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Lostz:
why are you complaining?

won't you be happy if it is another person brother doing all this for you?


e dea pain when e be your brother abi?


better go and look for your boyfriend and leave the foolish boy to his fate

i can't do that to someone son bro ! never

I think my bro is under spell or it's just love ?

It all started years ago when he fall in love , they say true love doesn't exist but to him it exist ; according to him and what i witness, the relationship begins on "lies" yes lies that was uprooted at the begin of the relationship although it's a common thing to lie in other to save a worthy relationship to some ladies but to me you shouldn't hide things from someone u truly love .

Now let be brief u guys what actually happens , the relationship is a long distance one the lady stays in ibadan why he stays in lagos because of business stuff and he's a busy guy while the girl is schooling so they both don't have time for each others , bro later moved to ilorin from there to Ekiti mind u he always visit his babe in ibadan when he as time even if it's just two days and some time he stays in lagos (his major resident) .

what actually happens is that he goes extra miles for this girl and credit her anytime he as enough he wouldn't stand his babe passing through "rain not to talk of fire " if she calls claiming to be fighting hunger or couldn't pay any bills in schools just believe me bro will have the "money at hand " that specific time to give and vice versa - if he doesn't have , babe won't ask i was wondering if she's checking his account balance with a spiritual mirror or what .

Time goes on this same way as this lady with time rarely give him time with one excuses or the other (He could sub for her but only her shadow will be online to chat with ) since the absent of attention takes in, my bro wasn't normal again (he's an introvert and a very timid guy) this bring room for him to think and worry a lot ... Worry a lot on a girl i can't count the load of gifts he as shower on her without collecting a dime from her ...

My bro could personally tell her not to buy even birthday gift for him but could get for her if it was her birthday (although he didn't like collecting from someone) it's normal of him ( he's so nice when he as enough , he's a rare gem) his friend told him to broke up with her ; i overheard them talking i couldn't forget he was been mock ,his pal was like "am not sure u have eating this gal up to five times since 4 years" --normally that's how guys do talk . Finally this girl called him and say it's over that's when things got worst they have to give my bro a compulsory leave in his work (since he very much valuable to them ) he wouldn't tell us what actually happened but my closeness to him make him later speak after series of persuasions ( it cause me a lot , he don't usually talk , he like keeping things to himself ) i was forced to call this girl (something i regret ) she told me it's over without a tangible reason to point at ...

The break up revealed to me personally that my bro has spend a lot on someone who i think is not worth it (from buying of cell phones *i can't still count four phones when they were together , jewelries , shoes etc ) he so much love her ...finally it works with the help of one of his female close pal
He got over it with times ( i witness real love , my bro could wake up to give a girl missed calls of over 100 rings ,missed calls o . She won't pick it and he keep on insisting on her a month or two later the lady posted a pic with another guy ) with all this bro wouldn't give up on her for months ,i try my best to keep parents finding out not... He return to work and get over it ..

Close to a year and a half , the lady called him back seeking for financial help giving excuses of her bf been somehow ( i find nothing bad in it but the way she approach him) she text him "telling him if she can't help he should delete her contact and even abuse him (gbam bro still rescue her and she apologize with tears , called me and also apologize , i couldn't talk I don't want my bro to feel bad but fire was burning inside me ) before we all know they are back together after a year and the half ( i think bro is under spell , and he started giving her money again ) i spoke with his old pal , a lady she told she sense the coming back of the lady and warn him to stop picking her calls and replying her texts ..she encourage him to find a lady all this while but bro rarely approach ladies (although i know his taste " a little " he didn't like slay queens or ladies dressing half nudes or with make up not to talk of someone who's not submissive or a bad cook/ ladies showing off) She's back without no shame and bro is still playing the lover boy , although i also see changes in her ...only God knows the amount he as sent to her during this lockdown i began to think

He's under spell ... Am worried , he became mumu that know one could mock because of his kindness and generosity ... Those who knows the lovers stories of his are all against him taking her back ( life isn't fair - most relationship is usual opposite one good partner and the other been bad )

