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[quote author=OLAADEGBU post=62203740][/quote]may God give them the fortitude to bear the loss


but people are hypocrite o, the mum get married at the age of 13

and some will be insulting the great Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him for marrying a girl of 9 as at over a thousand years ago

UrWorstNightmare:
I see goodness of allah every time I read about the latest suicide bombing, latest child marriage and pedophilia etc

ehyaaa

may be u need to pick up d Quran and read about Allah

UrWorstNightmare:
allah is so great its nonexistent

may Allah guide you aright and also preserve me on goodness

Islam and knowledge hmmmmm
Allah is the greatest

Allah is the greatest

# MenAreNotBeasts

Sodiq Oyedeji Alabi wrote, and I concur wholeheartedly. What do you have to say?
This is going to be a long rant. Bismilah:

I strongly believe that our parents’ generation (those born 1940-1960) have done our generation a great disservice. Too many of
them failed to raise their boys to be responsible husband. Too many fathers of that generation were not good role model of what a
husband should be. Don’t get me wrong, most of them were good fathers to us but were they equally good husbands to their wives?
I am not sure.
I have no data to rely on but my personal observation leans me towards a capital no. While our mothers and the larger society would
not let our sisters rest concerning how to be a wife and a mother, most of the fathers failed to invest in being a good role model to
the boys or even communicated to them how to be a good husband.
It is important to note that our fathers were not entirely to blame. They had to navigate two cultures during their time- the Yoruba/
African culture that seemed to focus on the role of a father to provide for his family and the new understanding of fatherhood that
goes beyond provision for the family. Most of them did not have a model to work with and therefore just stuck to their fathers’
approach to fatherhood. Unfortunately, it seems many in my generation (those born 1970-1990) are also sticking to this outdated
model of fatherhood.
See, some of us here would try to be objective by blaming both women and men. I won’t play that game. Women constitute the
overwhelming majority of the victims of this dysfunction, especially in an era where they work and contribute as much as their
husbands. Our wives have been taught perseverance, patience, faith in Allah, good wivery, among many other virtues, and they put
these to work to the best of their ability. However, they are not our mothers who put up with so much injustice in trying to save their
marriage.
Our wives are better educated, financially empowered, and on the same intellectual pedestal with us. They will take some but not all
bulls-hits women are expected to take in our society. So, they have what we call high standards. They want us to clean after our
toddler children while they cook in the kitchen. Unlike our fathers who will call to their wives who are busy in the kitchen to come
wipe the urine of “her child” off the floor, our wives expect us to get the rag ourselves and clean the damn urine “our child” has
blessed the tiled floor with.
And talking about standards, men have got them in truckload. We want a beautiful woman who is not too fat nor too slim; not taller
than us but not too short; no serious tribal mark; no heavy Yoruba accent in her English; uses a specific Hijab length; is of a specific
level of Iman; takes a specific career path( either we expect a masters degree holder to just sit at home and pander to our ego or we
expect her to be able to work and still does everything our mother did for the family); who does not take credit for her financial
contribution; who does not expect us to take part in the chore; who will remain the way we met her after five children; who knows
how to stretch N200 to cover lunch and dinner, and it never ends.
I once shared a house with a Muslim scholar who serves as a counsellor and I witnessed many men complain about these during
sessions. And you know what? It is the women who are encouraged to do better and be more patient. I don't envy women and I
wouldn't want to be in their shoes.
Anyway, there are two solutions that I can readily think of:
1- We need to stop enabling irresponsible men who want to hide under religion and culture to perpetuate a culture of women
servitude. This include calling their bullshit to their face and letting them know that providing money is not enough excuse to treat
your wife like a slave. She is your partner and must be so treated. This will also involve all of us to up our game and be a better
husband and father. Let us be the change we want to see. Let us ask for feedback from our partner regularly and try to improve on
our behavior and attitude. We all can do better. I believe in the power of humans to change and we must be ready to change. We
must raise our sons to be better than us, because whether they like it or not the next generation of women would take even less
bullshit than the current one.
2- We must encourage a culture of communication. There are things that I think women must agree with their would-be husbands
before they say yes. If you want your husband to be involved with the kids, let your fiancé know what he is getting into. If you want
to work, agree on this. Women must learn to communicate VERBALLY what they do not like and what they like. Do not rely on action
and body language, sit your husband down and communicate your problem with love. If you need help, ask for it.

