress him to Bleep her

Hot girls - social circle approach
Girls you meet through friends or relative or events or clubs can easily be banged

Cold girls - cold approach
Girls you meet directly will hardly give in because they will only see you as a complete stranger . These are the girls you meet while going somewhere on the street or in a commercial transport , mall, market etc

Hot girls - social circle approach
It much easier to succeed with a girl you got through someone .

I once went to my friends house and met his beautiful neighbour. He arranged the girl for me . It didn't even cost me anything to Bleep the girl . It was because i met her through social circle.

Supposing I met the same girl on my own probably on the street , it will cost me much to get her . I would have much follow up to do. I might not even succeed at the end of the day

Cold approach will stress you so much

Let us use marketing as an example. When a seller approaches someone to sell something and the person has never bought before and the person didn't know the seller . Even though the product is good transaction will be hard because there is no trust and familiarities.

The same thing happens with women . When you approach them as a complete stranger, she won't easily give in . You need much follow up to do. It's much stressful .

Ability to turn a cold and warm girls into hot girls is what makes you a real gamer .

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The fear of beautiful woman



Mediocrity is not good enough.

We end up with less attractive and less quality women because of our fears to approach the beautiful ones.

Caligynephobia is the irrational or illogical fear of beautiful ladies. 

Also called Venustraphobia . 90% of men have Caligynephonia

The moment you see beautiful lady you wish to talk to, shit ! You feel like your heart � is jumping out of you . Bleep that shit man

To me Caligynephobia doesn't only occur when we see a beautiful lady we intend to woo.

The true causes of Caligynephobia is when we see the particular lady we like . She may not be that beautiful but she fits our sexual fantasies.

Caligynephobia will never occur when you have no intention of talking to her but the moment you think of it.

The true causes of Caligynephobia is oneitis - that type of girl you wish to have . Immediately you behold her from distance your mind start jumping erratically .

No matter how beautiful she is, Caligynephobia will never occur unless you have intention of wooing her

So , my own definition of Caligynephobia is irrationality fear of a beautiful girl we intend to woo.

The thought of facing her could be discouraging let alone looking into her eyes .

Caligynephobia is one big problem that often restrict us from dating who we admire . Sometimes this situation can lead us to end up with someone opposite of whom we desire to spend the rest of our lives with .

Caligynephobia is a disease, It is Simping, a mental disorder and it is a beta trait.

The truth is many men didn't grow up having the right confidence to talk to the lady they admire . Especially men who attended only boys college.

I was part of larger percentage of men who didn't have the boldness to face and talk to the lady I admire let alone wooing her

The thought alone is dreadful

Sometimes , I would cram pick up lines . But immediately she surface from distance , like magic , everything I crammed would vanish and end up not wooing that girl even with all the determination to do so

Here is a cure for Caligynephonia -- CONFIDENCE

Women are not to blame


Sometimes we don't need to attribute the problems we face with women as women problems but human problems .

Men also do treat other men badly.

Give him a chance and watch him treat you like a woman will manipulate you in a relationship .

Life is a game itself . We playing the game with both men and women.

What makes a woman different is because dating and relationship games are different.

We fall victim of female manipulations because of the conditions of dating . If the condition is reversed we men will equally take advantage of women.

This is human behaviour not just women.

All human are like that .

The norms of dating put women at an advantage.

Men must invest first before he benefits . This is nothing but the only problem many men face in dating and relationship .

If ladies are to give pussy first before the relationship. It is obvious that after the sex the man won't need the relationship again and women will keep falling victims in dating .

As a man the norm is , you must invest first before you benefit.

That is why women can easily play a guy successfully.

Dating is a game .

You must always play to win .

Is either she wins or you win .

Knowing that the condition is more likely to favour her because you are the one to invest first. That is why you must prepare not to be manipulated .

The man must prove it by spending and committing then the woman will now consider him .

And what if she later rejects him after much spending and cares . Who will be the one to lose . The man right ? This is the root of female manipulations.

I know what men can do if they get the pussy first before they enter the relationship without investing . They will run.

Relationship and dating is a game .

If you can't play to win you will lose .

Always prepare to win .

It's all game .

It's either you are a player or piece on the board. You play or you get played. You move or you are moved.

If you are a man. Make sure you always play to win. Am a man that is why am in the brotherhood to teach you how to win the game .

