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oluwaseyi0:
I recently got an offer as a fullstack developer

The initial offer was so insulting even after I told them my minimum during interview that I already made up my mind not to work with them

I sent them a mail telling them how disappointed I was with an offer of 125k

They called back raise to 150 - I reject
After some months called back for 180 then 200

In my mind I already know I won't do full stack for less than 3, I'm mainly back end developer, I strongly believe one single person should not be fullstack and if at all one person should be fullstack the pay better worth it

To make it worse all their offer were gross which means tax, NHIS, pension etc will still be deducted

Clowns! They want to hire a fullstack dev but are offering 150k, so that when you cook beans for them, they'll say you're incompetent. Cheap labour kee them there.

Ofcourse we all saw it coming. It's completely mind boggling how any sane person still supports this Buhari's regime.

If you still support Buhari, you'll most likely never die well.

Reading some of the comments and I'm wondering what kind of companies exist in this country...Lol

In all my years of working, I've had female bosses and male bosses and gender has never been a thing. Well, maybe it's cos I work in Tech, so it's pretty advanced in terms of ideals and diversity.

Kapeter:
#Dirimoney if you know.

Who is Diri?

Jackson105:
[s]Oga! All these teams Chelsea played are shit at the moment, they should play city first and let's see[/s]

Nonsense!

sapphiere:
Men are the same everywhere. They lack self-control.

How can you say your father lacks self control? You don't even have respect and you're just implying he can do the same thing these twats did...Phew!!!

Jakumo:
The product she is selling is that flooded trailer park between her legs, while the taste in her mouth is from the accumulation of stale semen deposited there by a conveyor belt of wealthy and non-wealthy clients seeking carnal knowledge.

God breast Nigeria.

The continuous cycle of policy somersaults in this hellhole, phew!!

bukatyne:
Did the OP claim right anywhere?

He said (in tooooooooooo many words) that he expected his SIL to wash the bedsheets after they were done having sex.

It is simple courtesy.

We can only blame him for not overlooking the act.

He has clearly been ranting about his tradition and crap...If he is looking for courtesy, he should get his lazy, entitled self to his own house where he can live however he likes. The house belongs to the SIL and her husband and she can have sex anywhere she deems fit. If she didn't wash bedsheet, it is more reason he should get the fvck outta their zone to his comfy zone.

bukatyne:
Very very funny thread

The couple was wrong to have sex in the room the OP is staying in and doubly wrong for not cleaning up after themselves.

I can not process having sex with my husband in a room not mine and not cleaning up.

I can't imagine sleeping on a bed people had sex in and not cleaned up.

We all know what is right by decorum and courtesy.

Let's not let our 'disagreement' with the OP's outlook towards life change that.

He also stated somewhere that he expects his brother's wife to wash the sheets because she is the stranger to him and would require same from his sister's husband. (Well!)

The OP is obviously one who believes in traditional spirituality and has OCD hence his disgust for women (fluids, periods, pregnancy, childbirth etc) and rigidity. Some do not share a bed with their wives when during her periods. Some don't eat her food then and other crazy stuff. Some do not even share bedrooms or bathrooms with their wives. Such men are also very 'traditional' to the point of misogyny.

If the OP sieves through the thread, he has been given enough counsel. He should also ensure he marries a lady who has same outlook towards life like him.

Firstly, whatever traditional spirituality and OCD a normal human has, ends at their door steps. You don't go to another man's house with your baggage of spirituality or whatever lingua to the point of claiming "Right".

Secondly, I entirely get where you're coming from and your posit would have had me thinking maybe if I hadn't read through his follow up posits. His follow up posits simply points to one thing: He is clearly mentally unstable. It's not hard to spot one.

Gang90:
That was yesterday, I was a shameless squatter in my brothers house because I wished they washed the bedsheet, I keep clean, but today, I'm a free born with great destiny

The fact that you're mentally unstable and many people in here think you're just plain stoopid, is more worrisome.

I don't expect you to understand this, because obviously there's a missing screw in your head. Hopefully, you're able to get all the help you need to live a normal life.