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Christianity EtcRe: Paul Adefarasin Raises Dollars For Emmanuel Precious To Buy Ring For His Fiancée by PhantomXcess: 1:35pm On Mar 02, 2020
Good gesture, but it only is happening that way cos the young man spent the time he would use to hustle to pay for the ring and wedding to be singing in church at every service. Music minister, hustle o, make pastor no go begin raise money for your wedding citing, "he/she's a son/daughter in the house". Las las, na the salary wey im suppose pay am as a singer in church be this o. And the artist will be so grateful. Lol
HealthRe: Italian Coronavirus Index Patient In Lagos Attempts To Escape From Quarantine by PhantomXcess: 1:10pm On Feb 29, 2020
They wan use heat kill the virus ni. Research already shows that heat environs reduce the chances of the virus spreading.
FamilyRe: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by PhantomXcess: 8:18am On Feb 25, 2020
As a married man who has experienced the wet and dry part of love making... Don't overthink it! But I can tell you something I and my lovely wife stumbled upon; WATER!!!

Make sure your wife drinks a lot of water(1 to 2 litres), at least 10 minutes before you start pre-intimacy. Many people underestimate the power of WATER. Every form of liquid that comes out from the body is a form of water, including blood. So in this case, pu**y juice, sperm, orgasm, squirting are 80% dependent on how much water you have in your body. Also, your wife will easily gets more aroused or wet when you slowly stroke her missionary style. Some may like banging, but they'd usually tell you to go harder or faster.

For you as a man, if you cum too fast during intercourse, then you need to intentionally deprive your body water, or try to pee just before you start love making. Works like magic! This is why some people take alcohol or other liquids before sex to last long. Alcohol mixes with water in the body and it changes state thereby pushing the body into dehydration. At this time, it will seem like the man can last long due to the drink but it is simply because of not enough water to produce sperm. Another tip for men who like to go a second or third round but their D doesnt want to stand attention, is; Drink enough water after each round! It's that simple!

I'll round off by saying this: Porn or sexual education may have pushed this idea of being a long lasting man or a good in bed champion, but the reality is; Sex or love making have so many factors to it that you must accept. Most porn films have cut away scenes and the men either drank something to be ready or might have cum and it got edited out and added in the end. Most enjoyed penetration lasts about 10 to 15mins max. Anything other than that is either oral or pre-intimacy added. Spontaneity is great, but to enjoy good sex, you have to prepare for it. Your wife will naturally get wet if you praise her beauty and pu**y, paint erotic pictures of you and her to her with words and beg her to let you enter her paradise. You're not actually begging her, but talking up her sexual pride and that makes a woman tingle with pleasure on the inside. But make she drink water o..and if you come too fast, avoid water too. Sex is one of the characteristics of marital bliss, but not the only one. Love is the greatest and i must commend you for waiting until marriage! You don't need a pre-marital sex to know if you're compatible because in a real marriage, sex is not the only pressing issue. Keep treating her like the queen she is because you're both royalty. Discuss with her ways you both can improve, and explore healthy options. I'll stop here. Remember WATER! You're doing well



thalpy:
I have a wife, and newly married. But my challenge is that she hardly get wets. She once told me that she was circumcised but I didn’t understand the disadvantage, thought it is same effect like a man.

We do have premarital sex (romance and pre-intimacy) for some time long enough to make her wet. But immediately we start having sex she dries up easily which makes it painful and somewhat not enjoyable to her after some time.

If she were to be a random girl, I won't care much. But she is my wife and I feel her pain. So I stop immediately and calm her down.

When we were dating we do fore play a lot but no sex until marriage now. I know you might say eating her p.... that works but saliva doesn't last and dries up. And am thinking what if she gives birth, giving a head might reduce too.

I know am not the only man in this trend. Many beautiful ladies out there are still in this shoe. I never knew cutting a girls clitoris has a big negative effect. Sex looks like war to them. Yes not the same to all but their sex life is not enjoyable to the fullest.

So I ask, to those that might have had this experience, is there anyway I can make her enjoy sex the more? Please not any rough discussion is accepted. I just don’t have that mind of seeing myself enjoy it alone when she isn’t. Now I have learnt my lesson, girl circumcision is bad. That's why most circumcised girls can stay without a bf, is not always self discipline is just lack of urge.

