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Franzinni: Bro ... I hope this meets you well, I understand your position and want you to know you are not alone, there are countless of married men who are in your situation or have passed through it, heck I have been there countless of times but that being said, you need to first realize that what a woman is, is not what men have been bred to believe, a woman is incapable of loving unconditionally becasue thier love must be tied to something physical and it must be something desirable to other women. I once read here on Nairaland where a man's wife was instructed not to allow her husband to sleep with her by her boyfriend or else she should not come to see him ... Her husband o and guess what she complied untill the day the husband say make he check her WhatsApp... He see the messages. Let me just say this, if she is able to seek validation elsewhere bro, then she is not yours, she is ours " meaning she is still accessible"... I leave you with this thought, why did God create everything completely, created all animals male and female, birds , fish all .... But he only created Adam? And all this while everything was stable and in harmony, God came down in the cool of the evening and chilled with Adam ... God knows what a woman is and that is why he hesitated becasue as soon as he made eve, all HELL broke lose... Guard your heart and health, focus on you and stop having a we mindset, because when e sup, only the strong know what to do, the weak respond with violence and that is why the prisons are full of weak men. It has happened to me, in the past and it made me paranoid but then I learnt that a man has no business checking a woman's phone. If you have reason to distrust her, then just switch off from putting her on a pedestal !!! Life is too short, it's less than 100 years, we came alone and we will go alone so why let another person's life choices infringe on your life path... You are the man, she is your wife ... Set the program and if she can't follow the program you find someone who will ... There are at least 7 women for everyman out there .... Swallow the red pill and just stop giving a 4ck! ...
FOLYKAZE: Op dey prepare backup plans. Let her do her shit so that you can get enough evidence take break that bondage called marriage. She go dey muscle courage why you play like mumu, one day she go burst open all her dirty secrets. But before things fall apart, get something soft to make you land safely. Increase your savings, spend some sum on yourself to look good... No go dey reason woman matter, na IBP go kill you.. Enjoy the moment but keep your backup running in the background
If your wife is cheating, she will never ever talk about the man she's cheating with all the time, you won't even know he exists, so stop with the unnecessary assumption.
I beg to differ, she will paint the guy in pictures that you will feel irresistible to believe stories she cooked for you thereafter.
She will be more than bold to talk about him if she din know say you the type that believed easily.
Any arrangement that is not divorce is abandonment and is considered a crime even in Nigeria. You and wife should legally decide support and custody by way of courts.
The reason most men seem abandoned at that age by their kids has a lot to do with them not properly bonding with the children —creating real familial connections with them —during their growing age.
Kobojunkie: She is a narcissist yet you married her even with all of the signs before you so why are you complaining now?
2. Look, if you are done with the marriage, go ahead and seek divorce already. Legal divorce is not a crime. What is instead a crime is abandonment.
I have noticed you jumping into people's post and forcing your opinion down on them even when you r not invited to the party, must you always have an opinion about people's issues?!
*Baba n dagbe at 70* ( 70 years papa going up and down, grounding pepper, wash dish, wash cloth with his spine not able to straight again)
70 years old woman can still effectively does that at 70.
Meanwhile, I haven't seen any female boasting, she doesn't need HUSBANDS but KIDS here , unlike several despair male urchins here.
Baba when you get to that age, you will realise that most men are abandoned with the pretense of the wife having to help her children take care on grandchild or the other. I hope you bookmark this
Didi2d: I and my wife just finished quarreling before I opened this thread and I must say being old In Nigeria as a man is kind of scary.
Now, I had to call my daughter to be present before I before my confronted my wife. Cos through her action and words she believe if we get separated it will be my lose, cos she believe she will win the children's favor.
Now, this is a woman that will never accept her fault no matter how big or small the issue is. I send her Whatshapp msg twice today and she didn't read nor reply the msg, this someone that's always on tiktok and always with her phone. I decided not to call till I get home, only for me to meet her probably on tiktok and I got angry, that's when I called my daughter to the seating room and guess what she got angry telling me she didn't see my msg and she wanted to deny but I reminded her that she was with her phone when I sent the first msg, cos I was home then.
If or when I eventually leave the house, what will be my fate in the future?
Having same issue mine has even gone to being denied sex at age 45 and just getting better from st7roke which was majorly caused by the stress at home. Mine is a Narcissist! My first is 13 and last is 8 am leaving for good but will never abandon my children
Aaaaarghmed: I wound the Narcissist wey I ghost sotey,she gatz call me after months and said....so it is very easy for you to leave and walk away.This her statement sweet me die.I have always told her,I have gentle face but if I cross my mind.Am not going back.she think say na joke.i bullshit her.
