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FamilyRe: What Has Life Taught You? by Phargbemmy(m): 8:09am On Dec 28, 2014
Life has taught me that the power to make wealth is not your, destinies cannot be changed.

2014 has taught me that not all wars need fighting, some naturally come and fizzle out in time. It also taught me that silence most times is very golden
RomanceRe: What Else Will A Guy Gain From A Girl That Says "No Sex" In The Relationship? by Phargbemmy(m): 1:13am On Dec 28, 2014
Hitunnu:
If only u know the kind of risk men go through in relationship u wnt talk the way u do. Relationship is not free nomatter how poor a guy is, love is extremely difficult. Every woman wants something mutual than brother to sister interaction but not willing to make up the difference. If sex is not involved, u practically maintain the position of a blood sister and when that hapenes a section of the relationship is suffocated. We often feel so fulfiled when our guy get moved and go gaga when he sees us, that's the main reason for all those sweet sexy hot dresses. We should rather consider staying without a boyfriend than keeping a relationship without sex. We obviously can't eat our cakes and still have it.
Omo daada ni jare, ojulowo omo, I love it when babes are blunt with the truth.

Well said @Hitunnu, many of this "no sex" advocators are liars and what they do behind is better left unimagined.

Ladies our counter what she posited here and tell me its not thru?.

@Hitunnu please if you can, add me on whatapps on 08122681325, u just won my heart ds beautiful sunday morning.
RomanceRe: What Else Will A Guy Gain From A Girl That Says "No Sex" In The Relationship? by Phargbemmy(m): 1:03am On Dec 28, 2014
safarigirl:
phucked up mindset.

Nobody will be doing any phuckin' until you've paid my dowry, but if you want, you can exorcise your demons outside. Just incase it doesn't work out, I won't be the one with regrets
All na bobo jare. I am never a supporter of sex by force by fire, buh wait if you know U really dont want to play the game why not remain a spectator rather than being an active playmaker who really cant make things happen?

Dont get involved then, wait till when u knw u r ready or of what essense is ur 10 years dating when u knw someone will come a day out of those wasted days to buy you?
PhonesRe: :-*Drop Your Numbers For Free Credit! (Completed For Now):-* by Phargbemmy(m): 3:10pm On Dec 27, 2014
08186715860 Awooof dey sweet mouth and when carefully eaten e nor dey turn stomach grin
FamilyRe: I Felt A Knife Slash Through My Neck– Man Left For Dead After Attack by Phargbemmy(op): 1:12pm On Dec 27, 2014
left for the, mushin ooooolooooosha!
CelebritiesI Can Act Unclad For N1b, Says Actress Da Silva by Phargbemmy(op): 1:11pm On Dec 27, 2014
Nollywood actress Elizabeth Omowunmi Tekovi Da Silva a.k.a. Liz Da Silva, has revealed that she can act nude in a movie if she is paid the sum of N1 billion.
Da Silva made the revelation in an interview recently when she fielded questions on her pet project “The Ankara Day”.
“I can do anything in acting. There is no limit to what I can do on stage as an actress because I’m a professional actress and I don’t care because that role I am playing is touching somebody somewhere.
Liz Da-Silva: Says she can't act nude at the offer of N1 billion
Liz Da-Silva: Says she can act nude at the offer of N1 billion
“If you give me a nude role that has something to teach people, and does not affect any culture and tradition, I will do it. That is why I am an actress. I don’t care what people might say or think about me,” she said.
According to her, her husband will never mind if she acted nude. “I am sure my husband will be happy about it if he confirmed by account is loaded. People should keep criticizing while I keep spending the N1 billion largesse from the role,” she added.
Speaking on her pet project which comes up on 27 December, she said: “The concept behind Ankara Day is to promote unity of Africans through our culture, assist the less privileged through donation made on Ankara Day yearly, and to appreciate our culture through our way of life, for instance our mode of dressing, to keep our bond as actors.
“The programmes for the event include: choreography, stage play (pantomime), Ewi, panegyric music, fashion parade, dance troupe and musical performance. Popular Actress Toyin Aimakhu will anchor the event, while Wasiu Alabi Pasuma amongs others will entertain the guests.”
Da Silva has produced few movies: Ore l’ore Nwoto, Desire, Itanje, Mama Insurance, Alebu kan, Mawo’badan and Tasere which is the most recent movie.


