Education › Re: Zahrah Ibrahim Wins Best Paper Award At The University Of Aberdeen by personal59: 4:23pm On Sep 19, 2019 |
islam..........................the best religion
see her representation, bold and courageous May Allah bless you ma...........
in Allah we trust |
Crime › Re: EFCC Arrests Prison’s Staff, 5 Others For ATM Fraud by personal59: 8:49pm On Sep 18, 2019 |
yeehhhhhhhhhhhhh
but the prison staff have nothing to loss because thats their abode |
Politics › Re: Remi Tinubu To Senator Elisha Abbo: "I Am Another Woman Be Careful" by personal59: 9:59am On Jul 11, 2019 |
hmm this is serious |
Crime › Re: 3 Nigerian Men Jailed In UK For 40 Years For Dealing In Firearms And Drugs by personal59: 6:08pm On May 20, 2019 |
foolish set of people...... spoiling names of those who are there for legit reasons |
Education › Re: University Of Lagos New Medical Centre (Photo) by personal59: 7:14am On Apr 09, 2019 |
not newly constructed but the old one was renovated |
Education › Please Help With Facts For Tai Sholarin University Of Education Graduate by personal59(op): 5:48pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
my junior sister come home with a long list of #120,000 in total for final year clearance at Tai Sholarin University of Education and I don't believe it because my clearance fee is just #25K as at 2015.
I will be glad if anyone from the school can help with the actual figure |
Politics › Re: Ahmadu Bello, The Sardauna Of Sokoto Playing Cricket In Throwback Photo by personal59: 10:37am On Mar 12, 2019 |
hmmn Karatum: Who plays cricket putting on Babaringa?? This Hausa people and their ways of reasoning shaa  hmmn op you know this is when all your generation have never heard of anything called cricket ....... anytime North is mentioned you always fall sick upstairs and most times affect your reply |
Politics › Re: President Buhari Expresses Joy Over APC’s Majority Win In The Senate by personal59: 7:49am On Mar 12, 2019 |
hisexcellency34: PDP senator will still emerge Senate President. Saraki will ensure that before he leaves obami007: Hopefully, the PDP senators will help in checking his excesses. imagine what you guys don't understand is that it won't affect him a bit aside the name calling but as for you ............. you will blow whistle with your nose enemy of progress because of hatred can't imagine every supporter of each party to have this ideology when APC u want it destroyed ND when pdp the mad people among their opposition supporter should also pray for it to be destroyed like good for nothing fellow as you. when will Nigeria be great self haba with this kind of reasoning ahhhhhh foolish generation called youth martphreak: All those space bookers... lemme just comment my reserve... better goan look for a job than to be stealing someones FTC o...lol...
Another 4 years of retrogression and stagnation... I pity all those who voted in this snail of a president.. Mr integrity my foot obami007: Hopefully, the PDP senators will help in checking his excesses. imagine what you guys don't understand is that it won't affect him a bit aside the name calling but as for you ............. you will blow whistle with your nose enemy of progress because of hatred can't imagine every supporter of each party to have this ideology when APC u want it destroyed ND when pdp the mad people among their opposition supporter should also pray for it to be destroyed like good for nothing fellow as you. when will Nigeria be great self haba with this kind of reasoning ahhhhhh foolish generation called youth |
Politics › Re: It's A Lie, Emefiele Is Still In His Office Working- CBN by personal59: 7:23pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
i dont understand o...... wil he be there forever |
TV/Movies › War Room by personal59(op): 10:53am On Mar 03, 2019 |
please need a link to download the movie - war room please help a brother |
Politics › Re: 9th National Assembly: Tinubu, Boroffice, Folarin Eye Ekweremadu’s Seat by personal59: 6:53am On Mar 03, 2019 |
sholatech: If all these names coming up are through, we might have President as Muslim, Senate President as muslim(Ahmed Lawan) & maybe Speaker House of Reps Muslim(Femi Gbaja). ode religious bigot why always looking at everything from religious angle when all this people have their personal interest please make our generation great when a Muslim is better let's support him or her and if it's a Christian let's all do the same all we clamour for is a great Nigeria for all. |
Islam › Re: How To Date As A Muslim by personal59: 10:25am On Feb 22, 2019 |
MuslimHowto: As the world is taking the boyfriend and girlfriend things as norms, many Muslims brothers and sisters get confused on how they too can join the bandwagon without going against the ruling of Islam.