I realised too late, after three 3. Yea I started seeing this after 4 years of our being together and am prepared to break loose. Yes, I will have my payback very soon and it will sweet me die
Kobojunkie: So, you felt I should have been content with your "Life happens" tale not realizing you are speaking to someone else to whom the same Life has happened to on more than one occasion by the way? Abeg waka pass me o'jare!
Well, next time try learn the world does not revolve just around you alone, your testament is another person's testimony. Our experiences differ so does our opinions. I have respected yours enough to to want to join your banter. Like you already posited it's better to "waka pass" some comment as they don't worth your energy. I pray you rest and take on the next spot!
Kobojunkie: Indeed life happens to all of us. So, when this happened to you, what kept you from taking up house duties to free your wife up to go out and work in your place? ▢ Was washing dishes, and doing your family's laundry equally too strenuous for you at that time? ▢ Even if you couldn't go out to do the grocery shopping at that time, was taking over the cooking of meals for your family equally too strenuous for you at that time? ▢ Was tidying up your own house equally too strenuous throughout the time of your recovery? ▢ Was sitting and carrying for your kids equally beyond you at that time?
What kept you from exchanging places with your wife, so she could become breadwinner and you the homemaker?
Some questions really do not deserves responses to
I don't think you should relate what anyone here is saying to your circumstances because for one, there are some bitter immature posters on this platform who have zero empathy for others and have not had anywhere near enough life experience to make pronouncements on the topic they comment on in such an authoritative manner. I guess that is social media for you.
Major cause of Stroke is because of the stress people go though. And I will tell you now that if there is no stress at home, the one that the person faced outside especially at work will have less likelyhood of causing a stroke because you have a happy place to retire to.
Take care and thanks for your honesty, once more I am so sorry to read about what has happened to you.
Nor mind them, many grown up infants with lack of understanding.....life is unpredictable.
Pray to God not to be in circumstances where the only hope you will have is her and God. In such an instance, will you starve to death because you don't want your woman to feed you.
Well experiences most have seen make them come back to unrealistic submissions.
Just Pray yo don't find yourself in situations that will warrant such.
Once roles are reversed in such a manner, affection, tolerance and respect goes out of the window.
It's the same in a family where the younger ones are doing much better financially than the older ones, the role reversal will cause issues if the older ones don't adjust themselves.
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]All of this is regardless of how much the man has been the breadwinner before circumstances changed to bring about the role reversal.[/font]
Obviously there are exceptions to this rule albeit very few though.
Kobojunkie: Well, whoever it is, get him to answer those very common sense questions.
I will pen something down on this. Most times it is not intentional, I am speaking based on reality, you have been carrying your family and all of a sudden issues of life steps in and you cannot cater for same family again. I have a personal experience.
So when you ask why a man cannot take care of his immediate family, have you asked yourself what and what has contributed to that. I am not speaking for the irresponsible ones.
Life can happen to you, I had stroke, couldn't do any major strenuous activities again, lost my job and nearly lost my life, tell me what am I suppose to do?, commit suicide because I am not employable and the system does not favour you by providing a loan in form of capital to start something anew and your family start seeing you as an issue, tell me what you think should happen?
They didn't disown it. They said they don't have the copy because he has took it. And also, they agree it is an accepted practice to get a replacement copy from 3rd party. To them, the only thing that is important is the official transcript
please learn to read
Baba, no dey Salaye! I have come to the realisation that the more you try In doing that, the more confused some people become. You suppose know better!
sokera: stop dividing us,there is nothing like Yoruba Muslims, We are Yoruba and that is final
Thank you. In Yoruba, we don't have divisions. In a you a family, we believe in fairness and you will not see us disrespecting any body's beliefs or affiliation because there is LOVE amongst us and thats why we prosper. In a Yoruba family, you will see a Muslim, I same you will have a Christian and in same you will see those who are traditional believers. That's why we celebrate all year round. Mo yo fun e, Moyo funrami...
77up: President Bola Ahmed Tinubu worked with Deloitte, worked with Exxon Mobil, was a Senator of the Federal Republic of Nigeria; a two-term governor of Lagos state before becoming the president of Nigeria. But somehow, his political opponents convinced you that he didn't go to school and you believe that? YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF!
