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AbdelKabir:
Shaykh Albaani rahimahullaah ta'aala

Question: Is it permissible for a woman to use her mouth in playing with her husband's private part (MouthAction) and likewise for the man (to use his mouth in playing with his wife's private part)??

Response: I will respond to the likes of this question by saying: This is from the actions of some of the animals such as the dogs.

We have a general principle, and that is the Messenger (sal-Allaahu 'alayhe wa sallam) forbade (us from) resembling the animals in other than what we are talking about (MouthAction); Such as his forbidding the placing of the knees on the ground before the hands (when going into sujood) just as the camel does; And looking around (in the salaah) like a fox; And pecking (in the rukoo' and the sujood) like a crow.

And since it is also known that the Prophet (sal-Allaahu 'alayhe wa sallam) forbade (us from) resembling the disbelievers, then it is understood from this to be a prohibition; Also affirming the prohibition in what has preceded regarding the resembling of animals, especially since that which is known about them is their filthy nature; So, with regard to this action (MouthAction), the Muslim must be far above and removed from resembling the animals.

al-Fataawa al-Muhimmah - Page 709

brother opinion differ on placing the knee first or hand first

Hanafis, Shaafa’is are of ur point of view


those who express this opinion take as evidence the hadeeth of Waa’il ibn Hajar, who said: “I saw the Messenger of Allaah (peace
and blessings of Allaah be upon him), when he did sujood, putting his knees down before his hands, and when he got up
he raised his hands before his knees.” (Reported by Abu Dawood, al-Tirmidhi, al-Nisaa’i, Ibn Maajah and al-Daaraqutni
(1/345). He said: The only one who narrated it was Yazeed ibn Haaroon from Shurayk. Nobody reported from ‘Aasim ibn
Kulayb except Shurayk, and Shurayk is not qawiy (strong). Al-Bayhaqi said in al-Sunan (2/101): its isnaad is da’eef
(weak). Al-Albaani classed it as da’eef in al-Mishkaat (898) and al-Irwa’ (2/75). Other scholars classed it as saheeh,
such as Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) in Zaad al-Ma’aad ). Among those who thought that one should
go down into sujood knees first were Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah and his student Ibn al-Qayyim; contemporary
scholars who favour this view include Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn Baaz and Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-‘Uthaymeen.




Maalik, al-Awzaa’i and the scholars of hadeeth thought that one should go into sujood hands first, based on the hadeeth
of Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him), who said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah
be upon him) said, ‘When any one of you prostrates, let him not go down as the camel does; let him put his hands down
before his knees.’” (Reported by Ahmad (2/381), Abu Dawood, al-Tirmidhi, and al-Nisaa’i. Al-Nawawi said in al-
Majmoo’ (3/421): it was reported by Abu Dawood and al-Nisaa’i with a jayyid isnaad. It was classed as saheeh by
Shaykh al-Albaani in al-Irwa’ (2/78), who said: This is a saheeh isnaad, all of whose men are thiqaat, the men of
Muslim, apart from Muhammad ibn ‘Abd-Allaah ibn al-Hasan, also known as al-Nafs al-Zakiyyah al-‘Alawi, who is
thiqah)


Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah made a valuable comment on this matter in al-Fataawa (22/449): “Praying in both ways is
permissible, according to the consensus of the scholars. If a person wants to go down knees first or hands first, his
prayer is valid in either case, according to the consensus of the scholars, but they disputed as to which is preferable.”
The scholar should act upon whichever opinion he believes is more likely to be correct, and the ordinary Muslim should
follow the opinion of a scholar whom he trusts. And Allaah knows best.



islamqa did justice to it

Why Can’t We See God?

I was talking to a young sister over the phone. We haven’t seen or met each other before. She was referred to me by a common friend. We were discussing an issue that she needed help with.

So, we texted at first and then talked over the phone.

We both opened up to each other so much so that by the end of the call, we felt like we’re truly sisters and that we’ve known each for ages.

We then continued messaging each other until the issue was completely resolved.
Throughout this period, we felt a very deep bond with one another. We actually made each other tear up at some points. We felt so much gratitude and a mixture of other fulfilling and heartwarming emotions.

We literally had so much love and compassion for one another through this experience.
One day, she texted me and said that she really feels that she is in love with God and that she reached a point where she loves and favors Him over anything else and anyone else in this worldly life.