So sorry i would not brief it i was writing base on my feelings thanks
am sincerely sorry for any typographical or grammatical errors

add up beauty and pains ... i don't think she need 2 b pity

Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

from my own views if u like her , then u have got a lot to do sir 1st have it in mind that if she accept u pls stop her from working in your place , find her something else or else d gal may ruin your business since she knows how u make monies and probably she may have beef with other workers 2nd make research abt her , could she accept u ? because u will spend o lol � u will take d burden of everything from there from schooling . dont fear guy just knw an experience girl like her will cost u a lot because you will start spoiling her and lastly hope it is not love portion that's working on u after taking her food just kidding let me hear from u ... but don't forget2 woo her ... people are gonna talk

God will take control ...he is the only hope naw

Francis96:
Good day everyone, I had to open a new account to tell everyone my predicament.
I really like my girlfriend but I'm planning to leave her this Semester before she infects me.
No doubt she is a clean girl but when once she opens her Vjay and I start thrusting the smell that comes out from there is extremely irritating. And once I perceive the smell my Joystick will just fall so I will now be in hurry to cum fast and climb down.
Secondly, the whole room will be smelling of that stuff once we are done. She has been begging me to have raw sex with her but I always declined by telling her that I cum fast if I dont wear a CD that I wouldn't want to cum fast.

Now we are on Corona and ASUU strike, I am planning to tell her the truth via WhatsApp about the smell but I dont know how she would feel.

Please I need advice on how to go about this.

Nobody should come here and drop any comment that seems derogatory or abusive.
I am no longer a small boi, was just unfortunate to gain admission late.

Thanks everyone.

guy most nairaland we take u for a joke ..why don't u try and search online for solutions , talk to elderly ladies who are mature ... try and get medications rather than ridicule her here ! when u can make research and talk to her politely ... call her and sit her down tell her u want her 2 b on medications by telling her predicament ... u said u ain't a kid don't display a childish behavior bro

hmm

There have been speculations that 5G is the causes of corona virus However there's no reliable evidence for now , let me try and share the little info i heard about it

In one of the most widespread claims, popular American singer Keri Hilson asserted that coronavirus is caused by fifth-generation wireless technology, known as 5G. In a series of now-deleted tweets on March 16, 2020 (archived here), Hilson claimed  COVID-19 was not as widespread in Africa because of the absence of 5G.

“People have been trying to warn us about 5G for YEARS. Petitions, organizations, studies…what we’re going through is the effects of radiation. 5G launched in CHINA. Nov 1, 2019. People dropped dead,” she wrote. “Turn off 5G by disabling LTE!!! Why do you think the virus is not happening in Africa like that? Not a 5G region. There may be a few bases there, but not as prevalent as other countries. It has nothing to do with melanin.”

Hilson shared a viral YouTube video in which controversial American doctor Thomas Cowan, who remains on probation imposed by the Medical Board of California, argued that the novel coronavirus was created by 5G networks. 

in his video, Cowan claimed that Wuhan, the city where the novel coronavirus outbreak began, was the first city wholly covered by 5G in the world. Cowan and others who believe his theory claim that China launched 5G in October 2019 — two months before the outbreak started.

Some of these claims about 5G causing novel coronavirus have been made in Facebook posts shared hundreds of times, like here and here. 

5G coverage

Experts differ on which country leads in the commercial use of 5G, but agree that the top nations are China, South Korea (the first to launch in 2019), the United Kingdom and the United States.

In late October 2019, China rolled out the commercial use of 5G in 50 cities. 

Not only did the novel coronavirus not get its start in pioneering South Korea, but the virus has gained a foothold in many countries (for example, Malaysia, Iran, France, Singapore and Nigeria) without 5G networks.


However from the guardian tables :-

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2020/apr/03/broadband-engineers-threatened-due-to-5g-coronavirus-conspiracies

According to the guardians
Telecoms engineers are facing verbal and physical threats during the lockdown, as baseless conspiracy theories linking coronavirus to the roll-out of 5G technology spread by celebrities such as Amanda Holden prompt members of the public to abuse those maintaining vital mobile phone and broadband networks.

Facebook has removed one anti-5G group in which users were being encouraged to supply footage of them destroying mobile phone equipment, with some contributors seemingly under the pretence that it may stop the spread of coronavirus and some running leaderboards of where equipment had been targeted.

Video footage of a 70ft (20 metre) telephone mast on fire in Birmingham this week has also circulated widely alongside claims it was targeted by anti-5G protesters. Network operator EE told the Guardian that its engineers were still on site assessing the cause of the fire but it “looks likely at this time” that it was an arson attack.