Kenthumphz:
Very funny. I got their text today and sent them a text asking them what they into and I was told production of home made products, as if I was some dumb fella.

I also call them and was told they are into logistics

make dem leave this guy make him do his work now

fatymore:
Asalam AlaykuiI. This is off the topic though.

It is very essential for Muslim brothers who are in courtship talk about sex preference before marriage.. Cos it would be disheartening after marriage you get to realize you ain't on the same level of sex drive with your wife thereby looking for second wife up and down.. I know fornication is bad but is sex talk bad also during courtship...


Happy jumah

no courtship in Islam

if u are not satisfy with ur sex life and there is no correction to it and ur wife av done her best In which the option left is formication then nothing stop u from adding more since it isn't haram

DuBLINGreenb:
I want to understand more about hijab after marriage especially a muslim woman married to a christian man

there is no marriage between them and those who join the false marriage will also bear in it on d day when nothing else will matter

BenzEne1:
The mods should review this. Make it optional. I don't think they're all posting hateful stuff. Some of them really just want to know the truth about Islam and question its practice. There's nothing wrong with that. Allahuallam

may be u re not conversant with the Islam page and see different derogatory statement and insult about the prophet (SAW) and Islam as a religion


better still check news that come with a Muslim name involve in the wrong side and see insult on the religion


then u will know its cool the way it is

lol.. see question

some people just want to be heard

imagine comparing jet to car when the money u need to maintain jet in a month will buy car itself

may be the op av forgotten so soon that it cost Nigeria £4000 per day for parking space alone when the president was in UK for treatment


aside this all this pastors own fleet of cars when they are not businessman

abegi I no get time for this nonsense because its incomparable.

just like u comparing yourself to dangote because both of u are human....... mtcheew abeg park well

HARDWORK:Antidole for Poverty

Hardwork is the antidole for poverty

So my dear friend you've got to work hard

Hardwork is the key to success

Where no helper is found

Real progress becomes a difficult task

And since you have no godfather

You'd better get on with your job

Perhaps your mother has lots of money

And your father,a row of mansions

If that's all you can show for living

You are already on the losing side

For without making any personal venture

You cannot expect any gain

For the fruit of your labour

Eventually produces eternal and enduring flavour

From your labour comes your true reward

The world will love you

If you have lots of money

But such love depends on your consistent wealth

Or if perchance you occupy a noble position

Friends will throng you like bees

However when tragedy strikes

That time, friends become very scarce

Education can also launch you to great heights

So make sure you take advantage of it

If you see hordes of people deriding knowledge

Don't be found among such critics

Ignorance surely breeds suffering and hardship

And truancy is the mother of regret

So don't play away your precious youth

Work hard, for the night is coming.

Put Together By:
Lanre Ogunibi

11 Marriage Realities We Fail To Realize
by Dhun Nurayn El Shabazz




Understanding the facts of marriage can be sometimes cumbersome. This is because we are often blinded with pre-marital love which is more of an illusive expression. Marriage is like a business transaction where trade is done with the parties involved. You need to focus on whom you’re transacting with and avoid the background noise of the marketplace. See it like a business where you have to invest and make deposits. The more you put into your relationship, the more you get out of it. It’s not a game of soccer where viewers score more goals watching than the actual players on the pitch. The realities only set in when the knot has been tied. So it’s imperative to prepare in order not to be disappointed. Here are some things you need to bare in mind:

1. There are no perfect couples:

Perfection belongs to Allah, for to err is human. When we focus too much on the other spouse’s weakness, we can’t find the good in them or make the best out of their strength. Realizing this from the word go makes it easier to get along. Do not be deceived by a full blown beards or niqab, these are signs of eeman no doubt. However, the human nature will still set in. So overlook each other’s mistakes and appreciate more the good attributes your spouse possess.