But then she asked “I always wondered why we can’t see Allah? It would have made things easier. It would have made us deeply love Him easier.”

I told her, “You love me. Right? You actually said that you love me. But did you see me?”
We’ve actually never met. We loved and communicated deeply with one another even though we’ve never seen each other and we don’t even know how the other one looks like!

Connection and communication can happen on very deep levels without having to physically see matters.

The sister and I only communicated through words, yet we connected deeply.

Allah also sent us His Words! He sent His Direct Verbatim Words: The Qur’an.

This is how we communicate with Him; we receive His Words, read them, listen to them, and we speak to Him.
Through this experience, we are able to connect with Allah on very profound intellectual, emotional and personal levels.
Humans are intellectual beings. We are sophisticated creatures and we have the ability to communicate through much deeper means than merely vision.

We are not animals.

Animals don’t communicate through words or other deep long-distance communication. They are not intellectual beings. To them, seeing is believing. They have to see. They’re all about the physical.
But we are beyond the physical and it is a brilliance of our creation that we have the ability to learn, grow and communicate beyond the physical.

This is exactly what Allah intended for us. From the very beginning of the Qur’an when Allah revealed to us the story of creating our father Adam (peace be upon him), we see that the purpose of our creation was to learn and connect with the Creator on very deep levels.

“And He taught Adam the names – all of them. Then He showed them to the angels and said, “Inform Me of the names of these, if you are truthful.” They said, “Exalted are You; we have no knowledge except what You have taught us. Indeed, it is You who is the Knowing, the Wise.”He said, “O Adam, inform them of their names.” And when he had informed them of their names, He said,

“Did I not tell you that I know the unseen [aspects] of the heavens and the earth? And I know what you reveal and what you have concealed.” (Qur’an 2: 31-33)

So, we were created to learn beyond what other creatures can learn.

Among what we learn are the true meanings of faith, sincerity, perseverance, love and commitment…

I want you to imagine something.

Imagine you’re married and you’re sitting with your husband and he tells you, “you’re the most beautiful woman, I will never look at anyone else but you.”

You’re already there with him. So it’s not a big test for him to be faithful and loving to you when you’re sitting right there in front of him.

But if you’re away and for a long period, and he proves that he continues to love and be faithful to you and never look at anyone else, then this is true commitment and sincerity. Right?

To Allah Exalted is the Highest Example and Attribute…If we’re seeing Allah, there is really no challenge at all.
Allah is the Creator of everything we ever loved and admired in this existence. Think of anything you ever liked and multiply that by infinity!

He is The Source and Fashioner of Beauty, He is The Source of Power, The Most High, The Most Wise, The Most Merciful, The Most Majestic, The Healer, The Source of Light….

Who would disbelieve after seeing that? Who would see the Ultimate Source of Beauty, Power, Might, Majesty, Wisdom, Love….and then go to look for bits and pieces of that in something else or someone else!

If you see Him, there is not test and there is no challenge.

But to believe in Him in the unseen, THIS is true love, faith and commitment.

This is our test.

This is what Allah said at the opening of Surat Al Baqarah in the Noble Qur’an:
“This is the Book about which there is no doubt, a guidance for those conscious of Allah – Who believe in the unseen, establish prayer, and spend out of what We have provided for them, And who believe in what has been revealed to you, [O Muhammad], and what was revealed before you, and of the Hereafter they are certain [in faith]. Those are upon [right] guidance from their Lord, and it is those who are the successful.” (Qur’an 2: 2-5)

This is it: “Those who believe in the unseen”– those are the sincere ones, the true believers.
You know, even Moses (peace be upon him) out of love asked Allah to allow him to see Him. Allah told him that he can’t handle that now, but He taught him and us a lesson…

“And when Moses arrived at Our appointed time and his Lord spoke to him, he said, “My Lord, show me [Yourself] that I may look at You.” [Allah] said, “You will not see Me, but look at the mountain; if it should remain in place, then you will see Me.” But when his Lord appeared to the mountain, He rendered it level, and Moses fell unconscious. And when he awoke, he said, “Exalted are You! I have repented to You, and I am the first of the believers.” (Qur’an 7: 143)
Allah only revealed a fraction of Himself to the mountain, and it completely shattered and fell apart. How can we handle seeing Him, then!