And also,
In one widely circulated video that has attracted millions of views on Twitter alone, individuals working for the broadband company Community Fibre are abused by a woman who claimed without any evidence that they were installing 5G as part of a plot to kill the population.

“You know when they turn this on, it’s going to kill everyone, and that’s why they’re building the hospitals,” she tells the baffled engineers on a London street. “Do you have children, do you have parents? When they turn that switch on, bye bye momma. Are they paying you well enough to kill people?”

The virus started in Wuhan China, which is now corona virus free with a quick recovery as it was allegedly said that the 5G was tested in China earlier this year as a result of people dying the Chinese have removed and destroy the 5G satellite and everything is now back to normal and people are now going to work and things are going well ..
People were told to stay at home so that the 5G can be install and mostly the cases recorded in Africa are said no to be true

https://factcheck.afp.com/experts-dismiss-claims-5g-wireless-technology-created-novel-coronavirus

The vaccine is the mark of the beast – 666 : Lee Ryan ‘won’t apologise’ as he claims 5G is linked to coronavirus


And According to Lee Ryan is sticking to his guns after claiming the devil controls the government in a confusing social media post
The Blue singer shared an image on Instagram of a hand being injected by a hand wearing a latex glove, and an X-ray of a hand with a microchip inside.
The 36-year-old added the caption: ‘This is the mark of the beast – 666 – this will be the next step of governments world wide.
‘Sorry to post this s**t but it’s true. I just wanna spread the word so people know the truth of what’s coming…’
He went on to share a quote that claimed the human race is ‘being indoctrinated to be dependent and subservient to the system’.
The Celebrity Big Brother star had previously shared a post about 5G mobile networks, which conspiracy theorists believe is connected to the coronavirus pandemic.
He reiterated his point on his Instagram Stories, writing; ‘5g…that’s all I’m saying (sic).’

https://www.weddingdigestnaija.com/blog/the-vaccine-is-the-mark-of-the-beast-666-lee-ryan-wont-apologise-as-he-claims-5g-is-linked-to-coronavirus/amp/

Hintona:
So I'm in a relationship with this really cute guy, tall, dark and handsome but he's always hitting me for the littlest things, it's getting too much we are course mates and he even hits me in front of our fellow course mates. But they usually take it as a joke, to me it's not, I hate it and I've talked to him several times but he always apologises and does it again the next second though he has never beaten me seriously, I hate the knocks on the head and the slaps on the back.

what do I do?

talk to him dearie , most advice here on nairaland won't walk out neither mine too ... sit him down tell him he will c your red eyes in public ... so if he try it next time don't talk don't say anything use "silent" walk out of the gathering if people are there and don't reply anyone calling u back ( depending on how important dey are ) but if it's both of u alone in his room probably ...stay mute , pick your bag and walk out .. if he call don't say a word ... don't pick his call 4 few hours ..go home ... later u can settle it ..then he will knw u actually mean it

stanliwise:
mtchew

thanks 4 DAT ok

GreatResearcher1:
Was not a decision. I mistakenly sent message to that person so at the process of deleting the message I mistakenly deleted the entire conservation

u can try visit any technological or computer centers not cafe o ...they may b of help probably

am not sure u can recover it ... be4 taking decision think more than twice

feel like giving up

Nltaliban:
On a serious note, I tell people that once your admission gets to the point of change of course, the probability of getting admitted is 0.2.

Reason is this, after change of course, people who applied will be arranged according to their sores and admission will be offered to people with high scores alone ( except in cases where children of lecturer apply, they're only required to meet the initial cut off mark of the course they're changing to).
Now as regards your case, economics cut of marks is 65.13.
Your aggregate is 58, let's assume you changed to psychology, aspirants with scores higher than yours 60-65.10 who couldn't get economics will also change to same psychology you changed to will be admitted before you. That's just the logic.


During coc, you just don't need to score pass the actual cut off of the course you're changing to, you need to have a very good mark to fetch you admission.

Coc is very dicy, in year 2015 I knew a lecturer's son who scored 71 He picked medicine initially , changed to veterinary medicine with initial cut off mark of 50 and didn't get admission because vet pegged their coc cut off at 72. It affects everyone.