2. We all have a past:

No one is an angel, therefore, avoid digging your significant other’s past. Whatever might have occured before you met is between the individual and Allah, most especially if the individual has done sincere repentance. What matters most is the present life you’re about to live. However, some key areas may need to be addressed based on peculiarity. If it’s a matter that is likely to affect the establishment of your relationship, discuss it amicably without unnecessary details or witch-hunt. The past can’t be changed, so focus on the present and make a bright future.

3. Your marital challenge awaits you:

People often think marriage is a bed of roses where you live happily ever after. You can only find such scenarios in tales from lalaland. The process of building a successful marriage is like the extraction of a precious stone. It often goes through the furnace to purify and strengthen it for durability. It is until then that the bond becomes stronger and it’s being appreciated. Challenges will often surface, face it and knock it down. Above all, never invite a third party into your business.

4. Success will come in bits :

When you begin to get along and hit your first home-run, share the moment with each other even if it’s with a piece of cheese. Not everyone was born with a silver spoon, so you may not have it rosy in the beginning. Never compare your marriage with that of others, for this is a brink of marital peril. Be rest assured with Allah’s assurance:
And marry those among you who are single (i.e. a man who has no wife and the woman who has no husband) and (also marry) the Salihun (pious, fit and capable ones) of your (male) slaves and maid-servants (female slaves). If they be poor, Allah will enrich them out of His Bounty. And Allah is All-Sufficent for His creatures’ needs, All-Knowing (about the state of the people).

Surah An-Noor 23 Verse 32

Hence, be patient, work smart, believe in Allah and be rest assured — indeed after every hardship comes ease.

5. Marriage is like a tug of war:

Once during the lifetime of the prophet ﷺ Aisha Radiallahu Anha was speaking to her husband in a manner that was unpleasing to her father Abubakr Radiallahu Anhu. Abubakr tried to get hold of her, but the Rasul ﷺ prevented him. Later when Abubakr Radiallahu Anhu returned, he met them in a smiling mood playing with each-other and he was glad. So dispute will arise, arguments will set in but never let it get unhealthy or strain the relationship.

6. You’d need regular maintenance:

There is no ready made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work that needs commitment. You’d need to volunteer yourself and time to make things work. It’s similitude is like an automobile which requires motor oil for tune up. If your marriage is not well maintained, it’s likely to break down like an engine lacking oil. Create a maintenance culture by regularly eating together, having fun, learning and throwing surprise gifts with reassuring love messages.

7. It’s a journey of two or more souls

This is one of the reasons why marriage is a matter you don’t joke with — it’s a real business. You’re either in or out, no sitting on the fence. You can’t afford to play with people’s lives for the sacrosanctity of life is beyond amusement and guile. Some marriages end up with just two individuals. Others may be plural marriage with more than one wife and several kids. If Allah blesses you with kids, then be grateful and nurture them upon piety. If he doesn’t, remain thankful and steadfast. Whichever way it turns out to be; get prepared for a life long journey. And the best of preparation is At-Taqwah.

8. It’s an opportunity for growth:

Getting together with your better half is like the discovery of a natural resource in its crude form. You’d get to see a lot of strange things alien to your perspective. This then gives you a chance to build and transform your significant other. Try to encourage one another to read the Qur’an, rise for qiyam-ul-Layl and compete in good deeds. This is one reason why choosing the right spouse is arguably the most important decision to make. You’re either building a virile legacy or feeding your desire.

9. Marriage is a trial and test of faith:

The post marital scenario is highly unpredictable. Pregnancy may not come in the early years. The husband may loose his lucrative job. The wife’s beauty may diminish. In situations like this, it is faith that will guide you through and keep you moving. With steadfastness, perseverance and prayer, you will smile at the end of the phase.

10. It’s a contract that needs constant renewal:

In every successful marriage, you need a bank account. It is not money that you deposit into this bank account. It is love, peace and care which can be withdrawn and replenished into your marriage. Failure to constantly do this may turn a blissful home into a sour hub. Love doesn’t just appear or disappear, you have to plant and nurture it to blossom.

