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A rich man once said " When the economy of a country is bad, master and become exceptional in something.

Here is an opportunity to make wealth through cloth branding.

You can make good money by creating trending design that people love and more that suits what you want in the business.

The most desired want of humans is to appear nice to others. People are always conscious of the cloth they put on . They will go any length to become fashionable. They don't hesitate to spend what it takes for what they want .

Now, you don't have any reason to go broke despite the situation of the country . One of the secret of financial secret is to give people what they crave for . They crave to look good, give it to them and you will be paid for your good service.

There are only 5 things needed here

1. How to get clothing materials that suits your brand

2. Fashion designer that will sew for you ( you are at advantage if you are already a fashion designer)

3. Creating design that suits your brand

4. How to market it

5. How to make profit in this business. The purpose of any business is to make profit . Which is synonymous to cutting cost to increase profit margin .

LaSenior:
Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this

I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later

I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.

To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right?

We only see what she did wrong in your story but didn't see your attitude that led her to behave this way.

I blame you for whatever happened to you . This is often the case of a man who places value on a woman without vetting her character.

You have spoiled her before now , so what do you now expect .... You are reaping the wages of simp .

Next time you are choosing a girl . From start, choose the girl that also reciprocates your love and stop putting women on pedestal.

eish.... I have not been here for a min!

So if you have been following my post yall would know that I met an Igbo man via this platform. I have been to Nigeria twice this year and all has been well.

However, we are dealing with some issues of narcissism. Initially i thought it was just an "Igbo" thing but as time went by i realized its actually more than that.

I now find myself in a relationship with a man who blames me for everything that goes wrong in the relationship!
He is very jealous
Sooooo Controlling
Doesn't like me discussing our relationship issues with my mother (but he finds it quite fine to call her to complain)
When i confide in him he uses it against me
He apologies for things and just repeats them the very next day!

I have not been innocent though all this, because before when he irritates me or hurts me i lash out!
And i have tried other methods of fixing issues, even begging him to calm down for the sake of the relationship when HE was the one who messed up!

I love him but im tired. I dont know what to do anymore.

How do i make him see what he is doing to hurt me!

Lets talk people, how do i deal with this matter.

Note, we are in a long distance relationship so frustration is x10 than that of a normal one.

And what will you do if you succeed in changing him

They say " when a woman succeeds in changing her man , he becomes undesirable "

The emotional rollercoaster he gives you is why you are attracted and addicted to him . The day he changes and starts pleasing you is the day you will stop loving him as you do now .

The thing is ....... If you love him with this character he exhibits towards you , don't you think that , if he stops, you will stop loving him ? . Yes, the opposite will happen. Then he will be the one to come to nairaland to cry that the girl he changed for ( pleasing ) has stopped loving him .

Look.... don't even try to change him because the day you succeed is the day what you feel for him will vanish into thin air and you will begin to look for another man that will make you feel the way he made you feel initially because that is what you are attracted to in a man else you wouldn't even love a man you claim to be a narcissist in the first place .







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Ask me questions , I will reply you .

Infeno:
Abeg anybody when get means of earning online share so that all of us go enjoy this Christmas together
God bless in advance

I earn through fashion. Ever since I have mastered the art of fashion I haven't gone broke .

"When inflation is high , the best thing you can do is to be exceptionally good at something " - Warren buffet

No matter how terrible the economy is , when you have a business you are good at , you will never go broke , regardless .

This statement simply means that even if their is an inflation , you will also increase the price of your products to meet up . But a man who has nothing doing or who has not mastered any business will be the one crying because he has nothing to increase to meet up with the inflation.

So my earning formula is to save money from my fashion business, by the time it amounts to something tangible, I would now use it to expand my business therefore earning X2 of my initial earning

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You can also learn from us how to start wears business