But what happened is that Moses increased in love, admiration and gratitude to Allah. This Absolutely Mighty and Majestic Creator chose us to know about Him, and love Him and communicate with Him.
He chose us and honored us… it is really a source of humility and gratitude.

“And We have certainly honored the children of Adam and carried them on the land and sea and provided for them of the good things and preferred them over much of what We have created, with [definite] preference.” (Qur’an: 17, 70)
Imagine someone who has been sending you gifts, messages, showering you with kindness, love, mercy… while you haven’t seen him.

How would you feel?

You will have intense feelings of longing, gratitude and anxiousness to meet him. Right?

This is what we feel towards Allah. We’re growing in longing to see Him and meet Him… it is the ultimate goal and desire. This life is about building the momentum for The Day when we get to actually see Him!
“[Some] faces, that Day, will be radiant, Looking at their Lord.” (Qur’an 75: 22-23)
“[Some] faces, that Day, will be bright -Laughing, rejoicing at good news.” (Qur’an 80: 38-39)
Recall this hadith:

“The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings upon him) recited this Verse: ‘For those who have done good is the best reward and even more.’ (Qur’an 10: 26)
Then he said:

‘When the people of Paradise enter Paradise, and the people of the Fire enter the Fire, a caller will cry out: “O people of Paradise! You have a covenant with Allah and He wants to fulfill it.” They will say: “What is it?” Has Allah not made the Balance (of our good deeds) heavy, and made our faces bright, and admitted us to Paradise and saved us from Hell?” Then the Veil will be lifted and they will look upon Him, and by Allah, Allah will not give them anything that is more beloved to them or delightful, than looking upon Him.'” [Sunan Ibn Majah]

Looking at Allah and seeing Him is the ultimate gift. It is what we’re working for and longing for…
At this stage of our lives, it is not right or befitting to see Him physically.
Can we see the ENTIRE universe in one glance? No.

Then how can we see The One who is Bigger than the entire universe in one glance?

“Vision perceives Him not, but He perceives [all] vision; and He is the Subtle, the Acquainted.” (Qur’an 6: 103)

Allah created time and space for us. These are His creations. But He is beyond that; He is beyond time and space. He is not restricted to a specific form or location and He is not like what He created.

“There is nothing like unto Him, and He is the Hearing, the Seeing.” (Qur’an 42: 11)
Imagine a person who created mobile phones, for example. Then imagine those mobile phones asking one another: “what do you think our creator looks like? How does his charger look like? How is his battery?”

Well, the creator is not like what he created! He is beyond that. But He is The Most Knowing of what He created.
“Does He who created not know, while He is the Subtle, the Acquainted?” (Qur’an 67: 14]

Now, you might ask: but then how are we going to see Him in the Hereafter?
Well, the hereafter is a completely different nature and setting. We do not apply the standards that were created for this worldly life to what was created and prepared for another life, the next life, the Hereafter.

Imagine a fish telling another fish, “It’s not possible that there is life outside the sea because how are we going to swim?”
Well, the sea is not like the land and the creation of the sea aren’t like the creation of the land.

It’s like a baby who tells another baby inside his mother’s womb that there is no life outside the womb because there is no umbilical cord and if that’s the case, then how are we supposed to eat, drink or sustain our lives out there!!
Well, again, different natures!

So, just trust The Creator.

He has already given us enough examples to think, reflect, connect and communicate with Him.
“Indeed, in the creation of the heavens and the earth and the alternation of the night and the day are signs for those of understanding.” (Qur’an 3: 190)

And those who reflect and communicate with Him will testify to how this has satisfied and fulfilled their hearts, minds and souls. How this gave them meaning and purpose, how it gave them hope and direction.
Allah is closer to His created beings than their own consciousness. Even if you’re physically sitting with someone you love, he/she might not be able to fully know what is going on in your mind and heart.

But Allah created this mind and heart, He knows what you think and how you feel without you even uttering a word.
The deepest, strongest, most fulfilling and most personal relationship we can have in this life is the one we build with The Creator of this life. He knows and sees what’s in your minds and hearts even as you read these words right now.

And that’s powerful and reassuring. We don’t have to explain, He already sees and understands.

