fellis:

Na you sabi o, me I don't care whether people fvck and go free or fvck and go to prison. I am only interested in women living their lives how they please without having to 'submit' to another person for all eternity or put up with his cheating under the excuse that men are naturally polygamous.

troy20:
you think its easier being a man because you suffer some sota gender stereotype? making bleeping much about your damn mp's and carrying a child for nine months but i believe you hold your own kind of stereotype about somthing too.you ever cared why men die quick? You are lucky to be a woman cause much is not expected from you. men give there lives for their families and the society thats why they must be more important .

presher: YOU WANNA KNOW WHY MARRIAGE IS A MUST FOR LADIES? THE KIND OF FRUSTRATION MY AUNT SUFFERED FROM HER BROTHERS WIFE IS TERRIBLE, THERE IS A STAGE IN LIFE YOU NEED CARE AND LOVE THIS KIND OF LOVE CAN ONLY BE PROVIDED BY YOUR HUSBAND AND MARRIAGE GIVES YOU GENERAL ACCEPTANCE BY THE PUBLIC, IF YOU MARRY A CARING MAN YOU WILL EXPERIENCE MUCH PROBLEM ,INSTEAD OF WOMEN TO MARRY POOR YOUNG,EDUCATED,HARDWORKING AND CARING MAN THEY CHOSE RICH,OLD,UNEDUCATED AND UNROMANTIC ROGUES.

troy20:
you see what i did there? You implicity said in your first comment there was know reason for women to get married cause they gain nothing and it intefers with their so called independence i agreed with you as i feel men gain the least even.now you twisted it with an entirely different senario.to me i feel marriage is the biggest problem. i think you feminists should start fighting that now.without marriage you get your life the way you want it dont you think? Bunch of confused WOMEN.

obadiah777: he continues your lineage. the human is the sperm cell. the womb is just the incubator. not saying that is special but thats what men who vividly search for male children are after. continuation

fellis:

@bold, what?!?!!

Abeg calm down o! Let my post not give you heart attack biko.
First of all, I am not saying men are not important in women's lives, they are important kwanu? What I am talking about is marriage.

I don't want to go deep into this matter, just believe anything you like.

Chiyung:
How many men die quickly compared to women during child birth,depression etc mr man women are more stressed d than men ,which of the professional jobs in nigeria will you not c a woman? We work as hard as the men too,so why wud we b treated less? And pls can u state the reason why men die quickly? And from wat? Cus from my own observation they live longer.

Efemena_xy: Even your average iron bender / roadside mechanic struggling to eck a living to feed his brood of 10+ kids in his face-me-I-face-you bedsit still wants a male heir to his throne of poverty.

Chiyung: Am bittered by the way african culture has degraded women and make them look like slaves.
As a girl child ur parents will always remind u dat ur a girl and dat one day,u will b married off, n give ur younger brother the right to insult u cus ur a "girl".
You keep praying that one day u will meet mr right,dat will take u out n treat u right,one day it happened and wen u went there,u were treated like a poo too,u cant attend family meetings cus ur just a "woman",instead u stay in the kitchen n b cooking for them,b his sex slave,only wen he demands and not wen u do.
Facts you dont understand: we bleed for almost one week in a month. We get pregnant n carry it for 9months n during child birth u choose between life n death cus d pains is unbearable except by GODs grace. While the male cheat on you and during dat period without pity,they say its a mans world
U still have to go back to work,to help the family,bcus no man wants to marry a lazy woman or a liability. He has the right to chase other women wen u cant give him a boy or statisfy him sexualy while u dont ,u endure it bcus ur a "woman". His is just to go to work,while urs doesnt end there: u cook so he can come bake n eat,do the laundry,breastfeed the baby n etc. You cant bring in a maid for fear of lossing him to her,u decide to take the pain but it doesnt stop him from going out.
Soon bcus of new life u keep bringing out n the monthly passage of blood n stress u wear out quikely n the protruding stomach dat has refuse to go in n the torn vigi,he says ur no longer attractive n refuse to bed with u. U cry day n night,now u cant go back to ur fathers house bcus its a tabbo it was for better for worse u just keep enduring him. You die quickly if he is the kind dat beats...etc
Now i was suprised wen they told me dat Joke sylvia is married to day nollywood actor,i was suprised cus she still bears her fathers name n nt the mans name. How many of our men can do dat today? Why discreminate a girl child? Seeing dat in life they give the most holding back nothing still they have nothing more to give.
Gender discrimiation starts from the family,why wud fathers buy condom for their sons n imprison their daughter not to so? The same way u treat ur boys do so too to the girls. If u giv preferencial treatment to them today,then tomaro wen they are well to do u xpet them to share the family borden with the male child u prefered to them? They will only have pity towards their mothers cus they understand their pain. I rest my case ave said too.much

