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Family / Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 8:21pm On Feb 02, 2012
freecocoa:

Tir-wetin? We can't fit tire o as long as na perx matter,we are just arranging some kind things,you no know say na cordination we dey use? Me just gats put some kind things in their place.

Perx bebe we are with you darling and will swing back in full force like e suppose be,much love.

i trust. thank YOU!
Nairaland / General / Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by perx(f): 7:59pm On Feb 02, 2012
@TeHN/NL charity org and some nlanders, r231 posted my doctor's report since and Dr. Moin's number is there

page 8 i think.
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-855820.224.html#msg10067164
Nairaland / General / Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by perx(f): 7:44pm On Feb 02, 2012
@ all, THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!

i trust @idowu, cocoa, TEHN, GOOD JOB

i will confirm when i get the FEB 01:
First disbursement made to me (Perx) -

"N25,000 (drugs, internet, upkeep)

N7,500 (fixing of extensions to wheelchair)". thanks in advance. God bless you all IJN

i will have to go back and read some posts again and reply some people or questions. please bear with me
Nairaland / General / Re: Nairaland Charity Organisation- E-Helpers Network by perx(f): 4:57am On Jan 31, 2012
^^^ yes, please do. Thank You All for your kindness, support and generosity
Nairaland / General / Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by perx(f): 4:55am On Jan 31, 2012
Thank You All for your kindness, support and generosity
Family / Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 4:50am On Jan 31, 2012
^^^ yes please do. thank you and God bless

No Mountains too high, for you to climb, All you have to do is have some climbing faith, oh yeah
No rivers too wide, for you to make it across,  All you have to do is believe it when you pray

And then you will see, the morning will come, And everyday will be bright as the sun
All of your fears cast them on me. I just want you to see,

I'll be your cloud up in the sky,  I'll be your shoulder when you cry
I'll hear your voices when you call me,  I am your angel
And when all hope is gone, I'm here,  No matter how far you are, I'm near
It makes no difference who you are, I am your angel

I'm your angel

I saw the teardrops, and I heard you cry, All you need is time, seek me and you shall find
You have everything and you're still lonely, It doesn't have to be this way, let me show you a better day
And then you will see, the morning will come, And all of your days will be bright as the sun
So all of your fears, just cast them on me,  How can I make you see. . .

And when it's time to face the storm,  I'll be right by your side
Grace will keep u safe and warm,  And I know we will survive

And when it seems as if your end is drawing near, Don't you dare give up the fight
Just put your trust beyond the sky
,


"I'm Your Angel" – Celine and R. Kelly
Nairaland / General / Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by perx(f): 1:04pm On Jan 29, 2012
@ idowu and cocoa, lol. thanks
my aunt always says the devil is a bast.ard. i do not know why but it cracks me up everytime she says it

@all who asked for this
TREATMENT:

1. quote for ketamine/RSD/CRPS in the U.S.A is stated in my post above and letter from the doctor in a post above too. $6,000 plus

2. Dr. Moin's quote for hip replacement if possible at UBTH or Dr. Moin's clinic is at least 400,000 naira, plus 2 weeks in private room is 100,000 naira. non private room is 60,000 naira

3. surgery for right femur if possible at UBTH or Dr. Moin's clinic is at least 170,000 naira

cost for tests to be carried out UNKNOWN. costs for physiotherapy and rehabilitation UNKNOWN, but I will find out soonest

I know it is a lot but I wish my family had hasten fund raising since the ketamine quote from the states since 2010 or NL had taken me seriously and helped with charity org, etc, when I first put up my story on NL in 2010 then maybe things wouldn't have gotten worse or more expensive. GOD KNOWS BEST

If anyone can get a cheaper (but safe) quote/surgery, etc, kindly let me know. God bless you all
Family / Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 11:45am On Jan 29, 2012
aww bless. . . thanks cocoa and Idowu. awesome!
Nairaland / General / Re: Nairaland Charity Organisation- E-Helpers Network by perx(f): 11:14am On Jan 29, 2012
Family / Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 11:12am On Jan 29, 2012
Nairaland / General / Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by perx(f): 11:08am On Jan 29, 2012
yamakuza:

Surprisingly, we are yet to hear from the orthopedists amongst us.