So just submit to Him and speak to Him! There is so much relief and liberation in doing so.

We now have the opportunity to communicate with Him through His most beautiful ways: through His Powerful Words in the Qur’an, through what He asked us to do in order to actualize our purpose in life… and when we do that, we will truly know Him and we will know and understand our own selves and find the peace that our hearts are searching for…
“Those who have faith and whose hearts find peace in the remembrance of God– truly it is in the remembrance of God that hearts find peace.” (Qur’an 13: 28)


Written by Dina Mohamed Basiony




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Sterope:
@lukgaf

1) Most rape victims were raped by people closed to them like their mahram for starters. (Isn't that interesting?) Don't ever use that to justify or blame rape victims again. It speaks to how little you know of rape.

2) I don't know what goes on with these people that call themselves Islamic scholars but it is BS to differentiate between a free woman or a slave woman. Or are they trying to say that slavery is normal or justifiable in Islam or that her pains is lesser to that of a free woman. I think you should bin his opinion. It is trash. A woman is a woman. We should not try to lessen one woman's suffering because of her status which shouldn't be in the first place.

And no marriage will not reduce incidence of rape and denial of conjugal rights is also not a reason. I think we need more scholars who have taken time to study the psychology of rape to talk about this. These scholars are simply not fit to give an opinion on this.

quote]Islam forbids women to wear clothes that are not modest and to travel without a mahram; it forbids a woman to shake hands with a non-mahram man. Islam encourages young men and women to marry early, and many other rulings which close the door to rape

What dowry if I may ask? Is that the reason stupid countries like Morocco forces their daughters to marry their rapists?

Also what value? Is she an animal or what? I understand that men are not the common victims. The more reason why they shouldn't be talking about it at all. They should not be talking about what they don't understand.

In our view the man who rapes a woman, whether she is a virgin or not, if she is a free woman he must pay a “dowry” like that of her peers, and if she is a slave he must pay whatever has been detracted from her value. The punishment is to be carried out on the rapist and there is no punishment for the woman who has been raped, whatever the case.



3) We all know the punishment for adultery. It is very severe. Apparently, if the punishment for a consensual act can be severe, it is only logical for a non-consensual act to be leaning towards a capital punishment or the capital punishment.


There is a reason I am selective when it comes to these people and islamqa. We definitely need more female scholars.

please what do we need a female scholar for?

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AhluSunnah:
NOT EYE. . ITS FACE. . .THOSE HADITHS ARE BEFORE THE COMMAND ON HIJAB.. hadith aesha, umar,and hadith rasul on how to a muslim should dress, i av 4goten who reported the hadith ..

alright but I will mk more enquiry Jazakhallahu khaeran

AhluSunnah:
EYE CANNOT BE SEEN ALSO. . . no proof for it in the hadiths that speaks on hijab.. and eyes are part of awra of women. .T