pattern20:
Narrative Economics
stories affect economics, look no further than the example of Bitcoin.
When the idea of Bitcoin was first introduced online in 2008 by a mysterious person under the name Satoshi Nakamoto, hype quickly grew around it. It was an entirely new system of money that had the ability to change everything we know about currency. From there, it became a global phenomenon, though partly not for the reason you’d think.
Sure, its innovation and complex mathematical theory is impressive, but what excited most people about it seemed to be the hype and mystery surrounding it. If you ask most Bitcoin investors about the actual theory that runs Bitcoin, they probably could only give you the very basics.
But ask them about what excites them about it and they’ll probably say it’s the idea of a new, revolutionary way of using currency. The way of the future. They feel that by investing in Bitcoin, they have a stake in the future, proving they are among the forward-thinkers of today.
Another narrative attached to Bitcoin is that it’s free of the control of governments and banks. This idea attracts those investors with an anarchic streak who view many modern institutions as corrupt. Because it isn’t attached to any one country, investors feel they are promoting internationalism.
In short, it is these futuristic narratives along with the mysterious founding of Bitcoin that have made it so attractive to investors, not the complex math behind it. Without the exciting story, it probably wouldn’t have succeeded as quickly as it has.
توصيات الذهب
Lesson 2: There is a lot in common with epidemics and economic narratives.
Two subjects people don’t usually compare are epidemiology, or the study of epidemics, and economics. This is a shame, because epidemiology and economics could learn a lot from each other. Epidemiologists study how diseases spread, and many of the patterns they see are similar to what economists observe.

For example, they study a disease like Ebola. They keep track of things like the rate of contagion and well as recovery and death rates. When an epidemic is quickly spreading, the contagion rate is much higher than death and recovery rates. When the epidemic starts to decline, the contagion rate falls while the recovery and death rate outnumbers new cases.

This idea can be applied to economic narratives that are contagious. The contagion of a narrative rapidly rises as people talk about it, whether through conversation in person or online. It also spreads through the news and other media. But just like an epidemic, eventually, the story slows down. People start to forget or they just lose interest and the story dies off.
gold signals
We can see this parallel when we look at the Bitcoin craze again. If you search how often news stories over the last decade said the word “Bitcoin” you can see this pattern. There was a sharp increase in 2014, and then there was another peak in 2018 before it fell again.

While this isn’t the end of the story for Bitcoin, we can see that the rapid increase and decline with secondary waves is strikingly similar to the shape of a graph of the contagion rate during an epidemic. So studying disease curves can give us a good idea of what a popular narrative might do to the market.

Lesson 3: We must understand the narratives of the past if we want to be ready for our economic future.
Clearly, narratives are important when we’re looking at the economy. This is why it’s essential that economists take these stories seriously, rather than just looking at the math, so they can more accurately predict what’s coming next.

Luckily for economists, now more than ever we are able to access data about these narratives. We can learn through market research, looking at social media, and gathering information about internet searches.

Technology can help economists to find patterns in the data. They can then use this information to predict what the prominent narratives will be and how they might affect the economy. Shiller makes a point to say it has to be done carefully and accurately if you are studying the effects of narratives on economic events.
Forex trading Signals
What good does this information do? By having a good understanding of narratives, policy-makers can help shape people’s behavior when there are times of stress.

An example of this is during the Great Depression, when President Roosevelt addressed the nation with “fireside chats.” He understood the people’s lack of confidence was part of what was keeping the economy down. In these chats, he asked people to set aside their fears and spend money. It seemed to work, too. Following each address, the markets stabilized.

If people in charge of making policy understand the narratives and take control of them, they can be active participants in what’s going on rather than just bystanders who have no control of the situation.
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Is it embarrassing that you couldn't create a thread for your legit business. Nairaland is fraught with idiots

When inflation is high , the best thing you can do is to be exceptionally good at something - Warren Buffet

This thread is aimed at helping people to achieve their financial goals in life by tapping into the fashion world

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rickleye:
Not everyone is bold enough to talk. Ill have plenty examples but share just one.
I was on an evening shift from work that I had just started. I saw this lady and immediately I wanted her . Our eyes said hello and nothing more but I was in a different department so our breaks et all never merged. I had a friend who was interested in another girl ( who had a friend who was okay to me ). ANyways, his plan was that we would double date. He would ask the girl out and by default i would be matched with the friend. So here I am in a limbo. Do I pursue this bedroom eyes lady or wait for the fling with my friend.

Low and behold, I get this envelop on my desk. I open it, its a handwritten love letter. Not an email or typed letter. Handwritten with a puff of perfume. I opened and read the letter - the lady had professed her feelings to me and asked me to join her for coffee. So I thanked her and said why not. Her name was Sandra. We had a thrill of a relationship. It ended simply because she had a lot of past baggage that she hadnt dealt with. But just to say. We are not in Kansas anymore - Make the first move !!!

It is not about being bold . You can be bold yet refuse to express your feelings. This lady knows the implication of asking a man out directly just like the same guy might also know the implication. The game will always rig against the one that first expresses feelings

Shybeauty:
Thanks for your response. I really appreciate it. I needed someone to show me another perspective. It's not that i'm blind. If a guy likes a girl, he should talk and everything. I think i made excuses for him and now, i have to reset my brain. Thanks.