11. The Devil will not leave you:

This sounds sarcastic I know, but it’s a fact. The Devil will try all means for married couples to get divorced. This is well documented in the hadith:

The Messenger of Allah, ﷺ said: “Verily, Satan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: I have done this and this. Satan says: You have done nothing. Another one says: I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife. Satan embraces him and he says: You have done well.” (Muslim)


http://hadithoftheday.com/11-marriage-realities-we-fail-to-realize/

11 Marriage Realities We Fail To Realize
by Dhun Nurayn El Shabazz



Understanding the facts of marriage can be sometimes cumbersome. This is because we are often blinded with pre-marital love which is more of an illusive expression. Marriage is like a business transaction where trade is done with the parties involved. You need to focus on whom you’re transacting with and avoid the background noise of the marketplace. See it like a business where you have to invest and make deposits. The more you put into your relationship, the more you get out of it. It’s not a game of soccer where viewers score more goals watching than the actual players on the pitch. The realities only set in when the knot has been tied. So it’s imperative to prepare in order not to be disappointed. Here are some things you need to bare in mind:

1. There are no perfect couples:

Perfection belongs to Allah, for to err is human. When we focus too much on the other spouse’s weakness, we can’t find the good in them or make the best out of their strength. Realizing this from the word go makes it easier to get along. Do not be deceived by a full blown beards or niqab, these are signs of eeman no doubt. However, the human nature will still set in. So overlook each other’s mistakes and appreciate more the good attributes your spouse possess.

2. We all have a past:

No one is an angel, therefore, avoid digging your significant other’s past. Whatever might have occured before you met is between the individual and Allah, most especially if the individual has done sincere repentance. What matters most is the present life you’re about to live. However, some key areas may need to be addressed based on peculiarity. If it’s a matter that is likely to affect the establishment of your relationship, discuss it amicably without unnecessary details or witch-hunt. The past can’t be changed, so focus on the present and make a bright future.

3. Your marital challenge awaits you:

People often think marriage is a bed of roses where you live happily ever after. You can only find such scenarios in tales from lalaland. The process of building a successful marriage is like the extraction of a precious stone. It often goes through the furnace to purify and strengthen it for durability. It is until then that the bond becomes stronger and it’s being appreciated. Challenges will often surface, face it and knock it down. Above all, never invite a third party into your business.

4. Success will come in bits :

When you begin to get along and hit your first home-run, share the moment with each other even if it’s with a piece of cheese. Not everyone was born with a silver spoon, so you may not have it rosy in the beginning. Never compare your marriage with that of others, for this is a brink of marital peril. Be rest assured with Allah’s assurance:
And marry those among you who are single (i.e. a man who has no wife and the woman who has no husband) and (also marry) the Salihun (pious, fit and capable ones) of your (male) slaves and maid-servants (female slaves). If they be poor, Allah will enrich them out of His Bounty. And Allah is All-Sufficent for His creatures’ needs, All-Knowing (about the state of the people).

Surah An-Noor 23 Verse 32

Hence, be patient, work smart, believe in Allah and be rest assured — indeed after every hardship comes ease.

5. Marriage is like a tug of war:

Once during the lifetime of the prophet ﷺ Aisha Radiallahu Anha was speaking to her husband in a manner that was unpleasing to her father Abubakr Radiallahu Anhu. Abubakr tried to get hold of her, but the Rasul ﷺ prevented him. Later when Abubakr Radiallahu Anhu returned, he met them in a smiling mood playing with each-other and he was glad. So dispute will arise, arguments will set in but never let it get unhealthy or strain the relationship.

6. You’d need regular maintenance:

There is no ready made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work that needs commitment. You’d need to volunteer yourself and time to make things work. It’s similitude is like an automobile which requires motor oil for tune up. If your marriage is not well maintained, it’s likely to break down like an engine lacking oil. Create a maintenance culture by regularly eating together, having fun, learning and throwing surprise gifts with reassuring love messages.