...nice info dude... My bro as 60+ met the course cut off marks.. But wrong subject combination... He was advice to change course.. I'n which he did! Now another palaver. Out of 9 o'level subjects.. He has 7subjects...he failed 2subjects. .the two subjects are not important or necessary for his course... He as not been admitted.. But what I noticed was that no one has been admitted in the course he changed to that's adult education... Now he's having sleepless night

1naijaguy:
did i say the child of a professor is flawless in my statement.? Pls read again. The guy didnt attend the tutorial..he was just not "well" prepared for the exam,. Assuming you had failed would you take it kindly if someone calls you a dullard??..i feel really sad with the way you reasoned that out dear.

dude may I ask u a question pls... My bro as 7subjects out of 9..he failed two however the two he failed are not necessary subjects that he needs, will they accept him

Why should I get married?
Paying huge amount of dough as bride price!
Am not marrying a virgin then what's the purpose just because her parent raise her up? It's there right or is it culture/traditions when my grand pa only give out schnapps and few tubbers of yams or am I paying for her years of experience?
Why should I Marry when I can adopt a child? I didn't trust women I will still spend a lot on DNA to avoid heart attack in future oh lame devil woo Eve in garden of eden
Spend money to do STD tests?To be sure I won't regret the marriage! Not to forget fertility test for both gender!
Do you know how much it costs to make your marriage looks nice! Who want to marry a poor man! Am not even getting married if she's not a career woman.I didn't want a liability .I can't put the whole in-law burden on mine that's already heavy.
Why should I marry? Who knows she make end up throwing the ring I bought with a valuable amount of money on my chest! The ring I bend the knee to gave her! Oh no not to marry a devil is something to worry about!She will butcher me alive,I can't marry a bad cook,lazy woman with no proper home training

Some will say my parents are married too why should I be different! Oh no not this century women who said I must last 2hrs in bed or else the infant am about to raise will be that of an able man who can go a day on top women! Or better still use harmful drugs to man be a man that I am already.. It doesn't cost me a lot to produce what will make you pregnant Am not a sex addict!..not even women u can't satisfy with anything you have

So I should marry a woman with heavy make up just to look nice.. Covering up her ugliness.Who knows if she is a former harlot.. Oh I fear for my future kids.. No dignity... And I will end up feeding her and paying for her expenses why?Take her to court to make the marriage in a lawful way! Who knows the future she make come up with divorce to share my hard earn property! Pretend to be good and end up being a termagant in my house!

Tell her u didn't want that dress for her and she will complaint about the latest fashions! Imagine my wife ,if I stop taking her food she will end up squeezing my iron cloth in the morning accusing me of seeing other women outside that's if am a gentle guy if am not she will said I am an authoritarian! End up landing on my female sectary... Hmmmm am so worried what if am broke for sometimes, problems could start and she will look for other means calling me a lazy man or a woman will call my mother a witch... She raise your husband with that witchcraft

Insult and corrections are welcome (I didn't throw stones on every dogs that barks on my way) on any grammatical or typographical errors! I am not that good in English and also a lazy writer! English is language not a measure of intelligency thanks ...hope this touch someone heart! We women just can't be perfect.. Just a change is enough

Is he a Christian....

I want to laugh not to mock her but. Her dogs will come to bite.. Sorry enh

Ok.. But don't tell me that's how the phone looks like o

dasrackhor:
madam u too dey watch Nollywood..

I didn't remember the last time... I watch it... I didn't like movies

falconey:
[color=#7000BC] HAHAHAHA now? have been booked for Christmas and New year early this month. I have to lie to some people I am traveling to village. [/color]

...lolz....lame excuse! .....beware girls are coming for Dec... date only breakup in jan unh?

wao good news ...happy for him

cool... and lovely

if I talk now.... some Bleep will said.... we dey envy her

falconey:
[color=#7000BC] Definitely iamj [/color]

u will know... u self they controversial.... won't u take me out for X'mas enh....?

that's how they exchange there glory... someone will come and tell us she needs help when maggots started coming out of her pussy!...


or

later falling during deliverance in church... I rarely see men falling down..

me self I didn't want a female child when I grow up... the level of immorality this days is....

pity the hole for future sake

when God didn't give u no problem don't give yourself

not all pastors are robbers but all politicians are


in politics there is no moral - Niccolo Machiavelli

Africa leaders.. giving out peanuts... to take pyramids of groundnut

deceivers everywhere! ....innocent son is gone!