Be straightforward with him to get the situation straight . Why

He likes you and now you are liking him back . He doesn't want to come directly, you too don't want go to him directly. Both of you are playing games that won't augur well .

He has is own personal reason for not coming directly just has you don't want to approach him directly.

Confront and ask him why he stares at you and appears like someone who has interest in you with mix signal. If he doesn't give you a desirable reply , what you will do is about it is up to you

goodmike7:
I have this so called friend who sees me as a competition or wants to prove a point to me when it comes to women. Thus guy has literally bleeped over 6 of my girls(random chicks), right now he is dating my ex girlfriend. I met a girl one night and sent him the picture, just a random girl, but along the line, i jokingly told him I like this girl he must keep off,he said he was deleting her from his contact(mind you, i have never slept with any of his oloshos even when i can).

fast forward to 2 months ago, I was with this girl in question and he walked into the lounge, then we werent in good terms, something just asked me to tell the girl your bf is here, she asked who and i pointed at his direction, she said she has never met him before and cant even recognize him...nigga called to make amends with me since we werent in ggod terms and he said,he has been fucking the girl and even that night i asked her about him, she told him and texted him that moment.

Now it dawned on me that this guy wants all my kind of women, I was very sad and furious, i waited till the next day and sent him a very long text,telling him i cant be friends with a man who sees me as a challenge with women, or wants to prove a point, i told him,this is how it gets started and he would one day want to make a move on my serious girlfriend or wife in future..I was very clear that i have left the girl for him once again but I will never trust him around my girls and he has soured this relationship.

I sent a text message to the girl too, to avoid me anywhere she sees me as i do not take lies and betrayals lightly, I did not mention his name but she should know better, then blocked her on all platforms.
Have you ever been friends with such people before please share and tell me your opinion and advise.

What someone has done before will be done again and again. That is human nature.

Your friend will continue to compete your women with you. The choice is yours whether to end your friendship with him or still continue

Blupen:
The good news is that i got a job as a bar man but am still undergoing training, today was my first day it's a 3days training but the problem is that this job is risky it's a big place and they are understaffed imagine one bar man attending to more than 10 different people bro any short na for your head ooh, the job is risky, please advice me on what to do.......i don't even like the job but i don't want to remain jobless

This is what happens when you are new in something. With time you will understand the system, manipulating it will become easy.

surequality:
I am honestly and truthfully, I am in search of a woman that can be a wife.
Criterias:
1. Good in Bed
2. Good in the kitchen
3. Good boobs and booty
4. Good manners
Single motherhood is added advantage
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What shall it profit a man that leaves all the girls in his surroundings just to come online to solicit for soulmate

Skepticus:
You are welcome, bro.

You all are saying the same thing bro. Egos get mixed up in a lot of discussion like this and gets it more complicated than it is. I stay away from them for this reasons till everyone has calmed down.

Except, you really don't go out that much, you'll get to deal with strangers on a daily and definitely, the strangers would also be women. A lot of time, I meet them and approach them when they have something to do with my hustle or some other purpose they may serve to me, outside of sexual attraction. Women are shallow in thinking and emotional which is why the halo effect works on them a lot than on men. Guys on average, look deeper. A reason why a guy may not bother much on your appearance, as long as you approach him respectfully and you are competent. Women do. I would usually be on my best appearance (not tacky and not overly flashy. Flashiness works too but be used sparingly not to attract gold-digging time wasters). Women are usually receptive when they see this and some might be downright nasty attempting to shoot you down. I guage the body language like facial cues and body openness for reception. Once she is grumpy and hostile, I'm out. Even at that, I don't usually follow up and delete the numbers afterwards. On rare occasions, I did bed one on the day we met. It was a day after she just broke up with her boyfriend and was emotionally down. We never exchanged contacts.

Cold Approach definitely has its pros but a lower success rate than hot and warm approaches. It must be used sparingly and with caution, so you don't look creepy and get "me too-ed". It should only be done with women who are open and confirmed to be eager to continue with the interaction. Approaching them without gauging their body language and eagerness to continue interaction is not sensible and in some highly gynocentric societies, a recipe for disaster, being accused of sexual harassment or falsely, as attempted rape etc.

I find the earlier PUA of seeking out 100 girls in a week and hoping for that one that would drop her panties, unreasonable. But then, it can work for guys who have a lot of time on their hands and just coming up in the dating game. It should be done with sense, as women are generally not worth that time.

You said it all

Men are everywhere , it's her choice that is scarce - Perfect skills

The man that looks unsuccessful might be the successful husband. Be wise !!!

