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This is one of the biggest embarrassment in my life, I was sleeping on my own this morning when my phone rang. A very close friend of mine called to inform me if am free, that I should escort him to a wedding uptown at a popular event center. I wasn't really interested but I had to, because he had accompanied me to several occasions in the past, turning him down will look some how.

He came around some minutes after 1 and we set out with another friend of mine that just came to visit me normal freestyle movement. On getting there to my surprise we were denied entry. The bouncers and event securities at the gate said attending was strictly on invite. I told my friend show them your invitation card, he started doing as if he wants to make call.

It was then I found out that he wasn't even the guest that was invited to the wedding, so the groom and the bride don't even know him, he was invited by another friend of his that was who he was trying to call. He finally reached him, the dude came and started looking at the 3 of us standing close to the gate like we were full community who came for our entitlement.

He went back in maybe trying to pull some few strings from people that matters, close to over 10 minutes, I was already angry..I touched my friend who accompanied me (the one who came for visiting) and we boarded a bike back home.
Money I wasted for transportation, I paid our going and coming back, this has taught me a bitter lesson today.
Never will I make such mistake again.







To those saying I went there for food even after making it clear I wasn't interested, but I had to because of what my guy have done for me. So I don't have food in my house?
Why are nigeria's like this, always finding ways to ridicule people.

Acidosis:
Issues like that don't bother me. I'm more concerned about giving them the best while they're still alive. The only thing you can do for the dead is to bury them. So make sure you celebrate your parents before they leave this world. This is the best thing you can do. At 80 years, you can't afford to postpone this act of kindness. Birthdays are a perfect time to celebrate the living. Buy Papa and mama a big cake. Get them their favourite drinks. Even if it's coke or Fanta. Don't mind the so called sugar. At 80 years, there's nothing to worry about.

Whatever you do on a burial ceremony (or funeral as you people call it) is totally and completely worthless to the so called celebrants.

same here, I do what I can for for my parents and her parents.
I don't fail that.. but people like us that are living in the street thing's are not funny o.
not everyone can afford 2square me talkless a birthday bash.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]You are bothered because you intend to organize the funeral like carnival

Maybe if you get their church members to sing hymns, pray and bury them, you will feel much better [/color]

too bad some of you cant understand simple situations, but always rush to comment.
someone like me that can hardly fend for my family wanting to do a burial carnival?
sense dey this your post so

A friend of mine called me this evening that his mother just died, I felt bad for him not because of his late parent but how he was going to bury her because he is the only child. this a guy that squat with me last month, common to afford 1 square meal he can't. he called me last week for urgent 5h.. so I Just started wondering i myself no difference from him.

and I have so many old people related to me, my wife father and mother are age. her Grand mother is 90 or more.
I still have my age father who just clicked 86 last month.
what of my mother?

this has really got me worried, God forbid something to happen.
where money go dey to finance matters like this.

so dear nairalanders has issues like this ever bothered you?

Seun
lalasticlala

KiNg0G:
ADEKUNLE GOLD
when he first came out I was among the people who were trying to grasp his musical style, lyrics and voiced. As a matter of fact he had this normal yoruba thick intonation. as time went on i realise this dude was actualy a top class of his own..he sounded so different that I was always waiting for his latest. yeah he changed from that good boy vibe to a bad boi style which still didn't help to boost his career that much. yes Gold is so much underated in the nigeria music industry, he should be getting much more accolades for standing out this few years.


kizz DANIEL

the feud he had with his label did affect his career, but like a bouncing ball he fell and bounced BACK better. who would have thought kizz daniel would have been compared with the likes of wizkid, davido? and the comparison is actually right. kizz daniel is a top class of his own, his works , soundtracks and voice is top notch. when I listen to his songs sometimes I wonder why he is not getting Accolades like the rest of the A list artist out there. every song he drops is a hit, just this year alone how many hit tracks? but still watch and see who headies will pack awards to.



ERIGGA
They say nigerias are mostly not fan of hip-hop songs but still til todayThe late dagrins name is remembered? paperboy as he is fondly called has been in the game before majority of most popular artist making reigns in nigeria. sometimes I wonder is it because he is a southerner? before phyno came to limelight, they was ERIGGA..infact dude is a legend to most of us who are fan of his works all this year's. the way he drops his Pidgin rap is so unique, his world plays.. metaphors.. punchlines are so hardcore that radio stations sometimes refuses to play some tracks of his....YET HENNESSY hosted cypher guess who they called some upcoming events artist.
Yet Rick ross came to Nigeria, they presented a fuji artist to him as the top rapper in nigeria..smile

WANDE COAL
WANDE was a mega Superstar during the mohits and kennis music era. Sometimes I tell people, Wizkid is a derived product from WANDE coal some argue and some agree and I have proof.. till today I still haven't seen any artist in nigeria who has the coolest, sweetest and sexiest voice compared to the early prime of wandes... only few came close but how he is still UNDERRATED despite what he gave in the game is what surprises me. After breaking from mohits, it affected his career buh still wande coal is a living legend.