Please help. If you know anyone about it. And I browsed too i read they have difficulty too during child birth and they are prone to disease easily so how true is that? Just want to know all I need to know so precaution will be taken. Want to make her safe and happy. Thank you.
TravelRe: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by PhantomXcess: 9:27pm On Feb 22, 2020
How much? Let's talk on email.


TruthFM:
Guys I had my interview on Thursday the 20th and my visa was approved. I asked the VO after the interview if I won't get affected by the ban and he said no, he added that the visa would be issued the same day as he has everything he needs. I checked my case status yesterday and it was already issued and to be picked up hopefully this week. I can't say the same for those who were told to bring additional document as approvals can't be made until the submitted documents are confirmed which won't fly through as visa issuance is now on merit basis.

Goodluck to everyone who is in line and I hope this ban gets lifted ASAP.

P. S. LEXUS ES330 for sale at giveaway price cheesy
TravelRe: General South Africa Visa Enquiries by PhantomXcess: 3:42pm On Feb 16, 2020
Hello everyone. Good day. I'm looking to apply for an undergraduate study in a university in South Africa and most of the leads i've seen on this thread are for Masters and PhD students. My questions are:

1. Are my chances of getting a study visa for undergraduate program slimmer than for Masters and PhD?
2. What are the requirements and documents that i need to provide including amount range for bank statement?
3. Which universities(especially around Joburg or Pretoria) have high acceptance for international students?
4. Has anyone been granted study visa for an undergraduate program recently? If yes, can i get their contact to reach out to them?
5. Can my wife change to my study visa within SA as a tourist or does she need to apply to come with my study visa from her home country?

If you can help me navigate through this, i would like to contact you for more info, please email me at phantomxcess at gmail dot com.

Expecting helpful detailed replies or references. Thank you so much.
Technology MarketRe: Neatly Used Samsung S8 Plus by PhantomXcess: 12:21pm On Feb 14, 2020
50k?
Christianity EtcRe: Why Did God Send Evil Spirit To Torment King Saul? by PhantomXcess: 9:28pm On Feb 09, 2020
The simple answer here is: The devil/demon/evil spirit/satan was not revealed to the early humans/Israelites of the Bible...only until several chapters later. So, everything good or evil was credited to God which makes sense because they only knew and had relationship with him. It was also why Moses identified satan in the garden as "the serpent", it wasn't until later, that John connected the dots and said "that old serpent, which is the devil and satan".






MamaFryo:
Question: "Why did God send an evil spirit to torment King Saul?"

First Samuel 16:14 says, “The Spirit of the LORD had departed from Saul, and an evil spirit from the LORD tormented him.” This is also mentioned in 1 Samuel 16:15–16, 23; 18:10; and 19:9. Why did God let an evil spirit torment Saul? In what way was the evil spirit “from” the Lord?

We all know that God is holy, I always wonder what relationship that light has with darkness. How could an embodiment of holiness have evil in possession. Please note that this case is different from that of Job where God allowed devil to take hold of him. In this very case, the evil spirit is reported to be directly from God. This seems to be that God himself has evil and holy spirit in his possession. He uses them as he wants. Something like he can choose to be holy or evil...

It is Sunday, Nairaland, Mama Fryo wants to hear your views about this question. Any logical, analytic or detail answer?
TravelRe: General South Africa Visa Enquiries by PhantomXcess: 7:54am On Feb 09, 2020
Ruthiegal:
Hello guys, if you’re in South Africa or intending to relocate and want to rent an apartment within the fourways, Midrand and Sandton areas in Johannesburg, please contact me. I’m a real estate Agent working under Rawson properties. If you’re also looking to invest in buying properties here, I’m your plug. You don’t necessarily have to live in South Africa before investing in their properties. Properties are long time investment.. however if you are based here and looking to rent or buy , do contact me. I don’t know if I can drop my email here. We have lots of properties available. We can always schedule a viewing so you can see the house yourself.
Ciao
Can we talk more on Whatsapp. Thanks
CelebritiesRe: Ifeanyi Ezeokeke Down With A Strange Sickness (Photos) by PhantomXcess: 3:06pm On Jan 30, 2020
Just one "OUT" by an anointed MOG and he will become a new man. The spiritual controls the physical.

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