Men are scarce

This statement is largely used to emphasize the fact that ladies run out of options when the time ripes to settle down or we have more single ladies than single men .

Also , people admit that most ladies are unmarried because men are scarce .

Among cluessless dudes and female ideology, tatistic holds that we have more female babies than male ones, this could be true though but let's read further

Research over hundreds of years has consistently found that boys naturally outnumber girls at birth.

The ratio of male to female births, called the sex ratio, is about 105 to 100, according to the World Health Organization (WHO).

However, the statement " Men are scarce, which is why many of them are unmarried " is made on empirical evidence rather than rational evidence

I postulate. Many ladies are unmarried or singled for these reasons

1.

In Nigeria , we have 240 prisons occupying estimated 68,000 inmates of which ratio of male to female is 85:15. In Nigeria prison , male inmates outnumber females inmates with large percentage. This contribute to why most ladies run out of men in the society.

2.

Most of our men are on the hustling ground . The sailors for instance , they travel out with ships for months or years before returning . Our men are millitant who die in the battle field and it reduces the number of men we have . Also , some of them would travel to the remote areas for hustling where most ladies won't have access to them . I have a friend who would travel to other state , there, he doesn't have time for himself let alone women. This situation makes men scarce and contribute to why some ladies remain single or struggle with other ladies for few men available.

3.

Men go to their graves early because of daughters of eve who want the man's property. Running the family responsibilities could also send a man to early grave . Minus this situation , at least there will be more sugar daddies around which most of the ladies will engage .

4.

No 4 Holds the ground-breaking reason why men seems to be scarce and leaves many women single and unmarried .

I know you can't wait to hear it

If all the reasons above are insignificant . This last reason has much to do to why many ladies are single and unmarried.

In our society, many men are invisible to ladies, why because , ladies focus on few succeful men neglecting outrageous numbers of unsuccessful ones .

Yes , every lady craves to date or marry bankers , lawyers etc and managers in the big firms . The truth is that these men are scarce commodity among females.

When a lady says " men are scarce " in the real sense of it , she isn't seeing a high value men among the ones in her life or around her .

A lady would have plenty of guys in her friendzone. Yet , she complains she is single or she says " men are scarce "

Why won't men be scarce when she's waiting for that guy with nice car and affluent to come and propose or marry her

The male colleague , okada man who might even be a graduate that collected her number the other day , the bus drivers , that her broke dude who might be her neighbour or classmate are all invisible to her .

The fact remains that we have few successful men at a time who ladies focus on, with large numbers of men still struggling with life who are invisible to ladies . Therefore , she concludes that " men are scarce "

Men are not scarce , it's her choice that is scarce ._
When a lady is prepared to marry she starts looking for successful men which leaves the unsuccessful ones invisible . Then she goes by the dogma " Men are scarce "

The pretty ones want to date a successful guy with nice ride while the broke dudes around her becomes invisible .

Because, women are fond of confiding in their best friends when they get into big issues like paternity fraud . Several times , it's their friends that do advise them to sleep with the husband and pin the pregnancy on him .

But, in the situation where by you have once discussed paternity fraud with her best friend and assert that nothing will make you to avoid DNA test on all your children even if it will cost you millions, you will do so to avoid baby switching and other related dangers. It will make her friend to advise her against the intention of pinning the pregnancy on him
In your communications with your women before marriage . Don't neglect discussing paternity fraud with her.

If you avoid such discuss . By the time you get married to her , any discussion of that nature will communicate meaning of accusations and lack of trust

But if you discuss it with her now she will have no issue with it when you marry her because you have asserted your intentions before marriage. And she will never become careless by avoiding contraception if at all she attempts cheating .

The first DNA test matters a lot . If you do the DNA of the First Child , she will believe you will do the rest and she will never try or risk cuckolding of any kind in the marriage .

The paternity fraud seems to be exaggerated because large percentage of men that go for DNA test are victims . Many factors contribute to it .

1. Baby switching in the hospital

2. When a lady is unable to conceive , she would assume pregnancy. Then adopt a child which will later be shown to the man as his child

3. Child trafficking . This is when one illegally wants to take a child abroad , a DNA test may be demanded to confirm if she is the biological mother. But DNA test will prove it wrong . And this also contribute to why the percentage of DNA test shows the man is not the biological father.

4. Human error . This is a rare case though . When the doctor makes mistake during the DNA test .

5. Most men that went for DNA test had suspected their wives before going to the hospital for DNA test, which makes it possible for the women accused to be guilty of paternity fraud .