Efemena_xy: Even your average iron bender / roadside mechanic struggling to eck a living to feed his brood of 10+ kids in his face-me-I-face-you bedsit still wants a male heir to his throne of poverty.

phanthomz: Male children are different frm female children. Dat doesnt make dem special. Infact, the females are actually stronger than males in all ways. Dy make thr home and takia of the men who are infact boys. I call dem boys because most men dont know wat it takes to make a home. Its never always about the money he doles out.

Infact, when such men grow old and av urethral stricture frm various infections dy got while sleeping around or av diabetes wc will impair their manliness, dy should not expect d same womsn dy nneglected at home to come and care for dem in the hosp. Their cash should do the caring.

Growing up, my parents never discriminated btw us male or female children. The females washed cars, changed tyres, cut grass, pushed cars and every oda thing. The male did dishes when it was his turn, did his laundary and we all rotated doing our parents laundary, we all cooked and all. We all had the same curfew time and mum woke us up at d same time for morning chores.

Today, we are all married and its working for us. I dnt wait for my hubby to change my tyre or check my car battery or fix bulbs. My bro cooks when his wife isnt home and basically, we are happy. Dad made us girls buy lands b4 marrying. And made us all av minimum of an msc.

I think it was probably because dy were educated sha. But dats how im going to bring up my kids cuz it sure worked for me. My dad always boosted our self confidence and i dnt see myself being lesser than any man.

phanthomz: Male children are different frm female children. Dat doesnt make dem special. Infact, the females are actually stronger than males in all ways. Dy make thr home and takia of the men who are infact boys. I call dem boys because most men dont know wat it takes to make a home. Its never always about the money he doles out.

Infact, when such men grow old and av urethral stricture frm various infections dy got while sleeping around or av diabetes wc will impair their manliness, dy should not expect d same womsn dy nneglected at home to come and care for dem in the hosp. Their cash should do the caring.

Growing up, my parents never discriminated btw us male or female children. The females washed cars, changed tyres, cut grass, pushed cars and every oda thing. The male did dishes when it was his turn, did his laundary and we all rotated doing our parents laundary, we all cooked and all. We all had the same curfew time and mum woke us up at d same time for morning chores.

Today, we are all married and its working for us. I dnt wait for my hubby to change my tyre or check my car battery or fix bulbs. My bro cooks when his wife isnt home and basically, we are happy. Dad made us girls buy lands b4 marrying. And made us all av minimum of an msc.

I think it was probably because dy were educated sha. But dats how im going to bring up my kids cuz it sure worked for me. My dad always boosted our self confidence and i dnt see myself being lesser than any man.

presher: YOU WANNA KNOW WHY MARRIAGE IS A MUST FOR LADIES? THE KIND OF FRUSTRATION MY AUNT SUFFERED FROM HER BROTHERS WIFE IS TERRIBLE, THERE IS A STAGE IN LIFE YOU NEED CARE AND LOVE THIS KIND OF LOVE CAN ONLY BE PROVIDED BY YOUR HUSBAND AND MARRIAGE GIVES YOU GENERAL ACCEPTANCE BY THE PUBLIC, IF YOU MARRY A CARING MAN YOU WILL NOT EXPERIENCE MUCH PROBLEM ,INSTEAD OF WOMEN TO MARRY POOR YOUNG,EDUCATED,HARDWORKING AND CARING MAN THEY CHOSE RICH,OLD,UNEDUCATED AND UNROMANTIC ROGUES.

adorable29:

Sorry to ask sir, does your quote imply that Poor men treat their wives well and rich men don't ? Just asking based on your logic.... Cos I see this same line on nairaland all the time.

dinachi: Everyone knows whats special about the male child. The correct question is what is special about the female child?

pembisco: Hm, if obama ws lyk sm africans he wuld hv married 997 wives jst 4 a male child