i just tire, abeg make dem respond. re: CRPS/RSD treatment by Dr. Schwartzman is a little over $6,000. i do not know the exchange rate to naira but air tickets for 2, accommodation, physio/rehab not inclusive

i have emailed my medical reports, x-rays, etc to info@zankli.com, zankli@hotmail.com in Abuja as suggested by some1 on nl, no reply yet.
its weekend so i hope to hear from them as from tomorrow. still no response from SA hospitals (are they so busy, they do not care/bother or just lazy )

all German hospitals I have emailed stated that they do not have specialist or orthopedics for my case. shockingshocked shocked shocked I also emailed some hospitals in India [/b]about my rt broken femur and cost. still waiting for replies becos na weekend.

if [b]UBTH or Dr. Moin
agrees then I'll be admitted next week for a month or two (he said) for surgery and all necessary tests possible. *fingers crossed*

THANKS ALL
Family / Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 9:56am On Jan 29, 2012
i believe there must be other people out there feeling suicidal, please come and share your story and get the help and support you need from the good people of NL and the world

. . . I was in the aisle of the grocery store
With a pain in my chest and I’m wondering where did it come from
(I got tested)and the results came back and the doctor said I’m sorry but you got cancer
I could not believe it so I called up my mama to calm my nerves
(mama)she got down on her knees (mama)she said a prayer for me
(mama) said just keep on thanking Jesus (mama)he’ll give you all you need (thank you jesus)
That was five years ago (thank you jesus) don’t have that pain no more (thank you jesus)
Doc says you can go home cause all your cancers gone


You saved me(sad you saved me) You saved me.
You saved me, You saved me, gave me a second chance
You saved me, You saved me. You saved me, You saved me


when i was going[b] left[/b],  you steered me right,  was all the way down
you lift me up [/b]and down,  and though you saw my thoughts
you [b]"forgave me for my sins?"
.  i would call on you. i had nothin to loose
and so i tried you, and now i'm glad i did,  cause you are the truth

i'm so thankful that, you looked down on me(looked down on me)
saw me standing there(hey). i was at the end of my rope,  with no where to go

i was down and out til you(you saved me), i was doing drugs til you(you saved me)
i was runnin the streets til you(you saved me),  never felt love til you(you saved me )

i gang bangin til you(you saved me), wilding out til you(you saved me)
in my dying bed til you stepped in, ooooooh.  whew!


Lyrics You Saved me
Artist: R. Kelly



DO NOT LET ME SUFFER ALL THESE YEARS FOR NOTHING, SAVE ME LORD I BEG YOU!
Nairaland / General / Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by perx(f): 3:17pm On Jan 28, 2012
Yorisb:

@Segun
A/C details please.
BTW, any reason why the letter from Dr Robert J. was postdated?


Thank you all so much and God bless you

@yoribs and r231, letters like these normally expires in 3 months so you cannot present it at the embassy after 3 months of the dated letter/invitation.
so i have from that date till the 30th of April to go to the embassy, if i cannot make it then i'm sure they will send me another one.

if she had written 16th december [/b]which was the date she sent me the email and invitation then the [b]letter would be valid till 15th March. this was her 3rd letter because she had to make corrections pointed out by me. the 1st invitation she sent me was dated 7/12/11

please read reasons below. i have copied and pasted the email sent to me in which the above letter was attached and postdated


From: Durmala, Lynn N <Lynn.Durmala@DrexelMed.edu>
Subject: RE: medical invitation for U.S.A embassy/visa/fee
To: perx
Date: Friday, 16 December, 2011, 16:04

"There is nothing I, or Dr. Schwartzman, can do about the charges, which are set and managed by the University’s Physician Practice Group.  You are not officially a patient until you are actually seen by Dr. Schwartzman.  If you had already been examined and quoted a cost of treatment, we would honor those prices.  However, the wait for an initial examination now extends into June of 2014.  Many potential patients call and ask what treatment currently costs and then don’t decide to actually schedule an office visit until 5 years later.  Obviously, we cannot have a “grandfather” policy for every person that inquires about future treatment.  

Ketamine is very common and inexpensive medication, that is a widely used anesthetic agent for both humans and in veterinary medicine. A new letter is attached.  It is dated 1/31/12 so that you don’t have to worry about it expiring."