I will advise you go for mobile tarpaulins, they are durable, I can not send the design here it's in word format, I can only send it and other information to your email.
please can I get a copy too. Kindly share. Thanks. olugbenga783@gmail.com
yinkus6750: That's life for you. Never knew that was her dad. Apata Memorial school is well known in Isolo. Great school then, don't know if they still maintain standard.
School was in session then when it happened. I could remember the sad news filtering into SaintFrancis Catholic Secondary School Egbe that Akpata was killed(We actually thought its pronounced as Akpata) May his soul rest in peace
tonicyril: U left Ur mate to marry someone 12yrs younger than you...why?? That means u re after his money one way or the other...that one no be love, if na love I am sure u would have seen Ur mate u were in love with before hackimey.
On one certain day u travel and Ur husband had a fling with Instagram olosho..ok. But the fling happened in Ur matrimonial house which is bad..we all know. But the funny thing is that olosho said Ur husband raped her...as in whaaaaaat.
Imagine a olosho making case against you that u raped her in Ur own house...in Ur own house ooh..pls was she under duress to come?? Was she forced??. Ok that is not my problem.
After the allegation hackimey wife filed for a divorce that she can't take it, now she was demanding for a fifty percent share of his asset...aaaahhhh u re wicked ma
U re wicked to be demanding for 50% of property of someone u married three years ago, just three years ago ooh...
Now this is my take on this issue..... I am sure it's hackimey wife that set the olosho up for hackimey so that she can have her way of obtaining the 50% stake, that has bn her motive tipetipe, I am sure she set that Instagram olosho for hackimey to incriminate him.
Satan punish u this devilish woman.
Women and blackmail. See the way she gave her all! Body soul and time and she could go ahead and make rash decisions.
Yes mistakes happens and if really you love your man, why not separate for a while and come back to him in forgiveness?! Why outright diverse, 50% of what he had laboured for. Pele o sisi. See her playing the victim!
Yes we are! I recently learnt this from an 82 year old woman at a gathering, where we spent time with her just chilling and gisting.
She explained that women are polygamous in nature too, but a patriarchal society and men in particular, work hard to suppress that in us, for fear of bastard children and raising other men's children (paternity fraud)
They tell us that as women it is wrong to even admire Dave while dating Tony (just admiration o). They make us feel it is extremely bad and slutty to admire or feel an attraction to a different man, other than the one you're dating or married to.
Chocho (as she is fondly called) further explained that feelings of admiration and attraction in us are natural and not wrong. However, the difference between us and men is that we have more discipline and self control, we don't often act on our feelings like they do. Part of it being the conditioning by patriarchy to believe it is wrong for us but okay for them. I thought she made a lot of sense
Does this then explains why women lie a lot in there divorce proceedings in order to just get done with the man in question?!
My dear speak for yourself. There are wicked women from Hell. The cannot be appeased. The same way you feel the women are innocent there are also many men who innocent
Married 8 years 2010, women are same from a clan in hell. Even the ones here torments you not to talk of where they have the power to. Never give your life to a woman, she's not worth it. Its better to be a baby daddy than be dishonored by the woman who you thought you love by marrying her. They a Despicable!
You have no shame for admitting you are hateful and ignorant while seemingly happy to lead others along in ignorance.
Show were Tinubu was convicted of drug trafficking and his actual role as a 'drug lord' in the last 30 years, rather than the reality of how he has been an outstanding and fine example of African political leadership, to validate any of the childish garbage you put up above.
All you are guilty of is deliberate deception of those who are ignorant of the Nigerian reality or have bought into the warped message of hateful liars like you, trying to negatively control the narrative, just to validate your illogical hatred of a man who is factually a hero of the Nigerian democracy and political development.
Shameless bigot and hater. How can you people be such unrepentant and blatantly terrorist manipulators of facts and reality? I just hope your 'patients' are not vulnerable folks sha otherwise I pity them in the hands of a bigot and hate monger like you.
I have said it that most of the are educatEedILLITRATES. They are learned but are not literates
Xammie001: one thing this people don't do is READ,They don't READ at all, they come online to show UNEDUCATED they are....who do this thing to NIGERIA. AFI KI OLORUN DIDE IJA OOOOO
FiremanX: I've said it before that you have no atom of sense in that your big skull.
Where did i write that I'm supporting Tinubu? I don't understand why most of u people don't use your common sense, with the foolish way u guys are acting, you are all ruining Obi chance in the future unknowingly. act civilized for once and grow up, headless mobs.
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