Tell me, which nude role in a movie teaches morales?

FamilyI Felt A Knife Slash Through My Neck– Man Left For Dead After Attack by Phargbemmy(op): 12:59pm On Dec 27, 2014
"very graphic details"

Thirty-two-year-old Johnson Gbemisola considers himself one of the luckiest men alive. But he is a frightened man.

He was so frightened when Saturday PUNCH spoke with him at a private hospital in Mushin, Lagos that he requested that the name of the facility where he is receiving treatment should not be published.

“Right now, the men who attempted to slaughter me probably don’t even know that I survived. I don’t want them to come back and finish the job,” he said.

But Gbemisola, a hefty man, was willing to tell his story in order to let the world know the kind of brutality that existed in Mushin area of Lagos.

Mushin has become known as one of the most violent areas of Lagos, with frequent cases of murders, reprisals, attacks and counter-attacks going unchecked by security agencies in the state.

On Saturday, December 20, 2014, Gbemisola would have become one of the victims of numerous killings that have taken place in Mushin in the last three years, but he survived.

Writhing in pain with a cast on his leg and bandages around his neck, head and waist, the man recounted how a gang numbering more than 10 stormed the No. 239 Agege Motor Road where he lives and demanded to see his brother, Ramon Martins, who owns a hotel in the same building.

He said, “It was around 9pm, I was relaxing at a filling station opposite our house that evening but had to go back home when I became hungry.

“Few moments after I entered my apartment, six men came into the house and asked to see my brother, Ramon.

“I told them I had no idea where he was but they said if they did not see him, they would kill me instead. They said they were there to deal with him.

“Before I knew what was happening, they carried me and threw me downstairs.”

The fall broke Gbemisola’s left leg, inflicting on him a fracture that left his fibula bone sticking out.

But they were not done with him yet, as he landed downstairs, he realised that other members of the gang were waiting with knives.

“Two of the men had pistols, one had a butcher knife and another, a machete. The men downstairs descended on me. As they kicked and punched me, I felt a knife slashing through my back, my hand and eventually I felt one slash through my neck.

“I realised at that point that I had to do something. I was bleeding profusely but they did not stop. I decided to pretend to be dead.

Gbemisola
Gbemisola

“I let my body go limp and I was lucky. One of them said, ‘This one is dead. Let’s leave him.’”

Luckily for Gbemisola, who at that point feared he risked bleeding to death, the scuttle had attracted neighbours, who started shouting to scare away the armed assailants.

He was rushed to different hospitals where he was rejected on account of his grave condition.

“The hospitals probably thought I was going to die no matter what they did,” he said.

A picture of Gbemisola’s undressed wounds showed a deep long gash on his neck and several slash marks on his back apart from the horrific fracture of his leg.

“I did not even imagine that I would survive but I can only thank God for keeping me alive,” he said.

Gbemisola said he was not afraid to identify some of the assailants whose names were mentioned during the attack on him.

He said the police had visited him in the hospital and he had also given them the names of the men, who he said were members of the National Road Transport Workers at Mushin.

He said, “I don’t know what I did to deserve death. I am also a member of the NURTW and I have seen some of those men who attacked me before. But I don’t work in the same unit as them.”

While Gbemisola was thankful to be alive, the actual target of the attack, Martins, said he probably would have been killed if the assailants knew that he was in the same building at the time.

“I slept early that day. I only woke up when I heard neighbours screaming that Johnson (Gbemisola) had been killed.