Take care,

Lynn Durmala, RN/BSN

Clinical Nurse Specialist

Office of Dr. Robert J. Schwartzman - Chairman

Department of Neurology

Phone: 215-762-7090

Fax: 215-762-3161

Email: Ldurmala@drexelmed.edu
Family / Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 9:06pm On Jan 27, 2012
thanks freecocoa. God blessssssssssssssssss
Nairaland / General / Re: Nairaland Charity Organisation- E-Helpers Network by perx(f): 8:59pm On Jan 27, 2012
@ALL, thank you all very much! God bless. . .
Nairaland / General / Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by perx(f): 8:55pm On Jan 27, 2012
@Jarus & ALL, THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH! God's showers of blessings upon you good/great people

above all, (King of Kings) kaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaabiyesi ehhh, ose oh, kaaaaaaaaaaaaaaabiyesi ohhh, ese oh, kabiyesi ohh, ese oh. . . (gospel song. hope my spelling is correct). UWESE KAKABO BABA! EKPONMWEN MEYE OH. (Thank you very much FATHER LORD & I praise YOU!!!)
Nairaland / General / Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by perx(f): 1:36am On Jan 27, 2012
r231:

Madam. . . . how are you feeling today

With God by my side and you and you and you. . .  I feel. . . words cannot explain it. WELL DONE OH OGA
Thanks all
Nairaland / General / Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by perx(f): 1:17am On Jan 27, 2012
chelseabmw:

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Thank u too for staying strong for us. . . . .[b]I told you that u will stay smiling soon
. . . .u ain't seen nothing yet[/b]


yes you did. THANK YOU!
Family / Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 1:12am On Jan 27, 2012
thank you r231, maximip, IDOWUOGBO (the one and only, u are just too funny. big up!).
God bless you all

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=855820.msg10056705#msg10056705
Nairaland / General / Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by perx(f): 12:49am On Jan 27, 2012
Wow all these because of me Is so overwhelming
My eyes are teary I can hardly see. I have to keep it together (breathe in and out). Is this the same nairaland? WOW!

THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH!!! Bournvita/jennykadry, no worries. What did the bible say about forgiveness? NA SO! I know u people were skeptical and hurtful with your remarks but that is over long ago. We are all humans

A lot of others on NL were very supportive (you all know who you are and that made things a lot better/encouraged me and it made me forget all other hurtful remarks, etc. I CANNOT THANK YOU ENOUGH)

THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH THAT HAVE CONTRIBUTED ONE WAY OR THE OTHER HERE AND THERE. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL A MILLION TIMES WHAT YOU HAVE DONE OR/AND YOUR POSITIVE COMMENTS IN JESUS NAME. AMEN!

THANK YOU R231, IFY, CHELSEABMW (thanks for coming, it was a pleasure meeting both of you. Well done for coming. yes @some nlanders, they are both hottttt), BADOSKY/IDOWUOGBO, MAC, IVY, FREECOCOA, OAM4J, TEHN COMMITTEE, THE E-HELPERS, OTHER COORDINATORS/MODS, ETC. GOD BLESS YOU ALL ABUNDANTLY.

Speechless! that is how you all make me feel. I cannot thank you all enough. I hope to get all my treatments/surgery/physio/etc done. I may end up being shorter than my real height because of my broken bones/femur but it would not matter as long as I get well and walk soonest. may all your efforts not be in vain

Above all "THANK YOU LORD, THANK YOU LORD, ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS THANK YOU LORD!!!"
Family / Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 10:54pm On Jan 26, 2012
pslm23, okay thanks
Nairaland / General / Re: Nairaland Charity Organisation- E-Helpers Network by perx(f): 3:19am On Jan 26, 2012
@Dis Guy, thanks
Family / Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 3:07am On Jan 26, 2012
When you try your best but you don't succeed
When you get what you want but not what you need
When you feel so tired but you can't sleep
Stuck in reverse

And the tears come streaming down your face
When you lose something you can't replace

When you love someone but it goes to waste
Could it be worse?

Lights will guide you home, And ignite your bones. And I will try to fix you

And high up above or down below, When you're too in love to let it go
But if you never try you'll never know, Just what you're worth

Lights will guide you home, And ignite your bones. And I will try to fix you



Fix You lyrics by Coldplay
Family / Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 2:55am On Jan 26, 2012
oluite:

I feel really silly i thought i had problems and even praised myself for handling them well.
After going through this thread i have tears in my eyes,
Perx your experience touched me deeply
I don't have words to qualify your fighting spirit.
Its amazing how people here on nairaland have shown you love.
God bless you all including OP.
Am so happy we can be humane on nairaland.
O God of mercy show mercy to your children here going through painful times in their lives.Amen

Idowuogbo:

^Amen to ur prayers sista

Perx I miss u and I read ur feedback thread in d org sect,come wipe my tears cry cry cry cry cry

*she whispers Perx if dem catch me crying hennn,I go show u* angry angry

Ivynwa:

@Perx

------To you Sweetheart.


