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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 11:51pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
obiekunie2: When did I give you permission to post my pic here? |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 11:57pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
TonyAntony: With a name like TonyAntony it would seem awkward to you |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 11:59pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Eniola247: Do you have women who can testify of the efficacy? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Mylovelife: 12:16am On Feb 25, 2020 |
thalpy: Not all circumcised ladies. I think it depends on the extend of the circumcision. I have heard ladies who swore they were circumcised but enjoy sex to the fullest |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by gwama: 12:44am On Feb 25, 2020 |
My brother, this excision was a real challenge in my family. My father brought mistresses at home, in front of us and my mother, for sex, he ended up abandoning us with nothing, even house, to go and live with another woman. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by hardon1(m): 12:49am On Feb 25, 2020 |
seedorfg: just some devilish culture started by some devilish ancestors 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by abdullahi45: 1:06am On Feb 25, 2020 |
nasirope: Thanks for your contributions. But if I may add, the female circumcision called hoodectomy, which I know is not bad and it is done by cutting the clito prepuce to prevent hypersexuality. What is wrong, deplorable and repugnant is FGM which includes clitoridectomy, excision, and infibulation. Moderate circumcision (hoodectomy) is never a type of FGM, and I am aware that such doesn't predisposes ladies to any health challenges or reduced sexuality. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by abdullahi45: 1:09am On Feb 25, 2020 |
lefulefu: Trying to justify premarital sex, right? You can't force people to think your own way. And don't forget every action is consequential. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by abdullahi45: 1:42am On Feb 25, 2020 |
MAYOWAAK: I see that people are really confusing circumcision with female genital mutilation (FGM). Circumcision which I know is just hoodectomy, which is the removal of the clit prepuce, just like removing the pen*s prepuce, that is safe and doesn't pose any health threat or result in reduced sexuality. Although, there is no enough evidence to prove that it reduces the risk of STDs, it is well known to prevent hypersexuality in female. FGM on the other hand is demonic and repugnant, and could make a lady become hyposexual and frigid. FGM is an umbrella term for clitoridectomy, excision and infibulation. Clitoridectomy involves the partial or complete removal of the clit. Excision involves the removal of the clit, in addition to the excision of the labia minora. The worst case is infibulation, which involves the excision of clit, labia minors and majors, and partial closure of the vag*na. So, Op, if your wife was only circumcised, and not genitally mutilated, then there is no problem, you just have to delve into each other's sexual world and harness whatever makes it more enjoyable for you two. God bless. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Alwaysachick: 1:58am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Graxie: Every woman's wish ...lucky you |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by jhoci: 2:21am On Feb 25, 2020 |
I don't see any confusion here because what Nigerians call circumcision is carried out as FGM. That is the reality on ground. Unfortunately "circumcision" here is carried out by unskilled and unprofessional people who don't even understand anatomy. Some females are lucky and don't get severely mutilated. Some are not so lucky. I do not support any form of "circumcision", be it hoodectomy, clitoridectomy, excision or FGM. abdullahi45: |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Acidosis(m): 3:32am On Feb 25, 2020 |
witworth: In essence, men shouldn't marry circumcised women? If he had discovered before marriage, best thing was to dump her? For who? Your grandfather? Whenever people try to justify premarital se X, they end up sounding st upid. No reason can ever make sense when/where there is truth and openness. If your purpose in life is to keep test driving genitals like the hunter that you are, then do that in peace without lying about marriage. So many circumcised women are married and happy. You wouldn't want at least 20 hunters like yourself hunting your sisters' clits. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by teekaybells(f): 5:46am On Feb 25, 2020 |
some circumcised female do get wet and have urges too The issue of a dry VJ can also happen to anyone It’s a condition that happens to some females whether circumcised or not Please get good and safe lubricants Pre-seed is a very good one The lubricant will help and even give added pleasure There are so many women out there like your wife and they enjoy sex trust me |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by witworth(m): 6:09am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Acidosis:no, not my grandfather, it's my ancestors. That's why people like you will continue to suffer lifetime pains, brainwashed souls like you will never learn even from others mistakes. No don't test drive na. Test run ni, Am not even done yet, in fact, my girlfriend must even be pregnant before marriage, you have not seen anything yet you fool. You this hypocrite, it is people like you that will know a lady is circumcised and will dump her first. I know your type, you think ladies will like you for giving out sweet opinions in their favour like this. For example, am sure people like you still don't know Christianity is colonization. Brought to you by the foreign missions. Just in case it's your religion, try and clear your eyes. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by 9jaRealist: 6:35am On Feb 25, 2020 |
When they tell you people to have premarital sex, you will be preaching Oyinbo 'bible'! SMH > 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by jumpmasta(m): 6:59am On Feb 25, 2020 |
thalpy: Use lots of lubricants ,your problem is minor |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Codes151(m): 7:04am On Feb 25, 2020 |
You see what religion and tradition has caused? |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Uptown7(m): 8:05am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by PhantomXcess: 8:18am On Feb 25, 2020 |