there are different fatwa on eye not been covered

Dedicated Nigerian Host Assembles 300+ Students from Around the Country
When they heard about my instructional odyssey, the Very Large Data Base Endowment — a professional society I’ve been involved with most of my career — set aside a generous fund specifically to help local organizers bring students and faculty from surrounding areas to take advantage of my teaching. There’s been small-scale dipping into the fund here and there, but my week in Nigeria demonstrated just how much impact it can have. Thanks to an extraordinarily hard-working and enthusiastic organizer, more than half of the 300+ participants in my Big Data short-course at University of Ibadan traveled untold hours on terrible roads from distant parts of the country, one making a three-day journey from neighboring Cameroon. Their transportation costs were reimbursed and they were provided simple guesthouse accommodations and meals for the duration of their stay. To say they were appreciative is an understatement.
I had some apprehension about traveling to Nigeria, which doesn’t have a great reputation, to say the least. My concerns were hardly alleviated when I bought the one and only guidebook to the country. After emphasizing that tourists rarely go there, it had some choice assessments: “ one of world’s most chaotic and dangerous places ”; “ nothing works, everything is seriously dilapidated, and the infrastructure is a disaster ”; “ appalling and awful, fascinating and appealing, funny and sad, all at the same time”; and “ nowhere on earth will you experience such mind-boggling, vibrant chaos as in this mass of humanity.” There’s no doubt Nigeria has huge challenges, and a distinct edge to it, but overall I felt far more at ease than I expected. How could I not be charmed by a street-sweeper’s small daughter in her party dress curtseying politely each time I passed by on my morning jog? (Though I’m told it was safe for me to jog only because I was staying inside the university campus.) How could I not be awed by throngs of market women in wildly colorful clothing, nonchalantly balancing massive loads on their heads? (I only regret not taking photos.)
On the other hand, it was obvious that getting anything done in Nigeria is a huge undertaking, due to complex unspoken social and business mores, not to mention widespread corruption at all levels. By the end of my week I had an even greater appreciation for the incredible accomplishments of my organizer and her team of helpers — many from the local chapter of the Association for Computing Machinery (ACM), another professional society that’s been helpful in various ways with my odyssey.
The four-day Big Data course was held at University of Ibadan’s distance learning center, in a vast room with 500 internet-enabled cubicles and four projection screens. It’s a great concept in a place like Nigeria to have a venue for students to work through online classes together, though perhaps a bit less suited for conventional teaching. Even from my raised platform I could only see the students in the first couple of rows. But when I asked a question (“ How many are still following along? ” “ How many are ready for lunch? ” “ How many want to learn the R language?”), hands would shoot up from the cubicles and shake wildly. It took some getting used to!
The Big Data teaching went well overall, with a reasonable fraction of the participants following the material as far as I could tell, and a few truly excelling. (I have a “super bonus” problem in one of the course modules that only a handful of students had completed in all of my 15 previous countries combined; at least 10 students finished it in Nigeria.) Each day we managed to begin the class within about 30 minutes of the advertised 9:00 start time, which is pretty good, and we continued until 5:30 or 6:00. But the breaks were interminable, with teaching never resuming anywhere near the specified time. Obstacles to restarting were many: hectic and slow-moving snack or meal lines, the electricity generator “needing a rest,” each student being required to check out and check in for reasons I was never entirely clear on though I believe it had to do with receiving certificates at the end, internet failures to attend to, microphone batteries dying and nobody knowing where new batteries were, and other general African chaos. As an additional complexity, we tried to organize the schedule around prayer time for the Muslim participants.
Despite the long breaks, I never got a rest unless I stayed holed up inside the guarded classroom while students were required to stay outside, which I preferred not to do. Mingling with the students invariably turned into a never-ending photo session — at times the pushing and shouting as people jockeyed into position was remarkable; I felt like a movie star!
Similar pushing and shouting occurred at another time in the Big Data teaching that took me by surprise. Those who’ve been following the blog know that I bring along Google and Stanford swag to give out as prizes to the first few students to finish each assignment. Students were so anxious about winning the prizes, and so genuinely mad when they didn’t, that I had to start using the six volunteer course assistants to keep the line-up at my desk under control, or to monitor in which order students raised their hands (no minor task in that vast cubicle-filled room). Finally I gave the students a talking-to, explaining that their behavior was making it no fun for me to give prizes, and I would put the prizes away unless things improved. It worked! I was told the student’s initial approach toward the prizes was somewhat emblematic of the way people in Nigeria can end up behaving out of necessity, and that they appreciated my little lecture.
In the first session of the Big Data material I always give as an example and puzzle a somewhat sophisticated scam based on exploiting massive amounts of data — it’s the first chance for students to win prizes. On the spur of the moment I took a risk and mentioned that they should do well on this one, since Nigerians are known for their scams. Thankfully I got a huge laugh.
The last day of my visit was a Design Thinking & Collaborative Problem-Solving workshop, plus a roundtable discussion for women. I restrict Design Thinking workshops to 30 participants; I had a full house, with at least 10 waiting-list hopefuls hovering outside the door most of the day. During the workshop I wondered if the participants were really “getting it.” For starters, I had surprising difficulty conveying the instructions effectively. (English is Nigeria’s official language, but it’s secondary for most people after one of a large number of ethnic languages.) The team’s prototypes weren’t as sophisticated as some of the other places I’ve taught, though to be fair they had fairly limited materials. But when we debriefed at the end, they had some of the best observations about the workshop experience I’ve heard yet. Several said their teams had highly divergent opinions and ideas, yet when they were forced by the methodology to listen to one another, their ideas started to fit together “like magic” to produce an awesome result.
The closing roundtable gathered together those women participants who were still around, many of them faculty at universities elsewhere in the country. It was a lively and interesting discussion, with a new twist on the “cultural and family expectations” topic: To a one they said their own parents were proud of their career, while their husband’s parents wished they would just stay home and take care of the kids. Kudos to these women for staying the path and serving as examples to others in what’s undeniably a challenging country.
My sabbatical officially ended in the spring, but I plan to keep the instructional odyssey alive indefinitely, with a goal of two one-week excursions per year. Next up: The Philippines in January

