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My friend, I think you need to man up and become a responsible husband. You are just young into this marriage and have started talking about walking away from your marriage. For God sake when will our young men start thinking right? Marriage is a very serious institution that need to be preserved by taking the right steps in it. Constantly try to initiate conversation on some traits you observe on her and advice on the way forward, develop patience and maturity at home.Please from what you highlighted, it seems you are not in-charge of your home. Guy try and secure a skill that will make you busy, take good care of your wife and unborn child, constantly develop your self, network with people you can learn from them and boost your income. You will earn the respect of your wife when she discovers that you are someone that she can lean on, some one she learns from, someone that inspires her to achieve her dreams. Yes sex is good in marriage but let that not bother you as we have better things to be worrying about. The lock-down should be a time for you to review your career, strive for opportunities and emancipate your self! All the best.

@ Monteriza, Katete, Mazimc, Jeniro and Jkels I have been patiently waiting for this call until today afternoon my contact address in Abuja was reached by a currier service. I will be on my way to ABJ tomorrow to get the details of the offer. I want to advice that some of us that did not receive any call yet should still exercise some patience as calls or curriers are still ongoing. We are praying with you all and i hope the offer will be on the way soon. Thanks for all your prayers guys and may God bless you richly. One love!

Hello Guys, I want to advice that we should be calm regarding the call up by PTI or PSI. I applied for lecturing position but have not seen any mail (dhl, ems, tnt or currier service including email and sms) yet as of today. I want to congratulate simon as he is the only one that got it in quote! I learnt that by next week we will be receiving letters in bulk not the way that was sent to either simon or few guys. I am optimistic about this and would like us to be calm and pay attention to your contact addresses and phones. Mine will be coming to my address in Abuja so i'm relaxed now and urge you to be relax too. We will meet in Warri and have drinks for celebration by God's grace. Happy weekend!

Guys, good afternoon, it seems no one from this forum receives any message yet from PSI or pti, but for those whose friends got the letters, can they confirm which of the carriers delivers the letters to them, I mean carriers like (DHL, EMS, TNT, NIPOST etc). Let us be more open because we have disccused it in the house here that mails will start rolling this week or early next week. Thank you!

@Monteriza, you don't need to doubt about organisation sending letters to physical addresses, NNPC, DPR and other agencies and parastatals of Nig govt including Universities and colleges/polytechnics does that using DHL or EMS. Some private firms also does that. To me, it is the most reliable means of reaching some 1 even more than your email. In any case, hard copies or soft copies, we only need to receive our letters which is the most important thing. Keep the spirit alive bro! One love!

@Jeniro, the candid information i learnt earlier today was that HARD COPIES letters are being addressed to successful candidates, some of the guys did not provide their CVs on the day of the oral interview, you know contact addresses need to be on CVs. So few candidates were called to provide their addresses.
There is no iota of truth on any differences btw PTI, federal character and delta state govt that is delaying the release of offer letters, so far everything seems to be ok, guess they might have iron out any gey areas btw them. So based on my thinking and analysis, letters will be sent to our addresses end of this week or latest next week. Pls lets exercise some patience, God's willing we would make it by his grace. I am positive about this and would like us to be very positive too. Will keep us updated on any information pls. One LOVE!

@Monteriza, I just spoke with a senior lecturer of PTI who based in Warri and the information he gave me was that no body has been posted to the school or given any appointment letter. Usually there will be circular to all deans and head of departments or offices of the institution, at the moment no such has been circulated and no new staff in the school. So i can categorically tell you that no body has been given any appointment letter with respect to the advert and subsequent interviews conducted recent at PSI Abuja.

Again, I will like to advice some of our friends on this forum to please desist from spreading unconfirmed rumours or information that is capable of heating up the atmosphere, the tension is unwarranted and needless. I am confident that God will remember us and crown our patience with this PTI job. Lets be optimistic and hope for the best.

As soon as there is any information from my side, i will be happy to pass such to this forum, I am happy to be part of you all. One love!

I don't belief that names have been substituted or letters have been given to some candidates, this is a civil service work so I expect them to at least call one or two candidates from other states or region of the country. However, I will call a staff of PTI to confirm any new appointment to the school with respect to the recent advert and subsequent interviews. I still belief God will do it for us, lets keep our hopes alive, one love!

Jkels, you sound very confident, is this news from a reliable source? have you confirmed your name in the proposed list or just speculating..., i really can't wait for this whole stuff to be over, still trusting and believing God for it. One Love!

Hello guys, I have been observing our thread with keen interest, however, I would like to advice that we should exercise some patience with PSI. The interview was successfully conducted and the pannel's recommendation will be sent to federal character commission for ratification. It is not realistic that they will get back to us by friday or wednesday as insinuated. I hope by the end of next week we may be hearing from them. In the mean time, we should be positive about the whole process and keep on praying. One love!