7. It’s a journey of two or more souls

This is one of the reasons why marriage is a matter you don’t joke with — it’s a real business. You’re either in or out, no sitting on the fence. You can’t afford to play with people’s lives for the sacrosanctity of life is beyond amusement and guile. Some marriages end up with just two individuals. Others may be plural marriage with more than one wife and several kids. If Allah blesses you with kids, then be grateful and nurture them upon piety. If he doesn’t, remain thankful and steadfast. Whichever way it turns out to be; get prepared for a life long journey. And the best of preparation is At-Taqwah.

8. It’s an opportunity for growth:

Getting together with your better half is like the discovery of a natural resource in its crude form. You’d get to see a lot of strange things alien to your perspective. This then gives you a chance to build and transform your significant other. Try to encourage one another to read the Qur’an, rise for qiyam-ul-Layl and compete in good deeds. This is one reason why choosing the right spouse is arguably the most important decision to make. You’re either building a virile legacy or feeding your desire.

9. Marriage is a trial and test of faith:

The post marital scenario is highly unpredictable. Pregnancy may not come in the early years. The husband may loose his lucrative job. The wife’s beauty may diminish. In situations like this, it is faith that will guide you through and keep you moving. With steadfastness, perseverance and prayer, you will smile at the end of the phase.

10. It’s a contract that needs constant renewal:

In every successful marriage, you need a bank account. It is not money that you deposit into this bank account. It is love, peace and care which can be withdrawn and replenished into your marriage. Failure to constantly do this may turn a blissful home into a sour hub. Love doesn’t just appear or disappear, you have to plant and nurture it to blossom.

11. The Devil will not leave you:

This sounds sarcastic I know, but it’s a fact. The Devil will try all means for married couples to get divorced. This is well documented in the hadith:

The Messenger of Allah, ﷺ said: “Verily, Satan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: I have done this and this. Satan says: You have done nothing. Another one says: I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife. Satan embraces him and he says: You have done well.” (Muslim)

http://hadithoftheday.com/11-marriage-realities-we-fail-to-realize/

Afobear:
Every last Nigerian who says they love everything about Nigeria is why Nigeria is “Nigeria”. Foreigners will definitely not understand the emphasis at a glance, but Nigerians do, no matter what they say.

Before you judge my write-up, keep in mind I’m a Nigerian by birth, upbringing and residence. I interact with Nigerians on a daily basis and I’m not rich folk, so I actually know what goes on in the heart of the country.

Nigerians are full of energy. Yes, we have potential. Lots of it. We have the smartest beings the world has ever seen (I could have been one myself, if I left the country and it’s negativity behind as an infant, no kidding). However limited by religion their thoughts are, the Nigerian society at large still pulls through with wonderful, (but short-lived) creativity.

I’m not exactly sure which of these count as a reason to not like the country and it’s people, so I’ll leave it to the reader. All I’ll do is describe.

Nigerians are aggressive, but never towards causes that make for a better living. A Nigerian can fight to the death to prove he can beat his brother, most times over nothing, but will not even blink if the government decides a whole town will not catch a glimpse of electricity for a year. “Our government is wicked o. We’re angry.” is all they can muster up. Nothing more. Nothing that can change anything.
Nigerians have zero (not exaggerating) maintenance culture. We don’t fix things until they break down completely. We apply paste and glue, then kick the damned thing back to life until we’re sure it can never work again. Then we ‘try’ to fix it, FOREVER.
Nigeria is infested and damaged beyond repair by religion. It’s like religion blocks off the part of our brains that actually evaluates logical input.
Like someone already stated, people do the exact opposite of what their holy books say and have no shame condemning you for not feigning belief as much, first chance they get.
Our countrymen would rather skin and sell a person alive if the church asks that of them. They’d rather pay tithes (in 100%) than buy lunch (which would cost about 0.1% of their tithe) for a stranded fellow.
A mother would rather her kids starve than miss a church event. Hence, ‘serving God’.
Best part yet, anything that requires a positive action is met with a moronic “do your best and leave the rest to God”, “it’s all part of God’s plan” and “pray about it”.
By the way, I’m still a Christian, at the time of writing this post and I know just about how many Nigerians would spit at this section for the raw truth in it.
Almost every situation is casual to Nigerians. Nothing, no matter how bizzare is alarming. It’s like we’re so used to shitty situations we accept just about anything. So there used to be free water supply down the street and suddenly it’s being sold? “Hmm. Na wa o.” is all, and everyone adjusts to it and moves on. Nobody goes “No! This is bullshit and we’re not having it!” Not one person. And if there ever was that one guy, absence of unity would drive the ones who are supposed to support him to actually confront him: “Na wa to you sef o. Shey na because of common water you charge like this?” The end.
The worst part yet, Nigerians will never unify to fight a common cause. “The enemy of my enemy is my ally” just doesn’t work on us. Grown men (and sadly, kids) will follow a politician, pick up arms and engage in lethal violence against their neighbours, and in the end, what do they get? A few thousand naira notes and their constant state of poverty back.
Nigerians are cheap. Kill their sons and buy a few bags of rice for their community and no one will ever speak of it again. When a few cups of rice hits a few homes, the gore is completely buried.
Any law enforcement officer can harass, mutilate or even kill a civilian and it ends in pity. “Ah! Na army man o” and everyone cowers in fear. Justice and rights end on the 9 o’clock news. None of those human rights apply on the streets. Nobody gives a poo if you’re wrong