Admiring someone is not a sin when you find someone you like and you realize sudden feelings (affections) towards him/her.
This is part of a human to develop emotion for things they admire. Don’t feel guilty, because you’re just being human.
A lot of Muslim wants to know if they can have a boyfriend or girlfriend, but they do not know which step to take, and also what guidelines do Islam recommended (advised) them to follow.
What did Islam say about dating?
Islam doesn’t emphasize on dating in particular, but it has encompassed (cover) on all issues pertaining to modesty and avoidance of sexual explicitness.
They’re various verses in the Quran that prohibit believing Muslims to disassociate themselves from improper and immodest affairs.
“And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty.” (Quran al-Nur 24:31)
Is dating Halal or Haram?
Before any couple gets married or engaged, they have to spend time together to know whether they are compatible or have feelings for each other.
This little period of time together gives them the insight on why they should go ahead with their relationship which could probably lead to marriage.
You can’t just conclude on marrying a person whom you don’t know much about and end up parting ways within a couple of months after marriage. Below are what can make your dating haram or halal:
Haram Date
Practicing an unlawful romance is basically a waste of time, which can lead to loss of dignity and self-esteem when the relationship eventually kicks the rock.
Haram relationship has risen sporadically today that seems mandatory for every adult or teenager to have boyfriend or girlfriend. And not having one will make people think you’re archaic or outdated.
Islam prohibits the practical act of having an affair with someone who you haven’t been engaged or married to. And there is an extreme punishment for those who fail to guide their private part and indulge in haram courtship.
Allah stated in the Quran that: “Who abstain from sex, except with those joined to them in the marriage bond, or (the captives) whom their right hand possess, - for (in their case) they are free from blame: But those whose desire exceed those limits are transgressors.” (Quran 23:5-7)
If you claim to be dating, and you choose to indulge in these following acts, then your dating is typically haram.:
Hiding consent of both parents from your relationship Explicit gaze at each other Calling yourselves husband and wife before nikkah Premarital sex Touching or kissing Being alone or going out together Night call and chatting
Halal Date
In Islam when you love someone or something, it must be for the sake of Allah. Islam encourages every Muslims to have a good relationship and be kind to all people, be it males or females.
Every Muslim should abstain from choosing opposite sex as close friends, and avoid being alone together because shaytan makes uses of this moment to whisper to the mind of both, which can lead to having illicit acts.
“Whenever two strangers of the opposite gender are alone with each other, Satan becomes the third one between them.” (At-Tirmidhi)
Many may argue that there is no such thing as halal date, but they’re ways we can make our date permissible without transgressing and opposing the sunnah.
“…Wed them with the permission of their own folk and give them their mahr (dowry) according to what is reasonable, they should chaste, not adulterous, nor taking boyfriends…” (Al-Nisaa’ 4:25)
Below are the factors that make your dating is halal and permissible:
Seek consent from both your parents Both paying visit to each other at parents house Both of them must be accompanied when going out Get engaged Nikkah
CONCLUSION
Dear brothers and sisters stay away from haram date, just because your friends or anyone close to you have a girlfriend don’t make it obligatory on you to have one also.
Be steadfast in obeying Allah’s command. He has made it unlawful for you and every other Muslims.
When the time comes Allah is going to bless you with a pious wife which is better than having a girlfriend which can be the path to earn the wrath of Allah.