So, I take side with men, men are really losing in this game because of its condition .

Henceforth, when next you want to engage chick , you should know that you are in for game. You either lose or you win.

Your level of game determines how far you go with her .

The problem of this guy is that he fails to realise the truth that every lady he meets are likely not to be available at that particular time. He needs game to start with her .

Even though there is an exeption to this theory. Only few percentage of ladies will be available when you meet them . But we do not concern with the few percentage but larger percentage .

So , we conclude that most of the ladies you meet at a particular point in time are not available.

Henceforth, know this and know peace . Every lady you approach has someone she is really into but she won't tell you. If you loose guard you may finally not get what you want from her after wasting time . Even if you get it , it may not worth it at the end of the day .

I remember when I was broke . My friend was boobling in cash . Girls always around him and he often get pussy . If not for game , I would be left out completely.

Many lady won't be available by the time you approach them because they have chosen few men already. They always have someone they fix their mind on.

They are always into someone. Men are the air they breath. A lady can rather date a simp than to be single. She can manage what is on ground than being alone and completely single .

So , by the time you meet them they will always be unavailable . If you lack game you will suffer to get them . Only your game can make them available for you.

That is why I pity men that approach ladies without game . They are ignorant to decode that most of the ladies they meet at a particular time is already into someone which will make her hard to get .

If you start well with your game she will become easy to get for you .

The game is in knowing that she is most likely not to be available . But many men approach ladies with the believe that she is not with or serious with any dude . This confusion often comes to the guy because the lady's game won't make him to see that she is not available.

Instead of telling the guy the truth she put up game face just to keep him and waste his resources . At the end she has nothing to offer him .

It will dawn on the guy when he starts discovering her past before he met her .

Him: but you didn't tell me you have a guy when we met

Her : I didn't want you to feel somehow that was why I refused to tell you .

Or

Him : But you told me you are not in a serious relationship with him

Her : Yes , both ....

Him : but what , you only allow me to waste my time .

Her : baby am sorry I didn't know it will turn out this way

Unavailability makes a lady hard to get - Perfect skills

Ok, let us go further to prove this theory .

For instance:
When in an event or occasion. Merely looking at the crowd you can discern only few successful men among them. All the Ladies attention will be directed to just those men. Many men in the occasion will be denied attention . Now, all the men's attention are on all the ladies but all the lady's attention are on the few men .

Only few men have what ladies wants ( money and masculinity) .

The rest of the guys will be denied attention , they will pay immensely to make up for what they are lacking in money and masculinity. They will keep professing love and try so hard to figure out how to get into her heart. Few succeful men don't stress on getting ladies . They already have what attracts ladies to them.

Men will always run out of pussy but women will hardly run out of benefits. Women are at advantage.

An average succeful man can have 5 girls to himself . If this is so. Let's say we have 100 ladies and 100 men. 5 ladies for 1 man . 100 men divided by 5 ladies is equal to 20 men. 100men minus 20 successful men , we have 80 men available

Which means that 80 out of 100 men will run out of ladies.

80 men will have to work hard for what 20 men are getting cheaply .

In the dating world - sexual market . Men will always run out of ladies .

Many men will run out of pussy , but many ladies will always get benefits .

Few men gets all the ladies . Many men struggle to get few ladies .

If all the ladies only focus on few succeful men , those ladies won't be available for you at the time you meet her . It mean you will need to compete with those few men to get her .

Many of them have been taken away by few men which gives many men scarcity mentality.

Many men will always run out of option

Many lady's attentions are directed to only few men in the society

Only few men get large numbers of ladies .

75% of ladies go to 25% of men. The question is , where are the rest 75% of men.

Meaning that 75% of men would be lacking abundance .

This is so true because only few men have what ladies want(money and masculinity). The rest of men has not attain the level of success that is capable of getting lady's attention .

Men lack abundance but ladies have abundance

Why are ladies hard to get Part 2


Dating world

She feels she is doing you favour because there are plenty men who often beg for her attention but she still chose to be with you .

Ladies become easy to get when they run out of option . That is why they date simps. Ladies would rather be with a simp instead of being single . Men are the air they breath .

Now, every man has only few or no girl at all that is into them. But ladies often have numbers of guys that is into them .

Meaning that guys will often run out of option and ladies have abundance .