Oga Wetin happen? this your comment plenty pass the news

silly words

so all non virgins are born that way?

virgins rock as far as am concern because brand new Toyota can't be compare to used one (tokunbo)

it takes discipline and self determination to remain a virgin in this generation. whether u are refurbish or new ur habit nd character will remain the same so having sex av nothing to do with behavior it only show how loose you are except when rape or divorced no one av an excuse for not being a virgin.

hmmmm

SpecialAdviser:
I don't know how it would have been had Ebola occurred during this evil regime.

hmmmm



must u comment to derail this regime?

When it occur during d last regime can u tell me one thing the then President did


all this people are the same and its only God that can save us from them all

j1mmy:
Islam is not a peaceful religion and I think literate people know that, if you have been brainwashed that is your problem!
There are over 100 verses in the Koran and Hadith where Mohammed spelt it clearly that islam is not at peace with anyone!

lol.... u should always request for clarification on what u know nothing about

for clarification sake please post your verse and let me give you the explanation and why each verses occur

j1mmy:
Islam is not a peaceful religion and I think literate people know that, if you have been brainwashed that is your problem!
There are over 100 verses in the Koran and Hadith where Mohammed spelt it clearly that islam is not at peace with anyone!

u av brain touch but for clarification sake u can post ur verses Here I will help u with explanation

but get clarification before saying nonsense about what u re ignorant of

Almighty Allah will protect and guide is religion
also pray he guide them aright because hmmmmmm

princeade86:
it has happened to me b4 also, buh not married, just a girl friend. I used to threatend her den, just to make her serious, and one day, she took it personal and said she is no more interested. That was how i lost her.

hmmmm girlfriend.............. may Allah guide us aright

I love the last paragraph
Jazakhallahu khaeran

Lessons from Surah Fatihah – Identifying the Straight Path

“Guide us along the Straight Way. The way of those whom You have bestowed Your Grace. Not of those who earn Your anger, nor of those who go astray.” (Qur’an, 1:5-7)

When we examine these verses, we find that it has some very interesting qualities that make it a unique prayer. In a short examination of the above verses, especially the section we have highlighted, we will find guidance on:

Having humility as a servant of Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala (Glorified is He) in the community
Ascribing success to Allah (swt) and not to oneself
The comprehensiveness of Islam
The social nature of the Islamic message
As we explore the garden of Surah Fatihah, we will pick these four fruits for today.

1. Humility

In this prayer which Allah (swt) revealed to us, it is clear that we are to ask for guidance upon the Straight Way. However, the nature of this path, its location, its signs, its characteristics, and its direction are all left out. We are given no indication as to how to get there, how to find the map for it. Instead, the path is described in one single way: “The Path of Those Whom You Have Favored”.

It is interesting that rather than pointing to concepts or ideas for the individual to discover on one’s own, Allah (swt) pointed to people. He tells us that this path is found with those whom His favor is upon. What is the point of doing this?