“I rushed downstairs and all I saw was a pool of blood where they had attacked him. Nobody seemed to know which particular hospital neighbours had rushed him to.

“When we eventually located him, I could not believe that he even survived because of the extent of his injuries.”

Asked what he thought could have been the grouse of the men who sought to kill him, Martins said all they wanted was to control the street where he does business.

“They hated the fact that I was doing business in the area and prospering. They are gang members in our area and just wanted total control of everything. How can I leave the place for them? That’s where I was born,” Martins said.

Slash marks on his back
Slash marks on his back

According to him, about two years ago, a similar attack allegedly carried out by the same gang had took place in the house.

“They tried to kidnap one of the boys working for me. They locked him up in the boot of a vehicle and wanted to drive away before he was rescued,” he said.

Martins, who is a member of the commercial motorcyclists’ union at Mushin said he did not have any issue with the NURTW unit which the gang allegedly belong to.

The attack was reported at the Olosan Police Division, Mushin.

When the spokesperson for the Lagos State Police Command, Mr. Kenneth Nwosu, was contacted, he explained that investigation was ongoing in the case.

He said, “It appears that the perpetrators are in hiding but we will not relent on our efforts to track them down. This festive period is especially important.

“We are determined to give the residents of this state a hitch-free celebration and clamp down on every criminal activity. That is the stand of the Commissioner of Police, Mr. Kayode Aderanti, on this matter.

“The victim is still receiving treatment but my assurance is that nobody would commit that kind of crime and go scot-free.”


culled from THE PUNCH

PoliticsRe: Photo; APC Vice Presidential Candidate Campaigns For Vote Inside BRT Bus by Phargbemmy(m): 11:56am On Dec 27, 2014
#2015voteforchange
PoliticsRe: FG Replies Osinbajo Criticisms With Bible Passages by Phargbemmy(m): 11:38am On Dec 27, 2014
#2015voteforchange
Nairaland GeneralRe: Female Sex Worker, Two Men Burnt To Death In Delta State by Phargbemmy(m): 8:29am On Dec 27, 2014
adorable29:
It could be electrical fault due to bad power supply. This new Nepa (don't care what their new name is) seems to be far worse off and more incompetent than the former!




Probably the main reason why I want "CHANGE" come 2015!
#2015voteforchange
Nairaland GeneralRe: Female Sex Worker, Two Men Burnt To Death In Delta State by Phargbemmy(m): 8:28am On Dec 27, 2014
mencade4:
i blame Buhari for this...tongue
smiley What has Buhari got to do with their death? SMH
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Vs QPR (2 - 1) On 26th December 2014 by Phargbemmy(m): 7:21pm On Dec 26, 2014
Love this Gunnerz, football without violence.

Up Gunnerz
PoliticsRe: FG Replies Osinbajo Criticisms With Bible Passages by Phargbemmy(m): 10:02am On Dec 26, 2014
ayindejimmy:
When Apc says 'change' I don't think you understood what the meant.
The change is a process that has to start... Gradually. We ain't talking about a magic or miracle here. We're talking about starting a journey of a thousand miles with one step at a time. Change that you and I will be part of. Our generation may not get to the promised land but our children and children's children will be proud that we took that step.. . Against all odds. That's the change. It's a journey.
Thanks for lending your voice bro, I hope they can catch the dream much better now


#2015voteforchange
PoliticsRe: FG Replies Osinbajo Criticisms With Bible Passages by Phargbemmy(m): 9:54am On Dec 26, 2014
Legacy44:
With all due respect...what change are u referring tohuh
Is it APC (made up of majorly defected PDP-polithiefcians) or Buhari - an Islamist fundamentalist.

Dnt get me wrong...am all for change but... not if the opposition presents smtn far worse and sinister.
Electing Buhari will begin the era of islamic dominance swiftly followed by the long-planned Islamization of Nigeria...the same fate that befell Turkey will surely be upon us...(U can read up the history of Turkey, a nation with over a thousand year history of Christianity, that groomed most of the early Apostles and early Church)
Believe me when i tell u that there is more to Buhari's agenda than what u hear in the news. Appointin a christian VP means nothing and can stop nothing. Dnt be deceived.