But, in the case whereby both suspected women and unspected women should be forced to go for DNA test . The percentage of victims won't be up to the current record of paternity fraud .



However, in any case . Men should assert on the woman the intention on DNA test before going fully into the marriage to avoid ............

A woman that avoids contraception , risking herself into pregnancy when she hasn't marry will also avoid contraception when having sexual intercourse with her secret lover , then risking paternity fraud when she gets married.

If only she knows that the danger of paternity fraud in marriages is more disastrous than the danger of pregnancy in her singlehood she would avoid it by all means. Perhaps , she is aware but the pleasure of the sex carried her away .

Bleep !!! The attitudes of men contribute immensely to why ladies cuckold in marriages . He often show her - everything will be well in the marriage . Therefore, the lady feels too reluctant to prevent cuckolding .

If a lady was taught about paternity fraud and it's consequences by her father or husband to be , even if she has the intension to cheat on the husband she will always use contraceptions - she won't be able to risk it no matter how sweet the cheating is .

The interesting and dangerous part is that many women determine to cuckold in the marriage. They have a child for their prior lover who they love so much before getting married . The child will serve as relic of the great lover.

Even if we can't prevent cheating, but to some measure we can prevent the danger( paternity fraud) it wields .

The following ways will help us to prevent paternity fraud .

1. While dating or courting. Make it compulsory to talk about paternity fraud in marriages .

Use one of your unknown uncle or relatives as reference.

You : could you believe that one of my uncle fell victim of paternity fraud ?

Her : tell me you don't mean it

You : he later sent the wife away and married another one . No man can afford to train another man's child when he his aware that the child is not his offspring

Her : some ladies are very wicked , very bad

You : the issue of paternity fraud is disastrous .

Note :
You haven't married her , but now she knows what is involved in paternity fraud and even if she cheats she will make sure she uses contraception or prevent paternity fraud.

While on the discussion . Tell her

You : the issue of paternity fraud is critical .

You : do you know that most child are changed in the hospital diliberately and sometimes indeliberately .

Her : how ??

You : some women do buy babies from the doctor . May be they need a particular gender . For example . If she haven't given birth to a male child. She will bribe the doctor to get one for her incase she still deliver a girl . Now the doctor will help her to switch the girl to a boy with someone that delivers a baby boy in the hospital and the mother of the boy won't even know .

Her : Jesus . Some people are heartless

You : hmm, that is why , as I am , I will make sure I do DNA test for all my children to avoid falling victim of baby switching in the hospital . In this life anything can happen

Her : it will be good to do that to avoid catering and raising someone's offspring

Note :
You have effortlessly make her aware of paternity fraud and the mistakes one can make when giving birth and the danger of avoiding NDA test .
This discussion won't have much meaning to her because you haven't married .

However , this communication will linger in her memory . It will put fears into her and she will by all means never make the mistake of getting pregnant for another man and then bring it for you to cater .

Even if she makes the mistake while cheating and gets pregnant she will abort it without your knowledge . Unlike when a woman is impregnated by another man , she then now make her husband sleeps with her so to pin it on him( cuckolding) .

2. Deal with her sisterhood

Make sure you also discuss paternity fraud with her best friend and women that is very close to her the same way you did with her .

PATERNITY FRAUD

Prevent paternity fraud


A man who spends all his life training a child that is not his has wasted his life as a childlessness man and the consequences awaits him inevitably either now or when he leaves for the world beyond .




Sitting under a tree with well shadded leafs , I beheld a lady with a man whom my instinct told me he _wasn't_ her husband .

I'd bought snacks beside the lady's shop several times where we made an acquaintanship. She delivered a twins in addition to her 2 children after our meeting.

Although, I haven't seen her husband before but the man I saw with her under the tree didn't possess the characteristic behaviour of a husband , rather he was more like a male friend.

My thought - he was the lady's manfriend who was having secret affair with her . From all appearances , something unholy was deduced from such affair .

The lady saw me, that was the first and last day I saw them together in that place . Prolly , they stopped coming there to avoid me .

I had experienced a case where one woman was threatening the other because she was accusing her of having an issue for her husband. Funny enough ,the accused is married , that means she cuckolded on her husband

This story was true . I confirmed it because I was very close to the accused .

During the period when paternity leave was announced - The price of DNA was slashed by 70% . A paternity programme was anchored on radio . You needed to see the discomfort and unease in the countenance of the married women listening to the programme . One of the women was abusing the Nigeria government that they neglected the important issues in the country for a useless attention (NDA price slash).