It has immediately turned us into students. We are seeking this path and when Allah (swt) points to the people whom He has favored, our minds become fixed on seeking out these people. Who are they? How can we be like them? How can we join their company? Rather than allowing us to feel arrogant that we are on the Straight Path, we have been directed towards others who may already be there. But again…who are they?

“All who obey Allah and the Messenger are in the company of those on whom is the Grace of Allah, – of the prophets (who teach), the sincere (lovers of Truth), the witnesses (who testify), and the Righteous (who do good): Ah! what a beautiful fellowship!” (Qur’an 4:69)

And here we have:

-How to join this company: Obey Allah and the Messenger ﷺ (Peace and blessings of Allah be upon him).

-Who the company consists of: the Prophets, the Siddiqeen (the truthful sincere servants of God), the Shuhadaa (those who testify to the Truth with their speech, and if needed will defend the Truth and the innocent with their lives), and the Saliheen (those who are righteous in actions).

Allah (swt), then praises this group by calling it a beautiful fellowship.

By naming these four groups of people in the Qur’an as those whom the Grace of Allah is upon, He has pointed us not to a set of concepts, but to a community and a set of examples. From the teachings of the Prophets we take knowledge and the framework of Truth for all that follows. From the Siddiqin we derive the lessons and examples of sincere worship. From the Shuhada we see examples of those who act and struggle to testify to Truth. And from the Saliheen we see examples of righteous actions. So the one aiming for the Straight Path should seek out these people, their company, their examples, and learn from what they have.

This teaches the servant that he should think himself self-reliant in his journey towards God’s grace, but should remember that there are those in the past, and those in the community that he can seek out and be in good company with.

2. Ascribing Success to Allah

In mentioning the Straight Path, Allah (swt) does not simply provide a list of actions. Rather, He makes it clear that He is the One acting.

أَنْعَمْتَ – This word means “You bestow nai’mah (favor) upon” in reference to God. A subtle reminder that we are not the one’s who “earn” Allah’s grace, but that He gives it to us out of His mercy. Though we can attract his Mercy through sincerity, Allah (swt) is reminding us that it is not our deeds alone that bring guidance or forgiveness, but it is something that He bestows upon us as a Favor, a nai’mah. This again reminds the servant to be humble before Allah (swt).

3. The Comprehensiveness of Islam

Every group, methodology, and ideology will have some method or idea which it sees as the primary driver of Islamic reform for the individual and the community. Some groups oriented around Tasawwuf (self-improvement) will focus on spiritual purification. Others focused around societal change will focus on activism in the community – both social and political. Other organizations will focus on righteous deeds and worship. Yet others will focus on knowledge.

However we see that when Allah (swt) describes the people who have His Grace, they represent ALL of these various interests and agendas. They are according to Qur’an, 4:69:

–Nabiyeen/Prophets: The bearers of the Message of God, the deliverers of Knowledge from God to humanity, and the providers of the religious foundation for generation to come and all the groups that follow below.

–Siddiqeen/the Sincere and Truthful: Those whose hearts are purified and are sincere in their reverence for God and in their actions amongst people. Truthfulness emanates not only in their speech but in their actions, because their intentions are pure and for God alone.

–Shuhadaa/Witnesses: Those who actively strive to witness to the Truth under extraordinary circumstances, whether under threat of loss of life or wealth. They testify to Islam and call to goodness and benefit and may eventually find themselves giving all they have in order to defend innocent people and protect the lives of others.

–Saliheen/the Righteous: Those who dedicate extraordinary amounts of time to the doing of good deeds. Prayer, fasting, giving charity, visiting the sick, helping the orphan, remembering the name of God, reciting the Qur’an, and doing their utmost to have their limbs always in the worship of the Creator and in the service of His Creation.

It is amazing that in describing the people of the Straight path, the Qur’an mentions all of the various goals and methods – the seeking of knowledge, the purification of the soul, activism, and the doing of good deeds. Yet another testament to the fact that Islam is comprehensive, and calls for balance in the various priorities on the Straight path.