I knw u have ur doubts but Jonathan is the trajectory we need. He may not be the main agent of transformation but he will usher it in.

I believe 2015 will be a turning point for good in Nigeria's history...and Buhari will never enter Aso rock...as long as God is on the throne.
"Change: a verb (used with object), changed, changing.
to make the form, nature, content, future course,
etc., of (something) different from what it is or
from what it would be if left alone: "to change
one's name;" "to change one's opinion;"
"to change the course of history."

Last 8years of his being the number 1 citizen of this
country, I havent seen 1 thing that he has done
differently!. What this present administration has
saddled its with is the responsibility of rigmaroling
around the past programs of the Obasanjos regime.
Tell me when last u heard of Nigerian airways?, Ghana
our brother there has many on it fleet buh to mention a
few.

What really can u expect from a government that
cannot think out of the box?, with Us being one of the
largest economy in Africa, where do u presently think
we are today on the on the world map? Why do u think
ur neighbour still clamour to run to Dubai on the next
available opportunity he has?

I am lone ranger and I dont have any masters. I speak
for those educated fellows on the street whose future
rest on good and visionary leadership.
This isnt abt GMB/OSINBANJO, its a desire for things
to be done differently. We are tired of seeing a
refurbished Nigeria, we want a NEW Nigeria, one in
which our coming children(generation) wont have to
run to dubai or Afghanistan nor Pakistan in search of
greener pastures.

The pastures are greener enough at home, here in
Nigeria.

#2015voteforchange
PoliticsRe: FG Replies Osinbajo Criticisms With Bible Passages by Phargbemmy(m): 9:51am On Dec 26, 2014
Rexyl:
I always get confused when people shout change to the praise of those who want to take advantage of their support. I myself wondered why some of the acclaimed agents of change are taking matters of national interest so personal. Lives and properties are being wasted daily they are boasting end of terrorism within a Month if given the opportunity to serve. But why can't they end it now? If they are sincere, they should declare their strategies, or appeal to the sponsors if they will listen to them to stop financing terrorism and call their boys to order.
Are u insinuating APC to be a sponsor to bokoharam?, I need to get you right.
PoliticsRe: FG Replies Osinbajo Criticisms With Bible Passages by Phargbemmy(m): 9:13am On Dec 26, 2014
Samunique:
Fagbemi, can u pls tell me the meaning of the word "CHANGE"? U keep shouting change, maybe u are one of those who think change comes by chance, placing optimism in place of reality!

U people are just sentimentally optimistic rather than being realistic about APC.

And if i may ask again, who are these agents of change?
Buhari and osinbajo? Good, but who are the people surrounding them? Tinubu, atiku, amechi & co?

Now bros, sentiment apart, let's be realistic, no matter how good u are, if u are surrounded with bad and corrupt people, u chances of good delivery are slim!

For ur information, amechi who is one the leaders of APC performed better under PDP than APC, i live in PH and I'm not talking base on assumption or hear-say.And what about Atiku track records, tinubu etc? Just giving u a little example of the people u expect to bring ur proclaiming change.

Don't be deceived, u can not give what u don't have!!!!

Lastly, give me the road map to the change u preach for ur masters so that i could be convinced of ur sermon?
"Change: a verb (used with object), changed, changing.
to make the form, nature, content, future course,
etc., of (something) different from what it is or
from what it would be if left alone: "to change
one's name;" "to change one's opinion;"
"to change the course of history."


Last 8years of his being the number 1 citizen of this country, I havent seen 1 thing that he has done differently!. What this present administration has saddled its with is the responsibility of rigmaroling around the past programs of the Obasanjos regime. Tell me when last u heard of Nigerian airways?, Ghana our brother there has many on it fleet buh to mention a few.