OH NO! you guys are making my eyes watery. Thank u & God bless!

Nairaland Charity Organisation- E-Helpers Network

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=802184.msg10049243#msg10049243
Nairaland / General / Re: Nairaland Charity Organisation- E-Helpers Network by perx(f): 2:39am On Jan 26, 2012
maclatunji:

I am sad and glad at the same time. Sad at her condition and glad that people are taking time to help and comfort her.

thank u so much!

Idowuogbo:

sad sad sad cry cry cry cry

It is well her healing will find her soonest

Well done team

God bless xx

the one and only IDOWUOGBO! AMEN & THANK U. Yes! well done team!!!
Nairaland / General / Re: Nairaland Charity Organisation- E-Helpers Network by perx(f): 2:33am On Jan 26, 2012
r231:

Update!!!!

Ify and Chelseabmw have gone to Edo State today to see Perx and will be updating us accordingly when they get back

a big thanks to Ifyalways and chelseabmw. [/b]it was a great pleasure meeting both of u. we ended up gisting so much, i forgot my pains and sorrows and we also forgot d time and Ify missed her flight and had to go back home late by road, sorry about that gal.

thank u guys so much and thank God for journey mercies. [b]thanks for all you and the co-ordinators have done so far.
I do hope and pray that I get out of this alive and healthy. I might end up a lil shorter than my real height cos of the broken and shortening of my femur/bones but who cares, as long as the hellish, disabled and painful part is over!

God bless u all
Family / Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 4:16am On Jan 24, 2012
freecocoa:

Hey perx bebe,good to see you,missed reading from you,love that song.

aww. . . thank you my friend
Family / Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 5:59pm On Jan 21, 2012
maclatunji:

^Hello, hope you are good (under the circumstances). It is always nice to read from you.

I am coping and hanging in there, thank you
Nairaland / General / Re: Nairaland Charity Organisation- E-Helpers Network by perx(f): 5:20am On Jan 21, 2012
the hospitals in South Africa are not responding or replying. I've emailed at least 10 hospitals twice
but nothing

the doctorswithoutborders email that was given to me on NL failed. message did not send. wrong email or so
Family / Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 4:46am On Jan 21, 2012
Spend all your time waiting for that second chance
for a break that would make it okay, there's always one reason
to feel not good enough, and it's hard at the end of the day
I need some distraction, oh beautiful release
memory seeps from my veins, let me be empty
and weightless and maybe, I'll find some peace tonight


in the arms of an angel, fly away from here, from this dark cold hotel room
and the endlessness that you fear, you are pulled from the wreckage
of your silent reverie, you're in the arms of the angel, may you find some comfort here


so tired of the straight line, and everywhere you turn
there's vultures and thieves at your back, the storm keeps on twisting
you keep on building the lie, that you make up for all that you lack
it don't make no difference, escaping one last time
it's easier to believe in this sweet madness oh
this glorious sadness that brings me to my knees. . .

I am in the arms of the angel, may I find some comfort here


lyrics to Angel / Westlife
Family / Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 4:11am On Jan 21, 2012
Idowu and r231, u guys are funny. i am straight oh, gay no be my thing at all at all
I know u are joking sha. Idowu na real "Osanoooobuaaaa" (God). u dey learn bini/edo language? hugssssssssssssssss

freecocoa, yw

havent been here 4 a while because I have nite data plan abi na internet, sometimes I sleep off before 8pm
and by the time I open my eyes, 6 am don sharp (9pm - 6am mtn) unless i set alarm. i even cut d alarm off if d sleep too sweet grin

it's also very discouraging becos its always on GPRS which is just too slow but better than nothing. it used to be fasttttt before so hopefully im head go correct soon

Even if I don't come here, some nlanders communicates with me through email and phone. I am coping and hanging in there
thank you all
Nairaland / General / Re: Nairaland Charity Organisation- E-Helpers Network by perx(f): 3:49am On Jan 21, 2012
chelseabmw:

Sorry Bro

nice one definitely. we do not need more arguments, curses or fights. well I surely don't
it just drains d hell/strength out of me. abeg make una take am easy

hi all. thanks thanks thanks

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