https://medium.com/@profwidom/dedicated-nigerian-host-assembles-300-students-from-around-the-country-ae88283bab72

jaszplus12:
you should then find time and let her invite her friends home so you can also know them. with time you will then use an opportunity to talk with them. don't form a habit of telling her "I don't want to see you with this or that girl" even if that girl "looks" or "behaves" wayward. you may just be the change agent for that girls life... I'm now talking from experience.

hmmmm thank you really appreciate will work on it

jaszplus12:
mostly you will find that its not a topic for everyday. try to find a convenient time that has a relaxed atmosphere... then casually chip in one or two things...
subsequently you will graduate into ADVICE.
meaning you will now be in a better position to advice about what to do and how to cope with friends or peers who surround them daily.
one thing ...always allow their peers into your home so as to monitor their activities. be friendly to their pals too so they will always love to be around you...then you use the opportunity to discuss with them together. you will realize they (your kids and their pals) will bond to you better and always want to hear from you ...

hmmm, sincerely I lagged in this are because I don't know who her friends just because am not always around but will work better on that area

thank you brother on closeness we are very close just don't know how to start or end nd the person in question is my junior sister 12-13yrs of age and will be in ss1 upon resumption since we all know how it all goes as far back 2001 wen I was in that class too am scared cos crush will start and abnormal exposure etc just post it as a parent so as to know hw to go about it.
thanks once again and on closeness we are way too close been the last born



please need more view to it

please stop viewing alone I need good comment or does it mean that no one understand the concept of sex education just like me cos I don't understand

Sterope:
I don't have any but there are also no evidence to the contrary


And the ones claiming that is unislamic are merely substituting their personal/society dislike for it.

Deadlock is.not.atachment. it is your own hair it self. It is either left uncombed to tangle and become drelock or styled to be so (with or without attachment. It is stil your hair.

The BS that people say in those days that hair turn into dreadlock because of dirt ad debris is big fat lie. Thanks is because I know people who merely washed their hair but do not comb having dreadlocks. It is tangles if.not loosened with fingers or comb that turn into dreadlocks.

OK but people are telling u it is not right with prove nd u don't agree with them yet u av no prove y now?
its believe that in Islam u don't av a dreadlocks cos its un acceptable though even as a guy the worst is afro, or u let it become long to reach like ur neck but u don't plait it nor turn it to dreadlocks and there are prove to this.

my sister please Islam as a religion av its own culture and u don't practise the religion with sentiment or what I think but what it is stipulated within its rule may Almighty Allah help us all

good day house,
please am really worried about my ward base on this topic because we all know sex education is important especially to the girls among them but my problem is how do I go about it like how to start, where to stop and what and what to discuss so as not to open them up into another unforseen circumstances.

I will like those in the house to please help out


mature people only please.

Sterope:
Yup, if it is still your hair.

Please do not mind that guy, having dreadlocks has nothing to do with length. Hair could be made into.dreadlockd artificially or you could leave your hair uncombed and watch it turn to.dread itself. Also, dreadlock had nothing to do with length. Normally, the natural hair on one side is usually longer or shorter than the hair on the other sides



AhluSunnah, you don't like dreads. Good for.you but you shouldn't be making stories up about it

OK, but please is dread(unkept or kept) allowed islamically?

but please don't quote what u think but what is acceptable in Islam,

will need the answer from Islamic perspective, thank you as I await ur reply.

is it that they are not due for d promotion or what are they celebrating?