4. The Social Nature of the Islamic Message

By highlighting a set of people, instead of a list of to-dos, the Qur’an has pointed us towards a religion that is not individualistic, but is based around being part of a community. It is asking us to seek out people from whom we can learn, and good company with whom we can be.

As the Prophet ﷺ said, “A person is upon the religion of his/her friends.” The most intimate companions of a person will often affect his/her faith and will influence the direction of his/her life.  But if we know that we should seeking the knowledge and stay within the framework provided by the Prophet ﷺ, strive to be with people who show purity and sincerity as best as we can notice, spend time in circles of activism and call to good things, and work hard to do righteous actions and be in groups that do righteous actions, the Qur’an is telling us that while in that company, we are on the Straight Path – insha’Allah (God-willing).

Sources: Ma’riful Qur’an (Shafi Uthmani), Tafhim ul Qur’an (Maududi), Ibn Kathir, Tafsir Jalalayn

Original Source: http://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/lessons-from-surah-fatihah-identifying-the-straight-path/

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Jedi oro forget Agbo Jedi na the key by the time it restore your spinal cord and back to factory setting u yourself go know say.........

am not getting this

u mean "thank you" or thank God" after each meal because it sound somehow to me, after every meal!!! ah ah


How would the world av look like if man are the ones producing our breathing air



to me is out of it and that is not the proper way to teach them how to be grateful.........

ah ah after each meal...hey this is serious and that kain parent can be proud chai

Elbinawi:
The Historic Fraud of Ashura Fasting:

The Ashura fasting is a historic fraud to eclipse the brutal slaughter of Imam Hussein and his family. The murderous criminals created it using fabricated Hadiths.

They claimed Jews fast on Ashura. This is a monumental fraud as Jews never fasted on Ashura. Jews have their own calendar.

And if you check Sahih Buhari there are 3 contradicting reasons given from different Hadiths for the Ashura fasting.

The oppressive & tyrannical Ummayad Caliphs then used their power to fabricate Hadiths & imposed on majority of Muslims to distort Islam.

This was how the murderous killings of innocent civilians in the name of Islam found it way in and bloodthirsty Wahhabi savages embraced it.

#ElbinawiTweets

AlBaqir:
# And since I share some of his beliefs, I welcome your challenge on his behalf. I believe all you need is proofs, right?

Elbinawi:
The Historic Fraud of Ashura Fasting:

The Ashura fasting is a historic fraud to eclipse the brutal slaughter of Imam Hussein and his family. The murderous criminals created it using fabricated Hadiths.

They claimed Jews fast on Ashura. This is a monumental fraud as Jews never fasted on Ashura. Jews have their own calendar.

And if you check Sahih Buhari there are 3 contradicting reasons given from different Hadiths for the Ashura fasting.

The oppressive & tyrannical Ummayad Caliphs then used their power to fabricate Hadiths & imposed on majority of Muslims to distort Islam.

This was how the murderous killings of innocent civilians in the name of Islam found it way in and bloodthirsty Wahhabi savages embraced it.

#ElbinawiTweets

both of you need your brain to be checked

madridguy:
You are only talking about the Alcohol area and you blind folded where she was denied liberty to play with her age group just because they're non-muslim.

my brother what do u mean by been denied liberty?

is it freedom to remove her hijab?

is it the one she need to go clubbing?

is it the one she need to eat whatsoever she claim?

etc I hope u read her reason well before u blaim her parent


all I know is that she is moving with bad friends in a bad direction nd tending towards opposite of the Islamic fold

double standard will never bring peace to the world


imagine the two people among them having Islam names where link back to jihad or Islamic terrorism


na u sabi anything u like u say God is watching

chairman maybe u did not read well, all I see is a logical question nd am very sure the answer is in your note so leave social media and use ur time well on reading.




when I was in 100l my biology lecturer set a question using flowers anther and filament with butterfly as a compulsory question I almost left it unanswered before I reason d man was asking question on mitosis and meiosis

so oga read well

lalasticlala , mynd44; Seun ; kandiikane ; tjskii please help a brother here


God bless bro hope food dey wella