source: https://www.muslimhowto.com/2019/01/how-to-date-as-a-Muslim-in-Islam.html
Note: Muslimhowto is a new Islamic blog aim to educate Muslims if this is the way they intend to educate people then I feel sorry for the knowledgeable and grounded people out there because their work is getting tougher seek good and correct knowledge before deciding to educate people. please |
Literature › Re: The Bang Rule Pdf File Pls by personal59: 2:50pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
kokakola: Check your email bro... mrpersonal59@yahoo.com |
Celebrities › Re: Hushpuppi Hurt Himself So Bad It Looks Like A Crime Scene (Photos) by personal59: 1:46pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Lucifer66: Women are dullards. It was an accident, ode very wrong to say "women" nd op u know what it means to generalize it since u surely av one |
Sports › Re: Ronaldo's Family Launches Campaign To Get Justice After Rape Allegation by personal59: 2:49pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
Sirpaul: Like for Ororo Share for Buhari Wetin concern ororo with Buhari ehn.... hatred for Buhari kill you there |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Navy Recruitment 2018, Imam, Others To Be Recruited by personal59: 8:47am On Oct 08, 2018 |
all nysc camp av a church and a mosque so y d noise
also your hatred for Islam will kill u there when its obvious chaplain is needed |
Politics › Re: PDP Leaders Attacked By Police During Osun Election Protest (Photos) by personal59: 4:19pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
cool4Jesu: This is serious o, Buhari why na. Someone cannot protest on peace again?. lol yes ooo someone cannot protest in peace because ur English is already in pieces if u are not careful u will develop high bp because of Buhari |
Politics › Re: I’ll Rebuild Ayefele’s Music House —AJIMOBI by personal59: 9:34am On Aug 27, 2018 |
we are waiting |
Politics › Re: MKO Abiola's Posthumous 81st Birthday Is Today, Watch How He Celebrated His 50th by personal59: 11:17am On Aug 24, 2018 |
waoooo Sunofgod: ITT.....Babangida (not abacha) dealt with him.
CIA things..... he was jailed by abacha not IBB, IBB only annulled go and read correct history |
Islam › Re: A Golden Advice From A Noble Sheikh In Makkah. by personal59: 10:42am On Jun 22, 2018 |
his name? |
Car Talk › Re: Jaguar Breaks Electric World Speed Record With This Battery-powered V20E Boat by personal59: 7:00am On Jun 21, 2018 |
mtcheewww I even think say na jaguar animal dem dey talk about |
Education › Re: Nairaland Mathematics Clinic by personal59: 5:44am On Jun 11, 2018 |
curl A = V x A = i [d/dy(y-x^2) + d/dz(z^2)] - j [d/dx(y-x^2)-d/dz(y)] + k [d/dx(-z^2) - d/dy(y)] = (1+2z)i + (2x)j - k
Evaluating at (1,2,1) yields:
curl A = 3 i + 2 j - k
That was a pain in the a**  please help me for God sake the questions are few step ahead |
Education › Re: Nairaland Mathematics Clinic by personal59: 5:39am On Jun 11, 2018 |
agentofchange1: Here please for God sake come to my aid I need the answer tomorrow latest please |
Education › Re: Nairaland Mathematics Clinic by personal59: 10:25pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
Richiez: We diagnose and solve math problems here This thread is the meeting point for nairaland math gurus...I dare anyone to ask a question in mathematics without me having an answer to them, LETS START please help me for God sake the questions are up there |
Education › Re: Nairaland Mathematics Clinic by personal59: 10:22pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
naturalwaves: Maybe you are looking at the wrong answers. What textbook is that? pls help me |
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Politics › Re: Mubi, Adamawa Mosque Bomb Blast (Graphic Photos) by personal59: 5:19pm On May 01, 2018 |
by the time people start seeing bombing as a thing outside religion then I believe we will have a headway |
Politics › Re: Niger Delta Militants Threaten To Return Nigeria To Recession by personal59: 2:02pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
hmmm is not hard now but when Nigeria army start returning them to God now those from the other side of the region will start shouting #thereallazyyouth# Now I believe the Yoruba proverb that says we look at the house before we name the child. as ur name implies u need to grow up cos anything that affect the economy affect us including u and not the foolish politicians nor their family by the time the table u are encouraging break nd ur father can't give u pocket money for data and co then u will know how hard, boring Nigeria can be kid please grow up KidsNEXTdoor: Did you actually read the write up Their demands are justified
It's not like a region that established hisbah police and yet enjoy tax revenue from alcohol sale in other regions.. What hypocrisy hmmm is not hard now but when Nigeria army start returning them to God now those from the other side of the region will start shouting #thereallazyyouth# |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Wakes Up By Midnight To Celebrate Chioma's Birthday. Fans React by personal59: 1:58pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
ah ahahahaahahahaha Nigerians so other girls wey no get someone like davido are unfortunate abi? NwaAmaikpe:

There's actually no secret. Chioma might just be like the regular Nigerian girl with smelly and sagged kpekus.
She's just fortunate. yeahh millionboi: Juju.
African magic
Black powder.
Davido is under a spell see yourself so blood no dey flow for davido body and ein no fit fall in love abi?... smh |