In the radio program, countless of women called the presenter on their opinions on paternity leave , but only one woman supported it. Then ruminated.... if large percentage of women are not guilty of paternity fraud. Why were they worried about it , a clear conscience fears no accusations .

According to Mr Abiodun Salami - geneticist ‘‘From experience in DNA testings, most firstborns are not fathered by the husbands at home, because these ladies have a prior relationship before getting married. Most times, they continue with that relationship, they don't leave it after marriage…’’

Very pathetic

The bitter truth is that most of the children around are not the biological child of the father .

The paternity fraud occurrences shouldn't stop us from getting married unless we choose to go our own way. The awareness of it should only put us on guard to prevent falling victims of paternity fraud instead of avoiding marriage.

Paternity fraud amass because of the ignorance of men . The mind of nawalt ( not all women are like that ) propense many men to neglect the woeing tendency of the woman they want to marry . How would a man marry a lady he doesn't trust in the first place - This mindset prevents many men from the real issues of life .

The punishment of not vetting your woman is inevitable if you neglect it.

If you fall victim of paternity fraud, it's your fault as a man. The first step to prevent paternity fraud in your marriage is to create the awareness with your woman . Many men shy away from discussing such topic with the wife or wife to be .

Prevent paternity fraud.

We mostly fall victim of circumstances because we aren't aware of its consequences . This is also applicable to women .

The same way a woman becomes careless into getting pregnant when she is not married is the same way she is careless in cuckolding ( paternity fraud ) when she gets married.

Any guy that shows seriousness to date, by spending and caring can be restricted to view the status because he may mistake her for a hoe because men don't like to date or wife a hoe .

When nice guys fall victims of ladies status game . He thinks, other people are also viewing the status like him, he never understood that he is the only one viewing the nudes.

Many boyfriends don't even know they are often restricted from viewing some vulgar pictures and videos of their girlfriends status


Often times , the targets view the status and others are restricted.

Nigeria girls WhatsApp status game

The status game

The status game is a means ladies use in manipulating gullible men on their WhatsApp status to do their biddings .

Scarcity of employment in the country. For the little job available, ladies can't endure 1 month to get paid .

Even men could only do little to endure let alone ladies that see men as an opportunity to survive instead of job .

An average salary earner earns 20k per month . And what if she can get a man to give her 20k per month, what's the need to bother about menial job which the take home pay can't really take her home .

Supposing she could get just 2 men to pay her 20k each . If she succeeds in getting 3 men. Common!!... she is made already. What is the need to pay attention to jobs . 60k per month aside miscellaneous gift and outing she will enjoy in the process .

This ideology has set many Nigerian ladies to see men as a means of livelihood instead of taking responsibility and face their financial well-being.

Instead of facing their fears by providing solutions to it, they depend on men to achieving successes in almost all ramifications of their lives .

Not minding the consequences this act might mete on them . They resorted in certain strategies to manipulate men to take responsibility of their financial well-being.

One major arena they use is WhatsApp status .

The status game is very effective because many men hardly avoid checking WhatsApp status - the WhatsApp status is everyone's 2nd tv .

Whatsapp status has tools to limit those that can view it . Whoever she wants , she will add to view her status .

The status game strategies

1. Uploading screenshots of money sent to her for others to see . As we all know , people like to do what others are doing . This will induce her crushers to jealous and send more than what the other guys are doing so to be in her good book .

2. She uploads her nude pictures( putting on cloths that open the delicate parts of her body . She also uploads vulgar videos to get men Hot . This way , the man will be thinking how to taste what he sees on her status . Soon he will be inviting her where he will spend his money to have her .

3. They bring their personal problems to the status . Like a. " I want to buy new phone " b." who will buy this cloth for me " c." my birthday is next week " etc.

In this case, any serious man will like to help her to be in her good book

4. They post pictures, where they are gallivanting , in the swimming pool or in the nice car and editing the dude from her targets not to see it . This is done to make her target see the good life she is living thereby considering her worthy of his money.

5. They like to upload high status guys , like rich gee guys etc, with good attires and nice rides. This will make men viewing her status to feel inferior , therefore , he would want to use his money to prove his worth in her eyes

Note :
Some of those high status and good looking guy they post are not even familiar in any way . Sometimes they steal those pictures from other people's status or download them from the internet.

They play the game this way - By restricting any guy ( prospect ) the status might affect. Like , when she wants to upload the screenshot of money send to her , she will block the guy that sent it from seeing the status .