What really can u expect from a government that cannot think out of the box?, with Us being one of the largest economy in Africa, where do u presently think we are today on the on the world map? Why do u think ur neighbour still clamour to run to Dubai on the next available opportunity he has?

I am lone ranger and I dont have any masters. I speak for those educated fellows on the street whose future rest on good and visionary leadership.

This isnt abt GMB/OSINBANJO, its a desire for things to be done differently. We are tired of seeing a refurbished Nigeria, we want a NEW Nigeria, one in which our coming children(generation) wont have to run to dubai or Afghanistan nor Pakistan in search of greener pastures.

The pastures are greener enough at home, here in Nigeria.

#2015voteforchange
PoliticsRe: FG Replies Osinbajo Criticisms With Bible Passages by Phargbemmy(m): 8:31am On Dec 26, 2014
balladin:
You don't feel the pulse of Nigerian youths so don't speak for them. You want to know what GEJ has done in my locality, well get ready, my light has not blinked since tuesday, my colleagues wife got 10m from the youwin programme to expand her poultry farm, my kid brother is currently benefitting from the sure-p graduate internship scheme getting trained in computer networking and earning monthly stipends at the same time. I won't say all my needs have been met but I don't think any govt can meet all our needs. There are many other areas that this govt has improved our live. Soon we won't have any business importing rice, we are already exporting cassava. The car assembly plants are back, the agric ministry is reviving cocoa farming, we shall begin exporting cocoa again. You guys should leave the president alone. He has to finish the laudable programmes he has started. Forget this Buhari and give Nigerians a more credible option. I've read through his speeches and he actually seems to be the clueless one.
then its U and urs alone are the one benefiting from all his schemes. Go to the streets, sample peoples opinion you will be surprised what it is people are saying.
PoliticsRe: FG Replies Osinbajo Criticisms With Bible Passages by Phargbemmy(m): 7:44am On Dec 26, 2014
#2015voteforchange
PoliticsRe: FG Replies Osinbajo Criticisms With Bible Passages by Phargbemmy(m): 7:39am On Dec 26, 2014
#2015VOTEFORCHANGE
PoliticsRe: FG Replies Osinbajo Criticisms With Bible Passages by Phargbemmy(m): 7:36am On Dec 26, 2014
laimo:
Word on the streets is that pdp/Jonathan will lose massively.Omokri is only quoting bible passages to explore the options of rigging.

We need Change!
Thank you my brother, let this start trending #2015voteforchange cos thats what we want andwhat we ask for CHANGE.

#2015voteforchange
PoliticsRe: FG Replies Osinbajo Criticisms With Bible Passages by Phargbemmy(m): 7:27am On Dec 26, 2014
Nukilia:
The vote of every tribe is important. Let's not cause ethnic rivalry. Everyone supported GEJ before now, but guess people are doubtful of Hus integrity shocked shocked
I ask and stand to be corrected, can you point out one thing in your locality that this present PDP has done in ur area that make u give a bit of credibility to GEJ, I am putting this out to you right now, if a proper opinion polls were to be carried out(not one filled wt charrade or sentiments) you will come to the realisation that the youths that made up abt 55%of our total population earnestly ask for a change. I am not a party bigotry nor a sycophant but I am raising awareness of what youths in my locality feels.

Forget politics and religion, all we ask for is CHANGE
PoliticsRe: FG Replies Osinbajo Criticisms With Bible Passages by Phargbemmy(m): 7:17am On Dec 26, 2014
ilovecritics:
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]You see? Now these APC sh*tters can't say sh*t anymore! So he knows the bible? So he can quote the bible?

He made sense! Ur VP is desperate! That man can't even be my VP! The spirit of Yar'dua, Rimi, ZIK, Ojukwu, Tafawa, Abiola and the history makers in Nigeria won't allow Buhari/Osibanjo to lead us! They all old, I doubt they even see clearly with their. Big ol' spectacles. We don't want no leader who will die in office. We need agility and Youthful grasp.

