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Pls i need help. I purchased a sterilizing unit and electric breast pump frm US, they both use 110volts. The sterilizing unit is 650watts, while the other is 18watts. How do i use it safely without risk of being destroyed by nigerias 220volts. I was told to buy a step down, on getting to the store, i was told it was the wattage dat was important. Im really confused.

Which hospital did u go to? A private one? Were you told to run any test? Did u complete d medication given to you each time?
You cant just treat an infection without knowing what exactly it is. So i suggest u go to a govt hosp, do a vj swab, let dem take d swab for microscopy, culture and sensitivity. This way, they will know which drug or drugs the infection is sensitive to. That way, you can eradicate the infection once and for all

Ur baby may be allergic to crayfish or other things u put in d pap. I suggest u stop adding anytin in d pap except baby milk for a few weeks and watch for changes. If not, it may be sumtin u are eating cuz u still breast feed. Ur food comes out in d breast milk. U could also practice a higher level of hygiene for you and baby. I wish you well

anukulapo:

You can't expect less from a feminist whose thought is to win the favour and approval of women. Much generalization in favour of women.
A right standing man would point to many lovely and appreciable facts about having a woman/women around and in His life but he's also know a man's peculiarity (if he's intelligent, diligent and objective enough)

Im not a feminist, bt i simply beleive in myself. As much as im a submissive wife, i rub minds wit my hubby ova any decision we make as a family and he loves me d way i am. Cant imagine being a woman who doesnt av a say.

And yes women are actually stronget than men. 1. We are homozygous xx in genotype. Dat makes us stronget dan an heterozygous xy male. Maybe u dnt knw but over 80% of still born and miscarried babies are males. Why? Dy aint so genetically resilient.
2. As a man, can u bleed for 5 days, av cramps for 3 days, carry a baby in ur womb for 9 months ( its like putting ur 15 inches laptop strapped to ur tummy everyday both nite, day, in d shower, bus, toilet and everywhr for 9months) and still cook, clean, make love (with d strapped laptop), go to work, and care for a partner who jst goes to work and comes home to rest without aving to bother about house work. Can u do dat for ?
3. Can u smile, and do laundary, cook, care for and make luv to a partner who is cheating on u? Are u even emotionally strong?
4. Can u hit a man who is ur size? U only hit women because most times u are larger than dem and dy av even been defeated mentally b4 d abuse starts.
5. Why do u think women live longer dan men? because even thru d wear and tear of caring for others, they are more resilient and therefore live longer.
I could go on and on. Bt in d end, i thank God im a woman. A strong one for dat matter. Wouldnt pray to be anything else.

Male children are different frm female children. Dat doesnt make dem special. Infact, the females are actually stronger than males in all ways. Dy make thr home and takia of the men who are infact boys. I call dem boys because most men dont know wat it takes to make a home. Its never always about the money he doles out.

Infact, when such men grow old and av urethral stricture frm various infections dy got while sleeping around or av diabetes wc will impair their manliness, dy should not expect d same womsn dy nneglected at home to come and care for dem in the hosp. Their cash should do the caring.

Growing up, my parents never discriminated btw us male or female children. The females washed cars, changed tyres, cut grass, pushed cars and every oda thing. The male did dishes when it was his turn, did his laundary and we all rotated doing our parents laundary, we all cooked and all. We all had the same curfew time and mum woke us up at d same time for morning chores.

Today, we are all married and its working for us. I dnt wait for my hubby to change my tyre or check my car battery or fix bulbs. My bro cooks when his wife isnt home and basically, we are happy. Dad made us girls buy lands b4 marrying. And made us all av minimum of an msc.

I think it was probably because dy were educated sha. But dats how im going to bring up my kids cuz it sure worked for me. My dad always boosted our self confidence and i dnt see myself being lesser than any man.

From ojota, enter any bus goin to naryland/ikeja. Drop at leventis bustop. Look across d road opp leventis bustop, u will see chams city .
From akoka, enter bus to yaba under bridge. Take a bus goin to maryland /ikeja, drop at leventist bustop. Very easy.