AhluSunnah:
NO SIR.. A muslim hair must be in the same level. . one part of the hair should not be higher than some other part of the hair. . . heared that there is an hadith on it..y

I know was just asking the person I quote with the way he present it

hmmm

MossLuv:
Allah akbar! 'sege' Islam religion of terrorists.

may the soul of the innocent boy rest in peace

hmmm
may God forgive him and give the parent fortitude to bear the loss cos its painful loosing a child and to u, your brain need proper checking cos it seems some cells are dead

there is no hijab here o

Allah (swt) says - (interpretation of the meaning):
“O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their
bodies (i.e. screen themselves completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way). That will be better, that they should
be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And Allaah is Ever Oft‑Forgiving, Most Merciful”
[al-Ahzaab 33:59]

balash:
Things that Allah made haram is in quran

5- Chapter: 5 , Verse: 3 Prohibited to you are dead animals, blood, the flesh of swine, and that which has been dedicated to other than Allah , and [those animals] killed by strangling or by a violent blow or by a head-long fall or by the goring of horns, and those from which a wild animal has eaten, except what you [are able to] slaughter [before its death], and those which are sacrificed on stone altars, and [prohibited is] that you seek decision through divining arrows. That is grave disobedience.and rest is halal.
and quran is complete stop making your life complicated and looking at sahi or fabricated hadith or fatwa or opinion of scholar’s. Follow Only the Qur'an or the Prophet sayings

but the prophet ask us to follow the tabiheen and tabi-tabiheen too where do you drop that

Sterope:
What does have to do with anything?
Not all hair can be combed
And dreadlocks can be brushed

please I want to ask if its possible for a Muslim to have dreadlocks?

congrats girl

NextGovernor:
Nice one. It's only the illiterates, religion extremist and the ignorant muslims that covers all their body as if that will make them holy for life.

I haven't seen Aisha Buhari and her daughter cover all their body
I haven't seen the dangotes cover all their body
I haven't seen the Indimi's cover all their body
The Atiku's nko?
The Babangida nko?
Even Sanusi the Emir daughters nko?
Infact all the elite don't cover all their body including this beautiful lady up there.

Is it that these people aren't the real Muslim or Islamic typical religion is practiced by the poor masses.

congrats girl

sorry bro, Islam as a religion av is own culture and we don't follow what the rich do with there own Deen we practice it the way the prophet(pbuh) ask us to practice, so whosoever feel he can't practice that way is non of our business we only call and explain better but that won't be a standard to us either rich or poor that's their own personal problem because we don't follow blindly

connectpoint:
laffing my head off.... hilarious

thanks bro am happy u are

Pidgin2:
Evil men

who are the evil men?

Pidgin2:
Evil men

who are the evil men

connectpoint:
Guy...where did all this come from ....you're cracking me up

I love to make people smile, so smile is good for ur health

This Is The World We Live In

Everybody wants a key that can open any lock - master key; but nobody wants a lock that more than one key can open - useless lock. This is the world we live in.

When a man has a good car it attracts more ladies to him. When a lady has a good car it repels guys away from her. This is the world we live in.

A teenage boy impregnates his teenage girlfriend. The girl drops out of school, the boy continues his education. This is the word we live in.

A guy catches his girlfriend with another guy, he fights his girlfriend. A lady catches her guy with another lady, she fights the other lady. This is the word we live in.

The older a man becomes, the higher the number of ladies available for him. The older a lady becomes the fewer the number of guys available for her. This is the world we live in.

A 76 year old man can still marry a 26 year old lady. A 36 year old lady is tagged too old to get married. This is the world we live in.

A man divorces his wife today and the next day he is dating other ladies. Six months later he is married. While the divorced woman is is labeled a divorcee and remains single six years later. This is the world we live in.

A married man is caught in bed with another woman, his wife is asked to forgive him and move on. A married woman is caught in bed with another man, the husband asks her to leave his house. This is the world we live in.

A man gets transferred by his company to another state, the entire family relocates with him. The woman gets transferred to another state, she goes alone or resigns from the job. This is the world we live in.‎

A man rises to be the CEO of the company, he got there by hard work and determination. A woman rises to be the CEO of the company, she got there by sleeping with the Board members. This is the world we live in.

Facts like these make some ladies angry at the world and channeling the anger towards men. For me, that is not the right card to play. Understanding the world you live in should help you play a better game. Playing a better game involves answering the following questions.‎

What can you change?
What can you avoid?
What can you live with?‎

You may not be able to stop the rain from falling but you can carry an umbrella with you. That is what personal leadership is about.