Their major boyfriends are often restricted from seeing those classic guys they upload to avoid quarry unless it's for the purpose of getting him jealous .

The major guys allowed to see nude pictures and videos are the targets that have not yet paid her .

A broke dude is no different. When he catches feeling, he can sell his father's land to impress the girl .

Value comes before spending. If she is yet to see his values spending will yield little or no result. It will appear as if he's impressing her .

Women hate it when a guy tries to show off with money . And she often capitalises on it to gold-dig him. Until she is done seeing his values and become attracted , he shouldn't spend.

When he's supposed to spend the little he can afford is when he has succeeded showing her the alpha materials he's made of

By nature ,women don't date down and they tend to go with higher valuable man than the present one .

Determine the value of a woman

Women rate men based on the previous men they had dated . She will accept you only if see perceives you to be higher in value than the previous guys.

As much as you are below the highest previous guys - you are not her level - fact . In this case she will reject you - she can't stoop low to Bleep you.

A lady won't date down until she runs out of options

Perhaps , you think she is broke and you are richer than her in many ways . Poor you, you are below her in as much she'd dated men above you previously or currently .

This also facilitates why some rich dudes can't attract some chick in most cases - the girl had dated men richer than him , hence she rejects him .

She may give him attention, says naughty stuffs with him, but she will constantly deny him sex for the fact that he's not up to her level.

Just like a lady that had dated Dangote will reject any rich dude not as rich as him unless she runs out of Dangote kind of rich dudes .

Portray the value that surpasses hers

Note :
Value is in many forms .

Masculinity
Money
Dick game
Appearance
Etc

But the highest value goes with money and masculinity .

Study her and portray the value that surpasses hers, hence attraction .

When attraction takes place on this aspect of dating then your spending will yield result .

This knowledge above on spending and it's psychology is gotten from experience with Nigerian ladies what you do with it is up to you .

When to spend on ladies

No doubt, spending and favours have its own share in attraction, yet he must spend strategically. Nice guys spend solely to attract girls.

It will also be prudent to know when he should spend.

When exactly should he spend on girls ?

It's not enough to know that he should spend what is affordable . He should also know when to spend else there will be no return on investment

Spending is like taking risk , he shouldn't take a careless risk rather , calculated risk is the best . Because , avoiding risk is a coward move unless he decides on his own to go his own way .

Spending kills attraction in the sense that women detest it . She wants it actually , but buying her off is a turn off.

Broke guys impress ladies with money . In another term - men that are not financial confidence impress girls with money . It's absurd and abnormal to do so. And also, any love built on money will often depend on the it to thrive .

Women are attracted to rich dude. note : not because of his money , but because being rich is clear signal of a real man. Sure , she will appreciate his money but not when he impresses her with it.

The thing is... when a rich dude beholds the girl he admires he will be engineered to spend on her . It seldom kills attraction , therefore she turns him to ATM .

Being rich is not enough to attract girls . He should possess the rich men game to his advantage .

We often have misconception about the rich men and women . A rich man is no better than broke ones, they both tend to catch feelings for a particular girl(oneitis)

Often times , we see ladies become daft around rich dudes, we most times don't pay attention to the girls the rich dudes are daft over, we will hardly see them

The truth is that rich men are daft when they catch feelings(fall in love) . No one would know he bankrolls on some random girls because he will keep it secret .

Rich dudes are no better than broke ones - they tend to catch feelings . They spend on impulse when in love.

Like we said previously that he should spend on girls what he can afford to lose . But I tell you this fact " when he catches feelings he's liable to afford to lose anything for her sake "

A rich dude already possesses the value she desires . But he must also understand how to sell those value to her

She must perceive him as a valuable person to be attracted . Sadly enough , rich dudes don't know how to sell their values , they depend on their money which blocks their sense of reasoning when they catch feelings. Hence they priority spending instead of focusing on selling the value first .

Those men above in the stories had probably investment more than they could afford to lose . Else , no one would see their complains on a public forum

The thing is.... many that read the stories would hardly decipher their angers. If they worth far more than the money they spent , they won't be moved an inch and unapologetic

People don't like to lose where they invested, hence, giving it up becomes hard and spending more will become inevitable .

But if he can afford to lose that money , he can easily back-pedal

However . The rule of spending on girls what he can afford to lose can be neglected . One can choose to spend nothing , less or more .

There are times in dating when spending triggers a woman's feeling in favour of the guy . If he understands female mind dynamics , he would know when exactly to spend, spend less or spend nothing . Sometimes, spending kills attraction, other times it triggers it.