Buhari must not be the President. Why can't he relax?

How will Osibanjo appear before other VP's? GEJ is Internationally respected and he has done wel for Nigeria.

Nuff said; come 2015 GEJ will remain there..

*Packing my stuffs for Xmas*
Now I knw better!
You r here ranting abt Osinbanjo and Buhari being old!, would you please educate us on what age got to do with administration?, or have u ever wondered why some multinationals will never employ you if you r not up to a certain age?!
Brother its called experience, we need results and revolutions in all sectors of our economy and if it take the experience of the old to put things back to perspective then let us embrace and allow them.
We dont need a combination of old/semi_young who are more concerned abt over #2billion naira they will use to eat and travel in 2015. #gross.

Vote change, Vote GMB/Osinbanjo as agent of change.
PoliticsRe: FG Replies Osinbajo Criticisms With Bible Passages by Phargbemmy(m): 7:01am On Dec 26, 2014
klodike:
But most of this people you listed above are now in APC.
Yes now they are in APC now because they have changed and needs change. If they start their political career on the AD/ACN/APC platform, I bet you they would have been better citizenry because there in APC, U get remodelled and you are made to develop and grow with the vision on change.

PDP is like a confraternity that makes you do so many dirty jobs and later pushes you outof its system with no protection. Or why not ask the leadership of PDP why people with vision are leaving/or already left the party?

All we need is CHANGE and CHANGE it must be by Gods grace come May, 2015.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Newcastle Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 6th December 2014 by Phargbemmy(m): 3:26pm On Dec 06, 2014
chelsea don spoil #234500 nairabet ticket for me
CelebritiesRe: Most Popular Nigerian Virgin, Adokiye Kyrian Flaunts Her Bikini Body by Phargbemmy(m): 9:18am On Nov 28, 2014
Virgin ko, Virginia ni
CelebritiesRe: Helen Paul (Tatafo) Delivers A Baby Boy by Phargbemmy(m): 2:00pm On Nov 24, 2014
Congrat @tatafo
FamilyShort Story With A Moral: by Phargbemmy(op): 6:08pm On Nov 22, 2014
Like every normal girl, I was excited about marriage right
from my childhood days. I never thought beyond the time
that I would spend happily with my prince charming.
But today when I am married, I realize that marriage is not
all roses. It’s not just about being with your beloved and
having a gala time. There is so much more to it. It comes
with its own share of responsibilities, duties, sacrifices
and compromises.
I can’t wake up anytime I want to.
I am expected to be up and ready before everyone else in
the family.
I can’t laze around in my pyjamas throughout the day.
I am expected to be presentable every time.
I can’t just go out anytime I want to.
I am expected to be sensitive to the needs of the family.
I just can’t hit the bed anytime I want to.
I am expected to be active and around the family.
I can’t expect to be treated like a princess but am
supposed to take care of everyone else in the family.
And then I think to myself, ‘why did I get married at all?’ I
was happier with you, mom. Sometimes I think of coming
back to you and getting pampered again.
I want to come home to my favourite food cooked by you
every evening after a nice outing with friends. I want to
sleep on your laps like I have no worry in this world. But
then I suddenly realize, had you not got married and made
such sacrifices in your life, I wouldn’t have had so many
wonderful memories to hang on to.
And suddenly, the purpose of all this becomes clear- to
return the same comfort, peace and happiness to my new
family that I got from you.
And I am sure that as time would pass, I would start
loving this life equally as you do. Thank you mom for all
the sacrifices and compromises you made. They give me
the strength to do the same. Love you.

What do you all say to this?
LiteratureRe: Love Story Of A Unilag Babe And Bus Conductor by Phargbemmy(m): 6:43am On Nov 19, 2014
Inspiring and I really don't understand why some people still dont get the message in this!

Love can melt the most hardened rock, all we need is a bit of love to that person next to you to make a better society, a better workd for us all to live in.

#am_inspired smiley
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