Exeption:
The reverse is the case for ladies at their late years(28 upward ) and men at (32 upward )

If men have just few or no lady chasing them and ladies have many guys chasing them . It means that in the dating market women are always at advantage .

Guys will always run out of option than ladies

A man needs sex from those girls he approaches and ladies needs money and benefits from those guys that approach her . The guy has slim chances to get pussy from those girls even when he commits to them . The lady has broad chances to get benefits from those guys without giving them pussy

Meaning , in the dating market , ladies are always at advantage .

Why are ladies hard to get for guys

The dating world


Often times women love only but one guy . She chooses him over any other guys. The one she doesn't stress . She can go any extent to please him . She doesn't care about his weaknesses .

She is often illogical when dealing with him, she tolerates him. She allows him sex even while mentstrating .

This feeling is often strong and irrational. She can't even trace it to its root.

He is the only one exempted from her games . She doesn't play game with him , always being sincere .

Even harlots do have that one guy they love . They handle him differently from other guys .

Any other guy that comes afterward gets opposite treatment .

It doesn't matter whether he is rich or handsome . He will always pay to get anything from her .

Ladies always have someone they are into. Any other guys that comes after will pay hugely to get her

Let's look at it from this angle .
Every guy has someone(lady) that is into them. She is very easy to get for him. He gets genieue love from this particular girl , no game at all.

This type of girl is often scarce . He will hardly come across such .

Most of the girls he comes across will often become hard to get for him

Once in a blue moon he finds such girl that chooses him . Other girls become hard to get for him .

Here is the logic

Most of the girls you meet at one point or the other already have someone they are really into . And they become hard to get for other dudes .

Meaning that the girl that chooses you is hard to get for other dudes . She becomes hard to get to them because she has chosen you already .

Many guys get confused and emotional when their babes post a particular guy, probably on her whatsapp status or Facebook etc.

Read
https://www.nairaland.com/6621821/girlfriend-just-posted-someone-else#103110573

https://www.nairaland.com/6600670/girlfriend-just-posted-someone-else#102664670

Any guy that ladies constantly post on their status or story heaping praises and showering words of love, is not close to the real nigga that's hitting the coochie.

What should you do when a lady keep posting a particular guy .

They often do when they want to get their main guy emotional probably to prove to him there are better option . It's a game

Your reaction as the man should be based on the situation on ground

1. If you are both on good terms, you can simply ask her who the guy is . No offence for asking

2. If you are both having misunderstanding, it's a clear message that she is telling you another nigga is in line either to make you feel jealous and start regretting why you offended her or she is blatant on her next line of action . But don't react in this situation . Instead of you getting angry let her will feel ignored .

Do your investigation secretly and critically before taking the next line of action

Until you Bleep her if she posts you you are still in a deep friendzone - Perfect skills When a lady posts you it means you are still in her friendzone, because you are actually still in the friendzone until you Bleep her . She will post you for this reasons

1. To call the attention of her admirers - jealous game . Ladies are very good at playing jealous game.

2. You are the one she is contemplating to date. She is sending message to her admirers to work harder - she is about to be taken away by another nigga. Now , the admirers should be serious with her

3. You are handsome and look presentable. She is using you to level up - increasing her value( sexual market value )

She can only post him on the condition of celebration . On his birthday . Birthday post is normal because she often post celebrants . Hardly will you know who actually is the guy among the guys she frequently celebrates on her status

She could write lovely birthday wishes the same way she writes on her friends , both men(guys) and women(ladies) on their birthdays .

It's confusing to ascertain if the guy is the one .

She doesn't post him except on his birthday or celebration days . You will hardly detect him on her status.

If she has a way to dodge posting him , she would do. But the guy may ask and get mad at her why she refuses to post him .

She can't post him for these reasons. Subconsciously, she feels he will block other prospects(admirers) from coming to her. They love to keep their options open .

For instance :
If she's dating you and she posts you

Her prospect : who is that guy on your status

Her : he is just a friend
Note: she is free from guilt of lying , and she will experience peace of mind .

Supposing she posts the real guy

Her prospect : who is that guy on your dp, status or wall .

Her : he is just a friend
Note : the guilt of lying will keep hunting her . She doesn't want to go through the stress of defending who he is , so she prefers not to post him at all.

But, the case where by the guy is not the real man that bleeps her . She will be free as bird to tell you the truth and she won't be bothered whether you believe her or not . If you refuse to believe , it's your headache or cup of tea .