He got scared away from spending because the pussy might not be certain to get. If he knows the appropriate time to spend ,his seed will germinate and he will reap the fruit of his labour.

The problem of men is that , they spend out of ignorance, thinking that money is the only aspect to make her fall in love ....? no, it will be liken to a seed fell on the ground full of stones

For an average man. It will be good to abide by the rule " spend what you can afford to lose " to avoid stories that touches the heart.

2 stages in dating

1. Before the relationship
2. During relationship

The first stage is when he hasn't succeeded in making love to her . In this stage, ladies are in their logical state of mind . She will try all her best to manipulate the man to spend on her directly or indirectly . In this stage , he is dating himself until he makes love to her.

No matter what he does , how many months or years , money he spends on her yet he is dating himself because in dating, NIGERIAN ladies don't recognise the man until she has sex with him .

So, if he spends above what he can afford to lose in this stage , she may decide to quit . Then , he will get stocks because of his investment.

2. During relationship

In this stage . He has succeeded making love to her. Do we still advise him to spend what he can afford to lose ? YES . Because until he marries her , she doesn't deserve what he can't afford.

However, he can do whatever he wishes in this stage . If the girl is of good behaviour, why not do what pleases him .

The two men in the screenshot above and stories in the write up have things in common , the money they spent on those girls at that current time wasn't affordable and they became emotional attached afterward

Another thing is , they started feeling entitled to the pussy, else they wouldn't have come to public forum to express their grievances . For now, we ain't going to focus on entitlement but affordability .

So, talking about the money they spent . They might not be able to afford to lose such money currently . Perhaps, the feelings caught deceived them into believing they could afford it . The situation would be different if they worth 500k or millions.

To avoid emotional attachment, don't spend on a girl the resources you can't afford to lose.

Anonymous said : I met a girl and she gave me her number . She wasn't picking my calls for some times .

Some days later , she called and told me she was sick . Immediately, I hurried to get her some stuffs, medicine and also gave her 3k .

Thereafter she stopped picking my calls . I insisted on calling until her number started telling me "number busy" then I decided to use my friend's phone just to clear my doubt. To my greatest surprise, my number was on her blacklist .

Now, anonymous asked

Anonymous : " please guys what could be the problem ? Do you know that ladies are ungrateful ? "

Below are techniques and parameters to determine what you can afford to lose on girls

Currently, the money you can't afford to buy that nice cloth you admire doesn't worth spending on a girl

Currently the money you can't afford to pay in a bar with your friends

Currently, the money you can't afford to buy a quality charger when the current one gets spoilt doesn't worth spending on a girl .

Underline the word currently in those statements

The money you can afford currently to do any of the things mentioned above is the money worth spending, because you can afford to lose them without emotional attachment.

As the capacity of ones pocket varies from time to time . The size of your pocket currently
should determine if you can lose the money on the things mentioned above.

There are times in a man's life , he has the money to do certain things he can afford to lose .
For example :
A man that has 100k won't mind losing 5 to 10k in a bar with pals . This can/should help him determine what he can lose on any girl .

A man can afford to lose 5k at a particular time on something but can't afford it at another time . This should give him an idea of what he can afford to lose at that particular time .

He can also mindless losing 50k in some period of his life . For such a man he must have worth millions. Nothing wrong if he spends such money on the girl he desires to Bleep . Even , if he chooses to spend less , but at least , for the fun of it . What he does in this situation largely depends on his instinct

Spend what you can afford to lose on girls not because you are catching some feelings or she has been giving you fake love

The reason why he must spend only what we can afford to lose will be illustrated in the stories below

Don't spend unstrategically because you have been advised to spend what you can afford to lose

Note:
The money he thinks he can afford to lose on the beautiful girls above might not worth losing. What he feels for her at that particular time may influence his spending decision . Normally, he won't try it when never in love with her, neither will he spend the same money on the ugly girls above

If scaled those pretty girls above back to normal girl size whom he has no feelings for, you'd see that she may not worth the money he may feel he can afford to lose on her .

For instance: By looking at the Nicky Minaj's picture above , one is likely to catch feelings for her but If you are to scale Nicky Minaj back to normal human girl size , you will discover that she doesn't worth the money you may think you can afford to lose on her .

Majority of the pretty girls above are average looking girls but IPhone, camera, Samsung, Snapchat and the way nice guys flock around and hype them make them elevates their worths

They have the same pussy with ugly girls and prostitutes in the brothels . Perhaps, what triggers that love is probably because of the beauty , now he feels she deserves his money.