As a married man who has experienced the wet and dry part of love making... Don't overthink it! But I can tell you something I and my lovely wife stumbled upon; WATER!!! Make sure your wife drinks a lot of water(1 to 2 litres), at least 10 minutes before you start pre-intimacy. Many people underestimate the power of WATER. Every form of liquid that comes out from the body is a form of water, including blood. So in this case, pu**y juice, sperm, orgasm, squirting are 80% dependent on how much water you have in your body. Also, your wife will easily gets more aroused or wet when you slowly stroke her missionary style. Some may like banging, but they'd usually tell you to go harder or faster. For you as a man, if you cum too fast during intercourse, then you need to intentionally deprive your body water, or try to pee just before you start love making. Works like magic! This is why some people take alcohol or other liquids before sex to last long. Alcohol mixes with water in the body and it changes state thereby pushing the body into dehydration. At this time, it will seem like the man can last long due to the drink but it is simply because of not enough water to produce sperm. Another tip for men who like to go a second or third round but their D doesnt want to stand attention, is; Drink enough water after each round! It's that simple! I'll round off by saying this: Porn or sexual education may have pushed this idea of being a long lasting man or a good in bed champion, but the reality is; Sex or love making have so many factors to it that you must accept. Most porn films have cut away scenes and the men either drank something to be ready or might have cum and it got edited out and added in the end. Most enjoyed penetration lasts about 10 to 15mins max. Anything other than that is either oral or pre-intimacy added. Spontaneity is great, but to enjoy good sex, you have to prepare for it. Your wife will naturally get wet if you praise her beauty and pu**y, paint erotic pictures of you and her to her with words and beg her to let you enter her paradise. You're not actually begging her, but talking up her sexual pride and that makes a woman tingle with pleasure on the inside. But make she drink water o..and if you come too fast, avoid water too. Sex is one of the characteristics of marital bliss, but not the only one. Love is the greatest and i must commend you for waiting until marriage! You don't need a pre-marital sex to know if you're compatible because in a real marriage, sex is not the only pressing issue. Keep treating her like the queen she is because you're both royalty. Discuss with her ways you both can improve, and explore healthy options. I'll stop here. Remember WATER! You're doing well thalpy: 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by abdullahi45: 8:31am On Feb 25, 2020 |
jhoci: Eminently there is, judging from the person referring to circumcision as a procedure that involves the disappearance of labia minora and majora. Yeah, you have a point, that is what happens when people's life are put at risk by inept and unprofessional professionals and midwives. It is so sad. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Acidosis(m): 8:51am On Feb 25, 2020 |
witworth: Christianity is brought to me via colonization, so what? Colonization (Evangelism) is a criteria for a Christian. The phone you used to type this sh.!t was brought to you via globalization, a modern form of colonialism. Even the language you speak is a product of colonialism. Stop typing like an illiterate. Same colonization has given you modern and scientific ways to check your fertility, but crude people like you won't ever learn. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by sinceraconcept(m): 9:04am On Feb 25, 2020 |
herzernIsHere:You are damned because Nigerian ladies don't ask for sex? Guys on this thread are fools. You want to turn our ladies to oyinbo ladies that sleep with dogs and horses in the name of high libido due to uncircumsition. I now see the reason why christian girls are much more promiscuous. Islam strongly encourages circumsition by a professional who wouldn't cut it all of in a disastrous way |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by sinceraconcept(m): 9:16am On Feb 25, 2020 |
witworth:My mum was circumsized and she has 6 children with no single cs. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by thalpy(m): 9:35am On Feb 25, 2020 |
witworth: Lolz it’s obvious you don’t have sense. Your type will test and test before marriage . And your wife will still end up saying you are not good for her. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by witworth(m): 9:43am On Feb 25, 2020 |
thalpy:it's better I test than to avoid this circumcised problem, if you want circumcised stuff, you can go ahead with your decision. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by thalpy(m): 9:43am On Feb 25, 2020 |
omomummy13: You have not encountered problem in life that’s why. When you do , you will realise that you can even pour out your heart to a baby who you know still cant help. Na problem dey bring prayer point . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by maasoap(m): 10:53am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Toks2008: No, it is not of the mind, it is of the sensitive nerve endings that have been mostly cut off, removed. Their brains are not receiving messages/signals from the private parts, so their brains have little to nothing to interpret as "sensation". My friend, this is more physical than you're even aware, going by your arguments here. Should I say it loud again? THE NERVE TRANSMITTING SIGNALS TO THE BRAIN HAVE BEEN ALMOST COMPLETELY REMOVED. Do you even know many of the victims don't even know what is wrong with them as many of them are not educated, literate or informed about these genital mutilation except for few of them who did their research either by reading or asking. If they don't know what is wrong with them, how could it be the issue of the mind? It is physical, not abstract. Google is our friend, a lots of studies and researches had been done on this. We don't need to reduce this to the issue of the mind at all jhoci: |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Offpoint: 10:59am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Tunagee:Find clitoris for 6 years, you be legend of the seeker? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Ola7070: 11:02am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by maasoap(m): 11:07am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Graxie: You want some of us to tell you how lucky you are, just like so many other girls who are circumcised? You're the ignorant one here because you didn't know that you were just lucky that the person who circumcised you didn't cut everything off. Some were not lucky as those traditional people didn't understand female anatomy. They would cut off anything they saw as "ugly looking" to the extent that female girls are left with profound scar, stiff private part after healing, damaged nerve endings and so on. You got it now? |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Nasige(m): 11:12am On Feb 25, 2020 |
I have gone through almost all the advice given and some are very good advice, both of you are new in the game and thank God you are bold enough to open open and i known that is because you love your wife. my little advice. 1. Get a lubricant 2. Study her to know the part of her body that easily get her aroused 3. Grind her with patient and tenderly 4. If eventually God answered your prayers pls CS is the best option to deliver. AND DON'T FORGET TO SEE A SEX THERAPIST. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Nasige(m): 11:17am On Feb 25, 2020 |
thalpy:You even get time to answer this one, some people here are still kids they never face reality life, |
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