I dnt think d level of attraction reduces as long as the lady keeps clean and dress nicely in cute maternity outfits. I see a lot of women in horrible clothes all in d name of being pregnant. Why wont their hubby see dem as unattractive?

Im almost due, wit all d zebra marks on my tummy and thigh, av added almost 20kg and i look round wit big nose bt guess wat? My hubby luvs it all. Infact pple still commend my dress sense everyday, my hubby still takes me out and we cuddle and kiss every blessed day plus everytin except $€x cuz my doc adviced against dat till delivery.

U av expressed urself to her. Im sure she will come round. She's just still in shock that u stood up to her for the first time.

And for those saying a parent cant slap a child above 20, wat if the child has refused to grow up and be responsible? Will u just leave himor her? Beating of children is a norm in 9ja and it has yeilded positive results as far as im concerned. So any 20 sumtin year old who decides to be irresponsible deserves cane like a child as long as the parents are still responsible for his feeding and total welfare.

I dnt think d parents are to blame. At least d boy knows he's doing d wrong thing wc shows proper moral upbringing. Wat about men who cheat on their wives? Dont dy know its wrong? Abi their mothers and wives are to be blamed too.

Anyway, i was also exposed to watching such movie b4 i was 10. An uncle who came to stay wit us during the kano riot of 1993 or so had it alongsidd oda normal movies. We jst picked one of the numerous video cassetes and it turned out to be purn. And trust we kids, curiosity made us watch it though it didnt make much sense to us. And our parents were not to be blamed infact i dnt blame my uncle for aving it cuz we went to open his big box so we can av plenty films to watch when our parents were at work.

I think all we can do as parents is to educate our kids and keep praying that they do wat is right when they are alone.

May God also punish the man responsible for the pregnancy. I dunno why pple like to apportion blame only to d woman. It took 2 to get pregnant. Im sure if d man had been responsible for d woman during pregnancy, she may not av had the need to throw her infant away after 9 months of discomfort and the agony and pain of labour.

Fine, she commited murder bt at least she can now move on wit her life jst like d father of the dead child. Pple who abort are not better than her. May God forgive her.

Im sure thr is sumtin u are doing or failing to do dats making her behave in d way u described.
Do u constantly point out to her dat u pay her bills and feed her? Do u always put her down because she's the woman and u are "the man" who by d way is responsible for her upkeep? Do u make her feel wanted or u jst demand for intimacy because its ur right afterall u own her? U av to evaluate urself too. And do u help out with household chores despite d fact dat u pay her bills? I know u may feel like she's just sitting at home all day, bt bliv me, running a home is very tough and stressful.
Take her out and u guys should talk. Communication is the key.

Its very proper except u av things to hide. No room for privacy in marriage at least u became 1 when u tied d knot.

Donjazzy12: If you want your daughter to turn out a lesbian send her to an all girls boarding school. don't say I didnt warn you!

What u said is very untrue. I attended an all girls fggc frm jss1 to ss3. And guess what? I never practiced lesbianism. Infact all dose lies u pple propagate about girls schools and lesbianism are lies. I mean, how does one av $€ks in a dorm of 20 or more students?
I will choose to send my female kids to single sex boarding schools because it helped me to keep my chastity for a long time due to the chtistian training we had. By the way, we had compulsory fellowship every evening and yes it was an FGGC. For my male kids, a mixed boarding or day school will do. Boarding school helps in training children to be independent and be able to be held responsible for their actions.

Im sorry about ur dad. Bt truth be told, he will most likely not come out of it. And if he does regain consciousness, he would av lost a lot of both brain and body fxn.. the fact dat he had an intracranial haemorrhage means some parts of his brain would be dead and brain tissue never regenerate. So my advice to u is dis, take him to a govt hosp where the bills will be greatly reduced and hope for a miracle. Remember a private hosp is jst like any other buisness out there which is mainly for profit making. They wont ever tell u the real truth about things in a bid to keep their "customer". I wish u and ur family the best