THE GUY THAT EATS THE COOCHIE , SHE DOESN'T POST


Ladies don't like to post the guy that bleeps em

When you have money , you try your best to hide it from friends else they will envy you and they won't desire to offer you financial assistance because you already have money. So , it's better they hide their treasure to avoid enviness and also keep option of getting more of it open

The same thing happens to ladies . They don't like to post who they truly love - the guy that bleeps them really good . She is scared he could be snatched by her female friends, at the same time he could block other prospects coming her way . Ladies love to keep their options open.

Emotion

No woman can game an emotionless man - Perfect skills

Alpha game comes naturally when he doesn't has feelings for the girl - Xerxes

Emotion - desperation, neediness

Women at their prime will always be master of the game because she has a natural emotional intact in the sense that she often has men available for her needs , she will hardly be emotionally desperate for a man . Man on the other hand often runs out of pussy hence he becomes emotional desperate for the girl .

This theory is confirmed by philosophy that supports - 20% of men Bleep all the girls , 80 percent struggle . If this philosophy is true it implies that 80% of men will most times run out of pussy, then ,desperation becomes inevitable . Mean while women has steady guys who they get sex from which makes them less desperate for any man's dick .

If you can't take care of your emotion which is desperation you can't game and handle female's manipulation successfully .
A beta who can control his emotion will succeed more than an alpha man who can't control his .

Emotion is the key to success in getting laid .

Women are master of game in the sense that dating condition gives them the opportunity to control their emotions. This is the reason they defeat men in game .

For example :
When you engage a lady in dating . She already have someone in her life. You will probably become desperate to Bleep her but she won't be desperate because she already has someone - soon your desperation will begin to show .

This is how women succeed in gaming men .

The one who needs the other less holds the power to influence

When she is occupied with other men , she won't be needing you as you need her . But you won't know she doesn't needs you because her game won't let her intention to show .

She will start playing along in the relationship. Meanwhile , she is not available for you as you think.

Your neediness will be higher than hers .

The one who needs the other less holds the power .

No emotion, no game .

Women can never game an emotionless man .

Knowing that when you meet her , she is occupied with other niggas - she won't be available for you as you are available for her . This situation might cause you to become emotional ( Desperation-neediness).

Women game men out of his desperation and neediness

When he starts becoming needy( emotional) this is when women turn men into ATM .

She will start billing him. If he refuses to pay , well, fine for her because she doesn't need him at the moment . But if he pays her , fine for her - she won't reject his money .

You must learn to deal with your emotion to get a woman

Getting the pussy is compulsory


The reason why getting the pussy is very important

1. Until you get it , you are still a loser in her eyes . Your touching , fingering , romancing etc doesn't count . Until you penetrate her pussy and Bleep her hard , you are never her ex . It means you still a loser . You are still in the friendzone . You are never one of her exes . That is why you need to learn how to last on bed , especially without the use of drugs sexual drug can fail you and it has side effect . At least , Bleep her real good for once , then you are shareholder in her company , lol . Ladies only recognise guys that once bleeped them good .

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2. When you succeed in fucking a girl you become in control. This is well you have power to make decisions else she can misbehave and decide to quit because she has nothing to lose

3. Forget about all the Sexual attraction you create. Until you get the pussy , you are still a loser . However, sexual attraction is to keep the relationship alive - she will like to have you around and consider sex with you but many factors can still make her deny you sex.

Sadly, women will always be master of game because men are always on the defensive side.

Check the book - the power of the pussy. There the author said , women should be ruthless . She even told them how to be ruthless .

Have you seen any male dating coach that instructed men to be ruthless ? No.

And that is why women will always defeat men in the dating game. They are ruthless.

Many ladies at their primes are not available for sex at the moment you meet them so you need to invest hugely to make a way

Many lady you meet, someone is already in her life giving her what you want to offer - Tiny percentage of them are available.

Now , answer this question.

How can a lady allow you sex when she already has someone available for her . Are you God ?

You will be on the queue first .

Note:
That she hangs around you or feel like talking to you doesn't mean she is available for sex . She may only be available for friendship .

Why do ladies friendzone men .

When a lady denies you sex , it means she is friendzoning you .

I speak on behalf of ladies .