PRAIZ

Same thing that's happening to johny drill and Chike.how long has PRAIZ been in the game yet no accolades, some of us will prefer going to a portable show in ojota than a johny drill concert in Abuja. I listened to some PRAIZ previous album, I wept and ask God why he didn't he give us the chance to choose our countries according to our music taste. Because I know were I would have fall on.




Thank you

Seun
Lalasticlala

Spot on!

I agree with you especially ERIGGA, sometimes I wonder how much dude has made in his whole music career.
Soundcity don't even play his video

Ifakiland:
How much loan do you need?
I can give you N200k to pay back N220k after 2 months

30k

Dididrumz:
Who is after Your life?

people I owe

I need loan app that link account statement or give loan without binding of card


I don't have atm card

Please help mention

I need loan app that link account statement or give loan without binding of card


I don't have atm card

Please help mention

Why do some family members prefers outsiders more than their bloods. They treat some outsiders in their parties more than their relatives.
I just came back from my brother's child dedication, the table I sat on was with cousin's of mine and some relatives. he gave us malt quite well but looking at his friends table the difference is glaring...Andre, hennessy, along with malt and even ice in jar. On several tables of his friends. Not talking about the sauced meat that filled the table.

Those are his special guests I admit, but we his blood are we not special too? Don't we deserve something nice like that? This isn't the first time this elder brother of mine is doing this...he's the kind of person you say he live his life for outside. This got me asking why do some people prefer treating outsiders better than their blood

Seun
Lalasticlala

frozen70:
What makes you think she was a tear rubber in the first place

*Food wey person never eat before no dey hungry the person*

She has gone for good, adjust yourself and look a tokunbo

https://www.nairaland.com/7133507/19yr-old-wife-back-safe

we cuddling right here, reading your comments she has asked me several times what's happening lol. I told her I was just having a nice time online from old newspapers

sweettease:
I tried to be respectful to a pedophile like you, no insult, nothing and this is how you react, you have a bigger issue and it's not the girl trying to run away from her old papa molester. It is people like you that rape children in the neighborhood. We need to find you and arrest you for raping a 15yr old and getting her pregnant. When I was 15, a creepy old man in my neighborhood used to run around me for marriage like you. Fortunately I was wise to run away and my life is so much better for that, I'm not stuck with one old papa of a pedophile.

you should have let him married you, or rather " raped you" if you not you won't still be attending night vigils and Church programs crying to God to push you to your husband house like the online video that circulated yesterday. newspaper, I repeat you should have let him raped you! tufia.. your curse my dear, no one values old news paper this days..

LordIsaac:
...it's your emphasis on the "19-year-old" for me...

yes my brother, I want nl old newspaper to continue with their wailings.

https://www.nairaland.com/7131712/19yr-old-wife-dumped-daughter

I created the topic yesterday in annoyance surprisingly it made front page this afternoon, well my wife is back to my house safe and sound yesterday evening accompanied by her mom. She went to visit her aunty in the other community, since her mother was initially the one who looks after my daughter more than her, she didn't care to return back on time.

I spoke with her aunty and verified everything. she was upset about something I said to her before she left, so she was just acting wrong..I told her how sorry I was.
Well am in the boat already, and I know God will continue to let it sail..

Next month will be her 20th birthday, I'm going to surprise her wholeheartedly.
I didn't touch her Since she's an adult, just little petting and a little scold in between.
I Know all this will pass in due time.

Please my fellow brothers in all what you do go for tear rubber if you must but follow our tradition and norms to pay the necessary rights before anything so as to be strong minded like me from all the abuses and names calling I got, am still here having a nice time with my wife.

Ishilove:
This story seems fake.

renowned newspaper since time immemorial.
no need asking if your a tear rubber.

dalass:
After doing jazz, you want to renew with tear rubber..? You be vulcanizer?

I didn't do nothing, I'm just letting you evening newspaper know that men will always go for tear rubber.
yes I don't mind marry several wife's, my religion permits it as long they are off age and consented to it and above all tear rubber.

obstead200:
u even get mouth to abuse pple.