When a lady friendzones you, it means she is not available for sex , but friendship .

You will be on the friendzone until she becomes available.

Sadly, while on the friendzone . She might lost interest in you in the process. Another new guy will take over the fuckzone you crave for .

These are the reasons behind friendzone

Sometimes , all the sexual attraction you create might work but these circumstances will debar all your efforts from getting the sex.

These are the things why your games to Bleep her may not work for you.

Games are in levels .

The game to create attraction might not get you the pussy.

There are many reasons why women reject men..

The problem is that , she won't tell you why she can't accept you. She needs your attention and validation . She still wants you around even if she declines your proposal

She can never tell you why she can't Bleep you. They can't tell you the truth. The sisterhood has warned her "never tell any guy your secret"

To further buttress the aspect of unavailability.

A lady once told me . " I know the guy is interested in me , but let him wait first . E never reach him turn "

She further said. " I blocked him , but I will unblock him later "

What does this statement mean. It means that a lot of guys are in her life . She is over occupied - she is not available.

She will start giving him attention when she becomes available.

Note:
I know the guy she is talking about in person . The guy is an handsome guy, not because he is a beta . But because she is not available for now .

She already has a lot of guys in her life . She doesn't want to overcrowd herself .

Reasons why women deny men sex

The reasons behind why women deny men pussy transcend many men imagination .

Why ladies deny men sex

1. If she allows you to have the sex without much effort, you will probably think that is how she allows other guys . Fact

This is 100% true .

This is one reason why she will deny you the first sex no matter how you try. She thinks " He would think am too cheap , other guys are having me cheaply "

2.

A guy had treated her badly . Now she had determined to punish any guy that comes her way again .

Sentiment apart. Some guys are evil . Some had molested them. Some had treated them badly than you can imagine . She had sworn to punish any man that comes her way .

Now , imagine you meeting this kind of girl. All your game will be neutralized when it gets to the point of having sex with her

You don't know her past . So you don't know her bitter experiences.

She may be laughing with you. But what other men had done to her still reflect in her memory .

3.

She has a lot of guys in her life .

Someone is dicking her really good . May be two guys are available in her life giving her the sex of her life .

She will hardly allow you. What you want to offer is already available to her .

She doesn't count your dicking important.

When you meet a lady and she allows you sex easily . It's probably because she is too lonely . She is probably available at the time you meet her

For instance :

If you have something available. And someone truly want to sell that particular thing to you, Will you be bother to buy it . No ! Because you already have that think

Unless the person is willing to reduce the price so low . Then you can now consider to buy it .

The same case applies when you meet a lady .
She has men available giving her what she needs ( money, good dicking , attention ) . And now you approach her. Do you think she will make herself available to you ? No. She already has men available

Until you are willing to make sacrifices and compete with those men in her life she can't give you the attention you ask or desire .

Unavailability makes ladies to turn down your Sexual advances

I think , this little theory has answered why many women will decline your invitation .

Some one is already there doing all those things for her . She doesn't consider it important to pay attention to you. " I am not a LovePeddler - female mentality .

4. She is a lesbian

Not all feminine women are free from lesbianism.

Some of them are lesbians . However , she must also be seen with guys to avoid suspicion.

Some of them has been initiated into lesbianism . And you are there chatting her online . You are angered because she isn't responding.

You see a lady offline . You approach she accepts just to make you feel good. Little did you know she is a lesbian.

When you start demanding for sex she declines . She is irritated by sexual advances from men .

4.

What if she is a HIV patient. She doesn't want to wicked you by allowing you sex .

She has been dating you just to play along . She just want to feel like a women by dating guys .

5

She had a covenant with a guy. Allowing another guy to have sex with her will take away her life or something bad will happen to her - her believe though

She can never tell you this . She is just playing along to avoid loneliness.

6.

She is a gold digger .

Gold-diggers are very experienced. Until she gets what she wants from you , she won't allow you sex .

Men games will hardly work on gold-diggers. She may be attracted by your games but when it gets to having sex , she cut it off . Your game is your only salvation else , you will spend a fortune to get the pussy .

7.

Biological make-up : is one genuine reason, if things go south and pregnancy happens. Who bears the brunt of abortion ? Can she take care of a child now ? - Xerxes

These are the major reasons why women do deny men sex

Don't get me wrong. There are girls you will get so cheaply. These types of girls are not common.