Oga u impregnated a 16yr old girl and took away her options. Lucky for her, after Bearing Ur child, she rediscovered herself and chose to enjoy her life.
U shud be happy for her. She would have become so frustrated in your house that she will murder u.
Go and take care of Ur child.....and find a woman more mature.

k

omis1:
I wish this is possible,the pedophile should be tracked down and arrested

come arrest me, have you successfully feed yourself and you wanted to arrest a married man who did you no wrong.

awulio:
Its clear ur a broke old man and u just looked for any poor girl to take advantage off. U not even ashamed of yourself. Men like u disgust me.

but will jump at the offer if I shoot my shots, lol
too bad you don't qualify since your not a "tear rubber"

MyAmericandream:
The guy just dey use person catch cruise. This story seems bogus to me.

oh now it seems bogus, not then when you were sharping your smelling mouth

awulio:
Your a fool. You got her pregnant at 16 and married her. You deserve every disgrace u get. I hope she does more to u. U not educated, u just a fool that took advantage of a 16 year old girl. Men like u should be arrested

k, evening newspaper

srclark:
. Boss before taking any relationship to the next level try to have a view of your partners motives some are in the relationship for love while some are in the relationship for survival , if the later is the case and you decide to settle for such a person be prepared for what you will receive they are ready to abandon and move on without you at the slightest chance .

thanks brother, I appreciate

MyAmericandream:
Haha fuuul you don’t even know my sexual status self. Hahaha laugh wan kill me. I don’t joke with my genitals(it means a lot to me)dude. A naive 15years tear rubber you are happy if you now see a 25-30yrs way don see life and there hymen is still intact what would you have done? Because I am against this ugly act of yours, you call me borehole? I wish you knew my sexual history. You won’t open your filthy mouth and talk shiit. I just hope you don’t molest that your daughter in the future. You this disgusting ephebophilia. Honestly, you need to be chemically castrated before you take advantage of another TEAR RUBBER teenager. Please quote me again so I’ll tell you the things I did when I was 15.

I can't marry a 30 year old tear rubber, we all men know it could be "refurbished" scam
Alumm and the rest gave those tactics out..

Mariangeles:
Why don't you tell us all how she cried and cried the day you took away her innocence?

that was something you should have asked your mother if your dad was the one who disvirgin her, oh I forgot she was a saved newspaper

sweettease:
Her parents were in support, was she in support?
Even if she was, the thing about girls at the age you got her is that they do not have a fully blossomed personality. You might end up with something worse than what you're running from. You mentioned you'll do it again, just remember the women you are dragging as your motivation for looking for "tear rubber" also started off as virgins at that age. Age doesnt determine modesty as there are 40yr old virgins. Also, are you willing to give your daughter the kind of life you offered her? Married off at 15/16 for companionship and making a baby with an end to formal education?

I don't answer to you, if as an old cargo your pained..sorry for yourself that you can NEVER be a tear rubber and pray for those who fancy old newspaper to look your way.

yes, she was in support, even when she was pregnant she refused to go stay home, ALWAYS in my house 24/7
I cherish her

Mode99:
Your wife don follow boys wey get updates!!!

no consigning that yahoo boy, he's an upcoming. I haven't even seen him this year.

biggz82:
19 years old with 3 years old child. This man suppose go jail, i no need prophet to tell me say you rape her wen she b 16 year den cos of poverty the Mama slow you put her for house.

Na thunder go fire you

come on man, we still have saned men in nigeria who follows our customs and norms to get fresher wines as a wife, not everyone must a rapist like you or forefathers before you.

akinade28:
You didn't answer my question, what kind of companionship can a 20 year old offer a much older man? I guess you mean sex when you say companionship.
You better leave that girl alone before she tempted to kill you to free yourself.
Then, you should have used your old monicker instead of a new one to post your story. This will make your dragging sweeter, I guess you are one of the redpillers.

you keep calling me older man, how am I sure am older than your father?

Mariangeles:
Hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe
Keep dreaming!!!

I can bet she can't even stand the sight of you, much less you touching her!

k, newspaper

ThePlugg:
Now she doesn't want you because she's obviously covering for the new "YAHOO BOI"
so what choice are you left with The banny no run,her momcee know wer she de...so find another

who told you she ran? what if told you she's here with me this afternoon preparing noodles with fried egg for second lunch... not to talk about last night marathon sex.

sorry boy, keep giving yourself headache

akinade28:
Companionship with a 15 year or 16 year old girl? What's your definition of companionship?
What kind of companionship can she offer a much older person like you? Friendship? Sex?

well she's 20 next month, and yes companionship. not everyone is a fan of evening newspaper sorry if that offends you, considering your nature.

greypencils:
15 year old daughter. They have a 3 year old daughter. He got her pregnant at 15. She gave birth to the child at age 16, she is currently 19 years old.

she's edging towards 20 next month, some of you need brain check